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Westerly - John M. Walker III, 70, beloved and devoted husband for 43 years of Elizabeth (Dessaules) Walker, of Westerly, died peacefully May 23, 2008 at Brigham and Women's Hospital in Boston surrounded by his loving family. With optimism and courage, John endured his fight with leukemia for the past three years.

A lifelong resident of Westerly, he was born on April 2, 1938. He was the fourth of five children of John M. Jr. and Mary (Anderson) Walker who predeceased him.

John also leaves behind the pride and joy of his life, his daughter, Bethany (Walker) Foster and his son, John M. IV along with their respective spouses, Douglas Foster and Amy (DeFosses) Walker. Affectionately known as "Papa", John was adored by his six grandchildren, Jamie and Brooke Foster, and Lindsay, John M. V, Sydney, and Audrey Walker. He took great pride in his grandchildren's accomplishments and seized every opportunity to spend time with them. He will be sadly missed.

A 1957 graduate of WHS, John attended the University of Rhode Island. Following in his own father's example, John spent his life in service to the men and women of the International Association of Machinists and Aerospace Workers. Well known and respected throughout the New England area, John proudly served as the Business Representative. Recognized as tough but fair negotiator, John kept at heart the best interests of the working people. At the same time, his rapport with management was not diminished but instead, it cultivated a mutual respect and admiration for the passion that he brought to his position as directing business agent. His ability to enhance the lives of the working force was evident in his successful negotiations of over 100 contracts. He felt personally satisfied to have been the first to bring dental coverage for the workers. John continued to maintain long friendships with both sides throughout his life.

John Walker left an indelible mark on the lives of so many. Following 25 years of service to the Union, John enjoyed another 11 years of dedication to his job as manager of the Calabrese Club. He gave his heart and soul to the "Cally" - his vision to make it the best it could be. He was a friend to all and a stranger to none, especially to his dear friend, Louie. Known throughout town as "The Mayor", Johnny Walker took great pride in his hometown of Westerly. His genuine care for others brought him the numerous friendships he truly cherished.

In addition to his wife, children and grandchildren, he will be sadly missed by his sisters and their spouses, Catherine Drake and Les of Westerly, Dorothy Stokes of Houston, Texas, Constance Urso and Buba of Westerly, and Carole Cravinho and Joe of Pawcatuck; his brothers-in-law, Erwin Dessaules and his wife, Alice, and Gus Dessaules and his wife, Patty. He is also survived by several nieces, nephews, and cousins. Visiting hours will be on Wednesday from 4 to 7 p.m. in Gaffney-Dolan Funeral Home, 59 Spruce St., Westerly. Funeral services will be held in The United Congregational Church of Westerly located on Castle Hill Road in Pawcatuck on Thursday at 11 a.m. Burial will take place in River Bend Cemetery in Westerly.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Dana Farber Cancer Institute, 10 Brookline Place W, 6th Floor, Brookline, MA 02445-7226 in John's memory.

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Published by The Day on May 26, 2008.

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Joseph A. Wucik

June 19, 2008

We just read about John's passing and want to send our deepest sympathy to the entire Walker Family. May he rest in peace.

Gail and Joe Wucik

Kevin Horne

June 8, 2008

I posted this on my personal blog the day my Uncle John passed. My family asked that I include it here - I apologize for its length, but it is from the heart…

My introduction to the working world was in the summer before college. Based on some connections with a neighbor and my Uncle John, I landed a job in the warehouse of a local industrial company. The work was both fun and challenging - I took a turn at everything from cleaning to packing to clerking to driving my first forklift.

I remember something else about it though.

I remember filling out the “first-day paperwork.” One of the questions asked if I knew people who worked at the company. I of course listed my Uncle John.

It didn’t take one day before I heard about my “mistake.” Why had I listed my Uncle’s name? Didn’t I know he was a union boss at that company? Couldn’t I see how this would reflect poorly on me with the management folks reviewing my paperwork?

No, none of that occurred to me. He was my uncle for God’s sake. How could I hide that? WHY would I hide that?

The thoughts ran through my head - a family man, with loving wife, children; a community man, welcomed anywhere; a hard worker, representing his employees with conviction; a fun-loving guy, with so many leisure interests. I convinced myself I’d done nothing wrong.

I don’t know if I ever told Uncle John that story. I wish I had.

