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Desjon Edwards Obituary

Groton - Desjon Jamal Edwards passed away on June 9, 2009, at Lawrence & Memorial Hospital.

He was born Nov. 30, 1981, in New London to Eletris and Phillip Edwards.

Desjon attended and graduated from Robert E. Fitch Sr High School in Groton. After graduation he furthered his education at Johnson and Wales College in Rhode Island.

Desjon was an avid sports fan who loved basketball and football. He was a people person and enjoyed spending time with family and friends. He could always be found telling a joke to make people laugh. He also loved to travel and to visit new places.

Desjon was especially fond of his uncle, Jimmie Startz. Jimmie was his mentor.

He leaves to cherish his memory two sons, Remeik Stewart of Virginia Beach, Va. and Devon Charles Edwards of Ledyard; his mother, Eletris (Lisa) Edwards and his father, Phillip Edwards of Groton; his soon to be fiancé, Allison Forte of Waterford; his maternal grandmother, Mary McClellan of Groton, his paternal grandmother, Mattie Tanner of Clarksville, Tenn.; four sisters, Ashley, Rena, Tesha and Alicia Edwards all of Groton; seven uncles, Jimmie Startz, Tony McClellan, and Reggie McClellan of Groton, Phil McClellan and Darrell McClellan of Mystic, Tony Edwards and James Edwards of Oakdale; two aunts, Debra Startz, and Kimberly McClellan of Groton. He also leaves nine great aunts, seven great uncles, his best friend whom he considered his brother, Victor DeLong, and many, many cousins, aquaintences and friends.

Funeral service will be held at 11 a.m. on Saturday at the Byles Memorial Home, 99 Huntington St., New London. Interment will be in Colonel Ledyard Cemetery, Groton. Visiting hours are from 6 until 9 p.m. this evening.

Donations in his memory may be directed Lisa Edwards, 33 Miner St., Groton, CT 06340 for the education of his sons.

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Published by The Day on Jun. 12, 2009.

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Lavera McClellan Green

June 6, 2024

How I wished you were still amongst us.

I think of you each time your name is mentioned because you were made especially for your Mother Lisa.

I pray to see you soon.

Rest easy my lil Cuz. You have a purpose to be fulfilled.

A sister

April 20, 2023

Not a day goes by that Our family doesn´t feel the void of you being gone . You were the glue brother. You were the only positive male role model I had in my life . I wish heaven had a phone so I could speak to you . You are misssd dearly .

Cousin

May 14, 2010

Jus thinking about u, We love you so much. It's almost gonna be a year already...wow.

Love, your cousin

January 14, 2010

i miss you day.

amanda b.

January 3, 2010

hey day,
u allready no,so i wont g into it but i jst wanted to cum through n tell u ur on my mind daily...miss u..xoxo

Alicia Edwards

December 26, 2009

Wow, christmas has been so hard without you but, I know for a fact your in a better place, I miss you so much Mann, and dev has been dancing and talking like you, its halariose, I love u,

shannon neiman

December 1, 2009

im a day late,but happy birthday love!!!we all wish you were here to celebrate...but im poositive your up there in a better place,watching us all!love ya day...always n forever!

a sister

November 30, 2009

Hey desjon
Todays the big 2-8 and i like to think your up there doing something aint nobody down here doing looking upon us and saying "WOW" ya ll crazy. Its cloudy and raining like the day you went away your up there partying on the sun huh? we can have the clouds? your in a better placce and i refuse to think otherwise. hey we miss you alot words cant express.the whole family,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY.BRO

amanda buehler

November 23, 2009

miss u more n more as time passes.thy say time heals all wounds..thts BS...love u

shannon n.

October 23, 2009

heyyyy day!Just thinkin about you!wish you were here for ron rons b-day...so much fun!i miss your smile and your smart mouth!!!we love you!!!!

shannon n.

September 15, 2009

we love you...and miss you!!!wish you were here to celebrate my big 30th with me,lol!I know,im gettin old,lol!!!keep watching over everyone!we definitley feel you here with us!!

