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Wendy Moher Obituary
She was born April 19, 1960 in Everett, Mass., the daughter of June Tabb Moher of New London and the late William Moher. She graduated from New London High School, class of 1978 and later from Connecticut College with a bachelor of arts degree in history.
Wendy was a follower of the Goddess and used her spiritual strength to help the innocent and the abused.
Wendy was a feminist who wore pink and got her nails done.
Wendy fought hard for women's rights and single handedly took on the Connecticut Department of Corrections, and after years of hard work, got the sexual harassment and abuse of female corrections officers investigated and stopped.
For many years she was the executive director of the Women's Center in Willimantic and dealt with the women and children who had been beaten and sexually abused. She opened many lines of communication between her organization and others that dealt with theses issues. She pulled together members of the State Police, the Dept. of Children and Youth Services, other agencies and got everyone working together so the victims of abuse could be helped and the perpetrators could be brought to justice.
Prior to her death, she was the deputy superintendent of the New Haven Juvenile Detention Center. She loved her job and loved the people she worked with. She wrote a wonderful program that has been dedicated to her. The program was a reorganization of the staff and detainees with the end result being that restraints on children went down over 70 percent.
She was courageous and fought hard against those who would hurt others.
Besides her mother she is survived by her son, Kyle Cormier of East Hartford; two sisters, Patricia Pieniadz of New London and Jennifer LePore of Coventry; two nephews, Derek Pieniadz and Michael Welch; and two nieces, Nina Wildrick and Angelina LePore.
Her family will receive relatives and friends on Thursday from 4 to 8 p.m. at the Impellitteri-Malia Funeral Home, 84 Montauk Ave., New London. A memorial gathering will be held at a later date at Harkness Memorial Park in Waterford.
Donations in her memory may be made to Hospice of Southeastern CT, P.O. Box 902, Uncasville, CT 06382.
Online website at http://wendymoher.blogspot.com/
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Joyce (you know who I am)
February 7, 2026
Still thinking of you 19 years later. Will never forget our time at Mohegan Community College. You would have been 66 4/19/26 and I will be 74 on 4/23/26. Continual, SIP my friend. :>)
Gina debona Carter
April 19, 2025
Missss my high school friend
Joyce Gardner
February 7, 2025
I will never forget you my friend!
Roni Fogg Bookman
February 7, 2023
Wendy, I miss you and your wonderful friendship. You are always in my thoughts and prayers. LOVE you RONI Fogg-Bookman
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John Chumpitazi
April 27, 2007
I am truly saddened to hear of Wendy’s passing. My deepest Sympathy and prayer goes to the Family. I knew Wendy from high school. She touched my heart and her memory will lasted me a lifetime.
Janet Lamirand
March 8, 2007
I attended and graduated with Wendy from the Dept. of Correction Training Academy.
She emitted professionalism & leadership traits encompassed by a warm personality.
Wendy & I crossed paths many times thereafter. She always believed in "Making A Difference" and did so with flair and assertiveness.
She will forever leave her mark on many hearts.
Peace & Prayers
Barbara O'Neill
March 7, 2007
To Wendy’s family and friends,
I met Wendy when she was young; she was “Patty’s little sister”. We were reacquainted briefly when she was a patient at L&M. Although many years had passed and she was fighting for her life she greeted me with a big smile and a hug that warmed my heart and saddened my soul. Since her passing I’ve learned about her and her exceptional life. My condolences to her family and friends.
Anne Gannon
February 22, 2007
Godspeed(or Goddessspeed) Wendy-you will be remembered with love, and left a positive mark on many people-which is all we can ask on this earth. Thank you for being such a wonderful mother for Kyle, and for being such wonderful support for all the Cormier's when Uncle Bob died.I will always remember our visits when I stayed with you and Scott when I came down for dog shows. My sincere sympathies to all who loved you.
Rose Ayhens
February 19, 2007
Dear June & Family,
There will never be enought words in the world to tell you how sorry about Wendy. She is now on her jouny and with no pain, just flying free.
Wendy is not alone and neither are you.
