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George C. White

8/16/1935 - 8/6/2025

George C. White obituary, 8/16/1935-8/6/2025, Waterfordfu, CT

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8/16/1935

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8/6/2025

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George White Obituary

Waterford - George C. White, founder of the Eugene O'Neill Theater Center, passed away peacefully at his home in Waterford, Connecticut, Wednesday, August 6, 2025, with his loving wife Betsy by his side, ten days shy of his 90th birthday. For more than half a century, George forged a path for theater artists throughout the world. His contributions to the theater have influenced some of the greatest performers, writers, and directors of our time: August Wilson, John Guare, Lee Blessing, Lanford Wilson, Robert Redford, Edward Albee, Sam Shepard, Meryl Streep, Michael Douglas, Wendy Wasserstein, Christopher Durang, and John Patrick Shanley, among countless others, passed through the O'Neill, his classroom, or his rehearsal room.

The son of Nelson and Aida (Rovetti) White, George was born August 16, 1935, and raised in Waterford, just down the road from the Hammond Estate where he would eventually establish the O'Neill in 1964. He earned a B.A. from Yale University and an M.F.A. from the Yale School of Drama, having also attended the University of Paris (Sorbonne) and studied at the Shakespeare Institute in Stratford-upon-Avon, England.

He began his career in theater at 19, managing the International Ballet Festival in Nervi, Italy and stage managing for the Imperial Azuma Kabuki Company's 1955 World Tour. Inspired by his friendship with playwright Dale Wasserman, he began to envision a process by which theater artists could develop their work outside of the spotlight of Broadway and the established "tryout" process that existed at the time. His professional career includes 37 years as Founder and Chairman of the Eugene O'Neill Theater Center as well as a myriad of other accomplishments and endeavors.

George's founding of the O'Neill is a piece of theater legend. Sailing past the old Hammond Estate, he vowed to save the property from being burned for firefighting practice by the Town of Waterford, instead transforming it into a site for theatrical innovation. He would go on to forge lifelong personal and professional partnerships that shaped the American Theater for decades: Lloyd Richards, who ran the O'Neill's flagship program, the National Playwrights Conference, for 34 years as its first Artistic Director; Edith Oliver, the New Yorker theater and film critic who cemented the role of the dramaturg as the cornerstone of the O'Neill's developmental processes; Paulette Haupt, whom he tapped to run the National Music Theater Conference, the world's first new musical development program; Jim and Jane Henson and Rufus and Margo Rose, who planted the seeds of puppetry at the O'Neill early in its history; and Robert Redford, for whom the O'Neill served as a model for what would later become The Sundance Institute.

Thanks to George's leadership, the O'Neill was the recipient of numerous honors, among them two Tony Awards and the National Medal of Arts, which was awarded to the organization in 2014 by President Obama. George was the 2022 recipient of the O'Neill's Monte Cristo Award, annually bestowed on an individual whose body of work has made an indelible impact on the arts.

In addition to his responsibilities at the O'Neill, George served as Co-Chairman of the Theater Management Program at the Yale School of Drama from 1978 to 1992. He regularly directed plays in such venues as the Actors Theater of St. Paul, the Guthrie Theater, the Hartman Theater, the Annenberg Center, and the Hedgerow Theater. He was the Founding Chairman of the Sundance Institute and served as a member of the Tony Awards Nominating Committee and a panelist for the Theater and Opera-Music Theater Programs of the National Endowment for the Arts. He was inducted into the Theater Hall of Fame in 2011. He served on a number of theater, art, and music-related boards across the country, including the National Arts Council, Metropolitan Opera Guild, Arts and Business Council, New Dramatists, Center for Inter-American Relations, International Theater Institute, Connecticut Commission on the Arts, American Soviet Theater Initiative, Camargo Foundation, and Save Venice. George also served as Executive Director of the Johnny Mercer Foundation.

