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1942
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2009
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Sandra Manthe Obituary
She was born Jan. 2, 1942, in Portland, to Margaret and St. Clair Spence. The family moved to Longview in 1945.
Sandy attended local schools and was in the top 5 percent of her graduating class from R.A. Long High School in 1960. She attended Lower Columbia College and graduated in 1962 with an associate in arts degree. That same year she married Bob Manthe, the boy that she announced in fifth grade would be her future husband. They lived in St. Louis, Mo., where Bob attended dental school, but they came back to the local community to raise their family. Together they opened a dental practice in Castle Rock. They also owned, and Sandy operated, the Castle Rock NAPA store for many years.
Sandy was an avid reader, never without a book. She was an accomplished pianist. She was a devout Catholic and was the choir director for several years at St. Francis Xavier Catholic Mission in Toledo.
Sandy had a quick wit and a great sense of humor, never missing the opportunity to laugh. She loved the beach, especially the clam tides. Sandy was very patriotic and was always moved to tears when hearing the song, "Stars and Stripes Forever."
She was an excellent cook who always had room for one more at her table. Sandy never missed any of her children's sporting events, concerts, and school activities. Above all, she loved her family. She was a faithful and loving wife, a devoted mother, and an incredible grandmother.
Sandy is survived by her husband of 47 years, Dr. Robert W. Manthe of Toledo; her mother, Margaret Spence of Longview; her children and their spouses, Shawn and David Taylor of Mercer Island, Wash., Ram and Teresa of Longview, Christian and Kimberly of Castle Rock, and Spence and Erica of Sherwood, Ore.; her grandchildren, Alex and Nick Taylor, and Thomas, Steven, James, Jacob, Lucas, Greta and Maximus Manthe; her sisters, Susan Spence Riley of Lakewood, Wash., and Sally Spence Ellis of Sonora, Calif.; numerous nieces, nephews and cousins; and an aunt and uncle in Oregon.
She was preceded in death by her father, St. Clair Spence, in 1986.
A rosary will be held at 7 p.m. Thursday and a requiem Mass at 11 a.m. Friday at St. Frances Xavier Mission, 139 Spencer Road, in Toledo with a reception following the service.
Arrangements are by Fir Lawn Funeral Chapel.
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Memories and Condolences
for Sandra Manthe
Vickie (Evans) Keating
July 11, 2010
To Margaret and Girls,
There isn't a week that goes by that I don't have some memory of you all and Sandy and what a wonderful childhood I enjoyed with you in Longview on Garfield St. Best wishes to you all in your healing process.
Sally Spence Ellis
July 9, 2010
I still miss her every day!??
Jim Axling
July 30, 2009
Dear Bob and Family,
I have known both Sandy and you for an awfully long time. I have a hard time accepting that Sandy is no longer with us.
We shared a lot of good times growing up in Longview and, although we have gone our separate ways, I still remember those times fondly. My prayers are with your family and you.
Your friend,
Jim
Nadine (Greer) Coburn
July 26, 2009
I was sad to learn that Sandy had passed away. We certainly were long-time school mates and I hoped to finally reunite at our upcoming 50th highschool reunion in 2010, My thoughts go out to Bob and Sandy's sisters whom I also remember with respect. May God be with you all.
Mark Minthorn
July 20, 2009
In this world true hearts are rare. Such was Sandy. We are richer for her in our lives.
Todd McDonald
July 20, 2009
To the entire Manthe Clan,
Sandy truly touched my life. Like a second mother she seemed to own me and be there for me in my youth. She always had a smile and something witty to say. She seemed to have ESP and always knew when I was up to trouble. In fact, now I think about it. She also would have a look that made me have to think back to see if I had done anything. I truly loved her and my deepest thoughts go to Bob, Shawn and all those other rascal Roberts.
I have lost touch over the years but my love and prayers hopefully will find you.
