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Irma Streeter Obituary

Groton - Irma Jean Streeter, 75, of Groton, passed away unexpectedly and peacefully at the Lawrence + Memorial Hospital in New London, Saturday, March 11, 2023, with family members at her side.

She was born at the Submarine Base, Groton, the daughter of Samuel and Marjorie (Collins) Stanley.

Irma graduated from Groton's Fitch High School in 1965. She graduated from Mohegan Community College in 1983, earning an Associate's Degree in Early Childhood Education. She also graduated from University of Connecticut in 1994, receiving a Bachelor Degree in General Studies. While attending college, she worked as the Director of the Beehive Nursery School at the First Congregational Church in Groton from 1976-1984. She was employed as a Paralegal at Groton's General Dynamics Electric Boat for 25 years, retiring in 2009.

She married James L. Streeter March 7, 1964, at the Poquonnock Bridge Baptist Church in Groton. They celebrated their 59th wedding anniversary just a few days before her passing. Their love for each other was unwavering, and they did almost everything together – It was a rare sight to see one without the other.

Besides her husband, Irma is survived by her loving family including her daughter, Sandra Streeter of Groton; her son and daughter-in-law James and Lori Streeter of Canterbury; granddaughters, Megan Shaffer (Sean Shaffer) of North Carolina, and Michelle Fallahi (Mahdi Fallahi) of Putnam; great-grandchildren, Hunter, Lucas, and Riley Dorshimer; brother, Robert Stanley of Jewett City; and sister-in-law, Dorothy Streeter of Groton. She was predeceased by her parents; brother, Neil Stanley; and sister, Joyce Ford.

She was actively involved in Groton community service, including being an elected member of the Town of Groton's Representative Town Meeting for 10 years; a member of the City of Groton's Planning and Zoning Commission for over 10 years and secretary for the City of Groton Republican Committee for 15 years. She was also a founding member of the Groton Bank Open House Days at Bill Memorial Library, where she held a variety of leadership roles for four years. She was a Girl Scout leader in Groton during the 1970s and also a founding member of the Avery Point Lighthouse Society which was instrumental in saving, restoring, and relighting Groton's Avery Point Lighthouse. It is also important to note that Irma assisted her husband in researching and proofreading the historical articles he wrote prior to their publication in the Groton Times newspaper.

Her granddaughter, Megan, described "Grammie" Streeter in this way, "My grandma was on this earth for 75 amazing years. She was a teacher of children, a lover of cats, an incredible blueberry jam maker, a teapot collector, wine aficionado, a beautiful gardener, an amazing crocheter, a wife, a mom, a grandma and a great-grandma".

Speaking of gardening, Irma and Jim had a running joke regarding Jim's calling Black-eyed Susan flowers "Crooked-eye Daisies". Her family remembers Irma spending quiet moments reading and crafting. They especially recall her various and, sometimes non-sensible, casserole inventions!

Irma enjoyed organizing various family gatherings and celebrations and was considered the string that held the family together. She especially loved spending time with her granddaughters around Christmas time making various types of cookies. Irma cherished their two recently deceased cats, Gypsy and Nuggets.

She was a devoted UConn basketball fan and was looking forward to the UConn teams playing in this year's playoff games. She also rooted for the New York Yankees baseball team.

Jim and Irma especially enjoyed spending time together at their second home in Groton, Vt. She loved picking berries from their large blueberry patch on their Vermont property and making jam to share with family and friends. Martha and Rusty Crown and their family of Groton, Vt., became an almost extended family to Irma and Jim, and they enjoyed the many trips they made with Martha and Rusty throughout the country.

Irma was intelligent, kind and an inspiration to her family and all who knew her. She can best be described as being an all- around sweet and wonderful person. She will be sorely missed, but never forgotten, by her family and the wealth of friends she made throughout the years.

Calling hours are from 4 to 6 p.m. Sunday, March 19, at Byles-Groton Memorial Home, 310 Thames Street, Groton.

A special service will be held for her at 11 a.m. Monday, March 20, at the First Congregational Church, 162 Monument Street, Groton.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to either The Cystic Fibrosis Foundation, 4550 Montgomery Avenue, Suite 1100N, Bethesda, MD 20814 or The American Heart Association, P.O. Box 840692, Dallas, TX 75284. Please visit www.byles.com to sign the guest book or share a memory with the family.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on Mar. 16, 2023.

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Hank Buermeyer

May 1, 2024

So sorry to hear about Erma's passing. My sympathies to Jim. Hank

Evelyn Whitman-Gonzalez

March 10, 2024

Jim my thoughts are with you and your family as the first anniversary of Irma's passing approaches. Let the many memories of all the years she had with you fill your hearts with joy.
Evelyn Whitman-Gonzalez

Nick Cristello

April 6, 2023

Jim, Sandy, Jim, just heard today and was sad to hear of your loss.Irma was a wonderful woman. She was always kind to me. Her smile always made me feel warm inside. A true lady and a bright light in this world. It is a darker place without Mrs. Streeter!! Your Old Neighbor, Nick Cristello

Robin Shinn

March 30, 2023

Jim, Sandy, & Jimmy
So very sorry for the loss of Irma. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this sad time.

