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William Henry "Buck" Bradley II

William Bradley Obituary

BRADLEY II, William Henry "Buck"Buck passed away July 5, 2008, peacefully at home in Nashville with his wife, Marilyn of 38 years at his side and their beloved dog, Duchess in his lap. Other family members and friends were present. Buck passed in death, as he lived life, surrounded by friends and family. He fought a valiant battle against Leukemia. Along with Marilyn, Buck was survived by his brother, Henry Lucullus "Luke" Bradley III of Fairhope, AL, and more loving relatives and devoted friends, not to mention a few thousand golfing buddies. Buck was preceded in death by his son, William Henry "Brad" Bradley III; his brother, Given West "Chubby" Bradley; his parents, Pauline and Henry Bradley. Buck was born on October 10, 1939 in Paducah, graduated from Tilghman H.S. and attended Murray State College. He was a Green Beret SFC in the United States Army, Special Forces, and was honorably discharged from the Army Reserves in 1969. After leaving Paducah, Buck lived in Florida, Texas, and settled in Marin County California for 30 years where he became a successful custom home builder. In 1998, Buck and Marilyn moved to Nashville. He was a member of the San Francisco Yacht Club and Nashville Golf Club along with many other social and business organizations. Buck was also a Shriner of the Doric Masonic Lodge 140 and a member of the Paducah Elks Club. Memorial Services will be held in Paducah, KY at 2 p.m. on Wednesday, July 9th at Milner and Orr Funeral Home. Visitation will begin after 1 p.m. Wednesday at the funeral home. Graveside services with military rites will follow at Oak Grove Cemetery with Rev. Elizabeth Wade presiding. A reception will be held at the home of George Sullivan. Additional memorial services will be held at the San Francisco Yacht Club and the Nashville Golf Club at a later date. In lieu of flowers it is requested that memorial contributions be made in Buck's name to St. Jude Children Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis TN 38105 or Vanderbilt University Gift Processing, VU Station B 357727, 2301 Vanderbilt Place, Nashville, TN 37235-7727. You may leave a message of sympathy or light a candle at milnerandorr.com.

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Published by The Tennessean on Jul. 8, 2008.

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Wayne Meece

July 2, 2025

I miss you often!!!
Love you "C0WBOY"
WayneO

Billy Randolph

August 14, 2009

Marilyn I will never forget the fun times of golf. The great debates we had. I will always miss our time .Billy

August 10, 2009

Marilyn:
When I think back on all the times you,Buck and I have spent together;I loose track of the many trips. I recall so many fun times in Florida with Daddy-O and of course the big sailing trip that had many prayers for survival!! I always think of Buck with that big "Buck" smile that would light a room and all his thoughts on life. He and I had many debates,but one thing for sure you always knew where he was coming from. You and Buck always shared the most amazing love for each other from the very beginning--with the vows you wrote when you married. I think you both brought out the best in the other. As everyone knew Buck loved life so much and enjoyed it in a way that we admired. His traits and characteristics made him one of a kind.His slogan"Life is Good" said it all and is certainly the slogan we should all try to follow.He was like my Big Brother and I think of him so often and carry his passion and zest for life in my soul.

Miss you buddy!

Love ya!
Susie Allen

August 7, 2009

Marilyn, as I think back oh, so many years ago when you met Buck; we roommates on the hill in Twin Peaks all said the relationship would never last. So much for what we knew! Who was that southern cowboy wearing a plaid shirt,that swept you off your feet? He was someone that shared an incredible love & fun filled 38 years with you. One cannot imagine the depth of your grief or the weight of your loss. While we all smile when we think of Buck, he had a way of doing that, we hope you do too. It was so wonderful to see you when you visited, to reminisce & laugh. We hope you will always call us whenever you come back to CA...with love & hugs, Jim & Evie

Tommy Cox

August 7, 2009

Buck was always smiling and always optimistic. He made everyone around him better and happier just by his presence. His life was truly a gift to all of us who knew him.

Kelly Weathers

August 7, 2009

Dear Marilyn,

Buck is a reminder of the life treasures that are given to us. I admired his conviction, warmth and generous spirit. My memories are of the joy he brought you, the hospitality he shared with many of us, his steadfast resolve and honesty.
When I think of you and Buck I think of those in life who bring others peace. If you ever need to break away fly over to North Texas.
That's where I am mostly these days. I would love to see you. Marilyn, you are always in my prayers.

