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Judith Desselle Obituary

Judith Rabalais Desselle, devoted and loving wife of Rickey Desselle and mother of Jared A. Desselle and Kaitlin R. Desselle, died at 10:30 p.m. Friday, Nov. 20, 2009, at Baton Rouge General Medical Center-Bluebonnet after a short illness. Judy was born on Oct. 17, 1958, at Our Lady of the Lake Regional Medical Center to Anthony "Booney" Rabalais and Catherine Deglandon Rabalais. Visitation at Greenoaks Funeral Home, 9595 Florida Blvd., on Sunday, Nov. 22, was from 5 p.m. to 9 p.m. Visiting continues at the funeral home on Monday, Nov. 23, from 10 a.m. until service time at 2 p.m. Interment to follow in Greenoaks Memorial Park. Judy is survived by her husband of 24 years, Rickey Desselle and her children, Jared A. Desselle and Kaitlin R. Desselle, all of whom reside in Greenwell Springs; her mother, Catherine Rabalais; three sisters, Christine and husband Randy Rousseau, of Starkville, Miss., Connie and husband Ed Palubinskas, of Greenwell Springs, and Catherine and husband Jimmie Walls, of Camden, Ark.; and a brother, Ronnie and wife Kay Rabalais, of Baton Rouge. Judy is also survived by numerous nieces and nephews, including Brandon, Jon, Stephen and Gregory Rousseau, Jeremy, Joshua, Evan, and Noah Rabalais, Elliana Palubinskas, Jessica Deon and Justin Walls. She was preceded in death by her father, Anthony "Booney" Rabalais; grandmother, Inez Armand; nephew, Nicholas Rabalais; and father-in-law, Herman Desselle. Judy was a longtime state employee of the Louisiana Department of Health and Human Resources. She will be loved and missed by her many friends.

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Published by The Advocate from Nov. 22 to Nov. 23, 2009.

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Christine Rousseau

November 30, 2009

I miss you my sweet sister. My love goes with you forever. Rickey, Jared, and Kaitlin we love you and are here for you.

Love,
Chris

November 30, 2009

Jared and Kaitlin, I heard of your mother's death at Mass yesterday. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. I enjoyed our brief visit at the SLKF fall fest. Mrs. Carol Speyrer

Bobbie Reeves

November 29, 2009

I was so sorry to hear about Judy passing away. I cannot begin to explain just how much she helped me through the years - not only with work issues but with her laughter. We had so many heartfelt talks each listening to the other and always there to lend a hand. She loved her family deeply and was always willing to share pictures and stories. She truly was a special friend and will never be forgotten.

Josephine Templeton

November 26, 2009

I am so sorry to hear about Judy passing away. I worked at DHH with her many years ago and will always remember her as a sweet and loving person. May the angels carry her swiftly to God.

Jim Bookter

November 25, 2009

Ronnie,

I am sorry to hear of your sister's passing. My sincere condolences to you and your family during this difficult time.

Karen Goudeau

November 25, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. I've known Judy through work for many, many years and she was a true friend to everyone she met. We served jury duty together a few years ago and I have never laughed so much in my life. Her eyes lit up when she spoke of her family, especially her children. She will truly be missed but I know she is smiling down upon us all.

Ashley Poche

November 25, 2009

I only got the pleasure of knowing Mrs. Judy for 2 1/2 years, but I am so lucky to have known her. She always had a warm smile and kind words. She was a wonderful part of my work family and i will always LOVE and miss her!

Love you Mrs. Judy!!!

Debbie Nolan

November 24, 2009

I am so happy I was able to hug Judy's neck recently.I value the friendship we developed working together for many years.I will miss her smiles...God Bless and know you are all in my prayers...Love

Mittie Rohner`

November 23, 2009

To the family of Judy, Please accept my condolences on the loss of Judy. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Judy and I have worked together (mostly by phone) for the past 25+ years. Not only was she a co-worker but I considered her my friend. If I needed help with anything concerning ISIS or the p-card, if she didn't have a ready answer, she was quick to find out from someone else and let me know. Something I did not know until I read her obituary, we had something in common - we shared October 17 as our birthday. I'm gonna miss you, Judy. God bless and rest in peace.

Paula Tessier

November 23, 2009

Dear Jared and Kaitlin,
I am so sorry to hear of Judy's passing. I am so sorry I was not at the services to pay my respects, but I heard the news only a few moments ago. She was such a nice lady and always so kind to everyone. Your family is in my prayers.

Florence Scott

November 23, 2009

I wish to express my condolences to the family and friends of Judy Desselle. It is always a great loss on a job also when one loses such an especially nice co-worker. May God and our Lord Jesus Christ be with you all to help you through your time of sadness especially during the upcoming seasons.

Becky McCarter

November 23, 2009

We were so blessed to have known Judy, she was such a good, understanding person. She was a friend even more than a boss. I have known Judy for 30 years and always loved her, and just a few short months ago she proved to me just what a good friend she was and how lucky I was to have her in my life.She did something for me that touched me down to the very bottom of my soul. I am so sorry that we all lost her and I don't know what we will do without her no one will ever be able to fill her shoes. Love you Judy.

Graves Carley - Secretaries

November 23, 2009

May you feel the Peace of Christ surrounding you during this sorrowful time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Katherine Moore

November 23, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

November 23, 2009

Rickey, we are so sorry to hear Judy didn't make it though this illness. Our thougts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

John and Nicky Bloodworth; Akron, Ohio

Carol Rumfola

November 23, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss. I worked with Judy and she was such an incredibly sweet person! Your family is in my thoughts and prayers! May God's Grace give you peace thru this sorrowful time.

Patti Wallace

November 23, 2009

On Behalf of the Department of Education, you are in my prayers.

Kenishia Brumfield

November 23, 2009

I will continue to keep you in my prayers, And remember that you can always go to GOD in prayer.

November 23, 2009

My thought and prayers are with you and your family.
Joe Bouey
TCI

November 23, 2009

Sorry for your loss. OUr prayers are with you and your family

Paulette {Gauthier} & Mike Daigrepont and Family

November 23, 2009

You will be so missed here on earth. Much love, Juanita

Susan Hebert

November 23, 2009

I had the privilege of knowing Judy for more than 30 years as a fellow DHH co-worker. I have always had the utmost respect and admiration for her as a co-worker and friend. All of us who worked with her knew that we could always depend on her to provide the help we needed. Please know that I am so sorry for your loss and that my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

November 22, 2009

your memerories will always be in my heart aunt Judy.

love always
irene

November 22, 2009

We are sorry to hear of your loss. Our prayers are with you.
The Cangelosi's

Marty Cassisa

November 22, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

DEEP SOUTH CRANE MOTIVA PROJECT

November 22, 2009

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

TROY ADAMS and FAMILY

November 22, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Frank & Marrianne Williber

November 22, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss. God bless your family Ricky, please know that you are all in our hearts & prayers. Blessed memories will carry you through your tough times & wonderful memories will help you to go on. Please know that we are praying for you.
Frank & Marrianne Williber

Lisa Sanchez

November 22, 2009

Judy will be missed by so many of her old friends and co-workers. She was always so helpful, sweet, and kind, and her laugh was so contagious. I am thankful to have had the pleasure to work with her and know her as my friend. Her family is in my thoughts and prayers, and I know I'll miss and love her always.

November 22, 2009

YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTEN & ALWAYS CLOSE TO MA HEART
I LOVE YOU & MISS YOU SO MUCH AUNT JUDY


aDRIANNA MADRIGAL& DAYLEN...

linda desselle

November 22, 2009

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

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