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Russell David "Rusty" Cavanaugh

7/6/1959 - 5/31/2025

Russell David "Rusty" Cavanaugh obituary, 7/6/1959-5/31/2025, New London, CT

BORN

7/6/1959

DIED

5/31/2025

FUNERAL HOME

Impellitteri-Malia Funeral Home

84 Montauk Ave.

New London, Connecticut

Russell Cavanaugh Obituary

New London - Russell "Rusty" David Cavanaugh, 65, passed away at home Saturday, May 31, 2025 in New London. Rusty was born July 6, 1959, in New London, to Eugene Russell and Gilda Diana Diamantini Cavanaugh.

He attended Harbor School, St. Joseph's, Saint Bernard's, and Mitchell College. He served the community in the New London Police Department beginning in June 1984 as supernumerary, hired as patrol in October 1985, promoted to sergeant in July 2005, retiring after 36 years in June 2022.

Rusty met Yvonne in 2009, they married in 2014, officially bringing together their families. She surrounded him with her love and light through his passing. He is survived by Yvonne, Megan and Matthew Zucker, Sean and Jacqueline Cavanaugh, Alex and Katherine Elwood, and Eric and Danielle Elwood. He adored his grandchildren, Isabelle, Elwood and Jack Cavanaugh, who will hear fun stories of Papa for years to come. Along with his immediate family, he is survived by sister, Pamela and Jeff Muttart; and brother David and Melissa Cavanaugh. He is also survived by niece Kristina and Dan Coughlin, and their children, Chase and Kendall; nephews Matthew Muttart and Chase Knepp. His extended Cavanaugh, Diamantini, Hancock and Stoddard families will long remember their cousin Rusty. He also leaves behind Jeffrey Kalolo, decades long coworker and, more importantly, his best friend. Rusty is predeceased by his father Eugene Russell Cavanaugh; and mother Gilda Diana Diamantini Cavanaugh; cousin Linda Hancock Donohue; and grandparents, Angelina and John Diamantini and Madeline and Jack Cavanaugh.

All who knew Rusty will remember that family laugh and his Cavanaugh pride, his sense of humor, and his love of playing guitar. He was active in local bands from high school until just a few years ago, playing venues including Mohegan Sun Wolf Den.

Our family is deeply appreciative of Dr. Jason Haldas, Kristen, Anna, and the entire medical team at Smilow Cancer Hospital, Waterford, who have supported and cared so well for us for the better portion of a decade and a half.

Calling hours will be held from 5 to 7 p.m. Friday, June 6, at Impellitteri-Malia Funeral Home, 84 Montauk Avenue, New London. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at noon Saturday, June 7, in St. Joseph's, 149 Montauk Avenue, New London. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the City of New London Police Department, 5 Governor Winthrop Blvd., New London, CT 06320 Attention: New London Animal Control.

"May the road rise to meet you, may the wind be always at your back, may the sun shine warm upon your face, and the rain fall soft upon your fields. And, until we meet again, may God hold you in the palm of His hand." The world as I know it changed with the passing of my guy, Rusty, last night.

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Published by The Day on Jun. 5, 2025.

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bill bono

June 7, 2025

Rusty was always the nicest guy always smiling my classmate St B '77 RIP brother my prayers out to you Yvonne and all the kids.

Lisa Michaud

June 7, 2025

The first time I met, you greeted me with a big smile and a joke. It made me laugh so hard. Some of the best memories I have was watching you and the band play live. So much fun and love in the room. You were so talented, Mohegan Sun will never be the same. I feel so privileged and lucky to have been apart of those beautiful memories. To your family and extended blue line family, sending hugs and love to you. In a world that can feel cold and dark, real connections are rare. Rusty was a real one. A good human being. Heaven must have been short on angels because the world is a little darker now that you are gone. Your memory and light will forever shine bright in all that had the privilege to know and love you. Thank you for always making me feel like I mattered. Rest easy now. No more pain .

Tom quintin

June 6, 2025

Dearest Family.

I'm so sorry for your loss. May you keep your memories of Rusty close to your heart and he will always be with you. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. He is at home now with God and his other family members and friends. This is our temporary home, and we will all see him again when God calls us back home. Love you all. Take care of one another.

Tommy Quintin

Duane Pierson

June 5, 2025

My deepest condolences to you,Yvonne, and the entire family. RIP Rusty.

Katrina Mundell Madden

June 5, 2025

My heartfelt sympathy to Yvonne and the whole Cavanaugh family. May you rest in peace.

Mike

June 5, 2025

In a blink of an eye, your gone I´m gonna miss our lunch´s together, and sharing the twinkle of mischief we both shared,on what where going to do next. We did laugh a lifetime.

Lonny

June 5, 2025

My condolences to Yvonne and family at this time. Rusty was a great friend who will be missed. R.I.P Friend.

Russell DiNoto

June 5, 2025

yvonne and family Rusty was a good friend to me he will be missed by all may he rest in peace

Bill Brett

June 5, 2025

RIP! One of Brother Bruce´s Favorite thanks for being good to him.

Brian McGuire

June 5, 2025

Truly one of NL´s finest. RIP Rusty.

Cheryl Martin

June 5, 2025

To the Cavanaugh Family, Sending my condolences and prayers to Rusty family and friends. I have fond memories of working with Rusty at NLPD. RIP my friend

Bill Dittman

June 5, 2025

RIP Rusty !

Gina debona Carter

June 5, 2025

Pam so sorry about your brother

Dave Fairman

June 5, 2025

Rest in Peace Rusty

Fred Hill

June 4, 2025

My condolences to his family.i was a kid.at Gardner's lake.we were all kids.back then
Fun times.fishing.swimming.water skiing.good times.r.i.p. my friend.my condolences to.all of your family.god bless

Joann Starkweather

June 4, 2025

God bless

Dave Fairman

June 4, 2025

Rest in Peace

Joann Starkweather

June 4, 2025

Joann Starkweather

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