Search by Name

Search by Name

Deborah Ann "Debbie or Deb" Watterson-Lyon

1967 - 2020

Deborah Ann "Debbie or Deb" Watterson-Lyon obituary, 1967-2020, Groton, CT

FUNERAL HOME

Byles Memorial Home - New London

99 Huntington St

New London, Connecticut

Deborah Watterson-Lyon Obituary

Groton - Deborah "Debbie" or "Deb" Ann Watterson-Lyon passed away surrounded by her loving family May 15, 2020. Debbie married Malcolm "Mack" Lyon Sept. 18, 1993. She attended St. Mary's Grammar School in New London, and spent her freshman year of high school at New London High School. When her family moved to Waterford, she spent her remaining high school years at Waterford High School. Full of smarts and common sense, she became a bookkeeper and worked for O'Brien Shafner law firm. She was an essential figure as a bookkeeper at M.H. Lyon Backhoe Service and Lyon Bros, LLC of Groton for 20 years. She was a caregiver for her aunt Vera. She also worked at many restaurants and made many lifelong friends.

In her true spirit, Deb fought a courageous battle with cancer with dignity and grace. Cancer never dimmed her spirit and she continued to fight the disease to spend precious time with her family and see her daughters grow. She stayed strong to keep her family strong, and cancer could not overcome her determination. Her perseverance to beat this disease will be remembered by those that knew and loved her. Her infectious laugh and positive nature lifted the spirits of those around her; and her loved ones will endeavor to continue with her positivity. Her kindness, grace and witty personality will be remembered by all and will endure in the smiles of her daughters.

Along with her husband, Debbie is survived by the lights of her soul, her daughters, Mackenzie Elizabeth a 2020 graduate of Boston College where she was a four-year fencer, and Sydney Grace, a multi-sport participant and a freshman at Fitch High School. The highlight of Deb's life was to watch her daughters' sporting events. She is also survived by her mother, Betty-Jean Watterson; and her sister, Kerry (John) Vacca. The other love of her life, her dog Shelby "Shelbus," survives her as well. She was predeceased by her father, Joseph "Jeff;" and her sister, Kristy.

Her family would like to recognize her dear friends, Robin Perkins, Lori Venditti, Kelly Morales and Carol Webster, as well as countless others too numerous to mention. Her family would like to thank Dr. Newton and the nurses at Smilow Cancer Center for the care they provided to Deb as she fought this disease. There are also the members of the SBB softball team that brought her many laughs and unforgettable memories.

In light of the current pandemic, a private graveside service was held at Saint Mary's Cemetery, New London. A celebration of her life will be held at a later time. In lieu of flowers, please kindly send donations to the American Cancer Society, P.O. Box 22478, Oklahoma City, OK 73123. Please visit www.byles.com to share a memory or a condolence note with the family.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on May 24, 2020.

Memories and Condolences
for Deborah Watterson-Lyon

Sponsored by Byles Memorial Home - New London.

Not sure what to say?





Kimberly Perkins-Roberts

July 23, 2020

I am so so sorry to hear of the passing of Deb. We were friends not only when she lived in New London but also remained friends as we both attended Waterford High School. She was always liked by so many and a genuine good person. May the memories you have and keep at heart keep you strong thru this time.

Mary Georgetti

July 20, 2020

Sorry for your loss.

Randy Dalton

June 3, 2020

Mack, Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. So sorry to hear about Deb.
Randy and Pat

Patricia Kannenberg

May 29, 2020

B J and Kerry I am so sorry to read of the passing of Debbie. I remember her well. My fondest memories of her was playing softball especially against New London when you moved to Waterford. May all the wonderful memories you have of her bring you and her family comfort.

Angela Dipollina

May 28, 2020

I am so truly sorry for your loss.
I was a friend of Debbie's in Waterford and I will always remember her wit and quick smile!
May your memories bring you peace and comfort in the days to come.

Angela Dipollina

Monica Gibson

May 28, 2020

My thoughts and prayers to Debbie family,her mom , and her sister Kerry.
Also to the entire Paul family and extended family. May all the memories of Deb you hold close to your hearts see you thru a sad and difficult time.
I am so sorry for your loss .

David Laffargue

May 27, 2020

Mack and Family, Im sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you.

Carol Fiftal, MD

May 27, 2020

As a Pediatrician for her daughters, I always saw her great love and pride for both girls. She was a great Mother and we will miss her very much.