August 7, 2009

Dear Marilyn,
A year has passed and the shock of hearing that Buck had lost the battle of his life - and still was a winner to so many of us in life - finds me now with an odd balance: pain and sadness on one hand and an inner joy from the privilege of having him in my life on the other. It helps as well that you are here to listen, to read, and to share in our own grief and sad moments. And, having just read a fresh new list of wonderful tributes and comments for Buck and for you and for your lives together, a tiny bit of quiet comfort seems to be emerging too. We never know what lies ahead and we can only do our best. If we are really "on it" - we can remember Buck's spirit and that "Life is Good" no matter the challenge.
Last year I wrote about the Lunar Luau Buck hosted on that flank of Mt. Tam he called the Eagle's Nest. The 40th anniversary of that event, and the Lunar Landing of course, just passed on the calendar but is still lingering in my mind. I believe each of us felt we owned a slice of Buck for our very selves. How could a man be a friend, a support person, a critic, a drinking buddy, an influence, and admired for some things and trigger furious reactions at other times ... to so many, many people all over the USA?!! And, dear lady, how did you manage to partner up and mutually share that ride for so many years and through so many challenges? Guess what I am saying is that this is trying to be a tribute to Buck AND to you ... humble and sad and joyous all at the same time ... you know, like Buck.
"Life is Good." Cynthia now uses that term in tribute -- to a man she only met a couple of times but truly shared emotional hugs with you and with Luke and with Dale at the wonderful celebration of his life in September 2008 at SFYC in Belvedere CA. Thank you again for that opportunity to say farewell to him in person and now to say it again a year later -- but somehow with even more appreciation for those wonderful Mill Valley Family years so long ago.
Love,
Lee Massick

Jerry Lax

August 7, 2009

Marilyn, I'm sure there is no need to tell you Buck was one of a kind.Buck was a classmate at Paducah. He was always positive, upbeat and a friend to all. Never got to spend time with Buck after we were grown however my memory of him will always be filled with good thoughts, joy and laughter. May God fill you and yours with love and comfort.

Pete & Linda Johnston

August 7, 2009

Dear Marilyn,

I see Buck's picture every morning and it immediately puts a smile on my face and brings back great memories of our dear friend. It also reminds me of You and Dutchess. We're thinking of you and hope you're doing well.

Love,

Pete & Linda

Wayne Meece

August 7, 2009

Hey Cowboy, I miss you some everyday and more on others. But I also have many great memories to fall back on. It seems the time we had together as friends was short but your impact on me was very deep and meaningful. You had a way of meeting someone new and making them/me feel like an old friend.

I hope you enjoyed our golf outing last month as on July 5th I put my "Buck Button" on my golf bag that day and took you out with me. It felt good. I love and miss you Buck Bradley and may God continue to bless you, your a Good Man.

Dear Marilyn,

Please let there be something that Lynnette and I can do for you. I miss seeing and bugging you as I was known to do. Would love to have an update on the plants I helped to nuture, or especially a call that would say it would be a good time to get together with you. I sure don't want Buck upset with me that I did not do my part to help take care of you.

Love you both very much,

Wayne and Lynnette Meece

Patricia Hart

August 7, 2009

Dear Marilyn,
I have missed you but you are always in my mind . You are a wonderful person with great memories of your life with Buck. I agree with Robin when she said "life is truly good". We all must remember these words and try to stay busy and productive.
It was such fun playing bridge with you. Get back to that and those ladies who love you.
Never forget, you are an unique person, full of joy and many challenging years ahead of you. Please continue to share yourself with all of us who love you.
"Life is good".
Patricia Hart

Bill Maynard

August 7, 2009

Buck was truly irrepresible, and his optimism, energy, and joy remain an inspiration to me. I have never seen anyone so upbeat in the face of chemotherapy for leukemia. He had the rare gift of truly loving life. It was a privilege to walk through his final illness together.
Bill Maynard, M.D.

Terrry Winchester

August 6, 2009

Buck,
You are truly missed. Wish there were cell phones in heaven. I am in Montana for the summer and I know you were hoping to make it up here. Everyone was looking forward to meeting you. I have always sent my e-mails from you to my sister- in-law Jan in Montana. Marilyn was up here during the summer a few years ago, she had a cold and somehow we ended up at the VFW. She needed a hot toddy to help her cold and the conversation turned to “life is good” and Buck Bradley. My sister-in-law did a double take at Marilyn and said, “Are you Buck Bradlely’s wife?” It was as though she had been connecting with Buck for years through the e-mails and suddenly made the connection with Marilyn from Montana.
You would love it here sitting around the campfire discussing politics and telling jokes and the golf courses with perfect weather.
Each day that goes by is a constant reminder of how you fought a battle so bravely. Never did I hear self pity, you were just happy to be alive and have great friends and Marilyn and Dutchess. You were truly a unique and loving person. So fun to be around and always so happy when friends stopped by the house and never once too sick to talk and lift their spirits when I know they were trying to lift yours. I have never known anyone with so many true friends. They came from everywhere. It was always good news after a treatment when you could tell me how to cook something verbatim. I knew you were on the mend and hoped the treatment would be long lasting. You never gave up hope and consequently I never did either. Friends would leave the house in such good spirits after being with you. Joe and Bonnie Taggert ,Bobby and Alma were among the many that I know were with you till the end. Sonny, how great he was and I never met all of the friends but would hear you talk to them often. Larry and Jamie, the list goes on and on. Not many people are missed so much after a year that it brings tears to your eyes. The picture on the button was a perfect one you had the best smile and it is etched in my mind forever. I don’t have time in my life to have as many friends as you did but if friends measure success in life you are the most successful person in the world. I miss your wonderful graces before dinner. God bless you Buck.
Terry Winchester

robin tonna

August 6, 2009

Marilyn:

