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Joseph A. "Joe" SanJuan Jr.

1969 - 2025

Joseph A. "Joe" SanJuan Jr. obituary, 1969-2025, Waterford, CT

BORN

1969

DIED

2025

FUNERAL HOME

Impellitteri-Malia Funeral Home

84 Montauk Ave.

New London, Connecticut

Joseph SanJuan Obituary

Waterford - Joseph "Joe" A. SanJuan Jr. of Waterford, peacefully entered into eternal life March 25, 2025 in the arms of his loving wife Angela and surrounded by family and friends. Joe was born Oct. 31,1969, in New London, the youngest child of Joseph and Patricia (Vendetto) SanJuan Sr.

Along with his sisters, Barbara and Deana, Joe grew up in Waterford, and you could find his larger than life presence everywhere. If Joe was able to choose a brother, he would have chosen his best friend, confidant and cousin, Brian Bartelli. On Sept. 29,2001, Joe married the love of his life Angela (Westner) in Niagara Falls, N.Y., and spent the past 24 years in Waterford, raising their two amazing daughters, Jessica and Samantha.

Joe was many things to different people, and those who were fortunate enough to know him, knew that they had a friend for life. He was always quick with a sarcastic comment that was always said with love. Many of his friends were the recipients of the "you fly, I'll buy" request, and everyone knew his Dunkin' order. He was so generous with his time and giving with his spirit. You knew that if you called Joe, whatever the request, he would be there.

Joe was an active member of Waterford Fire Service from the age of 14 and volunteered for many years, eventually serving as deputy chief. He graduated from Waterford High School in 1987. His law enforcement career began with the State of Connecticut as a DEEP officer before transferring to the East Lyme Police Department where he served for 27 years retiring in 2019 at the rank of sergeant. Following his retirement, he worked closely with Angela as owners of the Recovery Room Restaurant in New London.

Although his successful career was a big part of his life, his family and friends always came first. He was a strong example of "work hard, play hard." Many will remember him with a hockey stick or a wooden bat for a pick up game or recreational league. Joe loved to golf and was a member of the Great Neck Country Club. He enjoyed trips to the casino and card games with friends and he was always up for a good time. You always knew you were in for a surprise when his birthday came around. Joe and his brother-in-law Kevin always had some of the best costumes. He will be watching over his loving wife Angela and his two wonderful daughters, whom he adored, Jessica Rose and Samantha Lynn.

Joe is also survived by his sisters, Barbara Karlson and Deana Nott and husband Joe, all of Waterford; as well as so many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his parents; and beloved brother-in-law Kevin Karlson; and his sweet, loving, furry companion, Lucy.

His family will receive relatives and friends from 3 to 7 p.m. Sunday, March 30, at the Impelllitteri-Malia Funeral Home, 84 Montauk Avenue, New London. A Mass of Christian Burial will take place at 11 a.m. Monday, March 31, in St. Paul Church, 170 Rope Ferry Road, Waterford. Interment to follow in St. Mary Cemetery New London. Donations in his memory may be made to, St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude’s Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959.

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Published by The Day on Mar. 28, 2025.

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Jim Cash

March 31, 2025

I spent many a midnight shift working with Joe. What a truly great guy. He will be missed by all who had the pleasure to know him. So sorry. Jim Cash.

Bill SLOCUM

March 30, 2025

My condolensces to everyone. Prayers especially for Samantha and Jessica. Your dad was such a great man. God bless you all.
Bill Slocum

Roberta Joyce Delgado Vincent

March 30, 2025

The Vincent, Roberta and Howard Families send their heartfelt condolences to the family of Joseph San Juan. The Recovery Room, Joseph and Angela, extended themselves during the loss of John B. Vincent, who passed away from Alzheimer's on Oct. 14, 2022. Your kindness will be remembered always.

Justin Thomas

March 30, 2025

Our deepest condolences on the passing of a great guy and great officer.
Justin Thomas and Family

Bob and Jodie Strohl

March 30, 2025

Sincerest condolences and love to all of you in the passing of Joey. One of a kind, hell of a guy and a personality that was truly a genuine and acquired trait that he forged in life that made him the lovable character everyone cherished who knew him.
May your hearts be filled always with great memories and thoughts of his infectious laugh will always ring through. RIP our friend as you always be in our thoughts and prayers.
God Bless your family at this time and always. Much love...

Maria Huffman

March 30, 2025

Deepest condolences, thoughts and prayers to Joe´s family and his friends. One of East Lyme´s finest who always brought a smile to others RIP

Pete Salopek

March 30, 2025

I will always remember that wise and wry smile. First thing that hit me when I met Joe almost 40 years ago. Our prayers are with the entire San Juan Family. -Pete & Sandi

Paul Pescatello

March 30, 2025

Angela, The Sanjuan, and Westner families. My family and I can´t express how sorry we are for your loss. Joe was an amazing person with an amazing personality. Joe would always put his family, friends, and our community first at the drop of a hat. May the lord find you comfort during this time of loss. Rest in peace old friend. You will be missed but never forgotten. Salute! P2

Chick Hummer

March 30, 2025

Those we hold most dear never truly leave us...they live on in the kindnesses they showed, the comfort they shared, and the love they brought into our lives. Love, George & Mary Jo (Venditto) McCoy, Chick (Venditto) Hummer.

Neal couture

March 30, 2025

Great memories. Waterford high. Brought me home to safety from sunset ribs when overserved. What a friend. Hoping we can all move on , after this

Chris "Smitty" and Donna Smith

March 30, 2025

Our condolences to Joe's family on such a big loss. Joe was a great man and friend and will be sorely missed. A lot of memories to reminisce on. RIP Joe.