Have hope in tomorrow, have faith in the everlasting,ang take comfort in the love of friends and family
Steven Hall
February 18, 2007
To Wendy's Family,
Please accept my deepest sympathies on your loss. Wendy was a good friend to me in High School. We shared some laughs and she always lightened my spirit. She encouraged my natural inclination to question authority. I am happy to see that she used her life to have such a positive impact on so many. Peace be with you.
Steven Hall
Coventry, Connecticut
michael leamy
February 17, 2007
Kyle, we are so sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. you are in are prayers. we love and are thinking of you in these last few days. we are here for you and love you. love uncle mike and family
carole leamy
February 17, 2007
Dear June and Family,
My deepest symphathy to you and your family,I've walked in your shoes, and know the heartbreaks that you feel at this time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sincerely,
Carole Leamy
Carole Leamy
February 17, 2007
Dear June,Kyle and Family,
My deepest symphathy to your and your family. I've walked in your shoes, so I know the heartaches that you feel at this time. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. My Deepest,
Carole Leamy
Mikel O'Brien
February 16, 2007
I was shocked and saddened to hear of Wendy's untimely passing. She & her Goddess Shoppe had a profound effect on me during a pivitol point in my life -- I will not forget her. My sincere and deepest sympathy goes out to her family.
Teresa Welford
February 15, 2007
To Wendy's Family,
I worked with Wendy @ the Women's Correctional Facility in Niantic. I will remember her wonderful smile. She was a beautiful person, inside and out. May God comfort her family during this sorrowful time.
Sincerely,
MacKinnon Wood
February 14, 2007
Kyle,
I just wanted to extend my condolences to you and your family. I can't imagine how difficult this must be for you, and if you need anything I am just a phone call away.
Kim Sponheimer-Garcia
February 14, 2007
Kyle and Family,
My deepest thoughts and prayers go out to you. I was shocked and saddened to hear this. Wendy was a woman warrior, a wife, a mother and an advocate for the underdog. She has made her mark on many lives including my own. Her spirit will live on in many ways. And let us not forget her love for the animals.
Goddess Bless
Darrylle Olsen
February 14, 2007
About a month ago, Wendy told me that she wanted to become a teacher in order to have a larger impact on the lives of the children she worked so very closely with. Wendy's presence, determination and guidance were simply proof that not all teachers work in a classroom. I didn't know her for too long, but I will miss her smile, her laughter, and our lunchtime chats. I'm sure that Heaven is already a better place.
Mike and Heather Spellman
February 14, 2007
Wendy was a rare person and a champion for anyone needing advocacy. She worked tirelessly to assist people who often had no where else to turn. We will never forget her or her good work for the community. Her family should be proud of her, in her all to brief life, she touched and helped so many people.She left a legacy of caring we should all aspire to.
catherine cortez
February 14, 2007
to june and family,
my heart is broken over your loss,wendy was a lovely girl with a zest for life and family,you are all in my prayers.
Jennifer and Kenneth Pia
February 14, 2007
Mrs. Moher and family, we are so sorry for your loss. May God be with you in your time of need.
Cathy Pagan(Lewis)
February 14, 2007
Familia:
I'm am so shocked and saddened. I sit in disbelief that Wendy, who was one of the strongest women I will ever know is gone. Her grace and humor will live on. I'm grateful to her and for her. For all of you. My prayers are with you all.
Beverly
February 14, 2007
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I was very shocked to see this in the Day. I worked with Wendy a long time ago at Conn College. We have not been in touch for a long time, but it sure did my heart good to see all the good work she did in the past years. You are in my prayers.
Denise Letendre
February 14, 2007
Words cannot express the shock and sorrow I feel. To Wendy's family--I'm so very sorry for your loss. To Wendy--I've missed you so over the years. You changed my life. You taught me to love myself, to see myself as a sacred being, and you showed me how to direct my anger to transform my life and help other women. The things you have given me are priceless. You are the reason I do what I do today. I have so many wonderful memories. You taught me chants and songs that I now teach other women to share with them their goddess heritage. I most admired your strength and courage, and I wanted to be just like you. I am so sorry we parted ways and lost touch. I have so many regrets. Know that I have never forgotten you and I have always loved you deeply. No other person has had such an impact on me and you've shaped the woman I have become. I love you, Wendy. I imagine you are looking down on all of us now gently singing in your beautiful voice, "We all come from the Goddess, and to Her we shall return, like a drop of rain...flowing to the ocean..."
