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Justine Maria Miller

1944 - 2020

Justine Maria Miller obituary, 1944-2020, Norwich, CT

Justine Miller Obituary

Norwich - Justine Maria (Perry) Miller, 75, of Norwich passed away May 5, 2020. She was a beloved mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, and friend; she brought light and love to every place that she entered.

Justine was born in Norwich Dec. 9, 1944, the daughter of Joseph Anthony Perry Sr. and Frances Iona (Vera) Perry. She grew up on the west side of Norwich and enjoyed a childhood filled with the antics associated with being the sister of three brothers. She graduated from Norwich Free Academy in 1962. After high school, she entered a life of service, first as a registered nurse and then a state police officer. She earned a nursing degree from St. John's University in Queens, N.Y. in 1964 and worked as a nurse at the Norwich State Hospital, before joining her husband, Glenn Miller, who was stationed in Northern England and then Las Vegas, Nev. in the Air Force from 1967 to 1970.

In 1971, she trained as a State Police woman or SPW, one of the first women and women of color to do so in Connecticut. A trailblazer who broke down barriers of gender and race, she was an excellent detective who worked undercover for a time, investigating, among many other things, organized crime. When she left the State Police in the mid-1980s, she was told that "If you were a male, you'd be one of the top 10 investigators in the state." Her response was, "Well, I'm not a male, so what am I?" She then joined the Chief State's Attorney's Office as a chief investigator in the Medicaid Fraud Control Unit, from which she retired in the early 1990s. After that time, she became a private detective, working with her former state police partner and then running her own firm, Miller Investigations. After she stopped working completely, she dedicated herself to her family and community.

Justine's later life was filled with the incredible joy she took in being with her family and friends. She traveled to Europe, the Caribbean, Alaska, and Central America with her husband, brother and sister-in-law. She was a proud and dedicated enrolled-member of the Eastern Pequot Tribal Nation, serving as Treasurer for the Elders group. She was also active with the NFA Alumni Association, especially the Class of 1962. She attended the Madry Temple Church in New London and particularly loved the music on Sundays. An avid photographer, family historian, scrapbooker, craft-maker, reader, and fan of UCONN women's basketball, Justine offered everyone that she met a cup of Earl Grey tea and an open heart.

Justine was married to her high school sweetheart, her beloved husband, Glenn Miller, in 1967. They shared 46 years of love, laughter, and companionship until Glenn passed in 2013. Their daughter, Monica, of New York City, will miss them both beyond what words can express. Justine is also survived by her loving son-in-law Carl Wennerlind, and two doting grandchildren, Langston and Selma Wennerlind. Known by her handle, GMo, to them, Langston and Selma were her greatest joy as she took enormous pleasure from watching them grow and sharing in their laughter. She leaves her brothers and sisters in-law, her dearest friends for decades, Joseph and Sharron Perry, Peter and Barbra Perry, and Eloise Perry, wife of her much-missed brother, Tom Perry, who predeceased her. The extended Perry family of nieces, nephews and cousins will also miss Aunt Justine and her big hugs immensely.

Given the situation with Covid-19, a celebration of Justine's life will take place in the future, Burial will be private. In lieu of flowers, please make a donation in her name to the charity of your choice in order to extend her spirit as the most loving, caring, and generous person that many of us knew. Notes of condolence and remembrance can be sent to her daughter at [email protected] or 601 W. 113th St. 9A, New York, NY 10025.

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Published by The Day on May 9, 2020.

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Judy Gomes

May 14, 2020

My sincere sympathy to the family of Justine. Her warmth, kindness
and beautiful smile will be remembered and missed. May she Rest In Peace. I

Yvonne (Nasso)Dupuis

May 13, 2020

Monica,
I'm very sorry to hear of the passing of your Mom. My mother Claire talked a lot about her. Sending Thoughts and Prayers during this difficult time.

Julie and Louie Malerba

May 12, 2020

Monica and family, your parents meant alot to our family, they were truly genuine, we met glenn well over 20 years ago, he would come to the driving range all the time, he would talk so highly of your mom we just had to meet her, so we went out to dinner and knew then he was blessed with a gem and you could tell they were meant to be together, we saw your mom not long ago, she stopped by the ice cream shop on her way home, it was so good to see her i know she missed glenn so much, we are so saddened for your loss.

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Sarette Williams

May 12, 2020

My condolences and prayers to the Miller and Perry families. Ms. Justine was a mentor and role model. I am sorry to hear of her passing. She blazed trails and embraced life in a way few people do. I hope that your love and warm memories for your mother, aunt, sibling will comfort you at this time.

Bernie Sullivan

May 10, 2020

Joe and family, please accept my sympathy on Justines passing.May your good memories help you through this difficult time and May she Rest In Peace in the arms of the Lord.

Karen Miller Labrecque

May 9, 2020

I grew up living next door to Justine, Glenn and Monica. Justine was an incredible lady. She was loving, caring and compassionate and I only have fond memories of her. To this day, I enjoyed talking with her and seeing her on occasion at my Mom's house. 50 years of friendship between our families and we will miss her dearly. RIP sweet lady, we love you and will miss that smile!

Karen Miller Labrecque

Donna Landry

May 9, 2020

I have known Justine for many years. She was the most gracious, kind, talented and loving person. I deeply regret not seeing her in the past few years. She will be missed by many.
MY sincerest condolences.

Bud & Sue Avdevich

May 9, 2020

Miller and Perry Families,

We remember Justine from our law enforcement days. She was a straight shooting, accomplished, wonderful person. God bless her soul!

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