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Richard Lancaster Obituary
Mr. Lancaster was born Nov. 18, 1930, in New London, the son of the late Richard J. Lancaster Sr. and Dorothy J. Connover. He attended New London Public Schools, graduating from Chapman Technical High School. He was employed by the City of New London for nearly 30 years, retiring in 1996.
Mr. Lancaster was an avid sports fan who enjoyed watching his favorite professional teams, the Boston Red Sox, Boston Celtics, and New York Giants. He also enjoyed taking long, leisurely drives with his wife, Vivian Inez (Lewis) Lancaster, who he married on Jan. 14, 1950. The couple had 10 children.
Mr. Lancaster is survived by six children, Beverly McKelvin, Michael Lancaster, Doreen Lancaster, Anthony Lancaster, Vivian Lancaster, and Brian Lancaster, all of New London; a daughter-in-law, Patricia Lancaster of Quaker Hill; and five siblings, Louise Greer of Uncasville, Marian Holeman of New London, Spencer Lancaster of New London, James Lancaster of Mystic, and Albert Lancaster of New London. Other survivors include eight grandchildren, Stephanie Johnson, Derick Lancaster and his wife, Carmen, Michael Lancaster Jr. and his wife, Chary, Troy McKelvin and his wife, Katrina, Shanae Lancaster, and Shanakia Lancaster, all of New London, Elora Helliger of St. Martin, and Tyree Green of Virginia; additionally 14 great-grandchildren, Jasmine Peat-Seward and her husband, Montrell, Amanda Volpe, Teia Lancaster, Letisha Lancaster, Treyvon Lancaster, Jevon Clarke, Brandon Lancaster, Stephan Johnson, Tyana Lancaster, Noah Johnson, Derick Lancaster Jr., Troy McKelvin Jr., Xaria Lancaster-Mitchell, and Tionne McKelvin; five great-great-grandchildren, Montrell Peat-Seward Jr., Tavion Nixon, Cree Peat-Seward, Nevaeh Lancaster, and An'trelle Annibalini; two brothers-in-law; a sister-in-law; and a host of nieces and nephews.
Along with his wife, Mr. Lancaster was predeceased by two sons, Richard J. Lancaster III and Burt Lancaster; two daughters, Kathryn Jones and Gail Speedwell; and a sister, Clara Singleton.
Funeral service will be held at 11 a.m. Friday at Byles Memorial Home, 99 Huntington St., New London, CT 06320. Burial will follow in Cedar Grove Cemetery. A calling hour will be held from 10 to 11 a.m. before the funeral service.
Memorial contributions may be made to Dana-Farber Community Cancer Care, c/o Patient Care, 230 Waterford Parkway South, Waterford, CT 06385.
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Memories and Condolences
for Richard Lancaster
December 6, 2014
Beverly and family Sorry to hear of your dad, Mr Dickie's passing. I'll aways remember his kindness and gentle spirit. He was a wonderful man and a wonderful male dad figure in our neighborhood.My prayers are with you all. Peace and love to you and your siblings - marcia Goode-Blake
November 25, 2014
Love hugs thoughts and prayers to the family and friends of grandfather Lancaster he will be deeply missed...xoxo
Athea Burrel
November 22, 2014
Our condolences. The Burrel & Parker Families.
November 22, 2014
My deepest sympathy, prayers, & good thoughts to all Dick's family & extended family. I worked with him in the Martin Center at the New London Senior Center & he was such a funny & kind man. He always remembered me whenever I'd see him out shopping. Peace to all of you & hold on to your memories which will make you laugh in time.
November 21, 2014
Richard was a kind and loving man, so very sorry for your loss,Cathy Culley
Diana Franklin
November 20, 2014
To the Lancaster family our prayers are with you at this time during the lost of your dad. R.I.P. Bro.R. Lancaster will miss stopping by your house when I come to NL. May God be with all your children and give them peace. With Love the Franklin Family.
Mike & Debbie Fortunato
November 20, 2014
Our thoughts and prayers are with you this holiday season and always.
Gladys Walker
November 20, 2014
To Bev & the Lancaster family. May God give you comfort and peace during this difficult time. To be absent from the body is to present with the Lord.
Ramona L Penn
November 20, 2014
May The Great Spirit comfort The Lancaster Family today and every day during this time and always.
Peace & Blessings from the Penn/Papadopoulos Families.
Varnaud "Red" Shamsideen
November 20, 2014
My thoughts and prayers are with the family at this time. I had the blessing of growing up on Hempstead St, and he always treated me like I was part of the family. He even gave me the nickname I wear so proudly today!
michelle howard simpson
November 20, 2014
Sending my love to the Lancaster family & shanae Doreen (ma) aunt bev love you thinking of you.
November 20, 2014
"To Mrs. Louise Greer and Family, our thoughts and prayers go out to you at the lost of your brother. May the love of God be with you."
Mesie, Gwen and Family.
PAUL HAMLER JR
November 19, 2014
one of the best of the best from new london,you were a friend for life with dick,he always had a smile and a great attitude no matter what the day brought,ill never forget when i worked for the city as a summer job and he taught me how to drive a 3 speed jeep,i know by the end of the day his neck was sore from me shifting the gears but he just laughed and still had that great big smile ..RIP
Robert Hall
November 19, 2014
My condolences to the the Lancaster family. May God be with you all in this difficult time.
Rev. Mark A. Cornish
November 19, 2014
May God continue to bless the Lancaster family in this time of need.
November 19, 2014
Nae Nae,
Love you...So Sorry for your loss....
Debbie Contillo
November 19, 2014
My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Lancaster family. Gonna miss you Dick. ????
William Schmauder
November 19, 2014
Dear Stephanie and family,
I am very sorry to hear about the passing of your beloved grandfather.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sincerely,
November 19, 2014
i am very sorry for your loss!!
Mary L
November 19, 2014
Bev, So sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. He was a kind and gentle soul.
BARBARA ANN GOMES
November 19, 2014
MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU,THE FAMILY OF THE MR.RICHARD C.LANCASTER.MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY AND HEARTFELT CONDOLANCES GOES OUT TO YOU,HIS FAMILY AND FRIEND:LET THE PEACE OF OUR LORD AND SAVIOR JESUS EASE THE PAIN IN YOUR HEARTS:
Bishop Franklin Wilbur
November 19, 2014
Rest in peace uncle Dicky. You will be missed but never forgotten. Heaven needed one more Giants fan.
Chappy Chapman
November 19, 2014
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Donna Bienkowski Smith
November 19, 2014
To the entire Lancaster and extended family, I am so sorry of the loss of "Uncle Dickie". He was such a nice man and I always loved to see him and Poppy (Spencer) talking and laughing together:) May your faith and good memories help ease you through this difficult time. Love, Donna, Chris, Dylan, Logan, Ryan xoxo
Alfred Mayo
November 19, 2014
To the Lancaster Family sorry to hear the news of Mr. Lancaster passing.
RIP
Cathy & Nate Glenn
November 18, 2014
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
deborah williams
November 18, 2014
To the whole Lancaster family, I was blessed to have your parents, grandparents in my life. They both are sadly missed. I hope that god continues to hold your family in the palm of his hands. God bless you all, love Debbie, Christopher and Debryana.
Othar Wilson
November 18, 2014
Sending Condolences to the Lancaster Family. May Mr. Lancaster Rest In Peace.
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