Joyce Gardner
February 14, 2007
June,Patty,Jen & Kyle too, my sincere, heartfelt sympathy for the loss of your daughter, sister & mom.I just don't understand WHY, but obviously, the Lord had other plans for Wendy, and needed another "Goddess" in heaven. It had been a long time since I saw Wendy. We were close at one time but with the difference in life we drifted. Regardless though, the memories are forever kept. One thing that sticks out is the cool, orange, volvo she would pick me up and off to "Mohegan Community College" we would go. Patty, what a wonderful job you did on the "blog". The pictures were awesome, and boy did the memories came back from Hawthorne Dr. after seeing your dad. Bill & Wendy must of had quite a homecoming in Heaven. Thank you for letting me be involved with your family, and I will pray that God will give you the strength to deal with your pain, but knowing what a lady you instill to this earth, and keeping her memories close to you heart.
February 14, 2007
Kyle & Family,
Your mom was a wonderful person and a crusader for women. She will be missed by all of us. May she rest in peace until we meet again. Blessed be.
Rev. Pam Pelletier
Helena Cardin Gannon
February 14, 2007
Dear Kyle,
I am so sorry about the loss of your mom. Wendy was a wonderful mom. I know she was proud of you. I have always said throughout the years what a great job she did raising you. You are a testimony to that. You are a wonderful young man and I appreciate what you do for your Memere, my sister Marilyn. Please extend my condolences to all of your mom's family. Her work to help others was remarkable. I also know that your dad, Scott, and Wendy had many good years together. You are all in my prayers.
Love, Great Aunt Helena
Gemma Dubaldo
February 14, 2007
My thoughts and prayers go to Wendy's family.
I have so many precious memories of Wendy and our times together at the Goddess Shoppe. I will never, never forget or lose those memories, they will always be a part of me.
I can still see her face when she put her hands on my shoulders and said, "Honor the succession of teachers. Those who taught me, and through me, those you will teach."
I will, my Lady. I will.
Gemma Dubaldo
Michelle Macomber
February 14, 2007
I send my deepest sympathy to Kyle and Wendy's family. I am so grateful for all you have given me and to have known such an incredible woman. You have touched the lives of so many people, some more deeply than others. I will miss you my beautiful sister and will see you again on the other side.
Blessed Be
The Leamys
February 14, 2007
Kyle,
Our hearts and prayers are with you as you endure yet another great loss in your young life. May the Lord bring you comfort & peace during these difficult days. Cherish your memories, as they will bring you joy.
Always know we're here for you --- anything you need, any hour of the day.
Much love,
Uncle Gerry, Auntie Joyce, Corey, Caity & Jake
Deb and Skip Willson
February 14, 2007
Kyle, June, Patty, Jen and
family, - I share in your grief, and mourn the loss of someone so very special. I loved Wendy and respected her as one of the strongest women of mind and spirit that I have ever known. I will always be grateful to her for with Scott, not only raising our nephew Kyle to be such a solid and responsible young man, but also for being our rock when our father, her father-in-law, passed away so suddenly. Wendy's lifespan was not long, but she knew the value of making her time on this earth count. It is a wonderful testament to her life to have had a such a positive impact on others. She made a difference.
Mary Cardin
February 13, 2007
Kyle, and Wendy's family:
our hearts are with you as you mourn the passing from this life of your mother, a woman too full of life and too young for us to let go of...we love you and share your grief. I will always think of Wendy when I read or hear about the "V. Monologues"--a wonderful show celebrating women that we shared as a family when it was a benefit for the shelter that Wendy worked for--it was a fabulous night that will always bring forth for me the strongest feelings of family and women--thank you Wendy for that gift and more.
