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Gustav E. "Gus" Dessaules Jr. obituary, Pawcatuck, CT

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Gustav Dessaules Obituary

Pawcatuck - Gustav "Gus" E. Dessaules Jr., 84, beloved husband of Patricia (Carey) Dessaules for 61 years, of Greenhaven Road, Pawcatuck, passed away at his home Wednesday, Aug. 27, 2025, with his family surrounding him. Gus was the son of the late Elise and Gustav Dessaules Sr. He was born in The Bronx, N.Y., and in his early childhood moved to Stonington with his family.

Gus was part of the first graduating Class of Stonington High School and shortly after, joined the U.S. Marine Corps. He was always proud to call himself a U.S. Marine. He was the owner and operator of Pawcatuck Auto Body for many years and was a master of his craft. Gus was an avid cyclist and it wasn't uncommon to see him riding down Greenhaven Road everyday on his lunch break. For those that knew, Gus was a collector of all things, but his car collection was his pride.

In addition to his wife Patricia, he leaves behind his six children: Gus, Kurt, Gretchen, Rachael, and Jeremy Dessaules and Elise Adcock (husband Joe), all of Pawcatuck; his sister Elizabeth Walker of Westerly; nine grandchildren: Jacob, Jonathan, Caitlyn, William, Tia, Lexi, Maizie, Olivia and Gavin; and several nieces and nephews. Gustav was predeceased by his daughter Erika Marie; and brother Erwin Dessaules.

Visiting hours will be held from 5 to 7 p.m. Tuesday, Sept. 9, at Gaffney-Dolan Funeral Home, 59 Spruce Street, Westerly. A Funeral Service will take place at 11 a.m. Wednesday, Sept. 10, in the funeral home. Burial will follow at St. Sebastian Cemetery, Westerly. For online condolences, please visit www.gaffneydolanfuneralhome.com.

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Published by The Day on Sep. 7, 2025.

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Ernie Greenwood

Earlier today

Gus was a real gentleman and a brother. A friend to all who met him. His smiling face will be missed by all. GOD be with his family.

Mary Silva

Yesterday

Patty and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Such a long wonderful life. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family

Jean and Rick Serafino

Yesterday

Our deepest sympathy Liz, for you and your loved ones. May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
It sounds like he was a good man with so much to offer. May he rest in peace! And May you all find peace in the memories he created along the way.
Sincerely, Rick and Jean Serafino

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Valerie Giuliano

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Lori, Bob and Justin Terry

September 7, 2025

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. So sorry for your loss

Bill & Philly Horne

September 7, 2025

Patty,
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Thinking of you and wishing you comfort.

Nick Verzillo

September 7, 2025

A kind thoughtful person filled with plenty of stories to share. He will missed by so many.

ronda campbell

September 7, 2025

Gus and Kurt so sry for your and your families loss may your dad rip. thoughts are with you all

Mary Luzzi

September 7, 2025

Such a nice man, helped me out several times with car damage. When he finished them they looked like they came out of a showroom. And he was kind and considerate. Today the world has one less
Gentleman. Rest in peace Gus.

Wayne and Ann Wilcox

September 7, 2025

Gus, Kurt and the family,
We send our thoughts and prayers to you in the precious loss of your Father. He will be missed so much, often seeing him at Pawcatuck Auto in the past.

Dave Fairman

September 7, 2025

Rest in Peace Gus

Walter Sheldon

September 6, 2025

To the Dessaules Family

So sorry to see that Gus has passed. Gus was a quiet voice that spoke with calm and integrity. I would see him at Westerly Yacht Club auto show and occaisonally stop at the autobody shop. He will be missed by many.

William Bucko

September 6, 2025

Gussie and I are grandfathers to Lexi, Maizie, Olivia and Gavin. We shared all of their birthdays and Christmasses in years past. We enjoyed all of the Fourth of July parties at Patty and Gessies home with friends and family. Gus loved his many automobiles that he restored, especially the Auburn Speedster. He was a master crsftsman not only with the cars that he workjed on but with all of the many people he met on the way through life. I will always remember Gussie for his kind and gentle ways and especially for our close and longtime friendship!

Bob & Patty Martin

September 5, 2025

Our deepest condolences to Gus's family. He was the best! I always loved talking to him at the shop! Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

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