Rena edwards

September 3, 2009

i miss youuu big bro, and i know youve been looking out above me cause you d be surprised to know besides a few bumps in the road im doing alright its my senior year im going to college im gonna play ball this year cause i remember how youd always go to my games. i love you desjon. rip

September 1, 2009

THIS IS SO MUCH HARDER THAN ANY OF US THOUGHT.

shannon neiman

August 6, 2009

missin you so much day!!!we love you!!!:)

SHARRON RIVERA

June 23, 2009

Its Tuesday Desjon day off an I would have gotten at least 4 texts from u by now like what u doin, where u at?, is jenny cookin' tonight?your life was taken too early but i swear u enjoyed every minute of it!!If people don't know desjon traveled all across the u.s, trips out of the country, lived in vegas for a year, he had such an adventerous spirit that what i will miss most!! At the drop of a hat he was down to do whatever!my heart longs for just one more long conversation!

Kaykay

June 22, 2009

Dearest cousin of mine.. where do i begin??
Day... i love you soo much.. im so sorry somethn like this would happen im still numb..but know u are with Jehovah god....we love you,, all the momeories i had with u and ur sisters. you are my first cousin..u always had a good sense of humor..I WILL ALWAYS HAVE A PLACE IN MY HEART FOR U...RIP WE LOVE YOU...

Amy Brink

June 21, 2009

It was hard to stop thinking about how sad I was for Devon to not have his daddy here.I loved hearing you brag about your mini me and love looking at all your pictures of you two together.
I really miss you and wish you were here to enjoy Father's Day. My thoughts& prayers are with your family and your little man! LOVE YOU!

Tesha Edwards

June 19, 2009

you are the best brother anyone could have! I will always have a place for you in my heart. I love you and you will never be forgotten, we will meet again.The memories we share will be cherished forever.

Alicia Edwards

June 19, 2009

Desjon, me and you had great times together.Me and you had the closest relationship out of all of your sisters.Im still confused about what happend but what matters the most is that we love you we miss you and you will never be forgotton. Dont forget you still have War in your last name. I cant get over this and i never will. R.I.P Desjon EdWARds

luv ya Day!!

shannon neiman

June 18, 2009

Missin you like crazy Day!!me and Alyvia love you....ALWAYS!!watch over us....and we'll watch over your son & fam & vic!MUAH!!!!

amanda dunn

June 17, 2009

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Alonzo Costello

June 17, 2009

My brother we have shared some of the greatest and the worst of times. I cant believe you will not be around to help me through this. I just wish we had one more night of riding out bumping our favorite Shyne cd and doin what we do. Life truly will not be the same without you , but we will stay strong for child . He will understand the worth of his father.You will never be forgotten. I will see you on the other side. A.C.A.B !

Sarah Johnson

June 17, 2009

Desjon:

I still cannot beleive that this happened to you. They say "the good die young" and you were good, for sure, but always full of LIFE. I know we had a falling out a few years back but am glad that we both realized how petty it was and moved on. I will miss your ear to ear smile that was always on your face, and your comedic attitude that left my stomach hurting from laughing so hard. I have many fond memories of you from when you resembled Biz Markie as a kid to when you were actually a man. I will keep those memories close to my heart. You will be missed forever. Rest in peace, De.

lets just keep it movin

June 16, 2009

Barry Field

June 16, 2009

Damn Day....words can not express how much i will miss you. You are a brother to me and i will never forget all the fun and crazy things we did together. i will do whatever i can to help your mother sisters and sons to get through this. I love you Day and will see you again someday.R.I.P.

Grace Uitenham

June 16, 2009

Lisa, Phillip, family & friends,

There are no words that can express the level of deep sympathy the loss of Desjon has brought us all. There is nothing about this day or any other that will help us come to terms with the fact that this beloved son, brother, father and friend has been suddenly taken from us.

Just know we are with you in spirit, love and compassion and we all pray that Desjon will rest in peace.

We love you all.

