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Nelson Ambush Obituary

Nelson William Ambush, 96, of Lynn, formerly of Worcester, passed away peacefully Monday, March 5, 2012 with family by his side.

Nelson was born in Cambridge, MA, a son of Charles Gillette and Emma Elizabeth (Steems) Ambush. Nelson had two brothers and one sister (all deceased): Benjamin, Charles and Virginia M. (Ambush) Abercrombie. He grew up in Cambridge and graduated from Rindge Technical High School where he was a member of the Drum Corps and track team. He moved to Worcester in 1941 where he lived and worked for 69 years before moving to Lynn in 2010 to be closer to his children.

Nelson was married to Shigao Gladys Sato (deceased in 1984) for 43 years with whom he had five children - all college graduates - who survive him: Karen R. Thande of New York City, Reverend Stephen B. Ambush of Reisterstown, MD, Kathy G. Smith of Lynn, MA, June E. Ambush of Revere, MA, Benjamin S. Ambush of Lynn, MA. Nelson was married to Mary Estelle (Hazzard) Harden (deceased in 2009) for 23 years, survived by her daughters Valerie Wilson of Aurora, IL and Sydney Schuyler of Southboro, MA. From both marriages, Nelson is survived by 17 grandchildren; 12 great grandchildren; many nieces, nephews, extended family, friends and his beloved cockatiel Pumpkin.

Nelson worked for nearly 50 years as a dental technician, first for his brother Benjamin where he learned his profession and later for several dental laboratories before retiring.

Throughout his life, Nelson served in many social/civic organizations and associations, among them: the Cambridge Community Center Forum, the William Monroe Trotter Club, the Dunbar Club, the Cub Scouts of the Mohegan Council, the Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Scholarship Committee and the Advisory Council of the Massachusetts Commission Against Discrimination. He also served in many leadership positions in several churches since his teenage years.

For decades, Nelson was very active in civil rights, fighting segregation and discrimination wherever it reared its head. In 1944, he assisted in re-activating the Worcester NAACP branch. Over a 60-year period, he held every office of the organization. He was a popular speaker at colleges, high schools, churches and community gatherings on civil rights, race relations and the legacy of Reverend Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. In 1957, he represented New England at the Prayer Pilgrimage to the Lincoln Memorial in Washington, DC, a forerunner to the walk-ins, sit-ins and other public acts that followed during the Civil Rights Movement. He was featured on the radio upon his return.

Nelson received numerous citations and recognition awards for his humanitarian activities and civil rights work. He was instrumental in assisting dozens of Kenyans in relocating to New England and getting through college. His long time Worcester home at 337 Lovell Street was affectionately known as "The Other U.S. Kenyan Embassy".

He was an amateur weightlifter and 118 pound class third place finisher in the 1933 New England American Continental Weight Lifters Association Championships.

In addition to his family, his life's enjoyments included camping; gardening; playing drums; soft shoe and tap dancing; plunking the only three songs he knew on the piano; music; shooting pool; darts; throwing knives, hatchets and axes; horseshoes and writing daily in his diary.

Friends and relatives are invited to visit with the family Monday, March 12, 2012 from 5pm to 7pm, followed by a 7pm service, in the MERCADANTE FUNERAL HOME & CHAPEL, 370 Plantation Street, Worcester, MA 01605 - (508) 754-0486. An additional service will be held Tuesday, March 13, 2012 at 10:00am. and a second viewing and service will be held in Cambridge, MA Tuesday, March 13, 2012 with viewing from 10am to 12 noon, with the service beginning at 12 noon at ST. PAUL AME CHURCH, 85 Bishop Richard Allen Drive, Cambridge, MA 02139 - (617) 354-8511. Burial will be private.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Margaret Ann Hazel Missionary Society, organized in 1877 in honor of Nelson's great grandmother, c/o St. Paul AME Church, Christian Life Center, 85 Bishop Richard Allen Drive, Cambridge, MA 02139-3407.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette from Mar. 7 to Mar. 8, 2012.

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Emma Brown

March 13, 2012

To the Ambush Family,
I can remember Mr Ambush from Belmont AME Zion Church, they say God only take the best,take peace in knowing that, we loved him but God loved him best.

It is the will of God and Nature that these mortal bodies be laid aside, when the soul is to enter into real life; 'tis rather an embrio state, a preparation for living; a man is not completely born until he be dead: Why then should we grieve that a new child is born among the immortals?

Gretchen Jones

March 12, 2012

It saddened me to hear that Brother (father) Nelson made his transition. I remembered him as a man who always had something content rich to say and I enjoyed our conversations. To the Ambush Family I send my condolence and pray that the peace and love of God be with you always. Be Blessed.

March 11, 2012

Mr. Ambush was so blessed to have lived such a full and noble life. His visits to Kenya were special for me and my children who knew him. I will always have fond memories of Mr Ambush who had such a cheerful spirit. Our prayers go out to the Ambush family.

-Bertha Kaumbulu

Kenny Troy

March 9, 2012

Mr Ambush was a person that inspired many. A quiet man with a big stick. One that knew, and taught many of us the history of people. He raised a greater family that I will always hold in high esteem and friendship. He will be missed, but know that he will not be forgotten. Our hearts and prayers go out to your family.

March 9, 2012

Mr. Ambush was a gentleman,scholar and great family friend. I loved him and his whole family. Glenn Wilson

Stacy Amaral

March 9, 2012

I would like to let the family of Mr Ambush know what a wonderful neighbor he was to my mother when she lived across the hall from Mr and Mrs Ambush at 5 Suburban Rd. They were lovely friends to her who was feeling lonely after moving to Worcester.

Jennifer Anderson

March 8, 2012

What an inspiring and amazing man. May God bless you all in this time of mourning. An angel has returned home.

Cynthia Carruthers

March 8, 2012

My deepest sympathies to the Ambush family.
Nelson will be sorely missed...I shall never forget him and that great sense of humor. He knew how to live life and lived it well!

Thomas Garr

March 8, 2012

My deepest sympathy to the family of Mr. Ambush. He will be missed by all who had ever known him. I will personally miss his sence of humor as I'm sure others will also. May you have comfort in the memories of him

March 8, 2012

My fondest recollections of Mr. Ambush, besides his work in the community, included leading his wonderful family into services at All Saints and his winning smile. My sincere sympathy to all his family.
Andrea Nordin Driscoll

Paula Paris

March 8, 2012

Karen, Stevie, Kath, June and Ben,
Sincerest sympathy for the loss of your dad. What a long and ful llife! He has certainly left a legacy of love and success in all of you, and may that be a source of comfort to you and yours.
Blessings from Paula Paris and the Paris Family.

March 8, 2012

I am so sorry for your loss and extend heartfelt condolences. Over the years I have spent hundreds of hours listening to your father. And learning much. I will miss him, as I'm sure will many in our community. Thomas Doughton

March 8, 2012

I send my deepest sympathy to the Ambush family..joyce hokans

Kimberly Pitts

March 8, 2012

To the Ambush Family,
I have many fond memories of your dad! I can remember good times spent at your home on Lovell St. as a child when my mother( Dorothy) would bring us over for a visit. My sense of pride in who I am as a person of color in this world was nurtured by the Ambush sisters at Prospect House, learning the lessons of Civil Rights first hand from your dad and getting a great sense of what was important in contributing to a positive legacy as a African -American in this country.
I hope that you all celebrate this wonderful man and may God comfort you at this time! He was a wonderful man and you were a wonderful family!

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