We only knew Buck for a short time, but he was larger than life to us. Our immediate friendship began at Waterlefe. We have never met two people for the first time that we enjoyed being with so much.
"Life is Good"was Buck's motto and we immediately began to realize that Buck believed this all the way.
We miss him terribly and have fond memories of the two of you visting us in Muskoka. We hope, Marilyn, that you know that we would love to have you back to Canada for a visit.
Our hearts go out to you. Our thoughts and memories of our time with you and Buck are precious and in a very special place in our hearts.
Be kind to yourself and take care. Life is truly good - and to be cherished.
All our love,
Vince and Robin Tonna

Cindy Hofstetter

August 6, 2009

I will carry so many happy memories of Buck - he had such a zest for life and brightened any room he walked into.

Jane Noble

August 6, 2009

Marilyn,
It was a surprise to learn about Buck.
I never met him but it showed through you the wonderful life you had together. I know what you're going through. If you need a friend at 2:00 in the morning or any other time give me a call. It is a long process and one none of us are ever ready to go through.

Susan Bradley-Cox

August 5, 2009

Buck! I LOVE YOU!! I Miss YOU!!
Love and hugs, Cuzzie

Geri Barsotti

August 5, 2009

It has been a long year, the first of this, the first of that - all so painful but one step closer to reaching the top of the grief mountain. In my office on the bulletin board lives Buck's "Life is Good" button. I see it everyday and it reminds me of the strength and courage Marilyn and Buck had to endure, but things don't always turn out the way they are suppose to. Marilyn, you will get stronger because Buck would want you to - he lives in you and your loving friends feel him in you. Just for old time sake, I kept one of his e-mails-don't have the heart to delete. Could you imagine what he would be sending across the lines these days with our Mr. Obama at the helm...I might have had to spam him...I miss him I love him, I learned from him.

One of Bucks Girls

Geri

August 5, 2009

Buck, my friend; we had no agendas and our friendship survives `cause I know you still hear me now. You're a rugged man’s man, much more than a good olde boy, you're uniquely upbeat and supportive; your true humility is suggested by the fact that you're a near scratch golfer and you never bragged about it.

Buck, you're the big brother I wanted. In over twenty years of friendship and many complicated business transactions together, I don’t think we ever had a disagreement that wasn’t resolved on the spot. You improved my life (and continue to do so) and the lives of so many others without hesitation or complaint, and while Marilyn saw you during not so optimistic circumstances, she knows that bravery was simply in your DNA.

Buck, you're still my friend more than a year later as I remain inspired by your charm, your instinct for being comfortable in any situation, and your early morning calls to our library for humor and advice. I think some people endure for the right reasons.

Jody
San Francisco

Dale Hansen

August 5, 2009

Dear Marilyn,
How brave you are to remind everyone to read the latest cherished comments from Buck's multitude of friends and admirers. After a year, evryone's comments are still so poignant and full of dear memories. I couldn't begin to count the number of states represented in the messages..but Buck sure did get around.
Keep up the great work Marilyn, and I'll see you in early Sept. in Nashville.
All my love and prayers are with you.
Dale

Dale Hansen

August 5, 2009

Dear Buck,
What a strange and lonely year this has been without having you at the other end of the computer saying, "Life is Good". Not only do I miss you like crazy, but so do many of my friends who feel they, too, have lost a special and very funny friend.
I had the honor to spend some very special time with Marilyn while she was here. And a serendipitous lunch at the Left Bank where "The Buck Burger" was back on the menu to celebrate 15 years at the Bank. In Healdsburg we laughed and cried over so many memories. Marilyn is doing so well..she always had strength, but you added to it over so many years. However, if we all last for another 50 years, Marilyn will never cease to love you with her whole being.
And neither will I.

D.B. and Lilian Murray

August 5, 2009

Buck,

Miss the golf. Miss the hunting. But, most of all, we miss your warmth, openness, friendship and laugh.

Dan Skites

August 5, 2009

Uncle Buck,

Sure miss you. I have great memories of family times shared with you and Marilyn. Probably the highlight was our sailing adventure in the Virgin Islands.

My life and so many others were improved by knowing you. Hope I can follow in your foot steps and live large and enjoy life to the fullest!

Butch Oehlschlaeger

August 5, 2009

For Buck -
My best child hood buddy. We had great times growing up together. I'll always remember them and I promise to visit and take care of the family sites.
Thanks for the memories Buck. I love you brother.
Butch

August 5, 2009

I sorely miss you ,old Buckley. I miss the golf,the Goose hunting, Ballard county stories and the mischief. Love to Marilyn.

