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Nicholas Sullivan Obituary

Stonington - Nicholas "Nick" Allen Sullivan died unexpectedly July 2, 2024. He leaves behind his wife Melanie Annacker Sullivan; their sons, Lukas and Liam; his mother Mary Allen Sullivan; his sister Jessa Rose Page (Michael, Isabella, and James); and brother James Sullivan, wife Cyndi (Gregory, Drew, Ben); and aunt Patti Linder (Molly and Russel); his Berlin family, Heidi and Harald Annacker; her sister Manuela and husband Heiko (Tobias and Stevie). Nick is predeceased by his father James Sullivan.

At an early age, Nick's passion was cooking. He studied culinary arts at the International Culinary School in Massachusetts. He worked at his craft, mentored by Walter Houlihan at Water Street Cafe for close to 18 years. He also worked at the Rathskeller in Charlestown, R.I. Nick met Melanie, who was working as an au pair, and they married in 2001. They traveled frequently to Berlin, while living here in the U.S.

After years of closing down a kitchen every night, Nick changed course and became licensed as a home improvement contractor to be home evenings with family. For the past few years, Melanie and Nick have fostered rescue dogs in their home, with only two foster fails. Nick's greatest joy came from spending time with those close to him, sharing laughs, a meal, a day kayaking, bowling, or a good game of cards. He will be remembered as a kind and generous man, devoted to family, quick with a smile, often called a rascal because of his joy in pulling a good prank.

In memory of Nick, we ask that you consider the following: Eat dinner together, clear the table, and play a lively game of UNO. Pump up the tires on the bicycles and take a ride. Build a Lego Starship together. Cuddle up on the couch with the kids, include some dogs, and watch a funny movie.

Burial will be private.

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Published by The Day on Jul. 22, 2024.

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Ulrike Hence

September 18, 2024

Dear Melanie and family,

There are no words to express our sorrow for your family.
Ich bin immer hier wenn du reden willst.
Mit liebe
Uli, Max und Kinder

Loren Cotoia-Nelson

August 26, 2024

We will be sure to have a family dinner, play a game of UNO w/our rescue doggos by our feet in honor of Nick. Melanie and family - we are here for anything, always. Much Love, Loren, John, Christian, Ava, & the doggos - Dexter and Selena

Ann and Peter Freeman

July 29, 2024

Dear Mary and Patti,
Peter and I were saddened to hear of Nicholas´s passing and our sympathy to you and his family. We used to love going to Water Street when he was there. We will have a family dinner and think about all of you. Love, Ann & Peter

Uncle Steven

July 25, 2024

Dear Mary and Family, I am sincerely saddened by news I just received about the passing of Nicholas. From what I remember about Nick was being an outgoing happy person. Over the years our families are separated by distance and time as we all get busy with life. I understand he was fortunate with a loving caring wife and two handsome boys. Some of the younger pics of Nick look much like his boys. Although we don't see each other much, I do think of all of you often and I do get some info through Bob.
My family and I humbly express our deepest sympathy for the loss of a wonderful son, husband, father, brother, friend. The world is a lesser place with Nick's absence.

Linda Ottaviano

July 24, 2024

My heartfelt condolences to Nick´s wife, his children , his mom Mary and all of the family. So very shocked and sad to hear of his sudden passing. May God comfort you all...
Cousin Linda

Martha Slater

July 23, 2024

Nick was a gift to anyone lucky enough to know him. He was gentle, thoughtful, and funny. I was so fortunate and blessed to have him as a valued builder during my home remodel. He will be terribly missed but always hold a special place in my heart.

Janet Schroder Ingham

July 23, 2024

Mary and Pattie
I am so sorry for your loss.
Such a beautiful memorial to his life

Hope to see you both soon.

Debbie

July 23, 2024

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Harald Hefel

July 23, 2024

Hallo Melanie , konnte es gar nicht glauben und es tut mir sehr leid für Dich und deine Kinder , es ist ein großer Verlust . War immer schön Nick und dich zu sehen wenn auch nicht oft . Wenn du Hilfe mit irgend etwas brauchst bitte ruf an , Harald und Familie ( 860-961-4249)

Kathy McCabe

July 23, 2024

Mary and family, so very sad to hear this. My deepest condolences to all. I remember Nic fondly. My heart goes out to you all. xoxo Kathy McCabe

Lynn Mariani

July 23, 2024

We are so very saddened to hear of your great loss. Paul and I spent many hours with Nick last summer when he hustled about to get our new deck installed before the onslaught of summer company. Lots of laughter. His stories about kids and dogs , spoken with that deep beautiful voice, enchanted everyone. He shall be dearly missed. Lynn Mariani

Gale Sullivan-Ludovici

July 22, 2024

So sorry for your loss aunty's Mary and Jessica and Jimmy love gale Sullivan-Ludovici and paul ludovici our hearts go out to you and nicks family

Julie Danella Essig

July 22, 2024

Mary and loved ones.
I am deeply sorry for your loss of Nicholas. He was taken so suddenly from his family. I pray for all of you to get through this together. That´s all you can do

My sincere condolences
Cousin julie

Fred Souza and Family

July 22, 2024

Our condolences to Mary, Jess, and the rest of Nick's family. Bea is watching over him now. Treasure your happy memories to keep him with you always.

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