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Terrance O'Hara

1936 - 2017

Terrance O'Hara obituary, 1936-2017, Shrewsbury, MA

BORN

1936

DIED

2017

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Terrance O'Hara Obituary

Terrance "Terry" O'Hara, 80

Shrewsbury - Terrance F. O'Hara, 80 of Shrewsbury, a longtime Northborough Teacher and Principal passed away peacefully while surrounded by his family, Saturday, July 29, 2017 after a long illness.

He is survived by his children, Terrance P. O'Hara and his wife Lisa of Longboat Key, Florida, Michael J. O'Hara and his wife Claudine of Shrewsbury, Erin O'Hara and Marty McDonald also of Shrewsbury, MA, John O'Hara and his wife Libby of Worcester, Colleen O'Hara also of Worcester, MA. He also leaves his first wife, Margaret (Fantoni) O'Hara of Worcester, eight grandchildren, Katelyn O'Hara, Nicole Genis, Rebecca Genis, Nicholas O'Hara, Ashley O'Hara, Jack O'Hara, Grace O'Hara and Ava O'Hara, his sister Sharon and her husband Joseph DiChiara, of Hilton Head, SC, several nieces, nephews, extended family members and many close friends. Terry was predeceased by his parents, Frederick and Celia (Skaug) O'Hara and his second wife, Carol (Kamosky) O'Hara.

Born in Worcester in 1936, Terry graduated from North High School in 1955 where he excelled in sports, including, baseball, basketball, football, and track. Terry then furthered his education by earning his Bachelor's Degree from Worcester State College and his Master's Degree in Education from Clark University. In 1992, he was inducted into the Worcester State University Sports Hall of Fame. While attending Worcester State, Terry played in every inning of every game, for all 4 years all while maintaining a career batting average of .354. Terry went on to spend a short time in the St. Louis Cardinals Organization.

Terry was also an avid golfer. He began golfing in his mid-20's and quickly exceled to become a highly competitive player. He held various memberships over the years at Holden Hills, Wachusett, Pleasant Valley, and Cyprian Keyes. Terry participated in and won numerous local and state tournaments throughout his golfing career, including several memorable Father-Son tournaments with each of his sons and Father – Daughter tournaments with his daughter Erin. He also carded six career hole in ones.

Terry worked as a Teacher and Principal in Northborough Public Schools from 1961 to 2000. He began his career as a 6th grade teacher at Fraser Middle School, then accepted the Principal's position with Zeh Elementary School. In 1974, Terry became Principal of Lincoln Elementary, and in 1981 joined Melican Middle as an Assistant Principal. The last six years of his career, he spent as a Social Studies teacher at Melican Middle. In addition, Terry was a member of the United States Army Reserves. He also taught driver's education. He enjoyed doing home renovations and after retiring from the Northborough School System in 2000, he worked as a Residential Real Estate Appraiser for O'Hara-Buthray Associates.

Terry was a practical joker who loved being surrounded by his family, hosting cookouts, playing golf with friends and loved playing cards, especially the game of pitch. He was a caring and gentle man who did not hesitate to put others first and would always stop to help someone in the time of need.

Friends and relatives are invited to calling hours, Tuesday, August 1st from 4:00 pm to 8:00 pm in the MERCADANTE FUNERAL HOME & CHAPEL, 370 Plantation St. Worcester. His funeral will be held Wednesday, August 2, 2017 from the funeral home with a procession to the Church of St Mary, 640 Main St Shrewsbury where Monsignor Michael Rose will celebrate his Mass at 10:00 am. Burial will follow in Worcester County Memorial Park in Paxton. In lieu of flowers, memorial remembrances may be made to either the Notre Dame Hospice, 555 Plantation St. Worcester 01605 or the Alzheimer's Association of Massachusetts/New Hampshire, 309 Waverley Oaks Road, Waltham, MA 02452 www.alz.org.

Terry's family is so grateful to the caring and dedicated team at Shrewsbury Crossings and Notre Dame Hospice, who so compassionately cared for him for the past several years.

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Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette from Jul. 29 to Aug. 1, 2017.