August 5, 2009

Dear Buck, It hardly seems possible
that it has been a year since you left
us & travelled to heaven (and that's
definitely where you went so you could
continue your wonderful gift of love,
humor & happiness...they are the lucky
ones to have you now!)

We will always remember the great
times... silly ones were the best..
we had with you and Marilyn in
Belvedere. Such good memories.

And, Marilyn, we will always be here
for you when you are feeling lonely
and melancholy. We would love to see
you in the Napa Valley...come for a
visit soon!
Much love,
Naomi, Phil, Cash & Penny McGinn

Jane Boyd

August 5, 2009

David and I have fond memories of your visit to Kahshe Lake....the dine around and the crazy game you introduced us to... what fun!
We toast a glass of vino every August!!!We are happy to have met you both. David and Jane "Rose Island"

Greg & Fran Powers

August 5, 2009

Can't remember ever seeing Buck without a smile and something nice to say. What a guy!! Sure do miss him and look forward to seeing him again one day.

August 5, 2009

Marilyn,

Buck was a very kind and special person. I shall never forget how wonderful and thoughtful he was to Charlie during his illness. I will always be thankful for the friendship they shared.

He is truly missed.

Love,
Judy King, Franklin TN

August 5, 2009

Your friendship was a joy to all of us fortunate enough to share in it. Good bye Buck, you will not be forgotten.

Jim and Barbara Browne

MJ McMillan-Dickerson

August 5, 2009

Dear Buck,
Though I never had the honor of meeting you personally, I am well acquainted with your humor, uniqueness and love through your dear Marilyn.
Marilyn's loss of you, brought ten of us together in our attempt to deal with our individual emptiness and pain.
You'd be proud of Marilyn! She continues to struggle with the earthly loss of you and the love you shared. While the road is rocky and certainly not always in a forward movement, every day is an ongoing tribute to you in order to face a new day in a way pleasing to you.
Her friendship and love, as you well know, is a tremendous gift. One day we'll all be together. Because of undying and unending love - it'll be a wonderful day.
MJ McMillan-Dickerson

Alma Owen

August 5, 2009

Buck will never be forgotten as long as one person who knew him is alive. He was the link that kept all of us together. He was loved by all his friends, and, of course, that is because he loved all of us. Just saying his name brings a smile. It was an honor to spend time with Buck and Marilyn during his last days. He and Bobby shared many poignant moments. They were such good friends. My thanks go to Marilyn for her strength in coping with his illness. It was so very difficult and Buck knew that. He always managed to throw a little humor in at the most drastic times. He loved calling us "Nurse Ratchet I and II" and trying to get out of going to the hospital. Buck's prayer before our meal the last time he came to the table still sticks in my mind. He was the Buck who had made peace with his circumstances. I treasure the times spent with Buck and his beloved Marilyn.

Jamie McCullough

August 5, 2009

Hi Marilyn,

I miss you! It seems like a long time since Larry and I were with you in Nashville. I hope you and the 'D-girl' are doing good. I think about you all the time. We miss Buck and his calls to Larry in the morning to discuss the market, and of course all of his e-mails! But, as Buck would say...Life is good! I miss and love you.

Jamie

Bobby Owen

August 5, 2009

How could I ever forget the great times we spent together growing up in Paducah. You are one of those wonderful friends that will remain forever.

I feel so fortunate that we were able to reconnect here in Nashville only if for a couple of years. I'll always treasure the hours we spent together re-hashing all those old memories.

Thank you for the good times !
You are loved !

Barbro Greene

August 5, 2009

Billy Buck was truly one of a kind.. A diamond in the rough with a heart of gold. There were so many fun, easy going times way back - when Billy Buck and Marilyn lived in our 'hood. We feel he would have been one to come to one's side for support no matter what. We are sad we missed doing that for him toward the end, having lost touch a bit. His spirit, generosity and true zest for life will always be how we think of Billy Buck. We hope Marilyn knows she has a lot of old friends in Belvedere too! There are many stories to remember from that one and only -Billy Buck Bradley!

Joe Taggert

August 5, 2009

Dear Marilyn,
Buck is dearly missed, especially on the golf course. A great man, a delight to play golf with, a real character and fine gentleman. You, Buck and Duchess are forever etched into my mind. He is missed yet always nearby. Love you!
ProJoe

Joe & Bonnie Taggert

August 5, 2009

Dearest Buck,
We will never hear the words "Life Is Good" without thinking about our dear friend. YOU made life good for all of those who came in contact with you.
We were unaware of this guest book until Marilyn just reminded us of it. It is such a great idea and she will treasure everyone's words.
Marilyn and Duchess miss you terribly but are beginning to come to terms with your departure. You are in their hearts daily and will be forever.
We miss you. You are in God's hands now - free of the awful disease that took you from us too early.
Joe and I will look after your sweet and loving Marilyn.
By the way, Duchess came for a visit the other day and our girls, Kiki and Ellie, were actually nice to her.
Until we meet again....Our love, Joe & Bonnie

Bob Wagner

August 5, 2009

Marilyn,

Thanks for sharing Buck's guest book. Having known Buck as a teenager, it seems surreal to reflect on another friend's life. Buck made a positive impact on a lot of lives. A lot has been said about his life, but one thing impresses me above all else, he apparently learned early on how to give of himself. He truly was a giver and not a taker. The world needs more Bucks. God bless both of you.