The Uitenham Family,
in North Carolina
in Florida and
in Ohio

Amy Brink

June 15, 2009

Desjon
I love all my memories I have of you and am so grateful that we got back in touch these past couple years. Your joking always kept me laughing and I feel so fortunate to have met you in my life! I will always remember you as an amazing man, friend and father. I love you and am going to miss you.
To your family and to your son,
My thoughts are with you everyday. I am so sorry for your loss.
Rest in peace Desjon

Ross Hawkins

June 15, 2009

De we had a lot of good times together. A day won't go by that your not thought of. Our experiences together will always be fresh in my mind. You were taken from all of us premature. Your in a better place now. I'm sure your looking down on all the people you loved. Rest in peace dog

Tim Hughley

June 15, 2009

Day still cant belive u gone, i wish i coulda been there for u more, u know before everything it was me you and vic comin up, u always kept it real no matter what, i remember u wanted 2 fight 2 see who would be vics best friend in eastern point i really love you more then you knew no matter how long we went without seein each other we always had that bond n was always close im never gonna 4get u ill mourn u till i join u ima live thru u and for u u my brother and 1 of the best friends sum1 could ever have its gonna b years b4 i even realize ur not comin back,thanks 4 all the good memories u left me with,Lisa and the family im so so sorry for ur loss,Vic keep ya head up i still love u like i love day ima always b there 4 u no matter what u know what it is,Day Rest In Piece i promise ill rep 4 u as long as i live

SHARRON RIVERA

June 15, 2009

Where do we go from here?? first to lisa an "da gurlz" i'm here whenever and for whatever you need I love you all, we are family De was my brother!This pain just won't go away my heart hurts so bad, I have never felt a pain like this before! Everyday for the past ten years I have spoke to De...everyday, when my mother didn't hear from me for a few days she new get ahold of De, an a call was soon to follow.He was such a good father to those who don't know, devon an aveh used to work his last nerve when they were together..lol!! When I look at the pic of him an shan (below)with aveh on the day she was born, i realize that every major event in my life De has been there!Desjon has been the man in my for so long I don't know how to live happily without him...everyday I will mourn for my brother.I will miss this man forever I LOVE YOU DESJON!

Tanishia Stewart

June 15, 2009

Desjon,

It's really clear to me today that you are gone. Me, mommy and corey said our last words to you on sat and I know that it won't be the last time we are going to see each other,God willing. I enjoyed being around you, especially when I was babysitting the girls for those years, it was fun. I was tellin' Rena about the oreo story, lol. Those girls wanted them oreos everyday after they got off the bus. I would tell them "you can have some and that's it" "ya'll ain't gonna have no more snacks come tomorrow" Nope, Rena had to have some more and you got up and took them oreos Rena had. "gimme them oreo's" Rena and the girls had a fit. I said "Desjon please give them those oreo's, please"(smiling to myself) It was so funny, we gave each other that look, lol. "it's a mess" that's like the famous quote in our family. I know that you are covered in God's love and looking down on us now. The party was nice, I seen your son too. Wow he has gotten so big! He's handsome. Desjon we'll all meet again, stay at peace and keep smiling :) Love, Cousin

Richard Walker

June 15, 2009

Hey De,
Dont really know what to say. You were such a important part of so many people's lives. I remeber the first time we met when Lloyd and my mom had a halloween party. You and Vic were like who is this dude. But you guys accepted me into your family. We had good times and bad but Ialways knew you guys we be there for me if i needed you. I know it's not good to think about the what if's but i wish there was something I could have done. Don't worry about Vic and Allie because we'll take care of them. Just gonna miss that big smile that would always light up the room. Rest in peace brother. You will be in our hearts and minds forever!

The Last Day of 1999

Victor DeLong

June 15, 2009

Day, this one is a classic!!!! We entered the new millenium together man!!! I gotta say sorry, but my Lakers won the title tonite. It was bittersweet for me. I feel like writing on here is the only way i can really talk to u. I wanna thank u for the gift u sent my way. I know u are happier than I am right now, cuz that was ur way. U ALWAYS were more happy about things that went my way than I was. I wish everyday that I could have just ONE more conversation with u!!! Just know that u are always in my thoughts & I love u.

