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Paula (Gilbert) Wood
July 21, 2025
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you! I pray the Lord brings you comfort and peace. While I did not know Andrew, his story reminds me of the many other Lauder men I did have the pleasure of knowing well. All of them display great strength, intelligence, and a love of life! Andrew will be missed so much.
Lisa Davis
August 10, 2015
Dear Tom,Sue & Family Im so sorry for the loss of your Andrew my thoughts and blessings are with you.
August 10, 2015
To the Lauder family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. In deepest sympathy, Bob and Leslie Penny and family. Peaks Island, Maine
Arden Bowser
August 9, 2015
Tom, I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Paula Daoust
August 4, 2015
Sue, Tom and family, We are so sorry to hear of the passing of Andrew. We send our prayers and you are in our thoughts. Paula, Al, Brian & Peter Daoust
Keith Banks
August 3, 2015
Tom,Sue & Family,sorry to hear of your loss of Andrew. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time.
Jodie Dobkowski
August 2, 2015
Mr. and Mrs. Lauder, you were both very special people to me as I grew up and especially through college. Thinking of you both during this difficult time. Much Love.
Georgette Knapp
August 2, 2015
Tom and Sue,
Sending you prayers and hugs at this most challenging time. God must have needed someone to make heaven a better place so he chose Andrew. Just as Andrew made this Earth a better place for all those who loved and knew him.
May Our Lord bless you all.
August 1, 2015
Tom, you and your family have my heartfelt sympathy! I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. Debbie Thibeault
August 1, 2015
Sue & Tom,
Our hearts ache for you. A child should never go before the parent. May your memories sustain you throughout the coming year. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Sandy (Cocker) & Skip Seymour
Debbie Backstrom
July 31, 2015
Jim and I and our entire family are so saddened to hear about Andrew. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Debbie Backstrom and family
Karla Walter
July 31, 2015
Dear Susan, Tommy, and Katie,
My heart is broken over your tragic loss. What a beautiful eulogy you wrote for Andrew. I pray that you will be able to take strength from each other and from your many and cherished memories of Andrew. We love you.
John & Carol Colby
July 31, 2015
Tom & Sue, We are so sorry for your loss. Our hearts and prayers will be with you and your Family and Friends. In Our Savior's Love,
Levon Kachadoorian
July 31, 2015
I am so sorry for your loss I can't imagine how you must feeL. If there is anything that I can possibly do for you and your family I want you know that I'm available. Please try to stay strong call on the inner strength that you possess that has made you a successful and well respected person in our society. My prayers and thoughts are for you and your family.
Tim and Donna Ahearn
July 31, 2015
We extend our deepest sympathy to your family on the loss of Andrew. May memories bring you moments of comfort and the constant love of family and friends soften your sadness.
July 30, 2015
Tom, Sue, and Katie,
There are no words that can express our sorrow for the loss of your beloved Andrew. May the love of family, friends, and your faith carry you through this difficult time, until you meet again.
God Bless. Holly and Dennis Nunnemaker ( Charlene's sister)
Joanne Moninski Irish
July 30, 2015
Tom and Sue, I'm so very sorry to read about your loss. Andrew was one super kid in my fourth grade class. Peace and love to you and your family.
Courtney Millett
July 30, 2015
I am so sorry for your loss your family is in my prayers and may Andrew RIP
Kevin Ryan
July 30, 2015
Very sorry to hear of your loss. Having lost a child of my own, I know the pain is unbearable. Hope that your good memories may sustain you.
Janice Morin
July 30, 2015
Sue, Tom and Kate
Truly sorry about your loss. Andrew was a wonderful person with exceptional qualities. My heart goes out to all.
John Raymond
July 30, 2015
Prayers and Peaceful Thoughts at this time of Sadness.
July 30, 2015
We were saddened to hear of the loss of your son. Our prayers go out to your family at this time.
The Cosenza Family
July 30, 2015
Katie,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved brother. May you take comfort in the loving memories that you created together. God bless. Love, Kelly Ash
July 30, 2015
He stood up for me in high school when people would pick on me he will be missed and loved r.i.p.
The Cotter Family
July 29, 2015
Dear Sue, Tom and Kate,
How very sorry we are for your loss! Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Andrew will live forever in all of our hearts!