George's contributions to theater extended well beyond the borders of the United States. Beginning in 1972, he spearheaded cultural exchange efforts in countries such as the Soviet Union, the People's Republic of China, Australia, and Brazil, as well as the Caribbean. In Beijing, he directed a production of Eugene O'Neill's "Anna Christie" in 1984, and Meredith Wilson's "The Music Man" in 1987. He lectured throughout the world on behalf of the U.S. Information Agency. His international accomplishments were recognized by being awarded the Royal Swedish Order of the Polar Star from King Carl Gustaf and the French Republic's Chevalier des Artes et des Lettres.

George's interests and passions outside of theater ran wide and deep, and he took great pleasure in sharing them with anyone and everyone - from Yale football and the New York Yankees to history, boating, fishing and fencing; from wines across the world to Russian vodka, Jamaican rum and single malt scotch; from music and art to poetry and an endless supply of jokes. George was a celebrated raconteur, who shared his stories gleefully, complete with comic accents and bad punchlines.

Even after his retirement from the O'Neill in 2000, he remained engaged and involved with organizations at home and abroad. He was a member of the U.S. Coast Guard Auxiliary, serving as a Flotilla Commander, a quartermaster of the watch for "America's Tall Ship" Eagle, and National Auxiliary liaison for the Coast Guard Academy. He served on the boards of the Mystic Seaport, the Florence Academy of Art (Founding Chairman, 1999-2007), Mitchell College, and the Day Publishing Company. He was a member of Waterford's Representative Town Meeting, the Ariston and Thames (New London), Century (New York), and Cosmos (Washington) clubs as well as the Bohemian Grove. He was a Knight Grand Ufficiale Dott. of the Orders of Saints Maurice & Lazarus and a member of the Chevaliers du Tastevin.

No account of George's life would be complete without mention of the love of his life, Elizabeth "Betsy" Conant Darling, whom he met in Simsbury, Connecticut in 1955, and to whom he was married for 67 years. Betsy traveled the world with him, was his partner in building the O'Neill and enjoying most of the things he loved in life – opera, art, food, sailing – and shared his life with their family. In addition to Betsy, George is survived by his brother Nelson H. White; his three children and their spouses, George and Jennifer (Medby) White, Caleb and Elizabeth (Mank) White and Juliette (Darling White) and Jeffrey Hyson; ten grandchildren: Darby, Eliza, Liam, Faith, Zoe, Sam, Troy, Olivia, Ellie and Reilly; as well as nieces and nephews, great-nieces and nephews, and great-great nieces and nephews. He leaves behind an enduring legacy in the hearts of those who knew him, and in the spirits of those around the world touched by his remarkable cultural influence.

Relatives and friends are invited to calling hours from 4 to 7 p.m. Tuesday, Aug. 12, at Fulton-Theroux Funeral Services, 181 Ocean Avenue, New London; and to a memorial service at 11:30 a.m. Wednesday, Aug. 13, at Evans Hall at Cummings Art Center, Connecticut College, 270 Mohegan Avenue Parkway, New London. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Eugene O'Neill Theater Center, the Lyman Allyn Museum, or the Mystic Seaport.

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Published by The Day on Aug. 10, 2025.

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Dr. Joseph Geraci

August 18, 2025

A dear friend who left me with fond memories.

Lorca Peress

August 14, 2025

Thank you, George, for establishing NTI, it changed my life and helped build my career.

Denise Pence Boockvor

August 13, 2025

The women of The Rehearsal Club remember George well. Before his work at the O'Neal Center, he sat on the board of TRC -- originating in 1913, it closed in 1979.

Through the creative efforts of our women heightening the awareness for the loss and need, George stepped up to be part of our panel discussion on housing at TRC's Centennial in 2013, followed by a celebration at Sardis (group pictured below).

The Centennial consisted of 4 days of events. The first at Lincoln Center featured a trailer for the documentary (yet to be finalized) and a performance of "Good Girls Only," the anthem written by Charles Leipart, composed by the late John Kroner.

