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Steven J. "Big Daddy" Hughes

Steven Hughes Obituary

Steven J. "Big Daddy" Hughes, 28, of Manchester, Conn., and formerly of Worcester, died Saturday, Sept. 16 at home.

He leaves his wife, Bobby Jo Wetteland, four children, Destinee Flores, and Aleah, Danielle and Kylee Wetteland, all of Manchester; three brothers, Daniel Lorange, Christopher Hughes and Joseph Lamonda, a sister, Tanya Hughes, all of Worcester; uncles, aunts, nephews and nieces.

He was born in Worcester, son of the late Daniel Lorange and Bonny M. Hughes. He graduated from the school at St. Casimir's. He worked as a roofer for many years.

Steven was loved by his entire family who looked to him for advice and strength all the time.

Calling hours at the Athy Memorial Home, 111 Lancaster St., Worcester, are Wednesday, Sept. 20, from 6 to 8 p.m.

The funeral will be held on Thursday, Sept. 21, from the funeral home with a Mass at 10 a.m. in St. Peter's Church, 931 Main St., Worcester. Burial will be in St. John's Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Steven Hughes Children's Fund, in care of Flagship Bank, 4 Mower St., Worcester, MA 01602.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette on Sep. 19, 2006.

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Janine Sisko

October 4, 2022

Steven.. even after all these years I still miss u and wish you could've met my kids.. u have been my"brother" for all these years growing up...
Love and miss you
Janine sisko

markie love

September 27, 2007

hey" big dog "i miss the heck out of you. im not the only one ,im sure of this . so many people are missing you badly and struggling to come to thier own peace with losing you , but always in my heart i will keep you .