Bob Wagner
Lakeland, FL

Christina Decker

August 5, 2009

Dear Marilyn,I will always remember Buck with fondness, and the good times we had together. Think of you often,and hold good thoughts for you. Love. Christina

August 5, 2009

Dear Marilyn,
Jane and I are distressed to learn of your loss of Buck. We will be thinking of you both in the days ahead. We are sure that your memories of Buck will help sustain you in the time ahead. He was a fine person and great friend.
Gene Mayberry

Lloyd Pillsbury

August 5, 2009

Marilyn

Buck's friendship is sorely missed. Many at Nashville Golf ask regularly about how you are doing. He's fondly remembered at the club. We hope you and Dutchess are doing as well as possible.

Lloyd & Joelyn Pillsbury

Carolyn Amiot

August 5, 2009

Dear Marilyn:

I have a lovely memory of Buck. When you hosted a supper club at your home, we first went out into your garden and admired the flowers and the fish pond. Then we adjourned to the dining room. Buck was out in the kitchen preparing a beautiful meal for us. Not only was it very delicious, but the presentation of the food was outstanding! I thought to myself, "Now there's a great, supportive husband!" I wish I had gotten to know him better, but that one evening said so much about your relationship. I know you still miss him very, very much. Just know that your friends are still here to offer support.

Love,

Carolyn

August 5, 2009

So handsom and so sweet, a true Southern Gentleman.

August 5, 2009

Dear Marilyn,
We pray you are doing better, continuing to heal. Know that you, just like our friend Buck are very special people to so many, especially to us Allens.
We love and miss Buck and value the friendship we shared. We love you and wish you only healing and Peace.
Love, Dot, Sue, and Dick

Gail Lynn

August 4, 2009

August 09' Been awhile but seems like yesterday. Your friends are still remembering and speaking often of the way you always signed out your emails:
"Life is Good". As a devout Christian, we all know that was/is true... All of us in Paducah will never forget you, Buck. Your a pretty rare and beautiful man and one that I was proud to have known. Will see you again, our friend.... Shalom.... Robert and Gail Lynn Eddyville/Paducah,Kentucky

Charles Cole

August 4, 2009

Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Nancy Murray

August 4, 2009

Now and then I get an email cartoon or joke worthy of Buck and suddenly I'm so sad to know that he's not here to share it with. Back in the day I used to get them from him regularly. Often I'd roll my eyes and think, "How Buck!" - funny, absurd, dirty, political, silly - that's what they could be. But it was Buck's job to send them out and let us know he was thinking about us. And that went for his sentimental, religious, patriotic and just plain loving ones, too. He was one of a kind. But I guess we all know that. We are so blessed to have had him in our lives.
Miss you, Buck.
Love you, Marilyn.

Judy Wells

June 6, 2009

Dearest Buckaroo,

I'm sure I will get the award for the latest friend to sign your guest book. I have been waiting to write so I could fill you in on a few happenings (although in my heart and soul, I know you are watching every single day.)

I'm sure you have been worrying about your precious Marilyn and Duchess since you departed on July 5th of 2008. In a few weeks, it will be the first anniversary of your death. It has not been an easy year for those you left behind. Life on Earth is not so good without your joyful presence and contagious smile and countless emails. But we are making some progress.

I'm sure you have been keeping a close eye on Marilyn and Duchess as well as the political changes that have occurred since your buddy George W. left office in January of 2009. I can just hear your mutterings about the socialistic trends currently taking place in the United States of America. I'm sure your reactions would match those of Tommy Dale. However, I believe that Mr. Obama is an honest man with good intentions, and the principles of our forefathers will prevail.

I just spent a few days with your adorable Marilyn in Nashville. You must be beaming with pride and love for what she has accomplished in dealing with life without YOU. It has been extremely tough for her, but she is showing her true grit and making progress. I am truly impressed that she has succeeded in preparing your lovely home for the market even before a calendar year has elapsed. Generally, most individuals are paralyzed for a full year following the loss of a loved one. And surely no one was ever more beloved and cherished than YOU by Marilyn and Duchess.

Marilyn and Duchess are planning a trip to California in a couple of weeks. They will be with Gail and Craig on July 5, 2009. You can be sure there will be some delightful stories about your antics while here on Earth. You continue to make us all laugh--as well as shed tears because you have left us.

You fought an amazing battle and we will always be grateful for your example of loving life with every ounce of your physical energy and spirituality. Thank you for reminding us that "Life is Good!"

