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Charles Pacunas Obituary

PACUNAS, Charles David Suddenly on Sunday, May 10, 2009. Beloved husband of Annette Pacunas; devoted son of Bernard and Mary Pacunas; loving father of Elizabeth Pacunas, Caroline Pacunas-Flick and husband Daniel, Marianne Pacunas, David Pacunas and wife Renee; proud Nonno of Duncan and Carly Flick, Vincenzo and Camella Pacunas; loving brother of Joan (Ron Jameson) and Kathleen (Mark Reynolds), and cherished uncle of 9 nieces and nephews, and 10 great nieces. Preceded in death by the mother of his children, Margaret Miller Pacunas. Charles leaves family, great friends, and darling dogs, especially Roxy, who was with him when he died and is back home. Some special notes---Loyola High School, Football; All Maryland Scholastic Association undefeated champs, 1955; Holy Cross College, Worcester, MA, Hall of Fame, Football; starter 57, 58 and Captain 1959; later semi-pro, before giving up a promising football career to raise a family; also, All-American Lacrosse. Charlie began his professional career as an executive in the Bell System. He enjoyed his work, and later held several Senior Marketing and Community Relations positions at Northwest Airlines, and The Minnesota Twins; was VP of Global Media and Alliances for Burger King Corp., and finally, Senior VP of Special Projects at Gibson Guitar Corp. Post-professional, he studied Writing at Vanderbilt University, and held research positions for two documentaries about the steel industry and the civil rights movement, respectively. Charlie was enigmatic, spontaneous, elegant, and down-to-earth; an engaged student of the world, an ardent traveler and a true road dog. He loved Puccinis operas, the Beatles, old Bette Davis movies, "Paper Moon", fine wine, and hot dogs. Memorial to be held at his home in Franklin, TN, 2208 Grace Point Dr., 37067 on May 30, 2009. Donations if you like to: Gridiron Club at The College of Holy Cross, 1 College St., Worcester, MA 01610. No services are planned.



Published in The Tennessean on 5/24/09.

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Published by The Tennessean on May 24, 2009.

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J.David Mulrooney

August 20, 2009

I was freshman at Loyola when Charlie was a junior. He would not have remembered me, but he was a real model of a DON to me. He was a superb end on our football team, but unlike some of his fellow athletes, he never let that go to his head. When you passed him on campus, he always had an hello with a smile. When I read of his death in our ALumni magazine, I felt the loss in my heart. He was an inspiration to me as a student at Blakefield! He made some unbelievable catches on Thanksgiving.

August 20, 2009

The first things I do when I open up 'Blakefield Magazine' is look at Class Notes. I scan to 1958 and then look a couple years up and a couple years down. The Summer 2009 issue of the magazine, which reached me two days ago, had no news for 1958, but 'In Memoriam' unfortunately read 'Mr. Charles D. Paconas, 1956'. For two days now I've been thinking about Charlie, whom I last saw in May 1959. At Loyola Blakefield, we lowerclassmen all knew his name and liked and admired the person who went with it. He was a Don. And, yes, Thanksgiving mornings at Memorial Stadium were special because of what Charlie and his teammates accomplished on the football field against Calvert Hall. As a freshman at Holy Cross in 1958-59, I watched with pleasure and Loyola Blakefield pride Charlie's fall heroics in the upset football victory against Syracuse and his spring exploits in lacrosse. Charlie and I never had a long conversation. But, on the way to class from Wheeler Hall I passed him most days as he walked to class in the opposite direction. His cheery "Hey, Mike" rings in my ears yet. Michael Craig Hillmann, Austin, Texas, 081909.

Lori Hamby

June 14, 2009

My Dearest Sister Annette,
Charlie was a huge part of my life, a wonderful Brother in law. I am so sad that he is not here with us. My heart is heavy. I cannot say your name without his. Then I think of his smile and my heart is lifted. I will always always keep Charlie in my heart.I know he was your soul mate and your heart is broken. May you take comfort in all the wonderful memories the two of created together.I know you were the love of his life and you will see him agian.
All my love,
Lori

Ivana Lauri

June 10, 2009

Caro Charles, ringrazio Iddio per averti conosciuto. Ricorderemo sempre le ore passate insieme in Italia con tanta allegria insieme a tuo figlio David. Non ti dimenticheremo mai perché sarai sempre nei nostri pensieri e nei nostri cuori.
Ciao,
Ivana, Ottavio, Alberto e Pierluigi

Karen Otterbein

June 7, 2009

Beth,
I'm sorry. I know it hurts.

Love, Karen

Elizabeth Duvall

June 2, 2009

Hey Beth! And Caroline, Marianne and David,
I am thinking of the Pacunas family back in Mayfield, at the kitchen farm table, your Dad conscientiously wiping crumbs to the floor and deliberately missing his cupped hand. I can never thank you all enough for letting me be a part of that charmed world. Even to be included in FHB. It was an honor. That house, that family where you all came from, is one of the sweetest places this side of heaven.

I am so sorry about your Dad's death, and I still miss your mom. I am thinking of you guys.

love you all, Elizabeth Duvall (aka Liz Poff)

May 30, 2009

Annette, May you be comforted by the memories of the life you had with Charlie. He was a remarkable man that loved you dearly. Love,Jan

Carol Levin (Lavezza)

May 27, 2009

Caroline -- It's been quite a few years since we have spoken. I'm very sorry to hear about your dad. I have memories of spending time at your house during our St. Francis days. I lost my dad a few years back so I understand...thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

Mariangela Bonaduce De Nigris

May 27, 2009

Charles era una gran persona, lo ricordo con molto affetto, vorrei averlo conosciuto meglio..

Kathy Apjok

May 26, 2009

Dear cousin Anette,
I am so saddened by the loss of your husband. You two were so sweet together. You are always in my thoughts and prayers!

Renata Lauri

May 25, 2009

We are saddened by the loss of Charles. Un abbraccio forte da Renata e Mariangela.

Mary Udermann

May 24, 2009

Marianne -
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your father. Please know you and your family are in my prayers.

May 24, 2009

To all of the Pacunas family we send you our prayers and many thoughts as we have loved you all. Margie was my best friend for all my life as your know. Please contact me Beth & Joan at [email protected] as I am longing to hear about all of you. We are so very sorry for your loss. Tom & Marge France

Teya Warren

May 24, 2009

Caroline and the Pacunas family, Although we may have not met, my thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Teya Warren

May 24, 2009

Annette, Marianne, Beth, and David,

I am so very, very sorry to hear of Charlies passing. He was an amazing man and I have very fond memories of he and all of you I will forever hold close to my heart. My thoughts, love, and prayers are with you all.

May 24, 2009

So sorry to hear of your father passing David. Mine has been gone now for 9 years and I still think of him often.

Paul Klein

May 24, 2009

I am deeply saddened by this. Charles will always be remembered as a good classmate and friend. His passing will leave a great void in our hearts.

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