victoria lamonda

September 21, 2007

always loved and missed cuz<3

vikki lamonda

Carol Hughes~Puzo

September 17, 2007

~~~STEVEN~~~ Happy belated birthday, time is just flying by to fast....Seems like you were here yesterday...You are MISSED so much,,, always in our hearts and prayers....~~Auntie Carol~~ cousins ~George~~ Josh~~ and~~Jeremy Hughes~~

September 13, 2007

It has been almost year sense the day you left us. Wow, How things have certainly change.I am not sure this is the way you would have wanted it to be. I hope you shine down on ALL your girls. I know they need that. One year and we still ask our selfs WHY???? Rest In Peace.

amie white

September 10, 2007

You will forever be missed.

jimbo and lindsay

September 10, 2007

We love and miss you everyday.

Alisa Deleo

June 6, 2007

happy birthdaii uncle steve !!
i love you && miss you sooo much.

cant waiit tyll we meet again.

Michele Deleo

June 6, 2007

HAPPY B-DAY BIGG STEVE DOGG , ITS SEEMS SO MESSED UP I CANT REMEMEBER A YEAR THAT WE HAVENT SPENT OUR B-DAYS TOGETHER.ITS DEFFINATLY NOT THE SAME . I MISS YOU SO MUCH,WORDS CAN NOT DESCRIBE THE PAIN I FEEL.THERES NOT A DAY THAT GOES BY THAT YOUR NOT IN MY THOUGHTS.YOU MEAN SO MUCH TO ME . I DONT THINK I WILL EVER FIND A FRIEND AS REAL AS YOU ARE,YOU ARE THE REALIST PERSON I KNOW. I JUST HOPE YOUR UP THERE WATCHING OVER US. I LOVE YOU STEVE

Jenn

June 5, 2007

Happy Birthday Steve!!! I can't believe this much time has passed. It feels like just yesterday you were here with us. The pieces are slowly going back together, but there will always be a piece of the puzzle missing. Whether that piece is a father, husband, brother, nephew, cousin or friend, you will always be truly missed by all who you touched.
Love always,
Jenn

Shane & Kathy Brien

June 5, 2007

Steve,
You where a great friend. It still amazes me how many people knew you as there Hero. Including me.I will never understand how this could have happened. We spent some crazy times together. Something I would not have changed for the world. You and Me, We had this trusted between us. Something I will never have again.I hope by the time I get to heaven you got things figured out up there. I am going to need a partner!
Love,
Shane & Kathy

HAPPY BIRTHDAY

monique chysna

June 5, 2007

Happy Birthday! There is not one single day that goes by without you on my mind! I love and miss you! Forever and always you will be in my heart! Monique

June 5, 2007

Happy Birthday!!!! Just wouldn't be right without letting u know I was thinking of u on your birthday as always. To all the years we brought in together,this one won't be the same without u.
Always in my heart,your friend for life Jodi

markie love

June 4, 2007

i cant beleive we should all be with u right now ringing in another birthday and we cant even touch u , you are so badly missed . i wish i could have been there for one of our talks . i miss you so much as well as e1 else does . happy birthday BIG DADDY!

June 3, 2007

Steve, Just thiking of u it's almost ur birthday. i can't sleep remembering all of birthdays we shared ,I still can't beleave ur gone. I miss u
Love,Jodi

Satyrah & Gerald

May 21, 2007

If tears could build a staircase, and memories a lane........ We'd walk right up to heaven...... and bring you home again!!! We love you Steve...

Jodi Lloyd

April 10, 2007

To Steve's baby girls, your Daddy loved you more than anything in this world.He will always be with you,always watching over you as you grow. Steve's family I love you,I'm so sorry I wish I could take the pain away,you are always in my prayers.
Steve,there are no words to express how much I miss you. We shared so many memories,so many laughs and tears. I still can't beleave your gone. I miss you so much,you are the one who picks me up when I fall. I will always love you. (from you to me 2002)
Could I heal your heart,with one big hug? Keep you from being torn apart with a little love? If I could, That's what I will do,just like you would if I needed you. Because in times of sorrow,real friends stick together,in hope of a better tomorrow,and a happy forever. So I open my arms,and pull you in close,to protect you from harm,and give you reasurring hope.So don't be afraid,to stare life directly in the eyes,because this friend that you've made is right here by your side.
One Love
Steven Hughes
always and forever in my heart!!!
Love,Jodi

summer 2003 good times dogg, miss you kid!!!

ERIC UTTERBACK

December 12, 2006

Steve whats up kid? Hows your new hood?My geuss is you found a way to get paid, you always could do that.Seriously man theres a lot of people that love you, miss you, that will never forget you ,thats for sure.You touch alot of peoples lives while you were here in many diffrent ways, you were special cat. Love EDUBBS P.S. Merry Cristmas

Destinee Flores

December 11, 2006

DADDY (MY SUPERMAN),
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!I NEVER WILL STOP MISSING YOU!!But i just dont understand...why..why..i ask myself this everyday.why would you leave us???why..when we were doing so good??we had a great summer started a great school year.I JUST DONT UNDERSTAND?????
Love your best baby girl,
Destinee

Ducharme Family

November 23, 2006

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Shawn Ducharme

November 23, 2006

I have a loss of words. I knew you all my life, and would never think this could happen. I will think about you, and will pray for your family. "GOD BLESS!"

JUSTIN,COREY HAMMOND

November 23, 2006

WE WILL ALWAYS MISS YOU UNCLE STEVE

STAN JACKSON

November 23, 2006

R.I.P BIG STEVE DOG THE HOLIDAYS JUST ARE NOT THE SAME WITH OUT YOU HERE WITH US. I MISS YOU MORE EVERYDAY THAT PASSES .I WILL ALWAYS LOVE AND MISS YOU UNTILL I SEE YOU AGAIN. LOVE STAN .BIG JACK

Alisa Deleo

November 23, 2006

i love you auntiie bobby jo && i miss you uncle steve !!! <333

ivan ramos

November 15, 2006

our thoughts and prayers are with the family of steve dog. i'll miss you bro and the good and the bad times we shared and there is a heaven for a "g" make room for big old I. Holla at you... and may god bless you and your beautiful angels and your family. rip ivan, amy,lasandra,meghan,kayla and brittany ramos

R.W.D

November 12, 2006

when your dog falls from grace all fairy tales are uncovered, myths exposed and pain magnified, the greatest pain discovered. you taught us to be strong but im confused to see you so weak, you said never give up but it hurts to see you welcome defeat. when your dog falls so does the park and so does the perception of tomorow, but without my dog, there is only crompton to deal with the sorrow. when your heart ceases to work and your soul is not here, we will think about the memories because they'll always be there.

markie love

November 8, 2006

i knew you for a while , but you in your way touched my heart for a lifetime ! say hi to him for me . take care and cant wait till i get there .

Satyrah Munzert

November 7, 2006

~~To Steves Beautiful Baby Girls~~ Someday when your old enough to read this, I want you to know that no matter what, I WILL ALWAYS be around for whatever you need, Anytime, Anyday or Night. Your dad was one of my only true friends and I LOVED him SO much.........Therefor, I LOVE YOU!!! No matter how old you are, Whatever the reason is....... Just Know..............I Got You! Your dad loved you so much! I got SO many stories to tell you...... I cant stress enough HOW MUCH he is missed! Be Good Baby Girls,,,, make your daddy proud! Untill I see you again....... I LOVE YOU!

Satyrah Munzert

November 7, 2006

I LOVE YOU STEVE DOG!!! You took a peice of me with you........ When we see each other again, Ill be excpecting it back! :) Untill then.....ONE

Kane, Raykel, Jayda

November 7, 2006

~~~For Steves Baby Girls~~~ Do not stand at my grave and weep I am not there. I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow, I am the diamond glints on snow, I am the sunlight on ripened grain, I am the gentle autumns rain. When you awaken in the mornings hush, I am the swift uplifting rush of quiet birds in circled flight. I am the soft star that shines at night. Do NOT stand at my grave and cry. I am not there,,,,, I did not die!

