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Kathy
January 22, 2023
Kathy
January 22, 2023
Thank you all for your sincere condolences and fond memories. You each have a special place in my heart. And I know you had a special place in Paul´s.
Gary Duford
December 1, 2022
Kathy,
Sorry to hear this news. A prayer from a long ago friend.
Ann Plourde Jennings
December 1, 2022
DeAngelis family,
I am sorry to hear of Paul's passing. I hadn't seen him since I was a kid as both he & Sis were quite a bit older than me. My father, Pete Plourde knew your father from coaching football at St Bernard's. I read Paul's obituary to him and he remembered him which is quite a feat at 94. Sis, Paul, Dr & Mrs "D" were all part of our family growing up.
I am so sorry for your loss.
Mark Shea
November 25, 2022
Mr. DeAngelis taught World History at Griswold High School in 1970. He was always well prepared and gave thorough classroom lectures. Since he was a member of the Griswold High School coaching staff, I thought he would likely give an athlete such as myself a break when it came to grading. No such luck--he did everything by the book. I haven't seen Mr. DeAngelis in 45 years. Seeing his obituary sadden me. My condolences to his family.
Tom Hayes
November 23, 2022
Tom Hayes
Dear Kathy:
So sad to hear about Paul's passing. I left a message on
his tribute page but I'm not sure if it got posted. I had
the pleasure of coaching Paul in basketball and football. He was a gifted athlete and very coachable during those
years at St. Bernard's. We were able to keep in touch over
the years and I often spoke with him when we met up
at Planet Fitness in Waterford. I want you to know that I
am keeping Paul, you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. We all lost a good one!
Clif and Karen McKenney
November 23, 2022
Kathy, so very sorry to hear of Paul´s passing. He will most certainly be sorely missed by his family and friends. I never realized he was gifted with so many talents and accomplished all that he did! May he Rest In Peace. Our sincere condolences.
Debra
November 21, 2022
Mr "D" was one of my favorite teachers in Highschool. Personable, funny and witty. I learned to love history as a result of being his student. It is so strange to learn he was only 10 years older than me; which means he was pretty new at this teaching thing, but he was effective. I have never forgotten him or his class. My condolences to his wife, children and family.
Linda Santangelo
November 21, 2022
Kathy and family. We are deeply sorry for your loss of Paul. Great high school memories come to mind. Please know we are praying for you all.
Linda Gaynor Santangelo and Louis Skip Fiorelli
Doreen Arnold
November 21, 2022
So sorry to hear of Paul's passing..He was a great guy..my condolences & prayers to you kathy/ & the family.. May he RIP.
Phil Anctil
November 21, 2022
Paul helped make me the athlete( All State football player) and coach I am today, I started coaching in 1974 and am still coaching and working at G.H.S. today. He taught me to be agressive and smart in every sport he coached me in. His coaching legacy will live on because it is instilled in me. So sorry for you loss! But his Greatest accomplishments are his GREAT family.
Coach Phil Anctil Griswold High School
Deirdre (McLaughlin) Mercier
November 20, 2022
I send my condolences to Kathy and family for the loss of their dear husband and father. I remember Mr. "D" as a teacher at Griswold High School. He made history come alive. I later got to know him more personally when he coached for my husband´s basketball team at Thames Valley. He was a great guy.
Toni parente metherall
November 20, 2022
So sad to hear of Paul´s passing. I will always remember how he got us all together for our st Bernard´s reunion. Rest in peace. Toni parente metherall
Kerry Sullivan
November 20, 2022
Kathy and family: I am so sorry to read this about Paul. I am so sorry you are going through this and please know you are in my thoughts. You both were a special couple who are missed.
Your neighbor
Mike Pescatello
November 20, 2022
Kathy: I am so sorry to learn of Paul's passing. Please accept my deepest condolences and prayers. Paul was a special person and will be deeply missed.
Mike Pescatello
Ellen Gottfried
November 20, 2022
I enjoyed my visits at your home and interacting with Paul... we sometimes laughed together.
May he rest in peace.
Joyce Tyrseck Michaud
November 20, 2022
Kathy,
So very sorry to hear of Paul´s death. You made a wonderful " Saint Bernards couple".
You´re in my prayers.
Elizabeth PrzekopBrown
November 20, 2022
My sincere sympathy to Kathy and her family. It has been a pleasure to have known Paul. He was quite the man . A wonderful neighbor.
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