June 14, 2009

June 14, 2009

Allie Forte

June 14, 2009

Finding the words is almost impossible...but in our relationship there was never a loss for words. We told each other everything. We talked until we fell asleep, and lay talking some more before we got up. So as I sit here now, the silence is piercing. The sound of your voice saying "I Love you Allison Michelle Forte" is stained in my memory because I heard it everyday. I am devastated that god has taken you from me. That all of our plans for the future will never be carried out. I cannot believe this nightmare god has made into my life.
I am holding on to the many many happy memories I have. I am cherishing your family because they are my family too. I will do my best to help raise your son as long as I am allowed.
We both know the love we had was unlike anything either of us had ever known. You were my very best friend. You will forever be my soul mate.
I love you.

La'Tasha Maddox

June 14, 2009

Desjon A.K.A Cuzo,

Words can't express the love we shared. Real family that will rock out whenever. You were like one of my brothers so over protective of me. I loved every minute of it. (Truly I did) Just last weekend you had jokes about my outfit. YEAH IN-SIDE JOKE...LOL Don't worry I will never forget you. Desjon I miss you, your smile and your jokes so much. You will always be in my heart...muaH!!!LOVE YOU ALWAYS

Lexie Roseman

June 14, 2009

Desjon - You had had a presence about you that could light up any room. A bright smile, a great sense of humor, a good heart. Thank you for the laughs. We won't forget you.

My deepest sympathies to the Edwards family.

Fly with the angels Desjon...

Joanna and Stanley Frazier

June 14, 2009

Victor: We are sorry you lost your friend and brother. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May your memories bring you comfort and keep you strong. Please take care.

Aunt Joanna and Uncle Stanley

George Hall jr

June 14, 2009

Desjon was a good friend and above all that was a good man. Not a guy that was hard to talk to but a guy that you wanted to talk to and was a joy to be around. He will be truely missed, not just by family and close friends but also by people that for even a breif second had the oppurtunity of being graced by his presence. In my heart i know that Desjon is in a better place because as they say the best people in the world get taken way before their time. So if i am fortunate enough one day hopefully ill see you there

Andrea

June 13, 2009

It's been a long while since I had seen Desjon...The four of us had a blast that summer. I think it was summer of 96' It was definately eventful. I was sad to hear of his passing! My deepest sympathy to Djon's family. Rest in peace Desjon and I hope your in a better place.

Jeff Hamilton

June 13, 2009

De,
I dont even know where to begin...I always thought that our crew would grow old together, but I guess god had other plans... You know how much I loved you.. Even though me and you were so different we were as tight as they come you always looking out for me and me always trying to show you a better way... I am going to miss you so much kid... That smile those jokes no one can replace that... We will always be one short no matter what we do... I hope that you will look after our whole crew especally Vic... We will hold you down just like you would do us... I really dont know how to say bye so I will just say I hope to see you when my time comes De... and I will keep all those great times in my heart I promise...IT WILL NEVER BE THE SAME.. LOVE YOU KID..

joe dugan

June 13, 2009

de

kim lamanque

June 13, 2009

lisa and family,
you are in my thoughts and prayers.

MIKE EVANS

June 13, 2009

DESJOHN, THE PAST TWO YEARS YOU AN I HAVE GROWN CLOSER THAN EVER BEFORE.I GONNA MISS THE LATE NIGHT CAR RIDES TO WORK AN IM GONNA MISS HOW YOU WOULD ALWAYS CALL AN REMIND THAT I WAS ABOUT TO POINT OUT.YOUR A VERY CARING PERSON. YOU WOULD ALWAYS MAKE WORK FEEL LIKE THE DAMN CLUB YOU DEFINALLY KNEW HOW TO BRIGHTEN UP A ROOM AN HAVE FUN.REST IN PEACE MY FRIEND..

Kathy Ross

June 13, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Kristen

June 13, 2009

You will be missed forever. My heart and prayers go out to your family.

