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Gerard Edward Turner

5/28/1931 - 12/4/2025

Gerard Edward Turner obituary, 5/28/1931-12/4/2025, Durham, CT

BORN

5/28/1931

DIED

12/4/2025

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Doolittle Funeral Home

14 Old Church Street

Middletown, Connecticut

Gerard Turner Obituary

Durham - Gerard Edward Turner, 94, of Durham, passed away peacefully Dec. 4, 2025. Born May 28, 1931, to Cecil and Anne Turner in New London, he built a long and meaningful life rooted in dedication to family, community, and joyful humor. He was predeceased by his brother, John "Jack"; and sisters, Elizabeth "Betty" and Marilyn. He was also predeceased by close family friend Stephen J. Burka.

He is survived by his loving wife, Ann "Nancy" Turner; and their four children, Gerard, Christopher (Lori), Jeffrey (Kathy), and Timothy Turner; along with his ten grandchildren, Regina, Patrick, Isabelle, Jack, Selma, Gigi, Brandon, Courtney, Seamus and Malcolm.

Gerry and love of his life Nancy were married April 11, 1959, at St. Mary Star of the Sea Catholic Church in New London. After graduating Bulkeley School in New London, Gerry proudly served in the U.S. Airforce in the 1950s.

Gerry spent his professional career as a Retirement Counselor at Northeast Utilities. Gerry worked 38 years assisting others in their retirement planning with tact, sensitivity and humor. Outside of work, he was an enthusiastic sports fan, especially when it came to his beloved New York Giants. Whether celebrating a big win or agonizing another tough loss, he brought humor, passion, and loyal spirit to every game day.

One of the greatest joys in his life was spending time with his wife, children, grandchildren, cherished family members and lifelong friends. So many memories were made filled with love and laughter, particularly at Columbia Lake, where the family vacationed each summer.

Above all, Gerard was a devoted husband, father, and friend. His family, along with all who knew him, will remember his quick wit, generous heart, and the way he could make any room brighter simply by being in it. Gerry's legacy is one of laughter, kindness, and unwavering love-gifts he shared freely and which will continue to live on in all who cherished him.

Family and friends may call from 5 to 7 p.m. Thursday, Dec. 11, at Doolittle Funeral Home, 14 Old Church Street, Middletown. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10 a.m. Friday, Dec. 12, at Notre Dame Church, 272 Main Street, Durham. Burial will follow in Mica Hill Cemetery in Durham where full military honors will be accorded. All who were touched by Gerard's life are warmly welcomed to join in celebrating his memory.

To share memories or send condolences to the family, please visit www.doolittlefuneralservice.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on Dec. 9, 2025.

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272 Main Street, Durham, CT 06422

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Lisa LaLima

Yesterday

Aunt Nancy, So sorry to hear of the passing of Uncle Jerry. I have such fond memories of him and will always cherish them. Sending my condolences to you and your family. Lisa (DiMaggio) LaLima

Kristin O´Connor

Yesterday

"Whenever I see your smiling face, I have to smile myself, cause I love you"-JT
That´s what Uncle Gerry did, he made us smile. He will be greatly missed. Prayers and peace to Aunt Nancy and the boys

Bill Fowler

December 10, 2025

A person that departs from this earth never truly leaves,for they are still alive in our hearts and minds,through us,they live on. your Loved One will be missed and He will never be forgotten,may his soul rest in peace.
What a Nice Guy, He was always there when you needed Him.
Bill Fowler CL&P

Kerrie O'Connor Carlo Porazxi

December 9, 2025

The world lost one of the biggest lights radiating within uncle Gerry´s heart.. but he´s light will be carried on with his family and friends. Sending everyone so much love and prayers

Lynnda Herrmann

December 9, 2025

Jack and I were saddened to hear of your Dad's passing. Please accept our deepest condolences to you and your family...Lynda and Jack Herrmann

Dave Fairman

December 9, 2025

Rest in Peace Gerry

Devon Bushey

December 9, 2025

Aunt Nancy, Jerry, Chris, Jeff, and Tim- You have our deepest love and support. We all will forever cherish precious memories of a man so kind, so very funny, and such a beloved family member.
You are all very loved,
Devon, Stephen,
Karena, and Shannon

Devon Bushey

December 9, 2025

Aunt Nancy, Jerry, Chris, Jeff, and Tim- You have our deepest love and support. We all will forever cherish our precious memories of a man so kind, so very funny, and such a beloved family member.
You are all very loved,
Devon, Stephen, Karena, and Shannon

Devon Bushey

December 9, 2025

Aunt Nancy, Jerry, Chris, Jeff, and Tim. You all have our deepest condolences. We all will forever cherish our precious memories with a such a kind, so very funny, loving, and such a beloved O´Connor/Turner family member.
You are all very loved,
Devon, Stephen, Karena, and Shannon

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