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Kenneth Benson Obituary
He leaves his wife of 21 years, Carol D. (Johnson) DeCaire Benson; four children, Amy Beth Dunn and her husband Shane of Grafton, Julie Anne Flynn and her husband Joseph of Sutton, Alison Catherine Benson and Kenneth Lee Benson both of Grafton; his wife's children, Michelle Marie and Jeffrey DeCaire both of Grafton and Jaime John DeCaire and his wife Kelly of Millbury; seven grandchildren, Tyler, Shelbi, Colleen, Katelyn, Brady, Mason and Colin; his sister, Nora Leonard and her husband Edward of N. Grafton and brother, Terry Benson of Oxford; several nieces, nephews and many close friends.
He was predeceased by his first wife, Patricia Anne (Caldwell) in 1979, his mother, Martha (Rosenbusch) in 2008 and his father, Bertil F. Benson in 2010.
He was born February 13, 1948 in Worcester, raised in Sutton and has lived in Grafton since the early 1960's. Ken attended primary schools in Sutton, graduated from Grafton High School in 1966, attended Nichols College and Western New England College earning his Associates Degree in Criminal Justice. Lt. Benson was appointed a Grafton Police Officer in 1972. He then was promoted to Detective, Sergeant and then Lieutenant serving until his retirement in 2002. While with the department, he was one of the original D.A.R.E. instructors, a founder of The Citizen Police Academy and he served in The US Navy Reserves. Following retirement he worked several years at IMC Corp. in N. Grafton. Lt. Benson was a member of The N.E. Narcotics Enforcement Officers Association and The Grafton Police Association. Ken loved his family and times spent together. He also enjoyed golfing in the "Hudson Golf League" with his close friends particularly in Myrtle Beach.
Funeral & Calling Hours
Calling hours are Friday, August 13th from 4 to 8 p.m at The Roney Funeral Home, 152 Worcester St., North Grafton. Funeral Services are Saturday, August 14th at 10 a.m in St. Mary's Church, 17 Waterville St., North Grafton. He will then be laid to rest in Fairview Cemetery in South Grafton. All attending the funeral service Saturday are respectfully asked to go directly to the church. Memorial Donations are suggested in lieu of flowers to The Lt. Kenneth Benson Criminal Justice Scholarship Fund, c/o Grafton Credit Union, 86 Worcester St., N. Grafton, MA 01536. A Condolence Book may be signed and directions are available at:
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Memories and Condolences
for Kenneth Benson
Bill Robbins
August 18, 2010
Dear Julie, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time of your loss.
Tom and Kristen Cahill
August 14, 2010
Julie,Amy,and the Benson Family--- We are truly sorry for your loss.Our thoughts and prays will be with you during this difficult time.
Rich Allen
August 14, 2010
Deepest regards and sympathy to the Benson Family.
Ken was a great role model for anyone with the desire to be a police Officer.
As a graduate with the first citizens Police Academy,I appreciated his knowledge,humor,and professionalism.
May God bless you with fond memories.
Rich Allen and Family
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Catherine Benson
August 14, 2010
Dear children, God's peace love and comfort to you even though I cannot be there.......I love you very much! Mom
August 13, 2010
Dear Carol,
For some moments in life there never seems to be the right words...
When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure. Although it's difficult today to see beyond the sorrow, may looking back in memory help comfort you tomorrow.
My deepest sympathies to you Carol.
Your all in my prayers.
God Bless You and your family.
MaryLou (Harrington) Pierozzi
MaryLou Pierozzi
August 13, 2010
Dear Amy, Julie, Ali and Kenny,
I was so sorry to hear about your Dads passing. He was a great Man, Husband and Father. We had so many good times…ones I’ll never forget…like the Celtics playoffs.
A prayer for you all…
God of our ancestors in faith, by the covenant made on Mount Sinai You taught Your people to strengthen the bonds of family through faith, honor, and love. Look kindly upon Ken, a father who sought to bind his children to You. Bring him to Your heavenly home where the saints dwell in blessedness and peace. Amen.
May God bless you all. Be filled with the comfort of knowing his love.