With love and treasured memories,

Judy Wells (and Tommy Wells)

P.S. What do you think of your old golf balls filling a lovely crystal vase along with several of your gorgeous golf trophies displayed here and there in the family room? Much better than stored in the top of the hallway closet, don't you think? That was Sandra's idea...she was a huge help!

Diane and Jerry Brenden

December 23, 2008

It all started with that oak and brass doorknob at the Sausalito Flea Market, and the photo we have on our bulletin board of Buck and Jerry wearing women's wigs...the hilarious times just rolled on over the years and they wouldn't have been nearly as much fun without you and Mister Buck. It's hard to imagine a world without him - he was such a force! We are sad that the last years have kept us from connecting;I guess Nashville and Kauai were just too far apart. However, we always knew we were in his thoughts, what with those awful emails, and it did made us think of him each time they arrived. We send along our love, Marilyn, and hope when you remember the great and good times with that boy they continue to make you smile, as they do us. With love and Hugs, Diane and Jerry

Geri Barsotti

September 11, 2008

Dearest Buck,

I just received the message that you left this world on Sat, July 5th at 12 noon.....my heart is so heavy from this news. I am so proud of you because you gave it all you had and then some....as I have told you and Marilyn ( she never got jealous) that you were one of my very favorite, favorite people on this earth ( I don't have many) and now you are gone and I will miss you and your crazy e-mails but you send some very special poignant ones...it was like you knew this was coming. But, we will meet again and bet and watch football and drink Jack, Mark and Wild Turkey ....I am so sorry you had to go thru all that crap and pain to get to this place - you deserved better. I was so glad I got to speak with you - I wanted to tell you that I love you as a very special pal, but the words wouldn't come out...I was afraid I would cry -I hope you knew how I felt about you and your cutie....farewell Buddy...I also know, God will greet you with open arms...I will miss you and love you forever - never to be forgotten...

Until then, your pal

Geri

PS. Take care of Jules for me.

Chris Newman

September 9, 2008

Dear Marilyn,

I have to tell you what a privilege it was to know Buck (and yourself). Buck was one of the most sincere men I ever met. He was always so upbeat and positive, with a ready smile, and a story to tell making everyone feel at ease.

But what I will remember most about him (you’ll probably think this is silly) was taking me to the Grand Old Oprey and for filling a wish I’d had since being a child growing up in England. Over there I would listen to live music recordings made at the Oprey, but never for one moment dreamed that one day I would go and actually watch a live show. That night I remember running out and buying shots of Jack Daniels for Buck and me. We had many, many bourbons during that concert. It’s a night I’ll never forget. That and sitting out on your back deck and smoking a cigar….

Back here in Florida, now that the sun has set, I’m going to light a cigar and raise a toast to Buck wishing him “Bon Voyage”. He was a man that enjoyed life to the full. The world is a little quieter and a sadder place this evening for him not being here.

God bless you both.

Jeanne Barr

September 4, 2008

It was such a gift to know Buck and Marilyn and such a loss to be out of touch. And now, no opportunity to reunite with Buck. I will always remember his wisdom and gentleness. Buck was a kind, thoughful, fun-loving guy. May he rest in peace and may Marilyn enjoy the many loved ones surrounding her, helping her get through without him.

Lucille Figueiredo

August 29, 2008

Marilyn, my deepest sympathy. Shall keep you in my prayers that you will be given the strength needed at this time. Pray too, that the many happy memories will help forever bring a smile to your face.
Take care,
Love,
Lucille

Jay Shelley

August 28, 2008

Marilyn,
Although i never knew Buck, he sounds like a great person, friend and husband. Much love to you my friend. Sorry that i will be in LA next week and miss seeing you.
Love,
Jay

Lee Massick

August 26, 2008

Buck’s passing brought shock and disbelief and I have not fully recovered from hearing that we have lost him. Memories flood my mind when I allow them, sometimes whether I allow them or not … and they paint an amazing picture of distant days of the late 1960’s and early 1970’s – the time I first met Mr. William Henry “Buck” Bradley II.

It was a time in the Bay Area, and elsewhere, of upheaval and social change. It was also a difficult time for a guy in his late twenties who was going through a mandated corporate relocation, and was trying as well to deal with demanding personal issues and problems. Buck was going through a difficult personal transition himself. I was lucky enough to have chosen my new home up in the redwoods of Marin County and Buck was first to welcome me to the neighborhood. I was fortunate to develop a friendship with that unusual, southern-talking guy who by happenstance, was my age, my neighbor, and expressed similar philosophies on many issues. We lived two doors apart on a relatively isolated point a thousand feet above Mill Valley and San Francisco Bay on a flank of Mount Tamalpais. Buck called it “The Eagle’s Nest.” That setting, with Buck’s support and insights, provided a sense of renewal and balance, and -- over time -- the motivation to follow my heart and to open my mind. And from that unique setting, friendships deepened and welcomed many others into what became known fondly as our slightly wacky “Mill Valley Family.” Buck’s actual brother Luke was our brother, too. Many of those “Family” gatherings and events were legendary -- and can never be equaled. Even man’s first landing on the moon was celebrated uniquely – at the precise moment it happened – with an astonishing and colossal “Lunar Luau” at Buck’s place that still, almost forty years later, can be recalled in detail by every participant as though it happened yesterday.

