Name: Memorial service for Robert J. Metcalfe Jr.
Start: 2016-02-19T23:00:00.000Z
Location: Thomas L. Neilan & Sons East Lyme Funeral Home

Colchester - Robert J. Metcalfe Jr., 62, of Colchester, passed away on Sunday, Feb. 14, 2016.

Rob was born in New Britain, on April 30, 1953, to Robert and Josephine Metcalfe, now deceased. Rob grew up in Niantic, graduating from East Lyme High School in 1971 as valedictorian. He continued his education obtaining a bachelor's degree in science from Springfield College. He also pursued a career in nursing and was a licensed practical nurse, retiring from the State of CT after 20 years.

Rob is survived by his two siblings, Jeffrey Metcalfe of Niantic and Pamela Metcalfe of Waterford. He also leaves behind his niece, Michelle Funaioli of New York City; his nephews, Michael Funaioli of New London and Jesse Metcalfe of Los Angeles, Calif.; and a grandniece, Jahzara Funaioli.

Rob had the soul of an artist, the brain of a genius and a heart full of love for his family and friends.

A memorial service will be held for Rob at 6 p.m. Friday, Feb. 19, at the Thomas L. Neilan & Sons East Lyme Funeral Home, 48 Grand St., Niantic.

Please visit www.neilanfuneralhome.com to leave a condolence message for Robert's family or to view his video tribute.

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Published by The Day on Feb. 18, 2016.

Memories and Condolences
for Robert Metcalfe

Sponsored by Thomas L. Neilan & Sons East Lyme Funeral Home.

17 Entries

Pat Lamb / Macek

August 4, 2016

Just saw this posting on Face book. My sympathy for his family & friends. I worked with him @ N.H. He was a kind soul, who everyone liked & he took excellent care of the clients. My he rest in peace.

Lanette Errante

February 23, 2016

Looking Back

Moments flash fleetingly; then dissolve.
What effect each memory imprints in my cells is a mystery.
Who I am exists only for this instant.
Yet this body records my history on hypersensitive film.
The illusion is the film's reality.
All past imprints are ghostly vapors pretending
to be real.

Boomerang Spirit

The body is the sacred temple of the soul.
As it burns, boomerang spirit is flung into ocean fog.
Thru adult years,
sculptor glues ashen soul specks into mosaic chalice,
then chisels depth-
preparing for spirit's tidal renewal on salty sea swells.

Portrait

Steam rising off pond traces portrait:
Hawk beak perched on Spruce Pole
gazes on snow-chilled horizon.
Claws clamped to trunk,
absorbing eyes contemplate
time evaporating into NOW.

Carole Shea

February 22, 2016

Rob was a member of our Creative Writing Group in Marlborough. He was a very talented poet, and a kind, gentle generous person. He will be missed.

Into the Wind

Some day I shall forget it all and
Dive into the wind.
I'll fly away above it all where
Memories rescind.
A fresh clean worldno worry,
Hurt or pain.
Free to fall through space and time,
Till all is new again.

Carole Shea

Donna Nicolino

February 20, 2016

I am very sorry to hear about Rob's passing. I recently moved to Brooklyn, NY but lived in Willimantic, CT for many years and was a member of the meditation group Rob attended. I always liked him. He was warm and kind. He was very open about his struggles and showed tremendous courage and resilience. I always appreciated his presence and what he chose to share with us. I'm sorry that I won't get to see him again.

My condolences to his family and loved ones.

Rob at our wedding, 2005

Dave Schowalter

February 20, 2016

Rob sailing, May, 2015

Dave Schowalter

February 20, 2016

Sharon Reagan

February 20, 2016

So very sorry for your loss. He will be missed by all of his friends, and family.

Wendy Yuhas

February 19, 2016

I was so saddened to hear of the passing of Rob. I have worked with Rob these past few years and will never forget our talks about music, his recent travels, and about his cat whom he loved dearly. Rest in peace my friend!

Freda Kral Gianakos

February 19, 2016

Pam and Jeff- please accept my heartfelt condolences on the loss of your brother. As a classmate, I remember Rob and his gentle soul. May he find eternal rest and may warm memories comfort your hearts.
Freda Kral Gianakos

John Schwenk

February 19, 2016

I'm a member of a meditation group in Willimantic that Rob attended for several years. I know he suffered deeply, but I also know that he genuinely and bravely sought healing and peace for himself and those around him. Rob's presence and contributions greatly enhanced our group. Those of us who knew him are much saddened and I'm very sorry to know that we will not be seeing him again.

I wish I could attend the service but I will be traveling.

My condolences to all his family and friends. The world is a more impoverished place without Rob in it.

Robert & Carol Farrior

February 19, 2016

Pam and Jeff, Our sincere condolences to both of you and your extended family. We are saddened to hear of "Robbie's" (that is what we use to call him) passing. May his star in heaven shine brightly down on all of you. God Bless
Robert and Carol Farrior

Dave Schowalter

February 19, 2016

For Rob

Brave and soaring spirit
Made evident in verse
And in melody.
Moments of terror
In shaking bones,
Sinew, and flesh.
The heartwarming, altruistic smile,
Beaming, and reflecting the worth
of a true friend.
The listening ear, and wise counsel
Of an ageless soul
Practiced at giving.

Sue Cash

February 19, 2016

Pam, Jeff and family. I was so sorry to hear about Rob's passing. Sending my prayers and deepest sympathy to all of you.

Rob dancing CCI 2011

Lanette Errante

February 19, 2016

Rob CCI 2010

February 18, 2016

Rob dancing at CCI April 2011

February 18, 2016

Sonny Hendel

February 18, 2016

Robert was a wonderful man. I got to know him as we both collected toys. Back in the early 2000's, he'd stop in my antique toy store and we chatted about the world in general, but mostly about Jesse. He was so proud of his accomplishments. He will be missed by us and his family. Our condolences to his family.

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