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Thomas Kuehner Obituary
Tom was born on October 17, 1962 in Corning to Edward and Sue (Senkulics) Kuehner. He married his high school sweetheart and best friend, Deborah Gehl, on February 8, 1986 in Corning.
Tom graduated from St. Bonaventure University in 1984 where he received a full ROTC scholarship. He served in the United States Army in Germany with the Military Police from 1984 to 1988.
Tom loved his family with his whole heart. Spending time with his children and grandchildren was the highlight of his life. He had endearing nicknames for those closest to him, and he brightened any room with his laughter and smile. Tom was often referred to as a gentle giant.
Tom served as a pastor at Victory Highway Wesleyan Church in Painted Post. He had many responsibilities in his role at Victory, but his passion was working with missionaries both locally and around the world bringing hope to people in several nations.
Tom and his wife enjoyed traveling and working on their home to make it a place where people could gather and feel loved. He enjoyed leading small groups with teens and adults, and he made everyone he talked to feel important. He always found ways to help others without any care of recognition. His humble spirit followed him everywhere.
He is survived by his wife Deb; two daughters, Stephanie Kuehner of Corning and Nicole Kuehner of Spring Hill, TN; son, Joseph and wife Michelle Kuehner of Lexington, KY; grandchildren, Malakai and Charlotte; his father Edward Kuehner; brothers, Elmer (Fredaann) Kuehner of Campbell and Richard (Jeanette) Kuehner of Horseheads; father-in-law and mother-in-law, Tom and Sherry Gehl of Corning; several sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law and many nieces, nephews, and cousins on both sides of the family. Tom was preceded in death by his mother Sue and by his brother Edward.
Calling hours will be held at Victory Highway Wesleyan Church on Monday, July 31st from 11 - 1 and 5 - 7 PM. Funeral services will be held on Tuesday, August 1st at 10 AM at the church. Burial will be in Fairview Cemetery in Painted Post.
Memorial donations in Pastor Tom's name can be made to The Potter's Hands Foundation. P.O. Box 1564 Corning, NY 14830. www.thepottershandsfoundation.org.
Tom's family entrusted his care to Haughey Funeral Home, Inc.
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Bernard Wathen
August 2, 2017
Dear Deb- I have just heard this news. I feel for you, as Tom was and still is, a model of goodness and giving, for which, I have never forgotten over these 33 years since Graduation from St. Bonas, the wedding, and visit in Germany.
We were housemates. So very intelligent, accepting of people and human frailty, positive and wise to the world. Tom is one of my favorite people I have ever known. Though we have been in contact but a few times throughout the years, I shall miss him so very much- but please know, his goodness lives on in my memory and soul.
I have always described Tom as written above. He of course was so very gentle, and strong beyond words- he is missed. I loved to visit his family so very much during my college years. The great news is probably next to you, he is now with his most favorite person in the world, his mother Sue.
My most deepest and heartfelt condolences to you, Stephanie, Nicole, and grand children
and Tom's immediate family.
Mary-Anne Wainwright
July 28, 2017
To my Cousin Thomas..
Rest peacefully!!
Love,
Your cousin,
Mary-Anne Senkulics Wainwright
Mary-Anne Wainwright
July 28, 2017
To Uncle Ed and the Kuehner family...
I am in total shock to learn of the passing of my Cousin Thomas!!! I was checking on line and found the notice !! I am so sorry!! I was interested to learn that he was a Pastor at the Wesleyan Church on Victory Highway!! That is just a short distance from my high school!!I remember speaking to him by telephone when Aunt Sue passed away!!
Please know that you all are in my thoughts and prayers..
Love,
Mary-Anne Senkulics Wainwright
Albion, Michigan
Michele Johnson
July 28, 2017
Deb and family, know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. May the Holy Spirit comfort you and give you peace during this time of sorrow.
July 27, 2017
Deb and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Tom was truly a man of God and I really liked the small groups that I was in and he facilitated. He was always so kind and friendly. Loved his smile! I will continue to pray for your family as you navigate life without him here. May you all feel the comfort that God gives and the joy in the memories that you have.
Love in Christ, Laurie Robinson
Luke Hansen
July 26, 2017
Truly, one of the most pleasant people I have ever met. Had great times with Tom and Clinton during our Flame classes together. A blessing and a friend.
Deb Holden-Snyder
July 26, 2017
My heartfelt condolences to the entire family.
Rick Nelson
July 26, 2017
Deb and Family, I am so sorry for your loss. I attended East High with Tom and grew up just down the street from him. We spent a lot of time running around together. Usually with Bill Lacombe. I am sorry to say that the last time I saw Tom and Deb was Germany in 1985, while I was traveling from the middle east to renew a visa. We had a wonderful dinner and I, way too many adult beverages at a local brewery. It is a wonderful memory that I have happily recalled on too many numerous occasions to count. God bless.....
Gloria Fratarcangelo
July 26, 2017
Stephanie, I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you, your mom and your entire family. I know that Emily always spoke highly of your dad and enjoyed her time she has spent at your house. I hope your memories of him help you get through this difficult time.
Tim Wilson
July 26, 2017
Tom was a great friend and boss at Toshiba and also when we were not working. He always had time for anyone and would help with any problem he could. He was a faithful man and a great person And I will miss him dearly. god speed Tom and I pray God takes you into his arm and helps you like you helped others.
Ida Austin
July 26, 2017
Dearest Deb, I'm in shock over Tom's homegoing. Can you just imagine what he's seeing now?
My heart is so sad; I want you to know that I love you, miss you, and am
praying that the Comforter will be your constant companion these days. My heart hurts for your children and their broken
hearts as well. May they too find the strength and solace which they so desperately need today.
Love you dear Deb.
Ida Austin
Jack Milliken
July 26, 2017
I worked with Tom at Toshiba and he was a great employee, co-worker and leader. RIP to a good man; he left the world a better place
Tim and Pat Troutman
July 26, 2017
Deb and Family, So sorry for your loss of your dear husband and father. Our lord takes home those who our dear to us sometimes to soon, But Pastor Tom is at peace and is now serving the lord. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Paula Stark
July 26, 2017
Sincere condolences to Tom's family. My intetactions with Tom were alaways positive and upbeat.
Debra Sirois
July 26, 2017
Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family at this time. Tom was a wonderful man who cared for his friends and family with his whole heart. He always had the best smile. My heart hurts for Deb and kids. God surely gained a good and faithful servant now rejoicing with our Lord! Matt 25:23.
Monica (Wieleba) Pomeroy
July 25, 2017
I was a Bona classmate of Tom's...and will always remember his shining spirit...his brilliant but shy smile and his warmth. He was, indeed, a gentle giant, who lit up any room he entered.
My prayers and deepest sympathies are with those he loved so dearly...
Tim Canfield
July 25, 2017
Tom you will be missed by all that new you. A great man with a huge heart . Thoughts and prayers with your family. Rest in piece buddy.
Betsy Maxwell
July 25, 2017
Deb and family my heart is broken for you. I have never seen a family express and show their love more than yours. Being around you and your family everyone feels loved. I know your faith will give you strength to endure this tragedy. Know that you are so loved and that Tom lived his legacy of God and family. I love you and miss you. Betsy Maxwell
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