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Dorothy Gilman Obituary

Dorothy B. Gilman, 95, of Westborough, died on Thursday, November 6, 2008 at the Westborough Healthcare Center. She was the wife of the late Arthur E. Gilman. Her first husband, E. Earl Butler, died in 1971.

Born in Needham, she was the daughter of the late Clarence and Pearl (Wiggin) Burton. She was educated in Needham schools and was a graduate of the Massachusetts College of Art.

Mrs. Gilman was employed as an art teacher for the Westborough school system prior to her retirement.

She was a member of the Evangelical Congregational Church, the Westborough Women's Club and was a former volunteer for the Girl Scouts and Cub Scouts.

Dorothy is survived by her five children, Eric E. Butler and his wife, Mary, of Mansfield, Jeffrey J. Butler of Westborough, Patty Deacon and her husband, Paul, of Virginia, Arthur E. Gilman, Jr. and his wife, Jaci, of California and Mary Yax of Washington. She is also survived by 11 grandchildren and several great grandchildren.

A memorial service will be held on Saturday, November 15, at 11:00 A.M. in the Parkman Chapel of the Evangelical Congregational Church, corner of West Main St. and Church St., Westborough.

Burial in Pine Grove Cemetery will be private. There are no calling hours.

In lieu of flowers, donations in her memory may be made to the Girl Scouts of Central and Western Massachusetts, 81 Gold Star Blvd., Worcester, MA 01606-2813.

Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Rand-Harper-Pickering Westborough Funeral Home, 62 West Main Street.

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Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette from Nov. 8 to Nov. 9, 2008.

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David Johnson

November 19, 2008

My deepest condolences. I will always remember "Mrs. Butler" as my favorite teacher at Westboro High School. She was a warm loving lady with the best qualities of a good teacher, always positive and full of encouragement for everyone.

Paula Skog

November 18, 2008

My sympathy goes to all of Dot's family members and friends. She was such a lovely, vibrant lady who instilled a love of art in so many of her students over the years. I will miss my chats with her at the Willow's exercise room!

Wendy Croteau

November 12, 2008

Our deepest condolences. Your mom was a genuinely sweet lady and it was our pleasure to be able to know her. We will miss her.
Wendy & Patti at Dr. Defrin's office

Herbert Kenworthy

November 10, 2008

Dot was a great neighbor and friend to my family.I was blessed to have known such a gracious,talented women.

My condolences to all,

Herbert H Kenworthy III

Richard Boyd

November 10, 2008

Eric, Jeff, Patty, Mary, and Arthur and to all your families.
How hard it is to acknowledge the passing of a great lady. Both Debbie and I knew Dot as did our parents.
We knew her as a friend to the families, a teacher for many years of instruction, a neighbor and as a mother who always welcomed us to her home.
As my sister said, The Boyd family has known her since about 1928. My aunt Dot is named after her.
We always think of her since the picture "sea foam" that she gave us 30 years ago hangs on our living room wall.
This is a day of joy, for God to welcome her home and to end her suffering.
She used all the talents God gave her.
May God bless her and God bless all of you.
Debbie King Boyd and Rich Boyd

Anne and Bob Tufts

November 9, 2008

Dear Eric and Family,

Your mother was a very special lady, and we will miss seeing her around town. We were both her students and were always amazed that she remembered us and would always stop to chat. Our sympathy to all of you in your loss.

Jean Boyd

November 9, 2008

To all of her wonderful family, I am sorry to hear of your loss of a very special person. My mom and she enjoyed a long friendship, starting back in Needham school days and, with our families in Westborough. So many nice memories. May she be at peace.

Connie Mason

November 8, 2008

Dot was one of the major influences in my life, while growing up in Westborough. She always had a smile and a spare moment to spend with me. She will be missed.

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