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Herbert Eldridge III

1950 - 2016

BORN

1950

DIED

2016

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New London, Connecticut

Herbert Eldridge Obituary

Griswold - Herbert Eldridge III, 66, of Griswold, died Saturday evening, Sept. 17, 2016, at The William W. Backus Hospital in Norwich, after a long illness.

He was born April 18, 1950, in New London, the son of Herbert Eldridge Jr. and Ethel (Myers) Eldridge. He was the husband of Dianna (Smith) Eldridge who survives him.

Herb was a graduate of Waterford High School and was retired from the Waterford Police Department. After retiring from Waterford, he was employed as a policeman at the Mohegan Sun Tribal Police Department. He later worked for the Secor Automotive Group till shortly before his passing.

He was a longtime member of the Benevolent Lodge of Elks #360 in New London and a member of the Interstate Police Officers Association. A car enthusiast, Herb belonged to the Dream Machine Car Club and attended numerous car shows. He had owned several antique cars.

In addition to his wife, Dianna; he is survived by two sons, Andrew Eldridge of Montville and David Eldridge and his partner, Denise Loomis, of Jewett City; a brother, Richard of Waterford; and two grandchildren, Madison and Mariah Eldridge.

He was predeceased by his father, Herbert Eldridge Jr.; and earlier this month by his mother, Ethel (Myers) Eldridge.

A graveside service will be conducted at 11 a.m. Friday, in Jordan Cemetery, Waterford. Relatives and friends are invited to attend. There will be no calling hours.

Please visit www.neilanfuneralhome to leave a condolence message for Herb's family.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on Sep. 22, 2016.

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John Kolasa

November 29, 2016

Dianna and Andrew, Sorry to hear about Herb. I Just found out yesterday. We were out of town when he passed.

Tom Tomaszek and Family

September 26, 2016

The Eldridge Family

So sorry for your loss. May all those happy and joyful memories help you during this very difficult time.
To our dear friend, Herb all those happy memories we have since our teenage years, whether is was school, proms, fixing and building our cars, double dating, our weddings, hanging out at our favorite spots, joining the Elks together, celebrating our birthdays only a couple of days apart, and the births of our children and then watching our children and grandchildren grown. You were known and respected to our children as Uncle, because of that great and long friendship and also by our extended families. You will be truly missed by all of us who had the great pleasure and honor of truly knowing you Herb. You were always there and did so much to help all of us whether it was in the middle of the night or during the day you were there and helped everyone in such a positive way. RIP our dear friend, Herb, until be meet again. We Love You!!!

Gail Grillo

September 23, 2016

Dianna, So sorry for your loss.
It is very hard to go thru.
Call me anytime if you need to talk.
Nick and Herbie went thru the same thing.
It is hard for others that have not gone thru it to understand.

Gail Grillo

Erin Shaw

September 23, 2016

Andrew,
I am so sorry for your loss. Your dad was a great guy. Please know that I am thinking about you.

Romana and Chuck Primus

September 23, 2016

Herb was a special guy. He brightened our day every time he came in to visit us.

September 23, 2016

Diane,ANdrew,and David, I am deeply sorry about Herb's death. I wanted to be with you today, to say goodbye, to him, but just not able to be there after my recent hip surgery. My thoughts and prayers will be with you. And, when I am back to driving I will come and spend some time with you,Diane. I have such fond memories of all of you and Herb, when our kids were growing up together!! Love, Cele Frank

Paul and Kathy Buskey

September 23, 2016

Our deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Paul and Kathy Buskey

September 22, 2016

Dianna,
My condolences to you and your family with Herbie's passing. Above everything he loved his family, his work as a police officer and his many, many friends, of which are a large part of the car community (from Up and down the east coast and beyond. Herbie, R.I.P. .

Rick Jenks
Summerfield, NC
(Formally of Connecticut)

September 22, 2016

Deepest sympathies to his family and loved ones. Always the first to lend a hand, a heart of gold. Herb will be missed by all.

Susan & Michael Mariano
Waterfrod

Gina Debona/carter

September 22, 2016

So sorry about herb may he r.i.p.

Ed and Gretchen Watson

September 22, 2016

We are so sorry for your loss. He will be greatly missed. He will always be Uncle Herbie to me, as he adopted me as his work niece. Those late night coffee runs will always stay with me, as well as Sunday morning radio church stations. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Jim & Peg Everett

September 22, 2016

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Chuck and Roslyn Haney

September 22, 2016

We are thinking about all of Herbie's family at this most difficult time.

Guy and Jackie Putman

September 21, 2016

Mike called and told us about Herbie passing. We were so sorry to hear the news. Sending our love and sympathy to you Dianna and family. He will be missed by all. Had many of great conversations at the hardware store. With Love.

Clayton Sizer

September 21, 2016

A person with a great heart and sole both on the job and off a great person to know and call a friend. He will be sadly missed by many.

Eric Strickland

September 21, 2016

One of my best friends for 60 years, going to miss him

Bob Janovic

September 20, 2016

A great guy, hard working and next to his wife and family loved his cars.

Wayne Harris

September 20, 2016

I grew up with and attended school with Herbie and his brother. I later worked with Herb at Mohegan Sun. My condolences to his family.

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