With Deepest Sympathy,
Bill Sweeney
July 29, 2015
Tom and family, you are all in my prayers and hopes.
Elaine Brown
July 29, 2015
Sue I am so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you & wishing you strength to help you through this difficult time. Prayers for you and your family. Hugs...
Betsy Brown
July 29, 2015
Tom, words cannot adequately express my sadness. My deepest sympathy to you, Sue and your entire family.
Randall Sealby
July 29, 2015
We are so sorry. We love you all very much.
Pat Robitaille
July 29, 2015
Tommy and Family, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your son. May you find comfort in the fact that he will live on in the hearts of you and your family for ever.....Pat "Sloan" Robitaille
samir dababneh
July 29, 2015
Tom, my name is Sam. I was Andrews best friend at AUTOMAX. I have only known him for 6 months BUT my heart fills like I knew him my whole life.It's all to unreal that he is gone. Work and life will never be the same ever again.I miss him more then I can explain. Fair well to my brother/ your incredible son. Love and miss you Andrew. Everyone at AUTOMAX misses you man ,farewell
Stefeni Bartlett
July 29, 2015
My deepest sympathy. My thoughts and prayers are with you all for God's peace.
Mike Shocik
July 29, 2015
Tom, Sue and Kathy -
I am so very sorry to hear of Andy's passing. I had worked with Andy at Subway. He was a great guy. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.
samir dababneh
July 29, 2015
I miss you Andrew. I'll see you Friday buddy. One last time :(
July 29, 2015
Our sincerest sympathy and prayers go Andrew's family. May God give to Mom and Dad And Kate, all the strength needed to get through this very sad time. Sincerelly, TERESA BROSNIHAN PIETRO and FAMILY
Jim & Anne Gately
July 29, 2015
Dear Tom, Sue & Kate,
We are deeply sorry to hear about Andrew's passing. Our hearts go out to you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Josh Rubino
July 29, 2015
I met Andrew through his cousin Marc. I didn't know him real well, but the couple of times I saw him were enough to know he was a great person. He had a great sense of humor and was mature beyond his age. His parents and sister are very sweet people and my deepest sympathies go out to all those who were close to Andrew. God bless.
Bebe Mahoney
July 29, 2015
Tom, Sue and your family,
We are so sorry for your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time in your life. No words can ease your heartache but hopefully knowing you have lots of love and prayers from the community will provide you with some comfort.
Bebe and Dan Mahoney
July 29, 2015
Tom, Sue, Katie,
Our hearts ache for you and the family during this difficult time. Andrew was such a special young man and loved by so many.
Bob, Deb, Jared Leno
Dean Tourangeau
July 29, 2015
So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
July 29, 2015
Sue and Family
I am so sorry to hear about your beautiful son Andrew. Sending prayers and comfort to you
Janet Cosgrove Sterling, Ma
July 29, 2015
Tom and Sue: We are so sorry for the loss of your son. Our thoughts are with the entire Lauder Family at this difficult time.
Rick and Cyndi Zmayefski
July 29, 2015
Tom,Sue & Family, We are so very sorry to hear of your loss of Andrew. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time.
Randy & Donna Broomfield
Tom and Kathy Moynagh
July 28, 2015
Sue, Tom, Katie-we are so very sorry for your loss-reafing these posts makes it very evident what a wonderful young man Andrew grew to be. The beautiful and loving memories you have will be with you forever. Our prayers go out to you and your entire family.
Tom and Kathy Moynagh
July 28, 2015
Sue, Tom, Katie-we are so very sorry for your loss-reafing these posts makes it very evident what a wonderful young man Andrew grew to be. The beautiful and loving memories you have will be with you forever. Our prayers go out to you and your entire family.
July 28, 2015
Our prayers are with you!! The dube family
Sarah Vetal
July 28, 2015
I am so sorry for your loss, and saddened to hear the news.
Although we worked together for a short period of time, it was clear that Andrew was a kind, gentle soul. He was always so polite, and a pleasure to work with. Andrew will be missed and never forgotten.
July 28, 2015
Dear Tom, Sue and family - Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of deep loss.
