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Roy Jefferson Obituary
Roy is survived by his wife Cathie; his daughter Whitney and her husband Anderson; his son Robbie and his wife Kaitlyn; his sisters, Christine Peterson and her husband John and Shelby Santangelo and her husband Craig; his mother-in-law Lee Shults; brother-in-law Bill Shults and his wife Linda; and by the multitudes of people whose lives he touched.
After he retired from Ford Credit, he started Jefferson Mortgage Company, but his true passions were always his family and his community. Roy loved the town of Deep River with the kind of fervor that saw him on the Parks and Recreation Commission, as a Sunday school teacher at the Deep River Congregational Church and longtime member of the Deep River Library board, where he served for 14 years and was renowned for his "holiday champagne punch."
Roy was one of the most genuine people you will ever meet. He would want to know your whole life story while standing in line at Adams grocery store, and then ask you about your life the next time you saw him, proof that he was actually listening and cared. The love Roy had for the town was only matched by his love for his family, whom he would brag about to everyone. Few people have been so head-over-heels in love after 38 years like he was with his wife Cathie, and he would tell everyone he met he was the luckiest man on earth for having met her. If you knew "RoyBoy," no matter how short or long of a time, know that he truly loved his time around you; and if you're having a drink in his honor, know not to say, "Goodbye." Roy never believed in goodbyes, because he does not believe that you have seen the last of him; so raise a glass and tell him you'll see him later.
Due to the COVID-19 restrictions, a celebration of Roy's life will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Deep River Library in his honor.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Roy Jefferson
John cook
March 26, 2021
Great guy.shared many of stories at the gym.will miss that.my sympathies to his family
Alan James
December 8, 2020
Roy was a huge art lover and was always so enthusiastic in my watercolor class. His happy demeanor and positive attitude was a great influence on the other students. It was always a delight to have him in my class. I will miss him dearly. Goodbye dear friend.
Joseph Parks
December 7, 2020
Dear Cathie. We are so very sorry to hear of Roy's passing. We have such great memories of Roy and you all and still cannot hear Earth Wind and Fire to this day without thinking of Roy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. Love Joe and Elisa Parks
Richard Grohocki-Proctor
December 6, 2020
A man filled with love and laughter. Too many memories from weekend visits to family reunions. The Jefferson always were laughing and you laughed when you were with them. Condolences to the family
Richard Grohocki-Proctor
December 6, 2020
What can I say about Roy. Great guy filled with life and love. Have a ton of memories that make me smile just thinking back You will be missed. Rest in peace. Condolences to the family.
Richard Grohocki-Proctor
December 6, 2020
What can I say about Roy. Great guy filled with life and love. Have a ton of memories that make me smile just thinking back You will be missed. Rest in peace. Condolences to the family
Richard Grohocki-Proctor
December 6, 2020
What can I say about Roy. Great guy filled with life and love. Have a ton of memories that make me smile just thinking back You will be missed. Rest in peace. Condolences to the family
Richard Grohocki-Proctor
December 6, 2020
What can I say about Roy. Great guy filled with life and love. Have a ton of memories that make me smile just thinking back You will be missed. Rest in peace.
Betty Ventry
December 3, 2020
Our special Royboy. Roy was the first member of the Jefferson family I met. He was a very warm and welcoming person. When I moved to a new house Roy was there hanging pictures and mirrors, fixing bathroom fixtures, anything to help. The major holidays were always at Roy and Cathie's house. He will be so missed by family and many friends. My heart felt sympathy to the whole family, I love you all dearly. God Bless.
Kb
December 3, 2020
My condolences to Cathie and the family, Roy was a wonderful person with great sense of humor
The Mesites
December 1, 2020
May the love of friends and family and all your wonderful memories carry you all through this most difficult time. Remember, He has not left you, he has only gone away, on a long and different journey and you will meet again one day. With sincere sympathy.
Steven & Diane Barry
November 30, 2020
Our deepest condolences to Cathie and the Jefferson family; Roy was such an upbeat and friendly guy - he will be dearly missed! We're sure all who knew him will keep happy memories of him in their hearts.
Tracy Uphold
November 30, 2020
Truly a deep loss for the town of Deep River. Godspeed good fellow
Marilyn Malcarne
November 29, 2020
Dear Cathy, Whitney and Robbie,
I am so very sorry to read about RoyBoy's passing. Such a wonderful, joyful soul. I will always remember when Roy was telling me about this beautiful young lady he was seeing. I then meet this wonderful, beautiful young lady in line at First National, Roy's adoration was palpable. Having the privilege of teaching his amazing children brought it full circle for me. Deep River will never be the same without Roy. His beautiful smile and amazing positive spirit will always be missed. Keeping you three in my heart. Sending lots of love your way. Marilyn Malcarne
Jan and Bruce Edgerton
November 29, 2020
The photo selected for Roy’s obituary is the way we will always picture him. He was one of the most sincere, authentic persons one could hope to meet. He was a great friend and we treasured the time we were able to share with him. We will miss him dearly, but will always hold him close in our hearts.
Jan and Bruce
Kathy Mader
November 29, 2020
Wow so many memories! Went to WHS with Roy So Many Joy rides senior year. Have not seen him since graduation but he was just one of the sweetest guys So sorry for his family. I know they will miss him terribly as will the WHS Class of 67. Kathy Bruce Mader
Keith Gerritt
November 29, 2020
I am so sorry to learn of the death of both Roy and Mark. Chris (and Shelby), it is really tough to lose both your Dad and your big brother at the same time. My thoughts and prayers go out to you. Although I have only seen Roy once in the past many years (at my brother Reid's Memorial Service in 2014) I will miss him. Your second cousin, Keith
Sue and Dick Beyers
November 29, 2020
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Robert Piascik
November 28, 2020
My deepest condolences go out to Cathie, Roy's kids, Christine, Shelby, and Craig. I got to know Roy through Shelby and Craig. He was always an easy-going, fun-loving guy who loved his family. May he rest in peace.
Rae Hartwell Munsell
November 28, 2020
I cannot remember a time that Roy and the Jeffersons were not in my life. Our parents were friends, we went to school and Sunday School together, and happily, we reconnected many years later. This loss is a shattering one, for everyone who knew him. His joy, his laughter, his love of family were always evident and made him a joy to be around. My deepest, heartfelt sympathies to his entire family.
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