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Jan. 8, 2026

10:00 a.m.

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David Turkowski Obituary

New London - David Turkowski, beloved brother, son, uncle and friend, passed away peacefully on his birthday, Dec. 13, 2025, at the age of 75.

Born in New London, David lived a life defined by authenticity, kindness and a unique way of seeing the world. Living with special needs, he taught those around him profound lessons about patience, unconditional love and the beauty of finding joy in life's simplest moments.

David found great happiness in following the Boston Red Sox. His favorite player was Carl Yastrzemski and he made frequent trips to Fenway Park. He also had a lifelong love for anything police-related and proudly enjoyed being called a "Junior Patrolman."

Growing up in Groton, David formed close friendships with many members of the local police force. As part of this welcoming community, it was not uncommon for him to join patrol rides, which often ended with visits to Eastern Point Beach. He knew every officer by name and delighted in touring the police station.

Later in life, David resided at a Whole Life group home in Stratford. There, the managers and staff became his immediate family. They went above and beyond to ensure his well-being. David and his family were deeply grateful for the compassion, care and respect shown to him throughout his time there.

David is survived by his three brothers, Tom, John, Joe, and their families and by a devoted community of caregivers - including managers, staff, nurses, and doctors - at the Whole Life group home in Stratford. He was predeceased by his parents, Walter and Marilyn Turkowski.

A service celebrating David's life will be held at 10 a.m. Thursday, Jan. 8, at Sacred Heart Church in Groton. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to Whole Life, Inc. in New London.

David will be remembered not for his limitations, but for his humanity, his gentle presence, and the quiet yet powerful way he touched the lives of all who knew him. He will be deeply missed and forever held in our hearts.

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Published by The Day on Dec. 21, 2025.

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for David Turkowski

Jan

8

Celebration of Life

10:00 a.m.

Sacred Heart Church

Groton, CT

Funeral services provided by:

Thomas L. Neilan & Sons Funeral Home - New London

12 Ocean Avenue, New London, CT 06320

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Mary Grace

Earlier today

David was my neighbor growing up.always a big hello Tom and we discussed how the red Sox were doing.a wonderful kind gentle man who touched many hearts.rest easy David,you left a great mark in life.

Scott Sanford

Earlier today

I recall so many wonderful memories with David over the years. He loved helping me patrol the city on many occasions ( especially the beach) and loved visiting the Police Department, to talk with the guys and at times we would pick up something to eat. He certainly loved his pizza. I was lucky to know him, his parents and brothers. My thoughts and prayers are with his family. Rest in peace my dear friend

Elizabeth Kennedy

Yesterday

My condolences to all the family and friends. David always said hello on his travels to and from the Beach. With his radio tuned into the Red Socks game. Long after I left the neighborhood and visiting mom and dad he would see me and come by for a chat. Always had time for a conversation with me a very good friend.

Bill Sanford

Yesterday

David´s Family, So sorry to hear of his passing. He was a good friend. Can still see him his Red Sox hat on walking into the beach with radio in hand. RIP my friend.

Lee Ann Olexy

Yesterday

John,, Joe and families, my deepest sympathies on the loss of your brother,there are many fond memories of David through The Years growing up in our neighborhood. Rest easy

Ellen Chiapperini

December 21, 2025

Joe, Tom, and John,
I was so sorry to hear of David´s death. Your mother often spoke about him and how she worried. Marilyn, I, and two other ladies became very good friends when we were at the senior center. I know that you three and your families lovingly cared for David after her passing.
Please accept my deepest sympathy.
Ellen Chiapperini

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