He is survived by his fiance, Olivia Constant and her three children, Nicole, Christine and Caylan of Palm Springs; his mother, Ricarda Cisneros of Cathedral City; his father, Jose Avelar of Palm Desert; his sisters, Isabel Gallegos of Huntington Park, Teresa Valenzuela of Thousand Palms, Lourdes Lopez of South Gate, Patricia Lopez of Walnut, Carmen Ruiz of Thousand Palms, and Lupe Moreno of Desert Hot Springs; his brothers, Juan Avelar of San Jose, Francisco Avelar of Cathedral City and George Avelar of Palm Springs.
Funeral mass will be held at 10:00 a.m. Friday, January 19, 2007 at St. Theresa Catholic Church on Ramon Road in Palm Springs.
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Nicole I McKiel
January 12, 2022
I thought of you a lot yesterday, I still miss you, and I always will. I love you!
Nicole McKiel
April 13, 2018
We miss you, always and forever.
Love your daughter's
Nicole, Christine and Caylin
Lupe
May 11, 2013
Well, it's been almost 7 years since you went home to our
Lord, I just want to tell you that t'll this day there isn't one
day that I don't think about you. You are dearly missed!!
With love, Lupe
Jesus Jaimes
February 1, 2008
Avelar Family,
I would like to send my sincere condolences. I grew up with George and got to know Beto and All of the Family. I have great and unforgettable memories of living right next door to you in La Paloma. Beto was always the happy one of the bunch and he passed it on to others.
Although I had not seen Beto in a while I honestly say that when I heard the news I was Very Saddened by knowing that he is gone, but I also know he is in a better place now. he was a great friend and I will miss him.
George if you read this contact me.
Love,
Jesus Jaimes
Erica Lopez
August 29, 2007
I truly miss you B I look out my window hoping you would just pull up not a day passes that I don't. I miss u.
SAM I AM
August 26, 2007
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!
sam i am
August 26, 2007
I am extremely relieved that your in a peaceful environment now.I miss you more than you'll ever know!No one will be able to replace the kind of unconditional love you shared with everyone!You were TRUELY MY BEST FRIEND!You never let me down,regardless of any kind of upset we went through!Thank you for showing me the REAL meaning,"THATS WHAT FRIENDS ARE FOR!"I love you big dog! KICKBACK!! And your promise was the one and only that hasn't been broken!!!!!!and i will wear it until we meat again!with all my love past,present and always just guide me through!!!!! i love you!!!
TIFFANY MELENDEZ
March 30, 2007
YOU ALWAYS TOLD IT HOW IT IS, BUT FOREMOST YOU WERE THE REALIST OF THEM ALL. KNOW ONE WILL EVER COMPARE TO THE KIND OF AURA YOU HAD. YOU TRULY HAD THAT WAY OF TOUCHING THE SOUL. I THANK YOU FOR HELPING ME FIND GODS PLAN. NOW YOU CAN FINALLY REST BERTO, WITH PEACE AND THE ANGELS THAT WERE ALWAYS WITH YOU. YOU'LL INTERNALLY HAVE A BIG PLACE IN MY HEART. THANK YOU FOR ALL YOU DID. YOU WILL BE REMEMBERED RIGHTIEOUS IN MY BOOK.
February 17, 2007
hello
Jamie and Katie
February 13, 2007
Our condolences to Albert's family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. He will be missed by many.
Former co-workers.
AUDREY SWYERS CHAVEZ
January 29, 2007
TO AVELAR FAMLIY
(CARMEN GEORGE LUPE & THE REST OF THE BROTHERS AND SISTERS
THERE ARE REALLY NO WORDS TO HEAL THE PAIN I JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW MY THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU ALL,,,, AND I MISS YOU GUYS THERE WERE ALOT OF MEMORYS.. GEORGE WE HAD SO MUCH FUN WHEN YOU WERE AROUND US I CANT EVEN THINK OF ONE TIME NOT LAUGHING YOU AND YOUR BROTHER HAD ME LAUGHING ALL THE TIME EVEN WHEN WE WERE FIGHTING,,,,MY THOUGHTS ARE WITH ALL OF YOU
Cesar Gurrola
January 26, 2007
I will always have you in my heart, i love you tio.
Carlos Camacho
January 25, 2007
Tio Beto:
I'm sadden that you are no longer with us but joyous that you are with our Almighty creator! Thank you for the moments that we shared, whether we cried or laughed, but most importantly, thank you for being like my older brother and always looking out for me!! LOVE YOU LOTS TIO!!
ERICA PESCADOR LOPEZ
January 23, 2007
THRU EVERYTHING YOU WERE ALWAYS THERE YOU ARE A TRUE FRIEND AND WILL BE GREATLY MISSED BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN I LOVE YOU B. MY PRAYERS ARE WITH HIS FAMILY AND HIS LOVED ONES GOD BLESS YOU ALL.
daniel"casper", gabriela,gabriel,&emily pappas
January 21, 2007
B-dogg,
well, compadre. I want to thank you for all the help you've gave Daniel"Casper", gabriel,emily, and me. whenever we needed a hand you were always there. we will always Love you with all our heart. Especialmente tu ahijado Gabriel!! everyday he asked for you and i tell him you're with Jesus.
to the AVELAR family and Olivia: my thoughts and prayers are with you always! we will ALWAYS keep Bertos memory ALIVE.
Andres, Maria and Angelica Gonzalez
January 21, 2007
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Christina Gonzalez
January 21, 2007
Berto, Joseph and I will miss you.
You were a good friend. Always wanting us to keep going forward, not looking back. You gave us lasting advice and suport, that we will remember forever. We thankyou for this. And even at times that wer'nt so good you were always straight up and direct. I'm glad the last time I saw you, I had the
chance to give you one last hug, and tell you that I'm glad we were friends. I will miss you,and value the times we shared. I know your in a happier place and with Jiame, watching over all of us that you love. Thankyou Berto, We love you.
Christina and Joseph
Patricia Lopez
January 19, 2007
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007
aimee peck
January 19, 2007
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007
christine avelar
January 19, 2007
Be Still
Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.
Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.
If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.
Palacio/Pappas
January 19, 2007
Our deepest sympathy and condolenses to the family of "Berto" Avelar, you will be missed by many. Thank you for all the help that you always graciously extended to your friends, whenever anyone needed help. Love and respect forever, from Daniel (Casper) Pappas and the Palacio family. May God Bless and keep your family.
Nicole McKiel
January 19, 2007
Albert,
I always thought of you as a father, and always will. You will always be in my heart.
Your Daughter
Nicole
caylin mckiel
January 19, 2007
In My Pocket
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
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