Zac, Zoi, Zane and Zander Freeman

October 17, 2006

To Uncle Steve and all of his girls... we love you.

Carrie Freeman

October 17, 2006

For the ones who loved and were left behind, and for the one who chose to leave... always in my heart, forever in my thoughts.

Toni Milani

October 16, 2006

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Love Toni & Nikki

October 13, 2006

Steven, my nephew,
You grew up in my home. I love you like my own child. Not one day goes by that I don't think about you. I miss you so much, but you're with all those who loved you and passed on before you. But you will always be with me in my heart.
Love always,
Auntie Penny

Theresa Callaghan

October 11, 2006

You are not "Big Daddy". You are not Steve. You will always be my Steven. It's what your mother called you, what my mother (your second mother) called you, and it's what I will forever know you as. I lost more than a cousin. I lost a big brother. You were one of us Steven. The eight of us are no longer a whole.(You know which eight we are.) We will never be the same. You will be forever loved and never forgotten. tears may dry, but my pain won't fade. I could write all day, but I will never express how much I miss you or love you. My 24 years with you weren't nearly enough. I look forward to the day when I will see my favorite cousin again. I love you with all my heart. I may be your second favorite, but I'll always be your baby cousin!

Jean Hebert

October 4, 2006

BJ and girls,
I cannot imagine the pain you are going through, your friends and family will give you strength. Let them. You are in my thoughts.

jason fenner

October 3, 2006

r.i.p steve i will miss u and never forget u love jay fenner

Jackie Jean Brogna

October 2, 2006

B- your strength amazes me! I love you lil sis, if you need anything, anytime day or night, you call me! I can't even begin to understand what you and the girls are going through, just know we are here for you and we love all of you.

Daniel Lorange

September 29, 2006

Always in my heart and mind. Therefore even when you are not here you will always be with me.

R.I.P
Big Brother by one Steven Hughes

Love
Danny-joe

elizabeth welcome

September 28, 2006

i miss u, and i'm sorry 4 every time we didn't get along. i kno i picked a bad time to apologize but i'm so very sry and miss u alot. i'd give almost anything just so u could hold ur girls again. they miss u so much uncle steve.

a poem 4 u

gone but not forgotten
In death but not alone
In heaven with your parents
But we still wish you'd come home

we lost you without warning
no chance to say good bye
we have so many questions
like why? oh why?

we'll miss you every day
and cry so many nights
but we'll all love you forever
till the end of time

4 u and ur friends and family

Jenny

September 27, 2006

Steve I know we only knew eachother for about three years, but I had so much love and respect for you before I even met you. You loved your children so much and they were the world to you. Words can't express how much I'm going to miss you. No need to worry, we got it under control. Although you know how we get sometimes, so you may need to put us in our place every now and again just how you did when you were here with us. I love you Big Daddy!!!! Always have, always will.

the family of Nicholas Diaz

September 27, 2006

Steve, u finally get to see Nick Diaz. Good luck in heaven

Rebecca Zwicker

September 26, 2006

I am so sorry to hear this! May god bless you steve! I will miss you!
Bobby Jo, keep your head up through these tough times.

Keith Brodeur

September 23, 2006

One Love. I'm sorry

Richard BRODEUR

September 21, 2006

God Is…



God is Our Father

God is Our Brother

God is Our Family

God is Our Friend

God is Dog Backwards

And, You Are

Our Dog!

BARK ON MY FREIND

WRITTEN IN MEMORY OF STEVE HUGHES

John Wronski

September 21, 2006

Always in our memories love always John Wronski

Caroline Pizzotti

September 21, 2006

I knew Bonny Hughes, Stevens' mother.My sympathy to family.I know George Sr and Bobby and Harry.Caroline Pizzotti Abilene,Tx.

Sana Bloumis

September 21, 2006

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

tara hughes

September 21, 2006

i wish i oculd have gotten to know you , but from what im told you were a wodnerful person , im sorry for your family and kids .i know what it feels like to lose someone you love .smile down on all of use as we will smile up at you.

