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Jane Powers

1923 - 2018

Jane Powers obituary, 1923-2018, East Lyme, CT

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Jane Powers Obituary

East Lyme - Jane (Healey) Powers, a longtime resident of Niantic, died on Thursday, June 7, 2018, at Greentree Manor in Waterford.

Born Jane Marshall Healey on June 21, 1923 in Brooklyn, N.Y. to Ruth (Hart) Healey and Thomas Frederick Healey, she was raised in West Haven and Orange. Her father worked in the brewing business and retired as brewmaster of Hull's Brewing Company in New Haven. Jane graduated from Hillhouse High School in 1941 and earned a bachelor's degree in sociology from Smith College in 1945. Soon after graduation, she and her friend Janet (Hutton) Sargent travelled through a not yet rebuilt Europe. The trip to Europe gave rise to many stories, including one about the night she arrived in a small Swedish town, only to find the hostel closed. Ever resourceful, she consulted a policeman who found her a comfortable bed in the town jail.

She returned to the United States and began a career as a buyer at Amelia Ames in New York City's Garment District. She shared an apartment with her oldest friend, Jessie Piccolo. Jessie and her fiancé, John O'Neill, introduced her to William Powers, John's childhood friend. Bill and Jane were married on April 18, 1953, and moved to Niantic, where Bill had started a career as a teacher. They raised five boys there: William Jr. (who predeceased them), Mark of Niantic, Thomas of Clearwater, Fla., Joseph of Waterford and Richard of Greenwich.

Jane raised the family, but worked as well, conducting the University of Michigan surveys on consumer confidence. She was active in town affairs, serving on the East Lyme Board of Tax Review and the Commission on Aging, but devoted most of her energy to town schools. She was a substitute teacher, which led to a full time position between 1973 and 1985, when she worked as attendance clerk at East Lyme High School. Those who had no excusable reason for being late or absent (you know who you are) remember her clemency in that role. She helped nudge many through to graduation. Jane enjoyed her colleagues, too. In retirement, she gathered with the secretary and teacher alumni for lunches and trips.

Jane loved watching her sons play sports in high school and college. She only missed a game if two occurred at the same time, in which case Bill would watch the other. In the summers, she and the family visited her sister, Ruth (Healey) Dunham and family, in Puerto Rico, then California, Ohio and South Carolina. She loved Niantic, especially McCook's beach and the Hole in the Wall. Jane supported the ELHS swimming pool from the time it was built. She served on the pool commission and was a regular water aerobics participant well past her 90th birthday.

Jane had an enviable capacity to make friends. Many of them are gone, but those who remain remember her demonstrable joy at their company. Her true legacy is her family, who called her "Nee." When she became a grandmother, she talked of how she wanted to live a very long life to see how they developed. In her last few months, reflecting upon her life, she told her sons that she thought "it all turned out beautifully."

In addition to Mark, Tom, Joe and Rich; she is survived by ten grandchildren: Hailey, Nicole, Katherine, Joseph, Caroline, Jessica, William, Maggy, Benjamin and Alexander; and three daughters-in-law, Maura, Susan and Emilie.

She was predeceased by Bill, her husband of 58 years; and her sister, Ruth (Healey) Dunham.

Calling hours will be from 5 to 8 p.m. Wednesday, June 20, at the Thomas L. Neilan & Sons East Lyme Funeral Home, 48 Grand St., Niantic. We will celebrate a memorial Eucharist at 11 a.m. Thursday, June 21, at St. John's Church, 400 Main St., Niantic. Interment will follow in Union Cemetery Niantic. That would have been her 95th birthday.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that a contribution to the East Lyme Aquatic & Fitness Center Foundation, Inc. or the East Lyme Library Foundation be considered.

Please visit www.neilanfuneralhome.com for directions, or to send a condolence message to the family.

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Published by The Day on Jun. 17, 2018.

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Linda Byrne

July 1, 2018

As if raising 5 boys wasn't enough, Mrs. Powers had room in her heart to nurture and love her sons' friends too. She always had kind words for the Byrne kids but we all knew Kevin was her favorite. I admired her as an encourager but not afraid to offer correction when needed. She was so proud of her family and it was a pleasure to watch how you all cared for her after your Dad passed away. I hope your children have lots of fond memories of their Nee. Praying for your comfort and peace.

WILLIAM NASH

June 20, 2018

Mark, I am so sorry for your loss

June 19, 2018

mark, tom, joe rich

you had a terrific mom. sorry for the
loss.i'll always remember the peanut butter
and marshmallow fluff sandwiches,

charles marvin

Fr. Anthony C. Dinoto

June 18, 2018

Jane Powers, a grand lady in the finest sense of the term. It has been my privilege to serve as her Rector these past 4 or 5 years. Oh, if only I'd been so fortunate as to have had such an understanding "attendance secretary" at Stonington High School 50 yrs. ago! She rests, now, at peace, in the everlasting arms of her creator.

Jim Shake

June 18, 2018

Joe, Rich, Mark, Tom,

You mom truly was one of the great ladies to grace Niantic and the Town of East Lyme. She was known by everyone and loved by everyone. My condolences go out to you all.

June 17, 2018

One of the nicest people I have ever met. Great Mom, great wife, great friend. Her longevity makes me smile. Donald Bodwell

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