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1937
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2018
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Richard McGirr Obituary
He served as a submariner from 1958 to 1977, retiring as a senior chief petty officer. He served proudly on the Gato (SS-212), Bang (SS-385), Redfish (SS-395), Tinosa (SS-283), and Sea Robin (SS-407). Richard spent the remainder of his working career at Sonalysts as an analyst. He spent many hours further serving on the committee for the World War II Submarine Veterans Memorial, and was a member of the Submarine Veterans and Fleet Reserve Associations in Groton.
Richard was a deeply devoted, compassionate, and loving family man who had many interests, including his beloved pets, golf, bowling, billiards, classical music, reading, travel and all pursuits intellectual.
He was married to Toni McGirr, and previously to Sarah McGirr, whom he survived in 2004.
He is survived by his wife Toni; his sons, Richard and Michael; his grandchildren, Sean, Eric, and Sarah; his sister, Pat Woodland of Seattle, Wash.; and stepchildren, Jeff Zimmerman, Jeremy Zimmerman, Skippy Zimmerman; as well as a niece and nephew and numerous stepgrandchildren.
Richard was a wonderful husband, father, role model, and human being whose family, friends and colleagues will miss dearly.
The family will receive relatives and friends from 5 to 8 p.m. on Friday evening, Jan. 19, at the Thomas L. Neilan & Sons Funeral Home, 12 Ocean Ave., New London. Interment will be at sea by the U.S. Navy.
Donations in his memory may be made to the ASPCA Gift Processing Center, PO Box 96929, Washington, DC 20077-7127. www.aspca.org/donate. www.neilanfuneralhome.com
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Memories and Condolences
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Rick Snow
February 8, 2018
I am so sorry for your loss. Dick was a great guy. I worked with him at Raytheon in Waltham, Ma. for several years and we became very good friends. He was a funny, intelligent, exceedingly fair minded man and although we'd lost touch since I left Raytheon in 99, I will miss him.
Phil Beals
January 20, 2018
Toni and Family,
Words cannot express the sorrow we feel for your (our) loss. Dick was a
good shipmate and, like you, we loved him too. We only hope that the sincere sympathy we offer you will somehow ease your pain.
The Bang Gang
Lord this departed Shipmate with Dolphins on his chest,
Is part of an outfit known to be the best.
Please welcome him and offer him your hand,
As you no doubt know he's the best in the land.
And also heavenly Father add his name to the roll
Of our departed Shipmates who serve on Final Patrol.
Assure them all that we, who still survive
Will always keep their memory alive.
Dolores Emery
January 20, 2018
Toni, I am so sorry to read of your husband's passing. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers, may you find comfort in the many loving memories that you all shared together. Love you. Dolores Beaulieu Emery. (Bobby's sister)
Alice Crowell
January 18, 2018
Toni and family. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family. May your memories of him help heal the sadness you feel.
January 18, 2018
Rest In Peace Dick. Our condolences to the family.Cha and Bill
Brotherhood of the Dolphin
Nick Nichols
January 17, 2018
To the McGirr Family,
On behalf of the Charleston Base SUBVETS and Swamp Fox Chapter SUBVETS WWII, I offer you our sincere condolences on Richard's passing. We grieve with you on the loss of your loved one and our shipmate. The SUBVETS will have your family in our thoughts and prayers. There is no expiration date on the back of our dolphins and Richard, who earned his 'fish' when he qualified on USS REDFISH SS-395, will always be remembered as a Brother of the Phin and a great Patriot. BRAVO ZULU SHIPMATE!!
ETCS(SS) Richard Gordon McGirr Jr.
US Navy Submarine Veteran Retired
Now on Eternal Patrol
Sailor Rest Your Oar
Your Shipmates Have The Watch
Fair Winds and Following Seas Shipmate
Charleston Base Submarine Veterans
Nick Nichols, MTCM(SS) USN Ret.
Base Chaplain
Gloria Ward
January 17, 2018
Toni and family,
So sorry for your loss , my thoughts and prayers are with you and the family at this time. Sorry I can't be there but will see you all soon . Love Gloria
Ernie Smith
January 17, 2018
Toni and family,
Dianne and I are very sorry for your loss, we are thinking about you every day.We will be in town on Tuesday 1/23/18,see you then.
Love and miss you,
Ernie and Dianne
Nancy S Rusell
January 17, 2018
My thoughts are with the McGirr family at this difficult time. I have fond memories of Dick while working at Sonalysts.
Sherri Mooney
January 17, 2018
Toni and family, You are all in my thoughts and prayers, wish I could be with you all at this time.... Love you so much...Jim and Sherri
Lynn and Mark Angora
January 16, 2018
Sis, I am so sorry for loss. You are on my mind and in my heart every day. Love you
Arlene Godsey
January 14, 2018
Toni, we are so sorry for you and the family. Stay strong. Thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Love you your sister Arlene and Bill
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