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Mary Haders Obituary

Red Hook, N.Y. - Mary Jill Haders, 59, died on Wednesday, Dec. 21, 2011, in Red Hook, N.Y.

Jill was the beloved daughter of the late Richard and Phyllis Haders of Stonington. Jill lived in Stonington Borough for a period of time and had many friends there.

A funeral Mass will be said at 10:30 a.m. Saturday, Jan. 21, at St. Mary Catholic Church in Stonington Borough, followed by a burial service at Stonington Cemetery alongside her mother and father. The Rev. Monsignor LaRoque will officiate.

Mary Jill leaves her brother, Stephen and his wife, Chris Haders, of Warwick, R.I.; and two nephews, Andrew and his wife, Rebecca Haders, of Cranston, R.I. and Maxwell Haders of East Providence, R.I.

Memorial donations may be made in Mary Jill's memory to the Duchess County SPCA, 636 Violet Ave., Hyde Park, NY 12638.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on Jan. 17, 2012.

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