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1962
DIED
2021
Alvin Clifton Obituary
Al was born Oct. 2, 1962, to Jewell and William Clifton. He was predeceased by both. He is survived by six siblings, Sharon Clifton Carpenter, Beverly Clifton, Diane Clifton Davis, Greg Clifton Cummings, Ula Clifton, and Belle Clifton; two uncles, Arthur Long and Leo Belton; two aunts, Mary Belton and Ann Long; nephews, Roscoe Davis Jr., Rajai Davis, Terrence Chase, Erik Buermann, and Evan Buermann; nieces, Tylene Brown, Shakeena Davis, Mekayla Boyd, Jamie Carpenter, and Noelle Boyd; and a host of cousins.
Born with autism, Al was a kind-hearted, gentle soul who would never hurt a fly and was proud to live independently. He had an infectious smile and would not hesitate to stop and speak to anyone, anytime with a big smile. He would shake their hand and say, "Hi, my name is Alvin Clifton." He had a profound love of family. One of his favorite pastimes was hanging out with family watching baseball or college football on TV. He was an avid New York Mets fan and loved routing for the Oklahoma Sooners and Nebraska Cornhuskers football teams.
Al was a devoutly religious and dedicated churchgoer, attending church locally in New London where he loved to praise, sing, and actively take part in church services. He was very humble and full of the love of God. He loved reading scriptures, talking about the Bible, and sharing stories of Christ's love with everyone he met.
Al graduated from New London High School in 1981 and held jobs at The New London Day and Walmart. We will never stop missing him! He was truly a gem in the midst of all of us!
In lieu of flowers the family requests donations to the Autism Society (https://www.autism-society.org/) in Alvin's name. Due to COVID-19 concerns, services will be streamed online. Please see Al's Facebook page for details and updates (https://www.facebook.com/alvin.clifton.94). Interment will be private.
Precious in the sight of the LORD is the death of his faithful servants, Psalms 116:15.
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Memories and Condolences
for Alvin Clifton
Bev, Sis
February 19, 2024
Thinking of you sweet Alv as I do today with memories of fond conversations and thoughts of love always, your sis with love always sis, Bev
Beverly
February 21, 2023
Beverly
February 21, 2023
Beverly
February 21, 2023
Roger
February 19, 2023
Alvin, I think of you and Roscoe and miss you very much. Love, Roger (Former Wal-Mart Waterford Stockman)
Bev
February 20, 2022
Always thinkinof u my "sweet" Alv, didn sleep mch lst , God took me to an old of memories 2 remind me where I wrote of 1 of t mny heart conversations we hd. This 1 happened 2b of ur on Oct 31, 2018 @ 11:34p, we to 4:34a. I kno y t Holy Spirit brought thz specific conversation fr tht time long ago bck 2 my remembrance, & I'm so happy that l can remember it vry clearly. Rest w t Lord n my "sweet" Alv, . Thk u4 t memories "Alone, but not alone"
Roger
February 19, 2022
I miss working with you, my friend!
I miss Roscoe, too. I know you are his angel and that makes me feel good that he is being taken care of.
Bev
October 2, 2021
In Remembrance of My Sweet Alv!
Beverly
October 2, 2021
Good morning My Sweet Alv,
Happy Birthday! I'm writing this special message because you're "special," I cu smilin! and you never forgot my birthday, lol!
For you, maybe it's just another day, as you are at peace in heaven with God and all the Saints in Glory. But for me, even though, I think of you daily and all the memories we had over the recent years and how God in His Omnipotence and Omniscience drew us together; still today, I often think about our past and don't know how and why of all of us, you were able to "find" me, the "disconnected one" and "we" become "spiritually connected" is something that my humble heart and spirit becomes overwhelmed with tears of joy and happiness to Almighty God for how he worked in my life. Actually, he worked in both our lives, because he knew he was calling you home and you had much to share. I bless God for our many, many times that you reached out to me, my Sweet Alv, Honey and I was there to talk and pray with you. I'm planting 20 trees for you and I in memory, because one day, I'd love to relocate southward and I know you would never leave CT, I'm taking you with me to GA or wherever I go, and ten in Mom's birthplace, SC, because I haven't forgotten about Mom. I didn't realize how blessed I was. For years, my prayers had been that God will partner me with someone who was humble, meek, deeply genuine, with love for Jesus Christ and I answered the phone. There you were. He did it once. He can do it again. Well, My Sweet Alv truly did love talking and want to learn about Jesus Christ. I never met anyone like him before and haven't met anyone like him since, so far. I loved being in conversations and deep spiritual prayers. When the calls dropped, we just called each other back. (smile) He had the faith of a "mustard seed," and didn't know it. Our last prayer on January 18, 2021 revealed that to me. He truly was as close as the "spiritual" person Jesus Christ would like for people to be with "Fruits of the Spirit." I can't remember that I looked upon his "outward appearance" for 30 years, therefore, I never had an "opportunity to judge the "outward" man as the world judges. The man I knew and will always remember is the "inward, spiritual man," as God showed through His Spirit. Thank you God for allowing "me" to know Sweet Alvin E. Clifton, the "inner, spiritual" man, a genuine person always with a loving smile. I always felt him "smiling" through the phone; he always laughed during our conversations. May the trees sprout firmly, spread, & grow towards heaven to Smile Upon with Joy!
Alan Centazzo
July 6, 2021
I was extremely saddened to recently hear of Alvin's loss. I had the distinct honor of being a teammate of Alvin's for several years at Walmart. Alvin fulfilled a daily role in our organization that was just as important as any other, including mine as the GM. I thoroughly enjoyed talking to Alvin about sports and various other topics. He surely was independent and full of life. This tribute to Alvins life published in the Day could not have been more accurate. I will always love Alvin and think of him often. Rest In Peace, my Friend!
