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1955
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2020
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Robert Happy Obituary
Rutland - Robert P. Happy, 64, beloved husband of Kimberly Happy, passed away in his wife's loving arms on June 18, 2020, after an 8 month hard fought battle from complications of open-heart surgery. Robert was born in Worcester and was the son of Paul W. and Barbara Brandt Happy.
Robert was a graduate of W. Boylston High School, and earned his bachelor's degree from Westfield State and a Masters Degree in criminal justice from Anna Maria College. He is a registered Native American Cherokee Indian. Bob served as a police officer for 36 years, beginning his career in W. Boylston and serving over 30 years in Sterling, retiring in 2013 as a highly regarded Police Sergeant.
As a teenager, Bob had a great passion for ice hockey and played in several leagues. He grew up as a neighbor to Wachusett Country Club in W. Boylston, caddying at a young age and growing a love for golf. Bob played golf on his W. Boylston High School team, winning championships. He continued his love for both sports as an adult playing golf with his best buddies, Bill, Pat and Dave and sometimes spending more time in the woods coming out with pockets full of treasured golf balls. Bob cherished the opportunity to join the State Police in competing against the retired Boston Bruins. He remained an active player with the Rusty Blades. He was a member of the W. Boylston Congregational Church.
Robert will be lovingly missed by his wife, Kimberly J. (Toupin) Happy; his parents, Paul W. and Barbara Brandt Happy of Sterling; his sister, Paula R. (Happy) Gilmore and her husband Bruce Gilmore; his step children, Ryan and Emmersyn; his six children, Derek, Garrett, Danielle, Marc, Paul and CJ; three grandchildren; his mother and father-in-law, Bill and Joan Toupin; in-laws, Jackie, Steve, Darcy, John, Scott and Christine; his adored nieces and nephews; and his beloved cat, Abigail and Maltese dog, Romeo.
Bob and his wife enjoyed life together going to the gym, hiking, walking and spending time in Brewster. He found great pleasure in digging clams with his wife and in-laws, Bill and Joan. He cherished his time with them on Cape Cod. He was always certain to fill his bird feeders every day as he enjoyed their sweet songs. Bob found his "happy" place around wonderful family and friends, everyone falling in love with his most endearing smile and bellowing laugh…
Robert's life will be celebrated privately. Funeral arrangements are under the care of Miles Funeral Home, 1158 Main Street, Holden.
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Lauren Bay Baker
July 22, 2020
I want to extend my condolences to the family of Rob Happy. I was shocked and saddened to learn of his death. I admire all of his accomplishments and the education he received as a police officer as well as raising a large family. His presence will be greatly missed in the community.
Michael B Darcy
July 14, 2020
Bob and I took CJ night classes together at Framingham State College back in 87. I was a 19 year old wanting to be a cop and Bob was already a 10 yr veteran. He answered all my cop questions with a smile. We even attended a symphony orchestra concert together in Worcester a part of a music elective we took. Bob made that miserable experience a memorable one. Last saw Bob at Paxton Chief Mortells funeral 27 years ago. Bob was a good man and role model.
Michael B. Darcy, Ct State Police, Major (Ret.)
Ronny (Retired P.O.) Knoll
July 1, 2020
Thoughts and Prayers to Bob's Family during this difficult time, I will cherish the many good times we enjoyed together while I worked next door to Sterling at Lancaster P.D.
Kristen Sullivan
June 27, 2020
Dear Barbara, Paul & Paula,
Please accept my deepest condolences during this sad, sad time. I was shocked & surprised to see the post written on the Police Facebook page. I am truly sorry. I remember speaking to him about his news of becoming a Grandfather. Many years ago, at a loved ones wake. How time flies. I still remember seeing him in his cruiser around town & at the DPW.
To Kim, Danielle, Garret, Derek & everyone else, I am truly, very sorry for your loss. May your memories help to ease some of your pain.
RIP Robby. Please say hi to Emma, Carl, Nana, Grandpie & especially to Dad.
Love, Kristen.
Geri Hutchinson Massalski
June 25, 2020
Condolences to the entire family. I knew Bob for many years as I had worked at the Clinton District Court where he would come in his capacity as an officer with the Sterling Police Department. He always had a great smile on his face to match his personality. Im sure he will be missed by many people.
Carl gentile local 170
June 25, 2020
Prayers for happy!! R.i.p
Wayne kanerva
June 25, 2020
I'm so sorry for your loss . My condolences to the whole Happy family. Bob was a great guy .
Steve Veshi
June 25, 2020
May his memory be eternal,. Happs was a real friend growing up and a good Man. Always was there for others and one heck of a golfer and hockey player. My prayers are sent to the Happy family and friends. Rest in peace HAPPS.
Steve Veshi
June 25, 2020
May his memory be eternal,. Happs was a real friend growing up and a good Man. Always was there for others and one heck of a golfer and hockey player. My prayers are sent to the Happy family and friends. Rest in peace HAPPS.
Chuck Orne
June 24, 2020
I remember some great times with Bob, on and off duty. My condolences to the family.
RIP my friend.
Allan Sjoberg
June 23, 2020
Barbara, Paul, Paula, and the Happy family, my condolences. I am reflecting on our work together with the Sterling P.D. and the many happy times spent with so much laughter, in Florida and Hampton Beach (L & N Street). RIP Bob.
Nadine Pranckunas
June 23, 2020
Hugs to Paula, Barbra and Paul. So heartbreaking. Sorry for your loss.
Jack & Liz McCarney
June 23, 2020
So sorry to hear the sad news of bob's passing. I knew Bob only through my participation with Rusty Blades group, but he was a great guy and a real gentleman. Our condolences to his family.
Kristina Orne
June 23, 2020
Very sorry for the Happy family; Bob was a great guy
Cathy (Johnson)Ricker
June 23, 2020
y condolences to the Happy family. I fondly remember our times together at White Horse Beach in Plymouth with our families, Robbie, Dave , Paula and I had many adventures together. RIP Robbie
Dianne mccormick
June 23, 2020
Robert you were a kind and gentle man. Although I only knew you for a short time I felt like I was family with you and Kim .that's how you guys made me feel..I was heartbroken to hear of your passing..the Angel's have gained a wonderful spirit! Kim I am so sorry and I am sending prayers. Please let me know what I can do to help you in any way.
Brian and Mary Beth Bay
June 23, 2020
Please accept our condolences on Roberts passing. We are very sorry for your loss.
Brian and Mary Beth
Don Bianchini
June 22, 2020
My condolences to the Happy family, will always remember our times playing town hockey and how he enjoyed playing golf for the WBHS golf team. RIP Happy.
June 22, 2020
Played basketball, and caddied with him at Wachusett CC, Godsblessings to the Happy family
Brian Carville
June 22, 2020
My deepest sympathies to Bobs family and friends.
Dee Glynn
June 21, 2020
We first met at the YMCA. Such fond memories He was a man of few words but had a beautiful smile and a kind heart. He sure will be missed. God bless his loving wife Kim and his family.. Barbra I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
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