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Michael Donohue Obituary

East Lyme - Monsignor Michael T. Donohue, 74, of Niantic died Sunday, Dec. 12, 2021. Born in Westerly, R.I., Msgr. Donohue was the second of five children born to the late John J. Donohue and Catherine Keegan Donohue. He was raised in Pawcatuck, attended St. Michael School, and was graduated from Stonington High in 1965.

He began his religious vocation at St. Thomas Seminary in Bloomfield, continued it at Our Lady of the Angels in Albany, N.Y., and was chosen to complete his studies at the Pontifical North American College in Rome, Italy where he was ordained in 1975 by Pope Paul VI, who was canonized into sainthood by Pope Francis in 2018.

Following his ordination and returning to the United States, he trained as an officer and a chaplain in U.S. Navy in Newport, R.I. and he began his ministry in the Diocese of Norwich.

His 45-year career throughout the diocese included the Sacred Heart parish (Vernon), St. John (Uncasville), St. Joseph (Willimantic), Sacred Heart (Norwichtown) and in 1993 he became pastor of Saint Matthias Parish in East Lyme, where he oversaw the design and construction of a new church that was first planned in 1988 to accommodate a growing congregation an insure the continuation of the Catholic community in the Flanders village of East Lyme. In the spring of 1996, the then Father Donohue initiated a program of stewardship to take the steps necessary to build a new church. His lifelong interest in art and architecture made it possible for him to envision what became an octagonal Romanesque red brick building designed around the stained glass windows installed in the original church 1939, blending the legacy of the past with an eye toward the future.

He was predeceased by his sister, Catherine D. Lathrop and his nephew Charles J. Lathrop of Stonington; he is survived by his brothers, John J. (Patsy) Donohue and Joseph S. Donohue (Debbie Burlingame), all of Pawcatuck, and Christopher Donohue of Westerly. He is also survived by his five nephews, John, Patrick (Erin), Sean (Kelly), Timothy (Colleen) and Benjamin (Lauren); and his three nieces, Tricia Detterman (David), Anne Wang (Roger) and Emily Donohue (Tom Studt).

Msgr. Donohue's body will lie in state at St. Matthias Church, 317 Chesterfield Road, East Lyme, beginning at 3 p.m. Thursday, Dec. 16, 2021, followed by a Parish Mass at 7 p.m.

The Funeral Mass will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. Friday, Dec. 17, by the Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, Bishop of Norwich. Due to ongoing concerns regarding the spread of Covid-19, the family respectfully requests that those attending wear face masks. Burial will take place at 10:30 a.m. Saturday, Dec. 18, at Saint Michael Cemetery, Stillman Avenue, Pawcatuck.

Thomas L. Neilan & Sons East Lyme Funeral Home has been entrusted with handling the arrangements. Please visitwww.neilanfuneralhome.com to leave the family an online condolence.

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Published by The Day on Dec. 15, 2021.

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M Kathleen (Mulcahy) Golec

February 2, 2024

Deepest sympathy and prayer to all the Donohue family. I just heard about the death of Msgr Mike and felt deep sadness. Hold on to all your wonderful memories to keep him deep in your hearts. Love to Jack, Joe, and Chris.

Patricia Mulcahy Olson

February 1, 2024

Just learned of the sad loss of Msgr Mike. Sending my prayerful sympathy to Jack, Joe, Chris and families. My heart is heavy. I apologize for not being with you back in Dec 21, but know that you are in my prayers now.

REGINA MOSTOWY

December 21, 2021

I offer my prayers and sympathy to the family and friends of Msgr. Donohue.

Frederick Souza

December 17, 2021

My condolences to the Donohue family on the passing of Msgr. Donohue. He graduated a year ahead of me from SHS, and I remember him well from that lifetime ago. Treasure your many memories to sustain you in your loss.

Ashley Hoffman

December 17, 2021

Sympathy to the Donahue family on the loss of Uncle Mike. I´ll never forget how he rushed to Yale New Haven when Charlie & I had Catherine 8 weeks early, to baptize her. He was always kind to me and I know he prayed for my Catherine. May he Rest In Peace with Kay, Cathy & Charlie.
Ashley Hoffman
(Mom of Catherine Lathrop, Charlie´s daughter)

Mike and Heather Spellman

December 15, 2021

Please accept our deepest sympathy and condolences upon the passing of Monsignor Donohue. The Donohue family is in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. He has been incredibly kind and caring to our family and has been a servant of God and the Church that has done so much good. He leaves a legacy of caring and love. He will forever be remembered with a smile. A great Christian man. You were better for knowing him.

Steve Boska

December 15, 2021

Father Mike, R.I.P.

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Kevin Bentley

December 15, 2021

Condolences to the Donohue family. Sorry for your loss.

Kathy and Chris Waszczak and family

December 15, 2021

Thank you for your supportive friendship, you will be missed.
Bless you as you enter Eternal Life and may God bless your family in their time of grief.

Terrence G McKenna

December 15, 2021

I leave a blessing for everyone who ever knew Father Mike. Excuse the expression but he was "one hell of a guy".
They world would be at peace if there were more people like Mike.
My condolences to Father Mike's family he will be missed.
God Bless,
Terry McKenna

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16

Lying in State

3:00 p.m.

St. Matthias Church

317 Chesterfield Road, East Lyme, CT

Dec

16

Memorial Mass

7:00 p.m.

St. Matthias Church

317 Chesterfield Road, East Lyme, CT

Dec

17

Funeral Mass

10:30 a.m.

St. Matthias Church

317 Chesterfield Road, East Lyme, CT

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18

Burial

10:30 a.m.

Saint Michael Cemetery

Stillman Avenue, Pawcatuck, CT

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