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Richard Vanden Brink Jr.

1949 - 2023

Richard Vanden Brink Jr. obituary, 1949-2023, Mystic, CT

BORN

1949

DIED

2023

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Labenski Funeral Home

107 Boswell Avenue

Norwich, Connecticut

Richard Brink Obituary

Mystic - We are saddened to announce the passing of Richard Vanden Brink Jr. at Pendleton Rehabilitation and Nursing Center, Mystic, June 8, 2023. He was born May 4, 1949, to Richard Vanden Brink Sr. and Elizabeth Mary (Stachulak) Vanden Brink.

Richard was a typical child. He graduated from St. Willibrord Catholic School, and went on to graduate from Thornton Township High School with high honors in auto shop. He joined the U.S. Navy in June 1969, and served until June 1975, in the Submarine Service, stationed on the U.S.S. Abraham Lincoln SSBN 602 as a MM3 (SS) E-4. He met his wife Marie Ellen while he was stationed at the U.S. Submarine Base in Groton/New London, Jan 19, 1972. Richard Jr. and Marie were married Jan. 19, 1974, at St. Philip the Apostle Church in Warrenville (Ashford), by the bride's uncle, the Rev. Norbert E. Belliveau. After being honorably discharged in 1975, he returned to his trade as a master auto technician in Chicago, Ill., as owner of Rich's Tune Up Center. In 1989, he moved back to Norwich, with his wife, Marie, to help take care of her mother.

He was diagnosed with lung cancer in 2010. He fought a good long fight through all his cancer diagnosis and treatments. In 2012, he retired as shop foreman at Mallon Chevrolet dealership in Norwich.

Survivors include his wife, Marie Ellen Vanden Brink of 49 years; sister Frances Mancilla; brother Mark R. Vanden Brink; nieces, Tracie Lee (Tobin) Viehweg, Tara Elizabeth Viehweg, Jungels (Nathan), Kendall Leigh Swann and Sydney Elizabeth Swann; nephews, Michael H. Swann and Zachary Viehweg; brothers-in-law, Edward L. Oloff Jr., Leonard F. Oloff (Karen/Leah), and Norbert E. Oloff (Alison); sisters-in-law, Eileen M. Quinn (Richard Jr.) and Judi Gillis-Oloff (Michael) predeceased him; nieces, Lori (Oloff) Bettencourt (Brian), Charlotte C. (Oloff) McLevy (Alan) and Tara Marie Quinn; nephews, Edward L. Oloff III, Mark E. Oloff (Stephanie), John Gillis Sr., Richard G. Quinn III and John Gillis Jr.

He was a loving brother, husband and friend to all who knew him.

"Richard, you are gone from the Earth, but your spirit lives in our hearts . . . sadly and lovingly missed by all who knew you.

We want to thank all the staff of Pendleton Rehabilitation and Nursing Center who did exceptional care for him. We are so grateful he was able to be a resident there.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 1 p.m. Monday, June 19, at St. Mary Mother of the Redeemer Church, 69 Groton Long Point Road, Groton. Burial will immediately follow at St. Joseph Cemetery, Boswell Avenue, Norwich. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Alzheimer's Association, P.O. Box 96011, Washington, DC 20090-6011.

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Published by The Day on Jun. 11, 2023.

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Cathy Delaporta

June 16, 2023

I was there since this love story began. Marie and I went out for the evening to dance, but she met Rich, the love of her life that night.
We were high school friends and remain friends to this day. I will miss him from a distance but he will be one of my heroes for ever.
Marie you picked a good one. Please keep in touch. Your friend. Delaportac

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Michael Ashton

June 14, 2023

Marie and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are for you and his spirit. Richie and I were friends for 38 years as we first met with a common friend Tom B. He always was the first to help out, offer advice, and have a great sense of humor. I'll miss him but will always have great memories. My family offers our deepest sympathies.
Respectfully,
Michael Ashton

Louise Tyszkiewicz

June 14, 2023

Dear Marie and family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in your time of sorrow. God bless!

John M Senecal

June 12, 2023

I did not know Richard, but I served in the USN as a submariner aboard SSBN 630. My heart goes out to his family. Farewell shipmate.

Paul Fraser

June 12, 2023

Marie I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Our prayers and sincerest condolences for you and your family.

Kathy Naparty

June 12, 2023

Marie & Family, may God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Rich was a kind man that always took time to wave & smile when I passed by. His Spirit shined & will remain in the hearts he touched. Love Kath

Kathy Lavoie

June 12, 2023

Marie& Family.
Our deepest sympathies go out to you & your families. We remember Rich with great fondness & are blessed to have known him. He fought a long, courageous battle & you were always by his side. Know you are in our thought & prayers.

Love you, Kathy & Jack Lavoie

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Jun

19

Mass of Christian Burial

1:00 p.m.

St. Mary Mother of the Redeemer Church

69 Groton Long Point Road, Groton, CT

Jun

19

Burial

St. Joseph Cemetery

Boswell Avenue, Norwich, CT

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