Susan Sebastian-Perry

June 13, 2009

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

JENNY BRYAN

June 13, 2009

WE ALL LOST SOMEONE WE TRULY LOVED AND CHERISHED THAT NIGHT. DESJON YOU WILL ALWAYS BE LOVED MISSED TREASURED AND MOST OF ALL REMEMBER!LOVE ALWAYS JENNY,NAQUAN & MOO

Tara Henderson

June 13, 2009

Lisa,
Our deepest sympathy for your loss!
I am here for you when you are ready,
call me anytime day or night! Daddy,Moo, and Pernell send their condolences. Love to your family!
Tara Henderson and family.

June 13, 2009

Today is the day i never, ever dreamed i'd have to go through. Day, ur the strongest person i ever met and I know that u wouldn't want me to lose it today so i'm gonna TRY and be strong for u. You would've been suprised at the turnout for ur wake man!! You touched so many lives, there were people there i didn't even know u knew. It's funny cuz all those teachers we terrorized as kids still remember you and have nothing but good words for u. You know that were not suit and tie kinda guys, but i know u would spend the very last dime in ur pocket to look fresh to bury me so know that Lisa & Allie did a great job getting u looking sharp so i intend on sending u home looking just as sharp. I still can't digest this whole situation, and may not until the next time i'm down or in a jam and ur not there to pick me up. We did it big man!!!! No matter where we were, everyone knew Vic & Day were in the building. Even though you'll be missed greatly, ur in a better place bro.

Tammy Royal

June 13, 2009

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Jennifer Boyd

June 13, 2009

DesJon!! I miss you & you will never be forgotten!! I have many memories from the Willow Pond & Fitch days that I will forever cherish!! Always laughing and joking!!
Rest in Peace...
My thoughts and prayers are with your family and friends!

June 13, 2009

Hi cuz.so sad that we have to conversat like this but you will always be on my mind and in my heart!You will never be forgotten.Always loved.La Shonda & Niajah

Aaron Austin

June 12, 2009

The first time i met you i was skeptical.
I didnt know what to think.
Looking up at you.
You looking down at me.
When you shook my hand and said, "Hi im Desjon, call me "Day".
From there on you became a friend.
You, my brother, uncle and i were all sitting on his couch flipping between the Yankees and Baylor basketball games.
We laughed the whole time, as we all cracked jokes becasue aaric was crying about everything.
Then after being out of touch for a time. We once again met up at Jeff and Cyn's wedding. Things in my life were pretty rough at that timel due to my parent's divorce. I couldn't stand either of my parents. after 10 minutes of talking to you, ypu were able to tell me, "give your pops a second chance, he deserves it. he's a good guy." that made me want to give him another chance. At the wedding you and the guys took me under your wing for th night. i felt like i became one of you guys that night. I felt accepted at a time where thats all i wanted was for somebody to listen to me. Thr jokes in the limo to thr receptiion. the jamming to lil wayne and diddy in the backseat. aaden taking "sprite shots", you letting me take a few swigs of your corona. those were the good times. Desjon Edwards you've made a huge impact in my life, and in your own way, have made me look at certain things in my life differently. Man, words cant express how much you'll be missed. We lost a good man, father, and friend. You're in a better place, god will be taking care of you. You may not be here in the physical, but your spirit lives on with us forever. I just want to say thank you. we miss you Day. its not goodbye, but see you soon. we'll all be together again sooner or later. and god will let us have a good time, and soon laugh again. We love you Desjon, you WILL NEVER be forgotten

June 12, 2009

Desjon was such a joy.He will missed by so many people.You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Pam Purcell

Justin Cannady

June 12, 2009

Dey was a good friend and will be missed by all my heart goes out to the family.

