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John J. "Jay" Speirs III

1954 - 2021

John J. "Jay" Speirs III obituary, 1954-2021, Old Lyme, CT

BORN

1954

DIED

2021

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Fulton-Theroux Funeral Service

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Old Lyme, Connecticut

John Speirs Obituary

Old Lyme - John J. "Jay" Speirs III, 67, of Old Lyme, passed away unexpectedly at his home July 11, 2021. Jay Speirs was born May 30, 1954, in Middletown, to the late John J. Jr. and June (Briggs) Speirs. He was the beloved husband of Anita (Fatone) Speirs, who survives him.

Jay, father, husband and friend, had many adventures with stories to share. He will be remembered by most as Captain of the Seacrest, or whatever vessel that was seaworthy! As a third generation plumber and mariner, he was always tinkering with something for the boat or house, and without a doubt, whistling a tune. He was a natural teacher, offering his expertise in plumbing, lacrosse, history, the outdoors and anything maritime related. Jay loved observing the outdoors, especially watching the variety of life exploring his backyard and Long Island Sound.

Jay will be missed by many, but we know he is having a blast up there riding the waves and whistling along. Jay Speirs is also survived by his daughters, Samantha Speirs of Old Lyme and Tara Wyatt of Niantic; chosen niece Arla Muller of Maine; sister Pamela McDonald and husband Mac of Illinois; brother Peter Speirs and wife Michellee of Old Lyme; and many nieces and nephews; and cousins.

A service will be held from 4 to 5 p.m. Thursday, July 29, at the First Congregational Church of Old Lyme. Please visit www.fultontherouxoldlyme.com for photos, directions and to sign the online guestbook. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Save the Sound in the name of Jay Speirs.

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Published by The Day on Jul. 25, 2021.

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Lisa Esposito Trebilcock

July 29, 2021

So sorry to hear of Jay's sudden passing. I remember him being a funny, kind, generous guy, even from many years ago. Thoughts and prayers for his wife and family. RIP, Jay.

Caryl Glock

July 26, 2021

Anita, Tara, and Samantha, We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you through this difficult time.
The Glock Family

Elona Richardson

July 26, 2021

Anita,
I am so very sorry for the loss of your beloved husband Jay. May God grant you peace at this sorrowful time.

Rosanna Carabelas

July 25, 2021

My dearest, Anita, Samantha and Tara, you are in my heart, thoughts and prayers. May Jay rest in the arms of his Creator and his memory be eternal.

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