It may seem odd or perhaps inappropriate to mention a wild and raucous party in a memorial tribute. If it offends, please accept my apology. I simply remember a guy with a profound love of life, who always met and handled astounding challenges modestly, who was equipped with superb insights on the human condition, and who displayed an indomitable spirit he loved to share with everyone he could reach. No one ever forgot meeting and getting to know Buck Bradley.

And Marilyn, Buck met you, and the rest is history. One very, very special person joined the “Family” – both Families! And … it was for keeps! I was around way early in your relationship together, and saw two people fall in love and develop a devotion that was a delightful surprise to many of us. Then, years went by and that group, one by one or two by two, moved on and moved away. It was years of in and out of each other's lives for so very long ... perhaps an occasional card or letter or phone call … until email and computer connections brought the old Mill Valley Family back in touch once again -- thanks to Buck. We shared our joys and sorrows once again over the miles. That “Family” was pretty special. And, come to think of it ... Buck was always the center of that group and it all revolved around him. He introduced so many of us to each other, such was his personality.

I have tried to let the painful reality settle in, and certainly my heart goes out to all who mourn his passing. Marilyn, you shared almost four decades with an exceptional guy. Prayers are being said for him and for you. Please know we are thinking of you at this moment and are wishing you strength and solace as you deal with such a profound loss. I am blessed to have been able to call you both friends, and I will miss the connection to those days through Buck for the rest of mine.

Buck, Rest in Peace.
Lee Massick

Dan Murray

August 13, 2008

Dear Marilyn,
I am heartbroken. God bless you and God bless Buck.
Buck was an Uncle, Boss and Friend to me. I loved everything about him. He taught me things about myself that I carry with me every day. His guidance showed a boy what it meant to be a man. ??I remember when I was sixteen years old and working at your home that first Summer. I figured that construction was an easy way to make good money and stay in shape all summer. I soon discovered that I was in far deeper than I had planned.
Humping wood and digging ditches all day left no energy to go out with my buddies and new-found freedom of driving. I needed to get out. I told Buck, within the first couple of weeks, that he might want to find someone else. He looked at me square with those powerful blue eyes and said “Spud, that’s not the deal.” That was all he needed to say. I knew what he meant. I had given my word to work for him for the summer and he had given his. That was not going to change. To that point I had been given all of the tools to know what to do in those situations but never been tested on it. Buck let me know what it meant to do business with another man. I have never forgotten that lesson.
Buck was always such a joy to see. He never was afraid to say whether he questioned a direction I was going in or he was proud of me. I delighted in every meeting with him. It was as if no time had passed.
I will miss Buck for many reasons, his friendship, the fact he was the only man with a southern accent (other than my father) that told me he loved me, but most of all I will miss his compass. He is a true guide to me. I am influenced by his direction every day.
I am so sorry for your loss.
I love you.
Dan

Adam Salim

August 11, 2008

Marilyn - Although I never had the pleasure of meeting Buck, it was abundantly clear how great a man he was and how much he meant to you, simply by listening to you speak of him.

Sincere condolences

Nancy (Bodie) Swift

July 23, 2008

Marilyn, I spoke with Carolyn Foust Walker
in Dallas yesterday and she told me about
Buck. I am very sad and am holding
best wishes for you and your family. Buck
was a terrific guy and always made one feel
so at home.

Bonnie & Carrie Metcalf

July 18, 2008

Marilyn, My mother and I are so sorry for your loss. We had the pleasure of meeting you and Buck at Waterlefe.(Mom is your mail woman and I worked in the Grille Room and on the beverage cart.) You are a wonderful woman, and Buck was a great man. He will truly be missed.

WALTER SKITES

July 17, 2008

Uncle Buck he was just a great man. He was someone who enjoyed life & all that came to know him got to even experience that philosophy. Buck enjoyed a good joke & playing a good joke on you. I'm so glad that I got to spend time last year with him & marilyn in Montana & Christmas in Tampa. I played some awful bad golf then. Buck also was a very generous and giving person no matter how you tried Buck would always pickup the tab. When Buck was going thru his chemo he still had time to send e-mail mainly about the primary races, he sent some of the most funny e-mails. Last year the family were making plans for another sailing trip down in the Caribbean before we got the news that Buck was sick, man do I wish we could have done that again. I again want to give my deepest sympathies to Marilyn and all that knew him and how sorry I was not able to make it down to Nashville to the funeral. Marilyn a hug & my thoughts & prayers with you for this difficult time - Love Wally(Portland, Or)

Jan Bradley

July 11, 2008

Buck was a wonderful father to our son Brad. He loved that little boy with all his heart and was so proud of him. When he was a newborn he would bring strangers into our apartment just to show them the baby. When we lost our Brad he was so devastated. It is comforting to know that they are together again in heaven. Rest in peace Buck and give him a kiss from me.

