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John Shamsideen Obituary

New London - On Dec. 23, 2005, John Abdullah Shamsideen, born John Lawson Bolton of Memphis, Tenn., left this life. As a devout Muslim, he was interned at the Islamic Cemetery located in Enfield on Dec. 24, 2005, according to Islamic law.

John leaves to cherish his memory his loving wife of 55 years, Richie Bolton; daughter, Idette (Bolton) Thompson and her husband, Danny; a son, Varnaud Shamsideen and his wife, Renee; and two grandchildren, Dontae Patterson and Brittany Jaskiewicz. He also leaves behind his two closest friends, Mr. Walt Lewis of California and Mrs. Edith Berry of Oakdale. There are many other friends that will also cherish his memory. John also has a host of nieces and nephews that loved him dearly.

John and Richie moved from Albany, N.Y., to Howard St. in New London and then to 23 Hempstead St. Illnesses overcame them both, and they had resided together at the Groton Regency for the past 12 years. His wife survives him at the Groton Regency.

John, a great husband and father, devoted his life to the service of Muslim Community locally and nationwide. This journey led him to a rebirth in Islam and the adoption of a new name. Affectionately known as "Brother John", he was always ready to share his life experiences with anyone. John will continue to touch us through the Islamic Center of New London, of which he was the founder.

This center had very humble beginnings in John's home in the early 1960s. John Shamsideen was among the first African Americans to convert to the social and religious movement known as the Nation of Islam. He traveled widely and assisted the late Malcolm X in establishing in the Mosques (Masjids) or Islamic Centers in Hartford and other cities. He bravely held to the Islamic faith when it was socially unpopular, especially during the 1950s. His work helps make it possible today for other Muslim immigrants in America to practice their faith. Brother John encouraged the youth and African Americans to avoid short term illusion of drug abuse and criminal activity by having a strong belief in God, and by self restraint, education, and political and social involvement in every aspect of American life. Brother John visited the sick and ministered to the imprisoned. He was an avid reader and insisted upon civic responsibility for many of those who often sought his counsel and wisdom.

John Shamsideen held some rare historical documents detailing the trans-Atlantic African slave Diaspora. Some of these documents revealed the 'little known' fact that most African slaves transplanted to the Americas were indeed of Muslim faith long before it was mentioned in Spike Lee's movie, Malcolm X and Alex Haley's book and T.V. mini series, Roots. Because of this he envisioned that most Black Americans will reclaim their own and convert to the Islamic faith within the coming decades. It is noteworthy to mention that Brother John met the mystical founder of the Nation of Islam, W.D. Fard, in New London at one time. Also noteworthy to mention is that John Shamsideen was responsible for a large number of people converting to Islam who still reside in southeastern Connecticut and throughout North America, creating life lasting bonds among its members.

The Lester Gee Funeral Home was in charge of Mr. Shamsideen's arrangements.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Islamic Center of New London, 16 Fort St., Groton CT 06340.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on Dec. 30, 2005.

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John, Donna, Kristina, Stacia and Yani Pombrio

January 10, 2006

Dear Richie, Idette and Family Members,



We have beautiful memories of John's smiling face. We met him about 14 years ago after meeting Richie. We remember being inspired by his love and service to Richie as they aged together and he cooked and provided for her as she became less able to meet her own needs. Over the years, we could count on a warm welcome, regardless of his own circumstances. Even as his and Richie's health demanded that they secure more services, he never let his health challenges affect his intense desire to be hospitable, wherever that might be. During our visits he'd offer chairs for our comfort and always ask how our entire family was doing. He was extremely interested in others and outward focused in his conversation even up until the last time we saw him recently. Our hearts are with you and we pray that you will treasure many wonderful memories.



Love,

The Pombrios

Akram Abuteen

January 2, 2006

Assalamu Alaikom (Peace be onto you),

To the family of Brother John, may Allah give you patience.

Oh Allah, accept all of Brother John’s deeds and grant him paradise. Amen.

January 2, 2006

Dear extended family, I know Bro. John is smiling down on you all. Take care, and God bless.

PauL Cofer

December 30, 2005

Aunt Richie, Varnaud, Idette and family members,



Thank you for sharing your recent thoughts, and treasured memories. I am sure your immediate family and friends must really appreciate the legacy you have created.



Warmest regards and God Bless,



Paul & The Cofer Family...

Bertha Bowens

December 30, 2005

To my Best Friend on This Earth.

My heart goes out to you and your family at this time. I do know the pain of losing your father, and if there is anything I can do for you, plz call me. Kiss your mother (my other mother) for me. Friends for life

Ron, Gwen, and Nikki Dunson

December 30, 2005

Varnaud, Idette and Mrs Bolton, you are in our prayers.

December 30, 2005

Dear Friends,



Brother John will truly be missed by all. Much Peace.

Paulette (Ragland) Faggett

December 30, 2005

Dear Mrs. Botlon;



I am deeply saddened to hear of Mr. Bolton's death. My prayers and deepest sympathies to you and your family.

Sally Whitman

December 30, 2005

Dear Friends:



I read today with sadness of the passing of our dear Brother John. I met him in 1988 through my ex-spouse, and grew to love and respect him greatly over the years.



One of my happiest memories of John was when he and your family were living on Hempstead street, and he had caught a mouse in the kitchen. He came back into the dining room proudly displaying what he had caught. The look on his face was priceless - he had an adorable smile!



Both my daughter and I wish to convey our condolences to your family at this time. John will be greatly missed, yet I am certain that he is in God's care and also know that his legacy will live on.



Most Sincerely,



Sally A. Whitman and Danaya Wallace

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