Don Deane

March 28, 2023

Jim,
I'm so sorry to hear of Irma's passing It was a shock to say the least please accept my sincere condolences all prayers to you and your Family.
Don Deane

Sandra & James Sinkowski

March 25, 2023

Dear Jim and Family.... Our hearts are broken. Along with you, your family and friends, we mourn the loss of a sweet, incredible woman. We thank Irma and you for letting us be a part of your lives. With our heartfelt sympathy, friendship and love,
Sandy and Jim

Walt Jay

March 24, 2023

I was shocked and saddened to learn of Irma's sudden death. I cherish the teapot she gave me when I moved away. She was a great paralegal and even better person. It is so sad when the truly nice, gentle caring people die to soon.

Don and Judy Walsh

March 19, 2023

Jim. I was so surprised to learn that Irma passed away. I am sure the wonderful memories you have had together will bring you comfort. Irma was warm and quiet, but I always thought of her as the "wind beneath your wings." Our deepest sympathy. Don and Judy Walsh

Dan Tramontozzi

March 19, 2023

Jim, I'm so sorry and shocked to hear about Irma's passing. You always talked so dearly of her. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. God bless. Dan

Al & Linda Dion

March 19, 2023

Jim,
We were so sorry to hear of Irma´s passing.
May all the wonderful memories you´ve shared over the years bring you comfort.
Our prayers are with you and your family.

Nancy Barnhart

March 18, 2023

Jim & Family,

Tom and I are in shock of the sudden passing of a very dear lady, friend, and the love of your life. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May the wonderful and numerous memories help ease some of your pain in your heart and the hearts of Sandra, Jim & Lori, & family. I will always remember her smile and her quiet mannerism. RIP sweet Irma!

Nancy & Tom Barnhart

Jacqueline Beebe

March 18, 2023

Jim and family, Jackie and I are So sorry to hear of the passing of Irma. She was such a nice person who will be missed by all that knew her. May God be with you and family at this very difficult time. Jackie and Bill Beebe

Jody & Denise DeCarolis

March 18, 2023

Jim and Family, Our deepest sympathy and prayers to you and your family.

Susan Wallgren Arnols

March 17, 2023

Jim, So sorry for your loss.

John Scott & Rafael Burgos

March 17, 2023

Rafael and I are so sorry to learn of Irma´s passing. She was a true gem and a huge loss to the community. Our thoughts are with you and your family.

Renee LaCourse Marquand

March 17, 2023

So sorry for your loss. I grew up with Irma on North Road. I will always remember her as a quiet sweet person.

L. Michael Clancy

March 17, 2023

I did not know Irma but I did know Jim when he worked at Groton City PD and I worked at Groton Town PD. Jim I am so sorry to hear about your beloved wife. God Bless you and your family at this painful hour of loss. May Irma RIP. With sympathy.

Frank J Liberty

March 17, 2023

My deepest sympathy, Jim.

Lily DeLia

March 17, 2023

Dear Jim, Sandy and Jim and Lori,
We off you our deepest condolences on your loss. I have known Irma since a young teen, babysitting Sandy and Jimmy. As an adult, Nick and I have had the pleasure of a new friendship with Irma and Jim through shared interests. Her sweet smile and calm presence will always be remembered and we pray you will feel the Lord’s love upon you.

Carol Church

March 17, 2023

Such a good person and a nice lady. I always enjoyed her Christmas card notes. May you find peace in your wonderful memories of Irma.

Fran Snyder-Szegda

March 17, 2023

Dear Jim and family
I am so sorry for your grief. We all grew up together in groton city. Erma was a sweet and beautiful lady.

Warmly Fran Snyder Szegda

David Brown

March 17, 2023

My condolences, Jim. What an accomplished lady. She will be in my prayers.

Ken and Jane Moriarty

March 17, 2023

Jim and Family Our deepest sympathies to you and your family

Raymond p Blackwood jr

March 16, 2023

Jim Very sorry to hear of your loss. Your in our thoughts and prayers

Freda and Peter Trafaconda

March 16, 2023

So sorry for your loss Jim she will be sadly missed by a great many prayers Go out to you and the family.

Ed Daley

March 16, 2023

Jim, I am so sorry for your loss. I am keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Ed Daley

Matt & Karen Morton

March 16, 2023

Jim, Karen & I were shocked to hear about Irma's passing. She was a great lady and will be missed by everyone that knew her. There aren't enough words to express how we feel. God bless.

Bonnie Giesler

March 16, 2023

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Bill Blaisdell

March 15, 2023

Irma was a very special person and made the world a better place. You and your family are in our prayers as you carry the grief that came so suddenly. Bill and Sue Blaisdell

Valentino Fazi

March 15, 2023

Jimmy and Family..........Lynda and I are so sorry to hear about Irma´s passing. She was a great neighbor and friend. Just know our hearts are with you always.......Irma will be sadly missed by all who knew her.......Eternal Rest Irma.