Misty Friedman (Boursaw)
July 19, 2009
It was a pleasure to help you with cleaning your home or homes (the old and the new one). You and your family will be in my prayers and I will help take very good care of your mother in the mornings with my grandmother Marie.
Lucy Ziemer
July 19, 2009
Cousin Bud and family,
We were truly sorry to hear the news about Sandy. She was a fun person with a quick smile. She was also a very good sport and hostess of the "Schwegler" family reunions held at your Toutle River home. I remember the first reunion when you were just beginning to have your home built. (I think that was about 34 years ago) You were living in a trailer but you and Sandy were excellent hosts to your guests. You made the most of it. Give our condolences to your family and know that you are in our thoughts.
Love,
Cousin Lucy (Hermiston, OR)
July 19, 2009
To the Manthe family,
In loving memories of yesterday, In loving sympathy of today and In loving healing of tomorrow. Sandy was a very special lady.
Ouida Ohlson
Amanda Riley Snyder
July 17, 2009
Wishing I was with all of you today and know that you're in my thoughts and prayers. Still having such trouble thinking I won't hear that unique voice say "Well hello" again. I'm thinking of you all...
Louise Prather
July 17, 2009
Dear Manthe and Spence Families,
Sandy was such a dear friend to me as we were growing up. Though we have not stayed in close contact, I've thought of her and her influence on my life often over the years.
Our sincere condolences,
gayla gebhardt
July 17, 2009
may god grant you always a sunbeam to warm you a moonbeam to charm you a sheltering angle so noting can harm you laughter to cheer you faithful friends near you and whenever you pray heaven to hear you she was a shine light to this world she will be greatly missed on this earth she was are hero and golden friend for ever god bless you all in this sad time we all with you all ways and for ever your golden friends the hydes and the gebhardts family says hi to you all there sorry to god be withyou in your heal touch and cares
Bob & Mardy Korten
July 16, 2009
To the Manthe family,
We cherish all of our memories of Sandy from times our families got together while growing up till we saw her at many times over the years.
Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Janis Whiteaker(Covel)
July 16, 2009
Just to say, I will miss you. You are a dear friend
July 16, 2009
To Suzi, her family and the Manthe family:
It is hard to find the words to express ourselves upon learning of Sandy's sudden death. We knew her as Suzi's older sister who did such a good job as wife, daughter, sister, grandmother, aunt and friend. What a loss to all. May the love of family and friends, your memories and God's Grace carry you through this difficult time.
With love and caring, Gary and Aina (Grods) McCormick
Sally Spence Ellis
July 15, 2009
Dear Family -
As I pack and prepare to head to Longview tomorrow, so many thoughts and memories are running through my head!
I don't think it has really sunk in yet - not sure when it will.
I just find it hard to believe that I won't hear Sandy's husky "Hello" again.
But I know that even if I don't understand, I must accept. And I am working on that!
I am looking forward to giving and receiving wonderful hugs from all of you!
All my Love -
Sally
Bob Grimm
July 15, 2009
Bob,Shawn,Ram,Chris and Spence and Family
I am so sorry about your loss of Sandra know that I am keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers.
July 15, 2009
Bob,
Shawn, Ram, Chris and Spence
We’re sure that everyone is shocked and speechless over your loss of Sandy. I’m glad that I got to chat with her just recently as I hadn’t seen her in a very long time. She always had ‘kid’ (Tracy!) stories from Blauser Road. She was much too young and still greatly needed and we’re extremely sorry. We certainly wish that sorry was sufficient, helpful and could fix your pain and return to normal; but, otherwise, we hope that all of the “I’m sorrys” will be comforting to ease you through this most difficult time.
“Old neighbors” – The Hortons. Steve, Connie, Jeff and Tracy
Larry Surdyk
July 15, 2009
Dear family, this news is met with great sadness. Your daughter, sister, mother, and grandmother was a wonderful person. She was mother to me of sorts (college fraternity/sorority stuff). The times I got to spend with her and her husband and children are some of my best memories. I am proud to call her mom and love her very much, as I love all of you.