With deepest sympathy,
Doreen & Ray Barbera
Rich Sue Olson
July 28, 2015
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Lisa Beauregard
July 28, 2015
So sorry for your loss
Paul, Helena, & Sean McCarthy
July 28, 2015
We send strength and faith to all the members of Andrew's extended families. Fortunately, he was able to experience a century of quality life in such a short time.
John Ethier
July 28, 2015
So sorry for your loss. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Judy and John Shocik
July 28, 2015
We are so very sorry to hear of your son's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
samir dababneh
July 28, 2015
God bless you my friend ...
Steven Johnson
July 28, 2015
So sorry for your loss. May God bless you all.
Mark and Joanne Hovagimian
July 28, 2015
So sorry for your loss. Words cant express the saddness we feel for you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time.
Deirdre Pratte
July 28, 2015
Tom, Sue, and family,
Our language does not include words that will comfort you during this time. We hope that knowing others have you in their thoughts and prayers gives you a measure of peace and helps you get through this time.
Deirdre and Corey Pratte and family
Michael Reidy
July 28, 2015
Tommy, Sue, and the Lauder Family,
My prayers are with you all for the tragic loss of your accomplished and wonderful son, Andrew.
Chris and Todd Colby , Jyringi
July 28, 2015
Tommy and Sue,and Family, We are so sorry to hear about your son. Our thoughts and prayers are with you today.
George and Lillian Albro
July 28, 2015
Sue,Tom and Katie, we are sorry for the loss son and brother Andrew. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May your family,friends and faith give you support through your time of grieving. Your memories of good times with Andrew will always be with you. God bless, George and Lillian Albro
chris colby todd jyringi
July 28, 2015
dear tom and sue, so sorry to hear about your son. our prayers are with you and your family.
Gail Ring Nasser
July 28, 2015
Sue,Tom, and Family,
My deepest sympathies to you at this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Johnny and Ashley Markley
July 28, 2015
Dear Lauder Family, Andrew was such an awesome person, He was such a great friend to have, words cant explain how much he will be missed, our prayers are with you!
July 28, 2015
Tom, Sue and Katie,
We are thinking of all of you at this difficult time. Sending hugs and prayers, so sorry for your loss.
Pam, Larry and Amanda DiBattista
Greg Martineau
July 28, 2015
There are no words that can adequately express my sorrow for the loss of your son Andrew. You have my heartfelt sympathy during this difficult time.
July 28, 2015
Tommy & Sue,
We are so very sorry to hear about the loss of your son. Please know that you are in our prayers and hope somehow that you can find peace and understanding. Barb & Mike Knox
Eva Montecalvo
July 28, 2015
Sue & Family - I'm so sorry for your loss. I remember Andrew from kindergarten in Leicester with my daughter Nicole. We moved to Sterling and we so lucky to have you as a gym teacher and to see Andrew in the sports camps. We remember him fondly. Our thoughts are with you. Eva & Nicole
paula westberry
July 28, 2015
I am deeply saddened to read of my cousins passing. While the family has not met for a long time, those roots are strong and run deep. My sincere condolences to Toms parents and close loved ones, but the rest of us will feelmhis loss too. Be Blessed. (Pat Gilberts daughter)
Caterina Caplette
July 28, 2015
Mr Lauder and Family, my thoughts and prayers are with you. I am so sorry for your loss.
July 28, 2015
Dear Sue, Tom, Kate,
We are very sorry to hear about Andrew. What a great boy and young man he was! How blessed many of us were to have known him. Our hearts ache for all of you and hope the wonderful memories of him give you comfort. Thinking of you.
The Morris's
July 28, 2015
Tom & Sue,
We are so very sorry to hear about the loss of your son. Your family are in our prayers and we hope somehow you can find peace and strength though this difficult time.
Barbara & Michael Knox
July 28, 2015
Sue, Tom and Family..My words are not adequate to express the sorrow we feel for your loss. Prayers and Hugs, Love Tom and Deb Connor
Doug Flink
July 28, 2015
Sorry for your loss.
The Flink family
The Kennedy's
July 28, 2015
Mr Lauder and Family, we are so sorry for your loss. You and your family our in our thoughts and prayers.
