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David Rayner Obituary

Westerly, R.I. - David Douglas Rayner died peacefully Sept. 28, 2020, at his home of natural causes after a decade-long battle with Multiple Sclerosis.

He is survived by his loving wife of 31 years, Laurie MacCallum Rayner; sons, Kaelan W. and Brenton M.C. Rayner; parents, Douglas and Eugenia (Jean) Rayner; sisters: Kimberlie Rayner-Russell (Edwin) and Kristen Rayner; nieces, nephew and great-nephew.

David graduated from Westerly High School, Hobart College and Flight Safety International (Vero Beach). David was an avid sailor and taught the craft throughout his life. He was an active longtime member of the Westerly Sea Scouts. David worked at Mystic Seaport Museum for thirty years in a variety of departments including interpretation and the Dupont Shipyard. Most notably he fostered the nationally recognized Mystic Seaport Community Sailing Program where he taught hundreds of children and adults watercraft arts and ran the generations-old Joseph Conrad sailing camp for children and young adults. He was a member of the local chapter of the Corinthian Sailing Club and the Mystic River Mudheads. Nationally David served on the board of the US Sailing, the national governing board of the sport, and was instrumental in introducing sailing to the Special Olympics.

A memorial service will be held at a later time to be announced. Gifts in David's memory may be made to the Watch Hill Lighthouse Keepers Association, 14 Lighthouse Road, Watch Hill, RI 02891 or charity of your choice.

Buckler-Johnston Funeral Home, 121 Main Street, Westerly, will be assisting the family with arrangements. For online condolences please visit www.buckler-johnston.com.

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Published by The Day on Oct. 8, 2020.

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Charlene Spino

May 9, 2021

Dear Friends..... I was sad when after a long time to hear about David death...... he I met along time ago back in my school days..... He was the brother of my friend and always good to me like his father...... that I always respected very much....... Even as time passes for all of us..... his memories with be there forever...... we talked sometimes at school or on the phone...... he was always respectful to me... may God watch over him and his loved ones.......I say this.... to show my love and respect...... God Bless us All......☮...... Charlene Spino

Terry Lee Adams

October 9, 2020

Thoughts, prayers and heartfelt sympathy.

Sandy Griffin

October 9, 2020

Dear Laurie, Kaelan and Brenton,
I am very sorry to hear about David. DJ and I fondly remember the times we all got together with our boys. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Kasey Girton

October 8, 2020

My condolences on the loss of David! Keeping the family in my thoughts and prayers.

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