Sonya Rasmussen
July 15, 2009
Dear, Bob, Shawn, Ram, Chris & Spence and family. I am very sorry to hear about the loss of Sandy. She was a great lady. I have good memories of her and your family. You are in Our Prayers,
Sonya Rasmussen & Family
Greg Combs
July 15, 2009
Sue,
I was sorry to hear about your sister's passing. I pray that the Lord will be your comfort in this difficult time.
It will be good to see you again at the R.A.L. class of '64 reunion.
Best Regards,
Bob and Debbie Jorgensen
July 14, 2009
Dear Bob and family I am in total shock hearing about Sandys passing. It really hurts myself and Debbies hearts. We are deeply saddened for your family at this time. I know I will never forget her or all the good times we had when I worked for you folks. May god bless you and take care of you in your time of need. God speed
Vickie Keating
July 14, 2009
Sandy and I were best friends as children on Garfield Ave. I always enjoyed our early years and our other best friend Delsy. Many happy memories. She was a beautiful girl and a lovely lady. Vickie (Evans) Keating
Charlotte and Skip Marcotte
July 14, 2009
To all of the Manthe family, I was so shocked to read of Sandy's death. We are so sorry. We know that you have great faith and God will help all of you to get through this. In our thoughts and prayers.
Andrea (Nelson)Brown
July 14, 2009
I am deeply saddened by your loss and obviously a loss to many others. My memories of Sandy are growing up on 24th and 25th Street, as a younger girl looking up to Suzi's older sister in awe. She was sooo together. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Gayle (Wilt) Denman
July 14, 2009
Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time. As children at R.A.Long, we never realized the journey we would take in this life. Having experienced similar loss, I know that in time the good memories, and the times that brought laughter will dominate and the hurt, though never completely gone, will lessen.
Myrtle (Thomas) Whitney
July 14, 2009
To Mrs Spence and family
I was so sorry to hear of Sandra's passing. We went to school together, and were in the same home room. She always was smiling, and so friendly. I worked at the Girl Scout camp with you all, (Peaches from the kitchen) It seems God always takes the best for his service.
You all are in prayer and thoughts
Jennifer McKenna
July 14, 2009
Dear Bob and Family,
I'm still shocked. I'm so sorry. You are in my prayers.
Love,
Jen
Mike Brown
July 14, 2009
To the Manthe family. May you all find peace in the passing of your loved family member. God bless
Mary Hanson Redding
July 13, 2009
Dear Bob and family,
Sandy was only a day older so I always kidded her about it when we went to Kessler, Monticello Jr High and then, sadly, we separated to different high schools. Her mom was my girl scout leader and I always looked up to Sandy and knew she was going to marry you, Bob. Please know our prayers are with you and your family at this time.
Darlene Taylor
July 13, 2009
Dear Manthe Family and Suzie Spence,
I'm a 1964 R.A. Long High School graduate and just learned of your sister's passing. I've very sorry to hear this news. Our family sends condolences to you all.
Darlene V. Taylor
P.O. Box 367
Medford, OR 97501
July 13, 2009
We're so sad to think of Sandy being gone. Her warm smile and kind words will always be remembered by our family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Harold & Carol Hawkins
Kay Green
July 13, 2009
My sympathy to the Manthe Family upon the death of Sandra. She was a wonderful daughter, wife, mother and grandmother and will be missed by many. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Judy (LeMonds) Werner
July 13, 2009
To The Manthe Family,
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your's at this time.
Sincerely,
Marjie & Jeff Lebens
July 13, 2009
To Margaret, Suzi and Sally, the Spence family and the Manthe family:
Jeff and I are very sorry to hear of Sandy's passing. It's so hard to lose those we love but we hope and pray that the pain of losing her will pass and you will all be left with wonderful memories! God bless you all!
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