Amanda Buehler

June 12, 2009

My deepest sympathies to De's family.There are no words to express how sorry i am.Ill always love De and of course I could never forget him.Everything everyone has said about what a great man he was,is so true.Rest in Peace,my friend

DWANE MITCHELL

June 12, 2009

WOW UNBELIEVABLE!! WHAT A BAD THING TO HAPPEN TO SUCH A GOOD DUDE..I WILL SAY I HAD THE PLEASURE TO AT LEAST HANG OUT WITH HIM A FEW TIMES AND WHEREVER I SAW HIM HE WAS ALWAYS A HAPPY DUDE AND THE CONVERSATION WAS ABOUT SOMETHING POSITIVE OR A PARTY LOL.. IF U DIDN'T BELIEVE IT B4 U SHOULD NOW.. THE GOOD DIE YOUNG.. RIP DESJON U WILL BE TRULY MISSED NOT ONLY BY ME BUT EVERYONE U CAME IN CONTACT WITH WHETHER GOOD OR BAD! R.I.P

DAMON DEWOLFE

June 12, 2009

DAMN DESJON FIRST NATE NOW U ,ME N DRE WAS JUS SITTN BACK NOT TO LONG AGO TALKN BOUT HOW WE JUS SAW U N WE ALL WERE TALKN BOUT LIFE ,NOW THIS EVERYONE WILL MISS U N WE LUV U FOREVA FAMO R.I.P DOGS

Dobie and Stephanie

June 12, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Victor DeLong

June 12, 2009

Day, this is just for u!!!!! U know that i'm the biggest Lakers fan there is. You would always send me a text before the game saying GO MAGIC!! I just wanna let u know that they won one for u on the exact nite that u expired. I just wanna let u know, first and foremost, I really missed that text that night; but the Magic pulled it out for YOU. I can't even express all the little things that i'm gonna miss from u. That's between me, you, and God. I know ur in a better place now, but I still need u here. I don't know how i'm gonna get thru without u, but I know that u want me to keep on keepin' on. Just like Vic & Day productions. That's how i'm gonna live my life, just for u man. It's gonna be SO hard because I don't even know what life is like without u. Just know that i'm gonna hold u down no matter what. Lisa, the kids, Allie, and even Lauren cuz that's what i know you would want. During a time like this I would normally turn to u, now that ur gone I have no idea what to do. Please look out for me from above, keep me on the straight and narrow, cuz God knows i've lost it. I will try my best to not disappoint u brother. I love u.

What We Did Best!!!! Downing Brew & Enjoying Life!!!!

Victor DeLong

June 12, 2009

First of all, I would just like to say that I feel like I have been cheated. Cheated out of the rest of my brother's life and the many, many memories we had left to share together. Not many people i know personally can say that they've had one single best friend for 22 years..... I feel honored and blessed to say that I have. I have a biological older brother, but have never shared the bond with him that I shared with DesJon. He always kept me on the right track, and whenever I was down and out he would say "Vic, where gonna get thru this." Just the simple fact that I was the one hurting and he said "We're" made me feel at ease immediately. Even though he was an only child and spoiled he was the most considerate & caring person I knew. He would give me the shirt off his back if i needed it. He was more excited than I was when I got my braces off than me. He said "Now we both got big bright smiles to light up a room." That was his nature, he cared more about so many other peoples happiness before his own. This guy could not only finish the last word of my sentences, but if he heard the first word he could finish the rest. Their is such a HUGE void in my life now and will be forever. Day, I love u and thankyou so much for EVERYTHING. You'll never, ever be forgotten. EVER

Deidre (Dee Dee) McClellan

June 12, 2009

Lisa you are in my prayers. I will always always remember Desjon. If you need anything, please don't hesitate to contact us.

Quana Lomax

June 12, 2009

It makes me sad to hear what happened to Desjohn. He was a good kid and will be greatly missed. Phil, Lisa and the girls my heart goes out to you guys. At first its going to be hard but through time you will heal and things will get better. I Love you guys.

Alaina Stillman Potts

June 12, 2009

Not how did he die, but how did he live?
Not what did he gain, but what did he give?
These are the units to measure the worth
Of a man as a man, regardless of birth.
Not, what was his church, nor what was his creed?
But had he befriended those really in need?
Was he ever ready, with word of good cheer,
To bring back a smile, to banish a tear?
Not what did the sketch in the newspaper say,
But how many were sorry when he passed away........