Although the full musical has yet to be produced, the song is used in the audiobook, "Cinderellas of West 53rd Street: Stories from the Legendary RC," an anthology of memoirs written by and for TRC, Copyright help by Boockvor Productions (www.boockvorproductions.com). TRC newly incorporated in 2019 www.rehearsalclubnyc.com.

Thank you to George for a life of service in the arts. We will always remember him well. RIP
Denise Pence
TRC VC 2007-2014; Chair 2014 - 2019

Treasured And Beloved Bouquet

George & Meg Kimball

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Lee Kelley

August 12, 2025

Little known perhaps, among George White's long list of theatre credits, was his service on the Board of New York's legendary Rehearsal Club (the inspiration for STAGE DOOR). In 1974, I met him during my audition for the Club, and ever after, during my residence there, he was inquisitive, kind and supportive of my career efforts.
In 2013, long after the Club had closed, as Chair of the Club's Founding Centennial Celebration, I contacted him and he readily agreed to speak at our Lincoln Center event. It was wonderful to see him again, and I will always remember his kindness, talent, and dedication to the theater.

Ian Brown

August 12, 2025

I met George and Betsy fifty-one years ago in 1974 when the Scottish Arts Council sent me with Drama Director John Faulkner to observe what George with Lloyd Richards at his side had developed at the O´Neill. Inspired by him, we set up parallel work in Scotland which was imitated throughout Britain. His brilliant initiative has influenced the development of more playwrights throughout every part of Britain than I can list. His inspiration lies behind the major playwrights development programme in my country. (See Playwrights Studio Scotland website, a vibrant living initiative that would never have been without George´s vitality and theatrical imagination. He was an international star and creative motivator.)

Deepest condolences to Betsy and the family from us in Scotland who owe him more than I can say.

Admiral Bob Papp, 24th Commandant of the USCG

August 11, 2025

George White was a great "Shipmate". For those who understand the term, you need no further explanation. During my three years commanding EAGLE, George was a mainstay in our crew and Coast Guard family. He prepared us for our visit to St. Petersburg, Russia in 1996 (While giving me a tutorial on Russian vodka!) and had personal contacts reach out to us upon arrival in the port.
At home, as a Coast Guard Auxiliarist and qualified Quartermaster of the Watch, he often relieved crew members on holidays so they might spend time with their families.
I will always be grateful for his sponsorship of EAGLE crew Christmas parties, held at the Eugene O'Neill complex. And his insight into the world of New York Broadway was an education for me.
Fair winds, Shipmate...and love to Betsey and the family.

Doug Teeson, RADM USCG (retired)

August 11, 2025

George was a friend, a mentor, and an inspiration to me, especially in his selfless service to the Coast Guard Academy and Auxiliary, The Day, and Mystic Seaport Museum. Phyllis joins me in sending love and condolences to Betsy and family.

Scot Graham

August 11, 2025

George White was a true servant leader and patriot.... empowering others, building community, and fostering public enrichment. His service was a blessing for the greater good and an invaluable legacy.
Scot Graham
Captain USCG (Ret)
Fort Myers, FL

Carlo Porazzi

August 11, 2025

I had the privilege to work the Playwrights Conference in the summer of 1979. It was an honor to meet and speak with Mr. White on occasion during that time. I worked with Boomie, met some incredible folks, and remained friends with a few to this day. Mr. White was a legend then and will remain so along with his vision, the O'Neill Center. Rest in peace sir and condolences to the White family.

Dick Bruno

August 10, 2025

George meant so much to all of us, especially the "locals", who like me, enjoyed PRICELESS experiences serving the O'Neill.

Jim Walters/Diane Lubich

August 10, 2025

Dear Betsy,

Our deepest sympathy to you on the loss of George.
We will always remember your kind hospitality to us October 2023. The tour of the Eugene O'Neill Theatre and all of us going to Mory's for dinner were once in a lifetime events.
Our love and thoughts are of you.

Diane and Jim

Gina debona Carter

August 10, 2025

George was a great friend of my mom carol debona. May he rest in peace

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