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Irma Zelda Flitt

12/5/1931 - 8/28/2025

Irma Zelda Flitt obituary, 12/5/1931-8/28/2025, Mystic, CT

BORN

12/5/1931

DIED

8/28/2025

FUNERAL HOME

Thomas L. Neilan & Sons Funeral Home - New London

12 Ocean Avenue

New London, Connecticut

Irma Flitt Obituary

Mystic - It is with deep sadness that we announce the passing of our beautiful mother, Irma Zelda Flitt of Mystic, Aug. 28, 2025.

Irma was born Dec. 5,1931, in Hartford, to the late Jacob and Bessie Snitman. Her marriage to her husband, Alvin "Sonny" Flitt of 65 years was filled with fun, love and the blessing of long, beautiful friendships and closeness of family. She is survived by her daughter and son-in-law, Leslie and Harvey Orenstein; and her son and daughter-in-law, Howard and Laurie Flitt. Irma's grandchildren: Stacey Gordon, Jessica Copeland, Jason Orenstein, Leah Marin and Adena Barber and their spouses Lee, Alan, Mary, Joe and Jared showered her with nine great-grandchildren. Michael and Olivia Gordon, Jordan and Avery Marin, Joshua and Emily Copeland, Benjamin and Hannah Barber and Jaxson Orenstein were the love and joy of her life.

Irma spent the last seven months of her life at Masonicare in Mystic where she enjoyed meeting new friends and competing and winning poker matches. Our parents had a special gift for meeting people through travel, many summers in Siesta Key and in their community who became treasured lifelong friends, and our mother continued to be blessed by their friendships.

Irma will be missed by all the people that she loved and loved her in return. She was a very special person!

Donations can be made to Hadassah or to Temple Emanu-El in Waterford.

Graveside services will take place at noon Sunday, Aug. 31, at the Hebrew Benevolent Cemetery, Middle Road, Preston. Condolences may be left on Irma's memorial page at www.neilanfuneralhome.com.

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Published by The Day on Aug. 30, 2025.

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MaryTimandLilly

August 31, 2025

Dear Irma..
I was call you 2 weeks ago and check on you and you was so happy to heard my voice.and I told you we will stop by visit you some day..you went so fast..i could not think....
Leslie,so so sorry for your lost lovely Mother Irma..
MaryandTim and Lilly

Rhonda Santer

August 31, 2025

Dear Leslie and Howie:
My sincere condolences on the passing of your mom. She was a great lady and I remember her fondly. She can now resume her mah jong games with her BFF's . One more thing...she made the best damn chicken soup I've ever had.

Warm regards.
Rhonda

Joann Martin and family

August 31, 2025

I will always remember Irma and Al for their beautiful friendship with my parents. Caring, loving and kind to all! RIP dear Irma. Our deepest sympathy to all of your friends and family!

Joyce Gardner

August 30, 2025

Sweet, vivacious Irma. Will never forget the times I used to bring your good friend Helen to visit you, playing cards and lunch together. Celebrate with your hubby, relatives and Helen. SIP Irma!

Anne Wernau

August 30, 2025

Irma was a classy, well informed vibrant and active woman for as long as I have known her. She was thoughtfully and personally responding to Facebook posts until just a short time ago ! I am grieving the loss of this amazing woman along with you all. Please accept my heartfelt condolences.

Patricia Filippetti Hnat

August 30, 2025

Rest in peace, dear Irma. I will always remember your friendship and kindness. My condolences to your family who brought you so much joy.

Mark Fetcher

August 30, 2025

So very sorry for your loss.

Dave Fairman

August 30, 2025

Rest in Peace Irma

Libie Attwater

August 30, 2025

Irma will be very much missed. She had a soft place in all of our family´s hearts. She was a very special person!

Love,
Rob and Libie Attwater

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