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Sep. 25, 2025
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8 Entries
Elizabeth and Bill Gabler
Yesterday
Dear Leigh and Lynn,
My heart is with you as you walk through this time of loss and hope. Treasure the memories.
Your dad was strength, integrity, compassion, toughness, gentleness, fun, and so much more all rolled up into one amazing man who watched out for us kids. He taught us so much about not just softball and volleyball, but about being kind and true and sharing our faith and standing for what was right. He lived out his faith in Jesus with consistency. He watched out for us when we struggled and let us know doing what was right was worth it. You will continue to miss him and your mom. Hang on to the good knowing that they are in the best place ever, fully alive and whole. Love yous.
Judy Abrams
Yesterday
Dear Lynn, Leigh and family,
I'm so sorry your dad has left this earth, but rejoicing he's with his Lord and your mom, both now whole and healed. Whitey was such a powerful, yet gentle, force in our lives. We've loved him for many years,. Even when I last saw him at Fanny Daniel's funeral, I still hugged him and called him "Iron Man"!! May his legacy of love, laughter and faithfulness carry on in all of you. He was truly a remarkable man.
Kimberly Green Sanders
Yesterday
My condolences to the Whiteford family: I had the pleasure of knowing Mr.Whiteford and his late wife Donna when I was a young girl attending Huntington Baptist Church and the Awana program. Please take comfort in knowing how he and his wife touched many lives in such a Christ like way.
Dawnia Lumadue-Parisek
Yesterday
Leigh and family, I remember your Dad as our UPS driver on State St. in New London. He was the best. I remember you from Church and Awana's. May God bring you Peace at this time.
Dawnia Lumadue-Parisek
Trudy
September 22, 2025
I love him so much! He touched my life in so many different aspects. I loved his gentle ways and the genuine way he shared his wisdom! The world has lost one of the best. Heaven has gained a true angel!
Della Schimmel
September 22, 2025
Rest in peace Whitey, and say hello to my husband Ray.
Linda and Cortland Bryant
September 20, 2025
To Lynn and Leigh I am so sorry to hear of your dad's passing, he was a good man. May the God of all comfort be with you as you grieve his passing.
Dave Fairman
September 20, 2025
Rest in Peace Whitey, remembering the years on the basketball court
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