Roger
March 16, 2021
Alvin was my friend. We worked at Wal-Mart and were always there for each other. In the winter when Alvin forgot his gloves, he knew to come to me. I left Wal-Mart more than a year ago. If I could have stayed I would have. And I loved talking with Alvin. I am so lucky to call Alvin my friend. And his nephew Roscoe Davis, Jr. Alvin will always be in my heart.
Arthur James Long
March 12, 2021
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Julie
February 28, 2021
I worked with Al for a short time in Sears Automotive. What a kind and lovely man. He will be missed.
Julie
Diane Hall
February 27, 2021
The Hall family sends their condolences to Alvins family. I was saddened to hear of your loss. He was a gentle soul, that would light up a room with that smile. He will be missed
Ellen L Moran-Lee
February 27, 2021
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Matthew Levey
February 26, 2021
Dear and a kind hearted brother. Truly will be miss by many who knew him. Rest In Peace my friend. Min Matthew Levey
Annie Weathersby (Bostick)
February 26, 2021
He was kind, respectful, cheerful & a old childhood neighbor. He would be greatly missed. S.I.P Alvin. s & thoughts to the family.
Gilda Butler
February 26, 2021
So sorry for the loss of Alvin. My prayers and condolences to the family. Alvin was always a gentlemen, kind, and loved the Lord. May Alvin SIP. We will miss him at Madry Temple. God bless.
Cheryl Schneider
February 26, 2021
I grew up with him his mom was a wonderfully woman. Al was always pleasant and he would speak. I called him a gentle giant. Rest In Peace
Sheryl Ned
February 26, 2021
I met Alvin while attending Madry Temple he walked up to me and introduced himself . He shook my hand and gave me a bible to keep for myself . From that point on every Sunday he sat beside me on the same pew praising God together. Alvin was a beautiful soul and cared about everyone ! May you R.I.P with the angels. You will truly be missed Alvin.
Sheryl A. Ned
February 26, 2021
I met Alvin when I started attending Madry Temple, he walked up to me and introduced himself and gave me a bible to keep for myself . From that day on I found a friend in Christ. He sat beside me in church praising God on Sundays. He was such a beautiful soul inside and out! R.I.P Alvin you will be truly missed.
Daniel
February 26, 2021
As long as i have known him.. He loved all. Never harmed a fly... He will be one of god's favorite angels.... He always gave me a smile . Never forgot my name with all the things going on with him. I will miss him.. May god heal his families pain... RIP.. Alvin..
Sharon Clark
February 25, 2021
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Idette Thompson
February 25, 2021
Well my friend.... The heavens have gained another angel. We have known each other since I was 14.. No matter how long it was in between meetings you always had that infectious smile on your face. Even if we didn’t see each other for years you always gave me a big hug and smiled from ear to ear. After moving away from CT, my brother would always tell me that he saw you and you would always make him promise to say “Hello” to me. I’ll never forget you.... Rest in heaven my friend...
Joseph Crowley
February 25, 2021
Rest in peace Alvin,i cherish all the memories growing up with you ,Ula and all family, playing kick ball,basketball, baseball , my condolences to the Clifton famiiy.
Greg Hall
February 25, 2021
Rest in Peace. Big Al. You were always the most thankful brother I have ever known. Now you've entered into HIS Gates with Thanksgiving in your Heart. God Bless the Clifton Family my second family here on earth. My condolences and prayers to you all.
Michelle
February 25, 2021
My condolences to Alvin’s family he was a true gentleman who was very kind to all you will be in my thoughts and never forgotten be at peace my friend Love Michelle
Candy Miles
February 25, 2021
Alvin was one of the kindest ppl I knew. He was always pleasant & had a smile on his face. If everyone in the World was like him just imagine how much better this World would be. I’m very honored & proud to ave called him my friend. Fly you beautiful Angel & enjoy those pearly gates. You’re gone but never, ever forgotten. RIP my friend!
❤
Donna Bienkowski Smith
February 25, 2021
A gentleman that I have called my friend since I was 13 Or a bit younger, Alvin, you were always so sweet, kind, and you brought out the best in other people. You were always smiling and every time I saw you, we always had a good hello and catch up even though it may have been quick because you were always busy!! I hope you knew how much you were loved by people like me...your classmates, we who thought you were AWESOME!! And if you never knew, God is showing you now! I personally loved seeing you anytime I ran into you, you made my day. This world is definitely a little darker without you here. But I am picturing you in Heaven with total freedom!!! Meeting up with old friends and relatives and just being free in the face of God!! Fly high my friend...fly high! You'll never be forgotten.
Donna xox
Class of 1981 NLHS
Theresa Seldon Gibson
February 25, 2021
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Barbara Brown
February 25, 2021
Oh no so sorry to hear of Alvin’s passing. His obituary was spot on. I met him when we both worked at the Officer club. What a wonderful man❤❤ Later I would see him at Walmart and he literally ran across the parking lot to hug and talk to me...always remembered my name and let me know how he was doing. I will miss seeing him. Love and prayers to the family
Kristin
February 25, 2021
RIP my dear. I've worked with you at Walmart and had many conversations with you. Even after I stopped working there you still remembered me and we would talk before n after I shopped. You're a incredible soul and so kind. I'm going to miss our conversations and your smile. God bless you sweetie. Store 2331 will never be the same.
rod Weekes
February 25, 2021
What a wonderful, kind and generous disciple! His presence will definitely be missed at Madry Temple Church. His love and kindness were always on display in our midst and he will always be remembered for his gentle spirit. Rest my friend. Love, Rod
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