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David Nelson

January 22, 2025

Mr o hara had a way about him that was one of a kind. I was a trouble maker and sent many times to his office. Every time I saw him you could see he was very content and happy. Now I miss the old days

Tom Arsenault

July 23, 2022

Mr. O'HARA was my 6th grade teacher. I became interested in sports because of him, and became a teacher because of him.
His influence on a gangly 11 year old later resulted I'm me getting a basketball scholarship to Assumption College.
Wonderful teacher and a better role model.
Hit em straight up there Mr. O!

Robert Rosenblatt

August 8, 2017

Sorry to hear that Terry passed away. I was a fellow principal with Terry in the Northboro, Southboro School System. What a nice guy, and a true gentleman. It was a joy to interact with Terry as he always brought the feeling of joy in life.

Sincere sympathy to all the family. May we all remember him for his love and kindness for children.

Sally Trottier

August 7, 2017

Dear John and Family,

Our sincere sympathy is extended to you and your family, in the loss of your Father. We are certain you have wonderful memories of Tournament play together, and that he will surely be missed.

Please know, that you are in our thoughts and prayers, and we wish you well.

Best regards,

The Trottier Family,
Dr. Ray, Sally, Christine, Todd, and Eric

Judy Trottier

August 3, 2017

We were so sorry to learn of Terry's passing. Our sincerest sympathy to all his family. We were both college classmates and colleagues in Northborough. Terry was a joy to work with. Getting together with him at class reunions was the cause of much laughter and happy memories. We will never forget his fun loving nature - especially his practical jokes.
Brent and Judy Trottier

Jill Pupkar

August 2, 2017

Terry, John and the O'Hara family, I Was sad to hear of your Dad's passing. "The good Terry" as he would say to me, was a wonderful person With such a good heart. Thinking of you all and sending thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Brendan Harney

August 2, 2017

Terry, John and the rest of the O'Hara family
I'm very sorry to here of your Dad's passing. I have many memories of your dad at Greenhill and Wachusett. He was a fun guy to be around. Let your many memories carry you through your difficult loss.

Martha Liddy

August 1, 2017

I remember Terry from driving school days. He was my instructor- it made for many happy hours and memories while in his company.
May Terry's peace come to fill the hearts of all those who love him .
Sincerely,
Martha Bergin Liddy

Janet Carlson

August 1, 2017

Colleen, my deepest sympathy to you and your family, thoughts and prayers for you kiddo love you!

Betty Dagle Brown

August 1, 2017

Mr. O'Hara was my 6th grade teacher, in the old 4 room schoolhouse behind the current town offices. We had great adventures and exciting projects in that old building, but it was there on November 22, 1963, that he told us President Kennedy had been shot and died.
He was a memorable teacher.

Elaine Tibbetts

August 1, 2017

To the O"hara family.... so sorry for your loss. Terry was a great man with many accomplishments. I met Terry when he was doing real estate. He used to come into the Assessors office at city hall from time to time... we all enjoyed his visits... he always made us laugh. what a wonderful man and im sure he will be truly missed by everyone who had the honor of meeting him.
Elaine Tibbetts... retired city worker

Hon. Dennis Brennan

August 1, 2017

Hon. and Mrs. Dennis Brennan extend their condolences to the O'Hara family in this time of loss.

August 1, 2017

To the O'Hara Family,

So sorry for your loss. Terry was a great guy. We golfed several times at Holden Hills when I was growing up in the 60s and 70s. I remember Terry being a good player and very competitive. He was like a role model to me as I a bit younger. I admired how he carried himself and played the game. He was a true gentleman.

Sincerely,

Jim Donovan, Jr.
Clinton Township, Michigan

may his memory be eternal

Carol Kalil-Hamilton

August 1, 2017

Mike and family

Sorry for your loss. He was such a nice man always with a smile. I loved when he was the appraiser lifted my day.

Sam Houston

July 31, 2017

Thoughts and prayers to the entire O'Hara family. May your wonderful memories of your dad, get you through these difficult times.