The Kennedy's
July 28, 2015
Sue, Tom & Kate, No words can express my sympathy for all of you. You are in our thoughts & prayers always.Deepest sympathy, Ron & Joanie Anderson
Becky (Welsher) Vanderdrift
July 28, 2015
Saddened by this news. Deeply sorry for your loss. Prayers for peace & comfort during this very difficult time.
Tim Dolen
July 28, 2015
Mr. Lauder,
I didn't know your son, but I knew you as my middle school phys ed teacher. With you as his role model, I am sure that he was an outstanding young man. I am praying your family will find the strength and encouragement that you need during this difficult time.
July 28, 2015
So very sorry for your loss
Deb MacConnell
Laura Grenier
July 28, 2015
Tom and Sue,
Sorry for your loss love and prayers.
Laura Williamson Grenier and family
July 28, 2015
Tom, Sue and Katie,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
--Becky, Russ, Sam and Russell Wise
The Hannon Family
July 28, 2015
Tom, Sue, and Kate,
Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
Tanya S
July 28, 2015
I am so sorry for your loss. Rest in peace, Andrew.
Mark MacGregor
July 28, 2015
Dear Tom and Sue,
WE are so sorry for your loss. I hope the love of family and friends will help you get through.
Love,
Mark and Ann
Tom S
July 28, 2015
Dear Mr.Lauder and family,
I am sorry to hear about your son. Thank you for giving me the chance at UHS while you were there. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Tom S.
July 28, 2015
So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very sad time.
Pete & Roz Glanville
July 28, 2015
Dear Tom & Sue,
Sending all of our love & prayers for you and the rest of your family. We will celebrate his life & the wonderful person he is!! BIG hugs. Love you!! Lori, Kristi & Cameron Gaffney
Ted Zawada
July 28, 2015
I am deeply saddened by the loss your family has suffered. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. I remember Andrew for his sense of humor and maturity beyond his years. May God see you through this difficult time.
Paul & June Kemp
July 28, 2015
Paul and I want to express our deepest sympathy to you and your family during this heartbreaking time. Words cannot express how broken we are all feeling for you right now. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Danielle Foy
July 28, 2015
I am so very sorry for your loss Mr. Lauder, Mrs. Lauder, and Katie. Andrew was such a great person and was a great friend to my brother David. He was like another big brother to me, and he will be greatly missed.
kathy Grady
July 28, 2015
Dear Tom, Sue and family,
I am so sorry to hear of your tragic loss. My heart goes out to all of you and know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Kathy Reidy Grady
Bob and Sally Carney
July 28, 2015
Tom and Sue,
Words cannot express how heartbroken we are for you on the passing of your beautiful son, Andrew. God bless you all.
Diane Moffat & Family
July 28, 2015
My heart aches for your loss. You are all in our hearts and in our prayers.
Debra Valle
July 28, 2015
Dear Tom, Sue, Kate and family ~ so deeply sorry for this breathtaking, heartbreaking loss. Our hearts ache for you! Andrew was a bright shining light for a brief while and we will celebrate his memory together. Prayers and sympathetic hugs to each of you! ♥♥♥
Jeff Hunt
July 28, 2015
Tom, Sue, and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of sorrow. May God bless and keep you always.
Eric Higgins
July 28, 2015
Mr. and Mrs. Lauder, and Katie -
I am very sorry for your loss. Andrew was a joy to be around, and he certainly will be missed. I will always remember Andrew for his sense of humor, wit, and selflessness.
The Fredette family
July 28, 2015
Sue and Tom- words cannot express the sorrow we feel and the sympathy we extend to you. We never knew Andrew, but knowing he is your son, we can only imagine he was an amazing person. Please accept our most sincere condolences.
Scott
July 28, 2015
Andrew it was a pleasure getting to know you over the little time we worked together, such a nice guy. You will be missed. Prayers are with all family and friends.
The Leicester Bus Driver's
July 28, 2015
Tom and Family,
We our so sorry for your loss.
July 28, 2015
To all that loved this young man:
May you find comfort and strength in one another and in wonderful memories you hold dear to your heart.
God Bless,
Sean & Theresa (LaHair) McDonald
Norman and Yvonne's daughter
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