Doug Skites

July 10, 2008

Uncle Buck always inspired me to set the bar high in life and go for the gusto. Whatever it was, he expected you to do your best and just as importantly, enjoy the ride. His advice to “Go with the flow,” and “Don’t sweat the small stuff,” was simple, profound and immensely helpful. I admired his ability to confront a difficult or stressful situation, put things into their proper perspective , and make those around him feel at ease. He treated everybody with respect and as an equal. He didn’t just have others work for him, but got out his hammer and nails and worked with them. I’m sure a lot of people respected him for that, I sure did.
He loved to rib you, but it was in a way that allowed you to laugh at yourself. He always had that special comment that conquered your heart and made you smile. He loved a good discussion and loved people. His passion for ideas was abstract and never personal. I never knew anyone he met whom he didn’t like, and who didn’t like him. I loved Buck and I’ll miss him.

Bruno Ender

July 10, 2008

Our heart goes out to you, Marilyn and we share in your loss. We may never know how our prayers helped but Buck will have some idea now. We all remember Buck fondly and will miss his up-beat spirit and humor.

Steve Warford

July 9, 2008

Buck - I still think of you as "Billy" since that is what I called you growing up. I have always treasured the times we had family gatherings at your house. Chubby was my contemporary but I kept an eye on you and Lukie to see what I had to look forward to. It is clear from this guest book that you grew to a much loved man, touching many along the way. Peace and rest in God's care, Cousin Billy. Understanding and strength to you, Marilyn.

Judi McCord

July 9, 2008

Buck had the biggest heart of anyone I've known. He loved to connect with others and always spoke and acted with great kindness.
He was so much fun to be with and drew people to him. Marilyn, you were (and are) dearly loved. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Carrie Howard

July 9, 2008

Buck, thank you for all the great times we had. The memories will never be forgotten. Also, thank you for bringing one of my favorite girlfriends, Marilyn into my life...she is wonderful.

CHARLIE AND BARB TONNA

July 9, 2008

BUCK, IT WAS A PLEASURE KNOWING YOU FOR SUCH A SHORT TIME. WISH IT HAD OF BEEN LONGER. YOU ARE A GREAT MAN AND YOUR SMILE AND LOVING PERSONALITY WITH BE MISSED GREATLY. GOD BLESS AND REST IN PEACE.

Peggy Connor Smith

July 9, 2008

I grew upin Paducah, Ky with Buck and his cousin Susan was my best friend for so many years. I have been meaning to call Buck and procrastinated since I now live in TN. Buck was a delightful person.

Lynne White

July 8, 2008

Dear Marilyn, my heart is heavy over the loss of dear Buck. You had 38 years walking on the wild side with the most independent and fun loving gentleman on the planet. Not near enough time. My thoughts are with you. Much love, Lynne

Charles E. Spry, Jr

July 8, 2008

It was my great pleasure to know Buck. We shared a passion for golf and played together in many Stag Day events at the Sara Bay Country Club in Sarasota, FL. I will miss his humor and honesty for life.

Judi Burnash

July 8, 2008

A delightful man with a smile to match that wonderful personality. You will be missed. It was my pleasure to meet you and Marilyn at Waterlefe Golf and River Club

Dale Hansen

July 8, 2008

Over the past 40 years, you have been my dearest friend, the brother I never had, the trusted mentor and closest confidante. You will always be so special and deeply missed.

Travis Lovvorn

July 8, 2008

Partner, We sure have enjoyed some fun times together.I was lucky do know such a gentlemen and caring person.You will be greatly missed.

Sharon Tinnesz

July 8, 2008

I wish I had known Buck better. I do know that he was Marilyn's soul mate and the light of her life. They enjoyed an incredable life together and lived life to the fullest.I'm sure that Buck is smiling down on all his friends and family and resting peacefully knowing that his was a life well lived.

Kathy Weisberg

July 8, 2008

I will miss your sage advise, your wicked sense of humor and your deep and abiding love of Marilyn and your friends. It has been an honor to know you.

Ellen & Steve Stark

July 8, 2008

When we think of Buck, we remember his friendly smile, warm heart and always a kind word. He was a dear and wonderful man.

ann-eve hazen

July 8, 2008

Dear Buck, I'll miss your humor, your love, your kindness to so many people, your good advice, your uniqueness----just you. I wish you were still motoring along the highway with the rest of us. We are trying to keep purring along being decent to others, accepting whatever we have to deal with, and you always had some good advice about that. Thank you Buck. Love, Ann-Eve Hazen

tonya hinton

July 8, 2008

I had the privilage of knowing Buck through Vanderbilt Internal medicine. He was always so nice and full of energy when he called the office. Marilyn and family, you are all in my prayers.

Larry McCullough

July 8, 2008

I will miss you Buck, you were a great man.
Thank you for making our lives and this world a better place.

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