Pamela Fell-Platz

July 31, 2017

I am so sorry for you loss. Mr. O'Hara was a very kind man and funny. When I was in the fourth grade at Lincoln St. School, I was asked by my teacher Miss Kay to go and give Mr. O'Hara a message. I was so excited. He was a big 6th grade teacher and handsome. I went to his room and he smiled and asked me what I wanted, he must of sensed how nervous I was, because he put his arm on my shoulder and called me a Lassie. He then gave me a big pin with a shamrock on it and it said Erin Go Bragh. That put such a smile on my face and I forgot what the message was. I have shared that story with my children and grandchildren. He will always live in my heart and be part of my home. RIP Mr. O'Hara. Jesus has a good man❤

Patricia Barrie

July 31, 2017

Dear Colleen, my deepest sympathy to you, your brothers & sister. Terry was my coffee shop buddy and how he loved bragging about all the accomplishments of all his kids and that of his dear wife, Carole. Then the invite to their beautiful home for parties & then how lost he was without her. Our friendship continued, but his visits to the coffee shop diminished and we lost touch. Often wondered what happened to my friend. Every time I order English muffin with a side of bacon I remember my friend. He was a special guy and from reading everyone's comments, I realized that was his entire life, caring about those he loved & liked. I hope your memories are a comfort to you all as much as they are for the rest of us. Rest in Peace my friend.

Arlene Germain

July 31, 2017

My condolences to Terry's family and friends. He was indeed a unique man who positively affected so many. May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Ray LaChance

July 31, 2017

My deepest condolences to the O'Hara family. I am so sorry for your loss. Terry was a special man with a wonderful personality. I had the honor to work with Terry at both the Zeh and the Lincoln Street Schools. I will miss his laughter, his wit, and his compassion for working with children. RIP and may God bless

Heather Henry

July 31, 2017

What a wonderful principal he was! A fine human being! He was the one who taught me the pal in principal was there for a reason. In kindergarten, I went back to get something from my cubby or something and was late for getting pics with the class. He dressed as Santa at the time, came to find me. I think I missed the photo taking, and he had someone take a pic of me and him. We still have that pic! He was always over and above the call of duty, he was always there for me whenever I had troubles, I knew I could ask him for help. My class (1992) was the class that left Lincoln with him to move over to NMS (Melican Middle) so he said we graduated together. I have so many memories of my school years that include him! I only wish he had gone onto the HS with us too! He tried to get me out of a detention once! Dr. Brough had given me one for passing a note, he said he didn't want me in there with the bad boys. LOL, I ended up marrying one of the boys that were in there. He has many fond memories of Mr. O'Hara too. My sincerest sympathies to you all. I have thought of him often in the years since. I went back and visited him once or twice. There will be no equal to him as a Principal or teacher. He really understood children and enjoyed his job. RIP! So sorry for our loss he was a good one!

April Tougas

July 31, 2017

Mr. O'Hara was one of my all time favorite teachers. I was a student of his and his wife Carol in 99-00, and I absolutely adored them both. They were always incredibly supportive, positive, and patient with me, and it went beyond the classroom. He gave me the nickname Apples and it has stuck to this day. Even years after we would bump into each other and he would always greet me with a big smile and exclaim "Apples!!" His smile was contagious.
I am so sorry for your family's loss. He had an incredibly big heart, his enthusiasm and fun spirit made history class enjoyable. Please take solace in knowing that he had a great impact on his students, I will never forget him and will be forever grateful to have been a student of his.
All my love,
Apples Tougas

tom arsenault

July 31, 2017

Mr. O'Hara was the most influential teacher of my life. He made learning fun, and playing sports was NOT an option! 6th grade---back in 1962 at Maple Street School in Northboro. He was truly one of a kind. I went on to get a basketball scholarship to Assumption College--and I believe in my heart it would not have happened without him. Thank you Mr. O.

Paul Spongberg

July 31, 2017

Dear O'Hara family,

I'm very sorry to read of Terry's passing. I always enjoyed the old days at Holden. My Mom sends her condolences as they were classmates at North. May all the good memories get you through this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Dan Jalbert

July 31, 2017

Our deepest sympathy to the O'Hara family. Our sincere condolences to Mike and his loved ones. We hope wonderful memories will comfort the family during this difficult time. Dan & Cheryl Jalbert.

Tom McNamara Jr

July 30, 2017

I`m very saddened to hear of Terry`s passing. I knew him as a neighbor growing up and as an excellent landlord in my twenties and thirties.#24 bourne st. was my dream apartment and it was with great thanks to Terry who took a chance of renting to such a young person as myself. Rest in peace Terry and go to the light.

Jack and Marie Arakelian

July 30, 2017

Our deepest sympathy for your loss. God Bless all of you.

Dave, Jenn, Nick & Livi DiGirolamo

July 29, 2017

We are so sorry for your loss. Sending our love and prayers and wishing you all comfort and peace.

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