Desjon will be greatly missed by all who had the pleasure to know him. I for one will remember his HUGE smile & bear hugs! My prayers go out to the Edwards family & may God Bless & keep Day's children to carry on his legacy.

Jennifer (Oviatt) Arias

June 12, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Vinnie DeLong

June 12, 2009

Lisa, Phil and Family,

My Prayers are with you and your family during this period of your bereavement.

“Death is not a period to Life.
But only a colon, in Life,
For after this Life, there is none to come.”

So, it’s in this spirit that I express my condolences to you and your family. Be comforted in the fact the Sheppard will supply all of your need. Strength for today. Courage for the challenges that lye ahead. The comfort you need in your hour of grief.

(Prov. 3: 5-6)
Trust in the LORD with all thine
heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.

In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.


There are no words to express my sympathies for the loss of Desjon - another one of my sons, he will be deeply missed.

June 12, 2009

Lisa - you and Phillip are in our thoughts and prayers - pam & eddie

Diana Porter

June 12, 2009

Lisa,
I have tears and prayers for you and your family. I hope one day you will have the strength to smile again. May Desjon rest in peace.
If I am ever needed, please don't hesitate.

tashina champagne

June 12, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with his family! I will always hold a spot in my heart for him...

June 12, 2009

Desjon you will always be loved and missed. You were always so fun to hang out with and we will never forget you. Love Marilyn and Melissa

Sara Terilli

June 12, 2009

My thoughts & prayers go out to the Edawrds' family right now. I am going to miss Desjon and the big smile he always carried on his face. He was a great friend & father. I feel priviledged to have been one of his friends. I will NEVER forget him or the memories that we share. As for Lisa & Phil, the two of you should be VERY proud of yourselves for raising one hell of a son. He leaves behind many, many, many, friends. Rest In Peace, Desjon! You will NEVER be FORGOTTEN!

Ruth Warner

June 12, 2009

My heart goes out to Desjon's family. I will always remember the happy face that greeted me each morning. He was always a joy to have in the classroom. Trust in the Lord to get you through this. My prayers are with you.

Rashaad Carter

June 12, 2009

To the family of a great friend,

He will be missed by our community. He was loving and kind to anyone he would call a friend. His love for my family was present when we lost my brother. I would like to show the same respect for another one of Groton's sons.. .....Desjon J. Edwards!

Rebecca Vazquez-Gonzalez

June 12, 2009

Edward Family,
My prayers are with you all during this very difficult time. May God give you all strength, peace and comfort. Desjon and I graduated together and he was a comedian and great person. May these great memories of Desjon keep you all grounded and moving on strong. God bless.

Wendell and Karen Gaston and Family

June 12, 2009

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Kareema Williams

June 12, 2009

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends

My thoughts and prayers are with the Edwards Family during this difficult time. He will be truely missed!!!

Angel Adams

June 12, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are Lisa and family right now at this most difficult time. We are all going to miss Desjon and his contagious laughter. Thank you Dey for being the person that you were, always trying to tell a joke and make someone laugh. I don't think I will ever be able to hear Quagmire say "Giggity Giggity" again without thinking of you!! You were such a big part of my sister's life, and in turn mine also, and I thank you for that! So rest in peace Desjon and know that you will be forever missed and NEVER forgotten!

June 12, 2009

rest in PEACE

Judy Walsworth

June 12, 2009

Although it has been over 10 years since we last saw each other, I will never forget all the fun times I had with you. You will be remembered by many and missed by all. May you rest in Peace Desjon and God Bless your beautiful wonderful family.
Judy Lynn Kosman Walsworth
formally of Groton, Connecticut

KIM

June 12, 2009

LISA AND PHIL, MY THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU AT THIS TIME.

Chenet Torres

June 12, 2009

It's crazy how a life can be lost so quickly. You think there is so much time but its gone within a blink of an eye. Desjon was filled with so much love and had so much to offer. The best part of his life is that he was able to pass some of his love to his children. They will have him in his heart like we all will. He will be missed. My condolences go out to his family. May you rest in peace Desjon and may heaven find a place where you can watch over your family. You will be missed

Scott Sanford

June 12, 2009

Lisa, family and friends,

My thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time. I will always remember Desjon's smile that could light up a room....