Ellen, Dennis & Deacon Steward

March 29, 2025

We send our deepest condolences to Angela and the San Juan family. Joe was a true gem who will be sorely missed. We hope that there will be some peace in your hearts knowing that Joe is no longer in pain.

Jeff DePerry-The DePerry Family

March 29, 2025

Joe was the guy to call when you wanted to know anything East Lyme. He was a dedicated professional who monitored the pulse of the community & was there for many in times of need. I didn´t only bring family & friends to the restaurant for the best Zuppe di pesce around but also to catch his infectious smile, a kind word, & watch how happy he was to be at home with his family. Angela, Sam, Jess very sorry for this huge loss. Joe will forever live with fond memories.

Eric Hauser

March 29, 2025

Joe was a super guy who was also friendly and a comedian. He did a lot of work to keep Southeastern Connecticut safe since his mid teens. My Dad and brother Justin considered him a friend as do I. My Dad was also a big fan of his work as it was done legally and ethically. This speaks to Joes character, if people were to emulate Joe the world would be a better place. ~ Eric WDC

Kelly McCarthy

March 29, 2025

Joe was a super guy! Every time I would run into him he always made time to stop and have a conversation. He will be dearly missed!! My thoughts and prayers go out to his family

Jeffrey Rheaume and family

March 29, 2025

So many wonderful memories of Joe. He made the most of his time here and will be dearly missed.

Michael Porretta

March 29, 2025

Your were one of the good ones and will be missed by all who new you RIP my friend and god bless your family

Scott Sheehan

March 29, 2025

May you rest in peace my friend. Many memories will never forget.

The Zito Family

March 28, 2025

No words can describe what this community has lost. May our memories be there to help heal. Please accept our deepest condolences and know Joe left us all with incredible memories, as we lost another great one way too soon

Tom Mason

March 28, 2025

There is a destiny that makes us brothers, none goes his way alone, all that we send into the lives of others, comes back into our own!

Anne O

March 28, 2025

My love and hugs to the family. Joe was a great man, happy & funny to all. I will miss him.

David DECKLER

March 28, 2025

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Fran Rinoski

March 28, 2025

You have lost someone very special, someone who touched many hearts. Grief is difficult. No one is prepared for this. He will send you signs and be with you in places you go, and in the things you do. It is hard to lose a life long partner. He was fortunate to have you in his life. I hope the emptiness you all feel will be filled with fond and happy memories My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Jeff Walsh

March 28, 2025

So sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers to the entire family.

Chris Wahl

March 28, 2025

A huge loss to everyone who knew him. Class act always. Deeply saddened by this news. Soar high Joe

debra robinson

March 28, 2025

very sad to lose a wonderfull person, my brother worked for him at the recovery room in the kitchen, he always had a smile and a great personality, he will be missed, R.I.P. gone but never forgotten

Jody Smith

March 28, 2025

Angela, Sam, Jess and family,

We are so sorry to hear about Joe. He was one of the good ones! Always willing to help out, a great coach and great guy. Our deepest condolences. He will be missed by many.

Jody smith, Rebecca and Julia Cameron

Mary and Dave Thompson

March 28, 2025

To the SanJuan and Bartelli families: We are so very sorry for the loss of your beloved Joe. I've known him for years through the fire service and working with his Dad. He was always ready with a hug and so funny. He will be sorely missed

William Mugavero

March 28, 2025

Riposa in pace

mary devine

March 28, 2025

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always. My deepest condolences to Angela and the girls as well as Barbara and Deana.

Julie Culbusky

March 28, 2025

My Deepest Sympathy.

Dave Fairman

March 28, 2025

Rest in Peace Joe

Cheryl Devine Way

March 28, 2025

Barbara and Deana,
My sincerest condolences to you and your families.

Mary Anne Alfieri

March 28, 2025

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Kokoksa/Andrews

March 28, 2025

No words........................East Lyme & surrounding community lost a great person

RIP
Joe

Sharon Reagan

March 28, 2025

Joe, was one of the good ones. One of East Lymes finest. My deepest sympathy to the family. So sorry for your loss.

bob wanat

March 27, 2025

sorry for your loss rip joe

Margie

March 27, 2025

Our heart felt condolences, I pray you all can find peace by holding on to the loving memories. He was a part of lives of so many, He will truly be missed. Our prayers are with you and your family.
Anthony and Margie Perrone

Donna Roselund

March 27, 2025

Jim and I are so very sorry to hear of the passing of such a kind and respectful man. Joe always had a smile on his face whenever we would run into him. In time may your memories outshine your sorrow.

Jodi Busca Bertone and Joseph Busca

March 27, 2025

Angela and family Dina and family Barbara and family ...so much love such little time Lots of precious memories One more angel to look down upon us as we move thru the phases of our lives You will be missed Joseph ...no doubt

Gerry Mcgee

March 27, 2025

So sorry Angie , my heart is heavy for you and the girls. Love and prayers to the family.

Jim Barnes

March 27, 2025

My condolences to the San Juan family and the East Lyme Police Department on the loss of one of the finest police officers I ever had the pleasure to work with. Joe was a class act all the way and his work ethic was second to none. I feel blessed to have crossed paths with Joe and know he has enriched many lives. Rest easy my friend, hopefully there's another round of golf for us to play someday.

Kathleen Waszczak

March 27, 2025

Our deepest condolences to the San Juan family.

John Joyce

March 27, 2025

So sorry to hear of Joe´s passing. Love and prayers to the family.

Pete McKittrick

March 27, 2025

My condolences to the San Juan family

Dave Fairman

March 27, 2025

Rest in Peace joe

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Mass of Christian Burial

11:00 a.m.

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170 Rope Ferry Road, Waterford, CT

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