Robert Woods

May 27, 2020

Mack so sorry for your Family's loss

Bob Chester

May 27, 2020

To Mack and family:
I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers and thoughts to you and your family in this most difficult time.

Stevie Pryski

May 26, 2020

Fate whispers to the warrior
"You can not withstand the storm."
The warrior whispers back
"I am The Storm!"

Betty Jean,
I am so very sorry you have to endure another loss.

John Massad

May 25, 2020

I went to St Marys with Deborah...Nothing but great memories with her...May she rest in peace and Prayers for her Family..

Holly Gabco Reardon

May 25, 2020

I will always remember Debs smile and laughter and the fun we had In our younger years. My heart goes out to the entire family.

Cheryl Smith

May 25, 2020

To all of Deb's family~ I am so very sorry and sad to learn of Debbie's passing. She was funny and thoughtful and a great mom. I will miss her spirit. Cheryl Smith

Susan and Barry Mumford

May 25, 2020

I had the pleasure of working with Deb during the glory years at OBrien Shafner. She was one of those folks I could never have sat next to in church for fear of getting in big trouble for cracking up laughing when we shouldnt have been! Her family, Mack, also a gangster joker and her beautiful girls...no light shone brighter than when Deb spoke of them. Barry and I are sending loving and peaceful thoughts to you during your time of heartbreak. We will keep you in our hearts and thoughts for the weeks and months to come. Rest easy Deb.

Jim and Kit Dick

May 25, 2020

Dear Mack and All of your Family,
Please accept our most sincere condolences on the passing of your beloved Debbie. We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Know we think of you and keep you in our hearts. We hope your beautiful memories of her will help get you through this difficult time.
Jim and Kit Dick

mark block

May 25, 2020

Please accept our deepest condolences. I have fond memories of Debbie's years working with myself and all of the staff at O'Brien, Shafner.

Peg Ackley

May 24, 2020

Mack and family, you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Charles Weeman

May 24, 2020

Dear BJ, My heart goes out to you again. Too many losses in your life.
Please accept my sincere sadness for the passing of Debbie.
She was a kind and funny woman.
Charlie Weeman

Darryn Dyer

May 24, 2020

Very sorry for loss Mackie and family

Arlan Keefe

May 24, 2020

It is with great sadness and a heavy heart that I read Deborahs obituary in todays newspaper...to say what a lovely person and loving and nurturing mom I found her to be would be an understatement. Mackenzie and Sydney, I am so sorry for your loss, may she Rest In Peace.

Arlan Keefe

Tricia Sneider

May 24, 2020

Deb was a truly beautiful person. Any time I saw her over the many years that I have known her, she always had smile and a good word to say. She will be missed by all who were lucky enough to know her. My sincere condolences to her family.

Nancy Harnish

May 24, 2020

Mack and family, Im so very sorry to hear of your loss. Sending you our deepest condolences.
Nancy and Taylor Harnish

David Lemanski

May 24, 2020

I will always remember July 1988, when DEB and her sisters secretly, in the middle of the night, attached a large sheet, announcing to the world that I had just turned fourty. At first, I had no clue who the culprits were and it wasn’t until many weeks after that I found out who they were. Love and miss you Debby.

Brian Straub

May 24, 2020

Very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you today.

Martha Jacques

May 24, 2020

I worked with Deb at O'Brien Shafner. A nicer person you could never meet. My sincere condolences to BJ and to her immediate family. Her smile is one that was always great!

Annie M. Paul

May 24, 2020

Our Hearts are saddened by your loss and our thoughts and Prayers are with you all.

Linda Clark

May 24, 2020

I am thinking about you Mackenzie and Sydney, and Mack. I am very sorry for your loss. Linda Clark. (Happy Time Nursery School)

Marci Crocco

May 23, 2020

I love you debbie. We have such great memories. RIP my beautiful friend.

Lorrie (Paul) Jenkins

May 20, 2020

So sorry! My thoughts and prayers are with you!

Showing 1 - 30 of 30 results

Make a Donation
in Deborah Watterson-Lyon's name

Please consider a donation as requested by the family.

Memorial Events
for Deborah Watterson-Lyon

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

Funeral services provided by:

Byles Memorial Home - New London

99 Huntington St, New London, CT 06320

How to support Deborah's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Deborah Watterson-Lyon's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more