Love, Mary, and Mike & Joe
Jesse, Don and Chloe Strong
Don Strong
February 13, 2007
Ma,Patty and Jennifer,
Although we havent kept in touch, I think of you all often and how mine and Wendy's lifes were touched by ALL of you. I can't imagine how you all must feel now with Wendy gone. I will include you all in my prayers. Wendy was such a spark in everyones life. I'm not suprised that she did so much to touch so many. With all the time that has passed and all thats gone on, it would be great to try to catch up sometime. I will be forever grateful to Wendy for my relationship with her and how it helped me to grow. She was quite a woman and a friend. Jennifer, you were there for me too, more than you know. Maybe you will laugh and smile thinking of some of the times we spent together. Same goes for you, Ma. I will love you forever for being our Mother and caring as you do. Patty, thank for your strength through all this and all you're doing. I remember you that way. Peace be with you all. I'm not sure what happened to Wendy for God to take her so soon but thank you and bless you all for being with her to the last. I'm not suprised and would expect nothing less.
Much Love and Hugs,
Don
Derik Rodriguez
February 13, 2007
Let me first offer my condolences to the family.
Wendy you will be sorely missed, your smile your wisdom and your persona. God has a new angel in the heavens. I was very fortunate to have met you. You were more than a supervisor, you were an advisor,a teacher and a friend. It was a pleasure to get to know you. THANK YOU, and again you will be missed.
Kathy, Billy, Marysa, Hannah and Kerry Eon
February 13, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers for Kyle, Scott, Wendy's family and all who were close to her. We didn't know her well, but it is obvious she was loved very much by many people.
Linda Trahan
February 13, 2007
To Wendy's family,
I was so shocked and saddened at the loss of Wendy. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I met Wendy several years ago when we worked on projects together to empower young women. She was a remarkable presence. I learned a great deal from her about advocating for others. Though I had not seen her in a few years, I often thought of her. She was a tireless advocate for victims. How proud you must be of the life she led. I was proud to be her friend. May you find peace at this most difficult time.
Marie Schnakenberg
February 13, 2007
To Jen and The Moher Family,
I am so sad for your loss. Although I did not have the privledge to know Wendy,I wish I had. She is obviously an amazing women who had a positive impact on many people's lives and will surely be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Joe Ezekiel
February 13, 2007
On behalf of the staff and children of the New Haven Juvenile Detention Center, I would just like to say that our prayers are with you and Wendy will be sorely missed. Sincerely, Joe Ezekiel
Heather Stanat
February 13, 2007
Thank you for leading me down the path towards justice. Thank you for believing in me and for helping others like me. You made the world a better place in which to live.
You will be missed, but never forgotten.
Bobby Bliven Jr
February 13, 2007
To The Moher Family
My thoughts and prayers are with you and Wendy. Wendy was a remarkable woman and it was a pleasure to be a part of her life.
Nancy Arsenault
February 13, 2007
TO WENDY'S FAMILY AND ESPCIALLY KYLE. JOHN AND I ARE SO SORRY FOR THE LOSE OF YOUR MOM. WENDY WAS A MOM,DAUGHTER,GANDDAUGHTER,SISTER AND AUNT. FAMILY MEANT A LOT TO WENDY. SHE WAS A LEADER FOR WOMEN. WENDY DID A GREAT DEAL OF GOOD ON THIS EARTH FOR THE SHORT TIME SHE WAS HERE. MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL.
YOU WILL BE IN OUR HEARTS ON THURSDAY.
LOVE
NANCY&JOHN (KYLE'S COUSIN)
SACO, ME
Dan Cormier
February 13, 2007
Kyle, June and family - First, let me offer my condolences. Wendy's legacy is the many lives she has touched. I'm indebted to her for raising my nephew, Kyle, to be the remarkable young man is is today. I'm also thankful to her for being by my brother's side during and following the most trying part of his life. Lastly, I cannot let pass how grateful I am, when she stepped in and did so much for my mom and our family after my father's passing. When I remember her visit to our house in California, I laugh aloud. Thanks for the memories, “Wendell”.