Tina M. Mason

September 21, 2006

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

crystal and kenny

September 20, 2006

I will miss you steve, i love you alot its going to be hard knowing i can't see you again, but again we will meet. you made everybody around you smile steve , you left behind good memories,i'm glad i got to grow up with you tanya bobby jo, joe chris,i miss you alot already cousin rest in peace,kenny and i will meet you on the other side i love you steve. Your cousin crystal

Derrie mcneil

September 20, 2006

steve ilove you and i'm gonna miss you so much you were like a father 2 me and i promise i will help bobbyjo with the gurls!!! thank u for everything and you'll be missed very much and you'll always be in my heart!!!! R.I.P<3

amy bishop

September 20, 2006

good person had a big heart sad to see you go watch down on your kids and wife

Heather Plikunas

September 20, 2006

I didn't know him well, but have often heard good things about him from Derrie. Bobby-Jo If you need anything at all just let me know. I am so sorry for your loss.

CAROL HUGHES

September 20, 2006

YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN AND ALWAYS IN OUR HEARTS,,,YOU WILL BE DEEPLY MISSED....LOVE AUNTIE CAROL,JOSH ,JEREMY AND RITCH

Cisco Vazquez

September 20, 2006

You are my best friend, I love you.

monique chysna

September 20, 2006

Steve, words cannot even explain just how much you will be missed. I will cherish every single moment that we have shared from the bluest to the truest of times. Forever and always you will remain in my heart.

Sharing all of our laughter and all of our tears, he will be with all of us forever.

Mary Pepka

September 20, 2006

I am very sorry for your loss

Eric & Brittany

September 20, 2006

No time on earth is long enough to share with those we love or to prepare our hearts for good-bye. The memory of you will always be in our hearts. Thinking of you. Praying for you. Wishing you peace. With deepest sympathy.

Eric & Leah Powers

September 20, 2006

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

tara may

September 20, 2006

you will be greatly missed by so many. i am honored to have known you . bobby jo and kids now have a most wonderful guardin angel .

Marie Southard

September 19, 2006

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

denise&jason perez

September 19, 2006

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Stacy Rivard

September 19, 2006

I am so very sorry for your loss. Steve and his family are in my prayers.

Paul O'Connell

September 19, 2006

Steve,

My Thoughts and Prayers go to your Family. You knew what Family meant. You will always be remembered in our hearts,

Your Friend,

Paul O'Connell

God Bless.

From,

The O'Connell and Campbell Families

RICHARD BRODEUR

September 19, 2006

OUR PRAYERS AND OUR FREINSHIP GO OUT TO YOUR FAMILY IN THIS VERY UNIMAGINABLE TIME. IF THERE'S ANYTHING WE CAN HELP WITH, PLEASE LET US KNOW. IT WOULD BE OUR HONOR. STEVE WAS A GREAT STRONG MAN AND, IT WAS A PLESSURE TO KNOW HIM. HE WILL BE MISSED BY ALL THAT KNOW HIM AND THE MOST BY THOSE THAT WERE VERY CLOSE TO HIM. HEAVEN DOESN'T KNOW WHO IS COMING TO LIVE IN THERE HOOD MOVE OVER GOD THE BIG DOG'S HERE.

BARK ON MY FREIND.

R.I.P

MAY THE ANGELS WATCH OVER YOU AND YOUR FAMILY

Angela Mongeau

September 19, 2006

I am so sorry for your loss, please know you are all in my prayers. It's been a long time since I've seen the family but I will never forget steven, all my love.

Lizz Spencer

September 19, 2006

Prayers for strength and peace are with your family...love and God Bless...

Aimee Judice(Cormier)

September 19, 2006

May god bless you all at this difficult time. Bobby-jo my heart goes out to you and your beautilful children. Joe, Melissa, Tanya, Chris, and Jonathan my thoughts and prayers go to you all. Take one day at a time, thats all you can do.... you will be greatly missed Steve by many, many people... R.I.P

Deborah Drake

September 19, 2006

Sorry for your loss may God Bless your family during this diffucult time. w/ all our love

Deborah & Jose

Patty Lambert

September 19, 2006

My thoughts and prayers are with your family and children at this difficult time.

George Hughes JR.

September 19, 2006

I am so sorry for you're loss

cusin of Steven'S Carol Hughes son.

Im so sorry for your loss

Barbara Dorsey

September 19, 2006

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Juanita Evans

September 19, 2006

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Frankie Bermudez

September 19, 2006

Gone but never forgotten!

I will always miss you Steve.

MICHELLE PEPIN-SIMMONS

September 19, 2006

YOU WILL BE MISSED, R.I.P.

Staff at Alternative School

September 19, 2006

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help at this time.

Diane Meservey

September 19, 2006

With my deepest sympathy....May God hold you all close to your heart in your time of need

FRANKIE BERMUDEZ

September 19, 2006

GONE BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN!!! I'LL MISS YOU STEVE!!!!

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