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Thomas Joseph Kelly Jr.

1964 - 2022

Thomas Joseph Kelly Jr. obituary, 1964-2022, New London, CT

BORN

1964

DIED

2022

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Thomas L. Neilan & Sons Funeral Home - New London

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New London, Connecticut

Thomas Kelly Obituary

New London - Thomas Joseph Kelly Jr., 58, of New London passed away peacefully Sunday, Dec. 25, 2022. He was born Sept. 26, 1964, in New London, the son of Thomas Joseph Kelly Sr. and Eugenie "Sandy" Alexandra Brennan Kelly.

Tom grew up in New London and attended New London Schools. He spent his entire life on the shoreline, in his youth he was always outside swimming, sailing, fishing, and crabbing with friends and his many cousins. Tom's love of the shoreline and Long Island Sound led him to a career as a marine mechanic. This was the ideal career for him as he was an avid boater, diver, and fisherman.

He is survived by his mother, Eugenie B. Kelly of New London; his sister Eugenie "Jeanie" A. Kelly of Waterford; two nieces, Megan E. Kelly of New London, Kerrie E. Kelly; and her daughters, Farrah and Isabelle of Quaker Hill.

He was predeceased by his father Thomas Joseph Kelly Sr.; his brother Patrick M. Kelly; paternal grandparents, Michael and Ellen Kelly; maternal grandparents, Francis and Mary Brennan; uncles, Daniel, Eugene, James, John, Philip, and Terrance Brennan; aunts, Barbra Salerno, Eileen McInich, Francis Flynn, Jacqueline Karn, Kathleen Brennan, and Natalie Brannian.

In lieu of flowers please consider donating to Smilow Cancer Hospital, Save the Sound, or an animal rescue of your choice.

There will be no calling hours, and funeral services will be private.

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Published by The Day on Jan. 5, 2023.

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Kevin Brennan

August 13, 2023

My family's deepest sympathy and condolences for the loss of Tom. He taught me how to be tough and the strength of family. Your cousin Kevin Brennan.

Mark Rafferty

January 9, 2023

Please Accept my Condolences on the passing of Thomas. Having grown up around Caulkins Park knowing your family. Crabbing, fishing, building and repairing fishing rods in the basement.
Lots of great memories over the years !!!! Saddened by your passing way before your time. Rest in peace now. Catch the big ones !!!! Mark

Doug Hall

January 5, 2023

There are no words I can say. My love to you 'Ma' Sandy and Jeanie.

Wes Kenyon

January 5, 2023

Sandy and Jeanie,
Our condolences on the loss of your son and brother Tom. He was a very likable and talented guy. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Wes & Linda Kenyon

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