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Sharon Staub

5/17/1955 - 12/03/2025

Sharon Staub obituary, 5/17/1955-12/03/2025, Niantic, CT

BORN

5/17/1955

DIED

12/03/2025

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Abbey Cremation Service - Rocky Hill

511 Brook Street

Rocky Hill, Connecticut

UPCOMING SERVICE

Celebration Of Life

Dec. 14, 2025

1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m.

Niantic Bay Yacht Club

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Sharon Staub Obituary

Niantic - Sharon Alyce Downing Staub, age 70, of Niantic, passed away peacefully Wednesday, Dec. 3, 2025, after a hard-fought battle with cancer, with her family by her side. Sharon was born May 17, 1955, in Bangor, Maine, and was the daughter of Joan H. Downing and Richard F. Downing.

She graduated from East Lyme High School in 1973, before attending Castleton University and Western Connecticut State University. Sharon was employed as a private daycare provider for many years and worked at Bailey and Staub as well as Weight No Longer, officially retiring in 2022. She was a business owner, owning "The Flag Shop" in downtown Niantic, pursuing her love and passion for flags.

Sharon enjoyed sewing, Bunko, baking, reading, but most of all spending time with friends and family.

Sharon was predeceased by her son, Matt Staub, who passed away in 2020. She is survived by her husband, Nicholas Staub III "Dusty," of 49 years. Sharon is also survived by her son Nicholas Staub IV and wife Larissa of Niantic; daughter Kaitlyn Staub Perry of Niantic; her beloved granddaughter Lila Perry of Niantic; sister Susan Hall and husband Kelly of Mystic; Sally Clark of Coventry; sister-in-law Bailey Johnson and husband Richard of Ellsworth, Maine; brother-in-law Charles Staub of Niantic; nephew Michael Hall and wife Sarah; niece Ashley Fogarty and husband Andrew; niece Kelley Clark; nephew Timothy Clark; niece Codie Montigny and husband Taylor; nephew Richard Johnson; and numerous great-nieces and nephews.

A celebration of Life will be held from 1 to 4 p.m. Sunday, Dec. 14, at the Niantic Bay Yacht Club on 8 Shore Road in Niantic.

Memorial contributions may be made to YNHH at Home Hospice, 753 Boston Post Road, Suite 200, Guilford, CT 06437, attention: Hospice. Contributions may also be made to the L+M Hospital Development Fund and include Smilow Cancer Patient Assistance, Waterford, CT, in the memo line.

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Published by The Day on Dec. 8, 2025.

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23 Entries

Bruce Bentley

December 10, 2025

Dusty and family

So sad to learn of Sharon´s passing. I can´t say that I knew her well but I can say that when I was lucky enough to be with her I enjoyed her company. She was a gentle person with a sweet disposition. Please accept my sincere condolences and call on me if I can help in anyway at all.

Mike Terry

December 10, 2025

So sorry for your loss Dusty

Gwen (Hughes) Zarkos

December 10, 2025

A beautiful person
Very sweet

Pat Robbins

December 9, 2025

Sharon was the best person. She always had a smile and a kind word. It makes me happy that she and Dusty had so many years together. She will be greatly missed.

Robin C

December 9, 2025

With deepest sympathy to Nick and family. So sad to hear of your Mom passing. I'm Jon's aunt. Many prayers of support to you all.

Chris Funk

December 9, 2025

Dusty so sorry for your loss to you and your family

Peter DeRosa

December 8, 2025

Dusty, we know she fought very hard, so sorry. Peter and Cindy

Kelley Doerfler

December 8, 2025

My heart breaks. I had the privilege of working with Sharon. She was the kindest sweet person one could ever have met. Prayers to you all, may you find peace in knowing she was loved by so many.

Marianne Kupisz Zerio

December 8, 2025

Dusty, so sorry about losing Sharon. Hugs and condolences go out to you, Sally and your family. RIP Sharon

Candy Southworth Ryan

December 8, 2025

Beautiful lady !! RIP

Sue Cash

December 8, 2025

Dusty to you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss. Sending you all prayers and strength during this difficult time.

Dave Fairman

December 8, 2025

Rest in Peace Sharon

Kara Berry

December 7, 2025

Our prayerful condolences go out to Dusty, Nick and Kaitlyn and all of Sharon´s family. She was always so sweet and cheerful. She fought this battle so courageously. We are so very sorry for your loss.
Tim and Kara Berry and family.

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Linda Griffiths

December 7, 2025

Our heartfelt sympathies to all of Sharon´s family and friends on this terrible loss. It was an honor to call her a friend, a treasure to have as a confidant and a willing co-conspirator of our many hair brained adventures over the years. A pillar of our EL `73 group, she was always upbeat and added a kind and gentle word to all. Rest in peace. Sorry we never got to highjack the senior bus ! Love, Linda and Rich Griffiths

Kara (O´Brien) Anastasiou

December 7, 2025

I am so sorry for your loss. Shari was my go-to beach mom through much of my childhood and I remember her as kind and fun-loving. Thank you for sharing her with me and my brothers, Kaitlyn and Nick (and Matt), sending you all love.

Mary Zorzanello

December 6, 2025

So many good memories of Shari in our formative years in Niantic. I treasure the thoughts of our friendship and all the many good times we had as we learned about life and watched ourselves and others grow. We laughed at the fun and were there for each other through the sad times. My heart goes out to everyone you left behind, Shar. You made us all better people.

Melly (Frederick) Higham

December 6, 2025

I´ve known her for such a long time and she was always a special person who treated everyone with kindness. Knowing the whole family has made my life enriched and she will be missed.

Pat Maillett

December 6, 2025

Dusty, my heart is broken for you. Sending condolences to you, Kaitlyn, Lila, Nick, Sue and Sally. I have so many memories of fun and laughter shared with Sharon. She was so kind and loving. With time I hope you find peace in happy memories.
Love to all, Patti Jo

Annmarie

December 6, 2025

My deepest condolences on your loss, may Sharon rest in heavenly peace, your all in my thoughts and prayers.

Donna Roselund

December 6, 2025

To the Staub Family, we are so very sorry to hear about Sharon. Sharon was always a ray of light and love no matter what was happening. May your memories bring you peace.

With love, The Roselund Family.

Cheryl Fraser Fitzhugh

December 6, 2025

Sharon was a great friend who I loved for her friendship, laughter and always positive attitude. She was a great mother and wife and will be missed by many. I have so many memories from over the years that I will cherish. Sending love to all her family and friends.

Paul Whitehouse

December 6, 2025

So sorry Dusty and family. Shari was a strong, kind, special woman who will be missed by so many!

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