Margaret Hirsch

March 15, 2023

Jim, I am so sorry to hear of Irma's passing. I always enjoyed our brief, random encounters about town, and will miss seeing her with you. Keeping you in my thoughts.

March 15, 2023

Jim and Sandra
Words, no matter how kind, will always fall short. They may not be able to relieve the heartache, but those who care for you pray for your peace and comfort daily. May the memories you shared with her last a lifetime.

Your friends at the South East CT Community Center of the Blind.

Groton Public Library

March 15, 2023

Jim, No words can express our sorrow upon hearing this news. Wishing you comfort, love and peace in the days ahead.

Marcia and Todd Gipstein

March 14, 2023

What a classy lady! They don't make 'em like her any more. She will be missed by so many who loved her. Such a loss. Our prayers are for you and your family, Jim.

Stu Miller

March 14, 2023

To Sandra and the entire Streeter family, Sue and I are sorry for your loss. May God comfort you at this difficult time.
Stuart Miller

Boni Mcgann

March 14, 2023

Jim and Family so sorry to hear about Irma prayers and thoughts are with you and the family´s

Steve Mihok

March 14, 2023

Jim, I'm sorry and shocked to hear of Irma's passing. My condolences to you at this very difficult time.

Garen Kenny

March 14, 2023

So sorry to hear of Irmas passing,such a sweet woman.

Judith Paradis

March 14, 2023

Although not a lot of contact as adults I know you were a sweetheart and will be terribly missed by so many, dear cousin Irma. I regret not making more contact, if only on the Facebook page. You are gone way too soon.

Andrew Parrella

March 14, 2023

My deepest sympathy to you Jim on the loss of Irma. She was a bright ray of sunshine for all who knew her. May you gain strength as each day passes and may your memories together give joy through this difficult time.

Ray Sciarra

March 14, 2023

My condolences to the Streeter family n loved ones

Kenny Shinn

March 14, 2023

Deepest sympathy to the Streeter family. Thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time.

Evelyn Whitman

March 13, 2023

There's no words to soothe your sorrow. I am so grateful to have met and spent some time with Irma. My condolences to you and the children
Evelyn Whitman

Bob Champagne

March 13, 2023

My sincerest condolences to the entire Streeter Family

Marc A Greenleaf JR

March 13, 2023

Most of my memories are as a little boy and my mind immediately thinks, what a Kind and Loving Mother. My Love, Condolences and Heart goes out to all of the family.
Marc Greenleaf Jr

Lolly Stoddard

March 13, 2023

We are so sorry to hear of Irma´s passing. You both were attached at the hip and cannot fathom your loss. Our hearts break with yours. Deepest condolences, Lolly and Duncan Dtoddard

Nancy Kent Adams

March 13, 2023

Jim, so sorry for the loss of Irma. Another Angel entering those pearly gates. Condolences to you and the family. Nancy Kent Adams

Dave Campo

March 13, 2023

So sorry for your loss Jim! TIzp Irma and condolences to the family!!!

Peter Swift

March 13, 2023

Jim, and, remaining family: Jill and I are very sorry for your loss. Know that we are praying for your sadness to go away. Peter and Jill.

Patrick Roche

March 13, 2023

Jim so sorry for your loss. She will be missed.

Gary Poe

March 13, 2023

So very sorry to hear this news. My condolences, Jim. She will be fondly remembered by all who knew her.

Victor Suarez

March 13, 2023

So sorry to hear about her passing.she will be missed by many. My prayers and condolences go out to Jim, the family and friends.

Elaine Costello

March 13, 2023

Our deepest sympathy to Jimmy and his family on the loss of Irma. She was always so warm and pleasant and could tell her own favorite family stories whenever she could. Rest in peace,Irma. Bob and Elaine Costello

Dianne (Morton) Kexel

March 13, 2023

So sorry to hear of Irmas passing. Peace to the family. alot of good memories of the fun we all had in our school years. Blessing to you Jim and the kids.

Cherrie Buscher(Morton)

March 13, 2023

To Jimmy and the family,

I was so sadden to hear of the passing of Irma. She was a great friend all through school and life.
We had so much fun growing up together.
She will be missed. Prayers for you all.

Marie A. Carmenati

March 13, 2023

Jim, I am so very sorry for the loss of your dear Irma. She was a truly kind and thoughtful person who was loved by everyone who knew her even a little. She will be greatly missed.

Paula Timpano

March 13, 2023

Jim and family,
Our deepest condolences to you. So sorry to hear of Irma´s passing.
Tony & Paula Timpano

Estelle Leandri

March 13, 2023

Jim,
I am sending you my thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time. The wonderful memories that you and Irma made over the years are what will get you through this trying time. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Estelle Leandri

Cheryl Stergio

March 13, 2023

Jim, my heartfelt condolences. Irma was such a lovely person. May she rest in peace.

Bob Miles

March 13, 2023

Jim, I am saddened over your loss of your loving wife and soul mate. She will be greatly missed but never forgotten.

Mark Ciliano

March 13, 2023

To the Streeter Family
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

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