Uncle John passed away last evening. He waged a valiant fight against a vicious cancer. It was hard for the family these past couple of years, but Uncle John never made it seem anything other than just another day at the salt mine. Like he always had.

How fitting that he passed away on Memorial Day weekend, for I will always remember Uncle John’s lesson. Whatever we are - union or management, rich or poor, black or white - embrace it and share it with others. Save the fighting for the important things in life.

Lena Brand

June 3, 2008

Dear Liz and family.
My and my family's thoughts are with you during this difficult time. May happy memories help you through.
Love Lena Klas Erik and Maria (Gothenburg, Sweden)

rob urso

May 29, 2008

with total love and adoration
from your favorite nephew

robbie

Elaine Bookataub Steidle

May 28, 2008

As a 1957 classmate of John's, I'm so grateful we all could share precious time with him during our luncheons and our 50th Reunion.
I feel so fortunate to have been able to renew my friendship with him after many years.

My prayers are with Liz and the entire family. God bless you during this most sad and difficult time.

John leaves a void in all our hearts!

Daryl Lubin

May 28, 2008

My deepest condolences to all of you. The special times you shared are forever yours to keep. With love and prayers, Daryl

Jack McLaughlin

May 28, 2008

John was one of the "best". I always enjoyed his company and will long remember all the good times at The Calli.

alan & diane deraimo

May 27, 2008

in the light of grace will you find comfort. in love strength.
your friends will always here if ever you find need.

Cliff Yarbrough

May 27, 2008

Dear Walker Family, I am sorry to read of the loss of your beloved John Walker and offer my prayers and best wishes to you. The Calabrese is also dear to my heart because of my dear Friends in Wetserly,including the late Lenny Malagrino. I attended several Rocky Marciano dinners at both the old and "new" Calabrese. I can certainly agree Mr. John always not only tried to make it the Best but succeeded in deed. May God Bless You!

Carl Bailey

May 27, 2008

Thanks Johnny for all your help with our contracts years ago at Vulcan Radiator in South Windsor CT. You will not be forgotten.
Local 354

Connie Beck

May 27, 2008

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Pat Pierson

May 27, 2008

I am sorry to see that Johnny passed away. I will always remember him from my Cottrell days and the IAMAWU, Pioneer Lodge, Local 627.

Richard Ailabouni

May 27, 2008

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Dave Servidio

May 27, 2008

I was sorry to hear of John passing away.May he rest in peace.

Cynthia Stewart

May 27, 2008

I am so very saddened to hear of Johnny's demise. We were classmates at Westerly High School. He is remembered as a kind, good and outstanding person. I will forever miss him. My condolences to his family.

Sincerely,

Cynthia Siswick Stewart

Jennifer Ryan

May 26, 2008

I will always remember the Summers spent there growing up, and will treasure the last couple of years being there for the family reunion and David's wedding. What I will hold close to my heart is watching Uncle John and little Kira dancing at the wedding.
I wish we were all closer together, but I am there with you all in spirit and in love.

All my love,
Jenn

RJ & El Macaioni

May 26, 2008

Uncle John will truely be missed by all but never forgotten....he did so much for me in my younger years and I will always be grateful to him..rest in peace Uncle John and bless all my family there, sincerly, rj & el macaioni

Pete & Kathy Reed

May 26, 2008

Words are not adequate to express our sympathy. Love and prayers,

May and Gavin Mcintyre

May 26, 2008

Our deepest sympathy goes to Johns family at this sad time in their lives. We are sure their wonderful memories will sustain them. From his family in Scotland.

Hank & Joan Sponik

May 26, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

maryanne Hartley

May 26, 2008

Dear Liz & family,
I am so sorry to hear of John's passing. I remember him when we were all very young, working at Moore's. My prayers are with you.
sincerely, Maryanne Hartley

Jack Eldridge

May 26, 2008

I knew John Walker for most of his time on this Earth. We were born within months of each other and lived across the street from each other on Park Ave. John was the greatest of friends when we were kids. John turned out to be a great man and life long friend. To Liz and all of Johnny's family, I send my love and condolences. I am truly saddened by the loss of my dear friend.

Sandra & Santo

May 26, 2008

I am so sorry to hear of John's passing. My condolences to all family members. John was a wonderful caring man. He will be missed.

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