Tara Ibrahim

June 12, 2009

My heart goes out to Desjon's family and friends...he was the type of person that could make you laugh when you didn't even feel like smiling...he will be missed...Rest in Peace De...

jalissa winston

June 12, 2009

this is sad

Tina Baker

June 12, 2009

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Phil,Della & Family Evans

June 12, 2009

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009

shannon neiman

June 12, 2009

Damn Day!Well,you already know I love you like family.You were a great friend,for the past 15 years almost!My best memories are with you.In Miami,Virginia,the city!I experienced life with you right by my side,keeping me laughing,lol!I still cant make any sense of this,but I do know everytime i think of you,i have a huge smile on my face!You were a great father,son, and most definitley a GREAT friend,who I will cherish FOREVER!Alyvia misses you so much already too.She keeps talkin aboput when we brought them to the carnival and rode the school bus,lol!anyways,i have a thousand memories,and could go on forever about how much i love you and how much ill miss you.you will and always will be the best male friend i ever had,and a big piece of my heart left with you day!Me and Alyvia love you....ALWAYS!!Lisa and family,you are in my thoughts and prayers now and always.You raised yourself one hell of a son, and he touched so many lives!

Jennifer Williams

June 12, 2009

Thoughts and prayes go out to Desjon's family. His smile was contagious, Desjon was always cracking jokes, keeping everyone around him laughing and smiling. He will be missed by so many.....may he rest in peace.

Gillian Adams

June 12, 2009

It's been a few days and I still can't believe that I'll never talk to you or hear you laugh again. I feel so lucky to have had you as one of my best friends. I'm never going to forget the times we had together, all the memories that we share that some how only seem funny to us. You were such a good dad, and a great person. Thanks for making me smile when no one else could. I'll love you forever Dey...Rest in Peace!!

Angel Adams

June 12, 2009

My thoughts and prayers go out to Desjon's family right now at this most difficult time. We are all going to miss him, and his contagious laughter. Thank you Dey for being the friend that you were, always trying to tell a joke and make someone laugh. I don't think I will ever be able to hear Quagmire say "Giggity Giggity" again without thinking of you!! You were such a big part of my sisters life, and in turn my own, and I thank you for that. So rest in peace Desjon, and know that you will always be missed...and NEVER forgotten!!

Leonard&Robin Pharr

June 12, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Jay Bills

June 12, 2009

Desjon,
Your memory is still that of a great guy who was always had a laugh and liked having a good time, I'm always going to remember how you and my wife, Nina, would always do a little dance everytime you two saw each other. You will be missed deeply, But remembered always.

johnny walders

June 12, 2009

to a great person who passed away far too young....rest in peace bro!

robin schwarze-key

June 12, 2009

lisa,
words cannot express how saddened i was to hear about this tragedy. my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this darkest of times.

Andrea Simmons

June 12, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with Desjon's family and close friends. I was very saddened to hear this news and I will miss him. He will be missed by many...so many.

LaVera McClellan Green

June 12, 2009

Dear Cousin Phillip,Lisa and Family,
I remembered when I saw Desjon after many years at Derwin's family gathering. I had to hug him smiling at each other as I told Desjon I would send him that picture of him wearing his tan detective coat and hat only to remind him how much he had grown. We all had a good laugh. And as we left to our destination, how happy we were that day. Now, how sad we are to know that one of our family member has fallen in death. While he is sleeping, I hope for all to know and appreciate the gift of the resurrection as promised by none other than Jehovah God. We all have the opportunity to see him again. I look forward when we will celebrate his arrival in the future to come. I am not far from the hearts of you all, Lisa and family, I am with you in spirit, do not hesitate to call whenever you need consoling, for we all need comfort. Please cheerish the moments together and let each know just how much each family member needs and love each other as I do, always.....A loving cousin.

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