Love
MaryLou Pierozzi
Anthony Harrington’s Mom
August 13, 2010
Uncle Terry & Family,
We are so very sorry for your loss. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Love Jessica & Kyle Heldenbergh
August 13, 2010
I knew Kenny and Tricia all though high school. They were both the salt of the earth. Ken and Tricia were such a joy to be around. I was so pleased to hear, though the distance, Ken had a wonderful added family. My condolences to all. He was such a gentle giant.
Lovingly, Mary-Lou Christie (Wilborn) NC
Paul and Susan Richard
August 13, 2010
Terry and family,
Our condolences to you during your time of loss. Our prayers are with you.
August 13, 2010
Hi Ali,I never met your father but know how much he ment to you. You took good care of him and that's all a father can ask for..Love Anne Couture
August 13, 2010
Dear Carol&Family so sorry for your loss I realy didn,t know ken very well.Russell Knew him better than i did. But i want you to know how much i feel your pain at this time.My thoughts & prayers are with the family. With love Suzanne Rosenbusch & Family
Mike and Gloria Mazzola
August 12, 2010
Julie, so very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
August 12, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with the family. Duke, rest in peace.
Dick & Kathy Benoit, Pinellas Park, Fl
Eileen Wood
August 12, 2010
I am so sorry for the loss of your Father, husband, uncle and friend. I know he was a good man from the wondeful family that he loved. My thoughts and prayers will remain with your family for a long time. God bless.
Tina & Sean Mikeal
August 12, 2010
To the Benson family: We had many good times together, please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Ken is at peace and looking down on all of you. Love, Tina & Sean Mikeal
The Hurley Family
August 12, 2010
"Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Benson family."
August 12, 2010
Dear Terry and Noni and all the Benson Family,
My heart and prayers go out to all of you in the loss of Kenny. My deepest sympathies too in the loss of your wonderful parents. I truly loved them all. Kenny was so much fun when we were kids. May Jesus fill you all with His comfort, healing, and peace.
Love & Prayers,
Mary Conlin Shaw
Mary Conlin Shaw
August 12, 2010
Dear Terry and Noni and all the Benson Family,
My heart and prayers go out to all of you in the loss of Kenny. My deepest sympathies too in the loss of your wonderful parents. I truly loved them all. Kenny was so much fun when we were kids. May Jesus fill you all with His comfort, healing, and peace.
Love & Prayers,
Mary Conlin Shaw
Steve Goulet
August 12, 2010
Rest in Peace Ken.
To the Benson family, our deepest condolences.
Steve and Kathi Goulet
Stephanie Fleming
August 12, 2010
My sincerest condolences to you all. Much love, always and forever.
Tami Sleeper-Santangelo
August 12, 2010
Dear Terry & family: I was so happy to see you on Sat. at the hospital until I learned of your brother's illness. From what I have read about him, sounds like you had a wonderful brother. I also believe he had a great brother too Terry and that is you! Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you now and always. I am sending many hugs and wishes for better days ahead. Take care and God bless all of you. Love Tami
The McNamara Family
August 12, 2010
We are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this difficult time.
Carol Demont
August 12, 2010
Amy and Shane,
my thoughts and prayers are with you
Becky Maffei
August 12, 2010
Julie and family, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you!
Lisa (Alex) Gallagher
August 11, 2010
Benson Family, sympathy and prayers are with you at the loss of Kenny(your dad). Know that he is now at peace and will continue to be your Guardian Angel!
Paul Alachoyan
August 11, 2010
My deepest condolence to the Benson family.
August 11, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the entire family at this time of sorrow as he will be deeply missed
Brian Maranda & family
August 11, 2010
Ali and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and Prayers are with you all.
~ Leann Cloonan
Nicole Plourde
August 11, 2010
Kenny and Family,
Our thoughts and Prayers are with you all at this time.
Love, Mark and Nicole Plourde
Amy (Crawford) O'Farrell
August 11, 2010
Thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Bob and Sue Swartz
August 11, 2010
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Richard Fortin
August 11, 2010
To the entire Benson family, it was my joy in working with and knowing Kenny over the past three years. I know that Kennny fought the good fight, but it is now his time for peace and joy. Bless you and your family.
Paula Prifti
August 11, 2010
My thoughts and prays are with you all...
nicole
August 11, 2010
ali and kenny,
Im so very sorry for the loss of your dad may you have comfort knowing he is at peace.
Michael Atchue
August 11, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
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