Peace, Uncle Bunky
Kristine
February 13, 2007
"I am the four winds,
I breath and am by their presence,
I am the elements and their family,
They are my kin.
I am the freedom of the wind,
I am the agility of the fire,
I have the humor of electricity,
My love of nature from the earth,
My ignorance the darkness,
My truth I tell the light, My attitude...the ice.
Of these things I will always be,
Blessed Be"
"I am light , I am energy
I am the beginning , I am the end
I am life , I am death
I am without time , I am eternal"
Cathy Mallove
February 13, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with Wendy and your whole family. I haven't seen Wendy in many years but was proud and honoured to read about her positive impact on so many people.
Stephen Moriarty
February 13, 2007
Dear June,Patty and Family,
Please accept our heartfelt wishes for eternal peace and life for your beautiful sister.
We all share in your grief and sorrow and hopefully it will give you-all a bit of comfort in this ever so sad time in your lives.
Sincerely,
Steve & Barbara Moriarty
Roni Fogg-Bookman
February 13, 2007
Wendy was such a beautiful lady inside and out. We lost contact when I moved to VA. But she was, and always will be in my heart. May God Bless you all. Roni
Rachael
February 13, 2007
I was simply one of the many, many people whose lives Wendy touched. I loved Wendy, she was my teacher and friend. She was an amazing woman and I am thankful to have known her.
My thoughts are with the family at this difficult time.
Blessed Be,
Raye
February 13, 2007
To the entire family,
On behalf of the Connecticut College Community, please accept our condolences on your loss.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Bridget McShane
Director of Alumni Relations
Connecticut College
270 Mohegan Avenue
New London, CT 06320
donna joe pescatello
February 13, 2007
june pat jen so sorry for your loss are prayers are with you may the lord shine apon you in your hour of need
Rosemarie Butler
February 13, 2007
Very sorry to her of your loss. Wendy and I graduated from High School. She was a great person and I will always remember her engery. May the Lord keep you safe in his arms as you walk through this very sad time.
God Bless,
Rosemarie (Crane) Butler,class of 78
Christina
February 13, 2007
Merry Meet, Merry Part and until we meet again.
Goddess Bless
Joann Starkweather-Kerr
February 13, 2007
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007
Marcy Carlone
February 13, 2007
I have known Wendy for several years and hearing of her passing is shocking... and very sad. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family and friends. We worked together in the sexual assault crisis arena and her passion for her work was obvious, as was her love for her family.
Keri A. Rosini
February 13, 2007
Wendy was an inspiring women and a pleasure to work for. I worked for Wendy at Hartford Juvenile Detention Center. She had a strong upbeat spirit and was and a little ball of fire. She always fought for what was right and I admired that about her. I will always have fond memories of her. I know she will be watching over everyone. My heart and prayers go out to all of her dear family members and friends. God Bless.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Keri Rosini
Polly Carilli
February 13, 2007
My deepest sympathy to Wendy's family and friends.
Her Greatness will live on within all of our hearts and inspire us to continue her work.
Much Love and Blessings to Kyle..
Patty-Lynn Musella(Pescatello)
February 13, 2007
My thoughts and prayers go out to the family. May GOD watch over you and give you strength in your time of need.
Sandy
February 13, 2007
Wendy and her Goddess Shoppe brought a spirituality to women that they might not have found otherwise. Her life touched so many others; the ripples go on and on,and will continue to do so infinitely. My heart goes out to Kyle and her family-- she was so very special. I am honored to have known her, and I will always remember her warm, loving hugs.
Julie-Ann Pescatello
February 13, 2007
June, Patty and Jen
I am so sorry to learn of your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your families at this difficult time.
gina debona carter
February 13, 2007
soory about wendy passing on. i went to the independent high school with her in new london
Alisha Hampson
February 13, 2007
My thoughts and prays are for Kyle and his family during this difficult time. Wendy will be missed. Wendy was a very sweet lady who was so generous for letting me stay at her house. She was very welcoming.
Wendy I will do my best to watch over Kyle. Thank you for being sweet and everything you did for me. I will never forget the talk that we had in the car driving to you sister's house one evening.
Alisha
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