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Dorothy Kandarian Obituary

Dorothy Kandarian passed to her eternal home on May 7, 2009. She was a resident at Clearbrook Inn Assisted Living Center in Silverdale, Wash. She was preceded in death by an infant daughter, Doredda Kandarian; her husband of 41 years, Edward Kandarian, and her second husband John Ishkanian. She is survived by her children: daughter, Sharron Kanlian and son-in-law Sonny of Seabeck, Wash.; son, Bruce Kandarian of Coachella, Calif. She leaves three grandchildren, Stephan Kanlian (Joan), Shaunna Kanlian Duffy (Tim) and Joshua Kandarian; four great-grandchildren, Christian and Henry Kanlian and Grace and Zachary Duffy. Dorothy also leaves behind her sister, Lucille Huether of San Diego, Calif.; and brother, Harry Carian, Jr. of Visalia, Calif. Dorothy was born in Fresno, Calif., in 1917, to Harry and Virginia Carian. She attended local schools and graduated from Kern County High School. She attended Millinery School at Frank Wiggins Trade School where she learned to make suits, dresses and hats. She became very accomplished at sewing and handwork, and that talent continued throughout her life, including knitting and needlepoint. She married Edward Kandarian in Los Angeles in 1937, and they moved to the Coachella Valley in California, in 1942, where they established their farming business for 36 years, growing dates and table grapes. She was the office manager for several Orthopedic Surgeons in Indio and Palm Desert, Calif. She was known for her love of gardening and her beautiful rose garden. After being widowed for 16 years, Dorothy married a longtime friend of the family, John Ishkanian, and moved to his home in Hemet, Calif. in 1994, where they lived until his death in 2003. Dorothy was very involved in community activities throughout her life. She was a part of the "Mother's Choral Group" of Coachella Valley, an active member of Coachella School district PTA, a member of Indio Women's club, a member of Beta Sigma Phi International for 44 years, serving as President several terms, a member of Coachella Valley Chapter #360 of Eastern Star for 41 years and a member of Coachella Valley Museum and Historical Society in Indio, Calif. She also served several terms as President of the Palm Desert Women's Club, and was a member of the Native Daughters in Hemet, Calif. In 2004, Dorothy moved to Silverdale, Wash and Clearbrook Inn and Living Center where she was cared for with loving hands and hearts by the staff there. A celebration of life was held at Clearbrook Inn in Silverdale on May 14, 2009 at 2:00 PM. Interment will be private with a Celebration of Life in the Coachella Valley pending. The family suggests that donations be made to the following: The Armenian Tree Project, Dorothy Kandarian Memorial, 65 Main Street, Watertown, MA 02472; Immanuel Armenian Congregational Church, In memory of Dorothy Kandarian, 9516 Downey Avenue, Downey, CA 90240.

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Published by The Desert Sun from May 16 to May 21, 2009.

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Sharon Moore

July 25, 2009

Dear Sharon & Bruce,

I was so sorry to hear of the passing of your mom. I remember her as a warm and elegant woman and a lively member of the old gang with which my parents were a part.

Sharon (Radice) Moore

Gwen Harlow

May 22, 2009

Dear Sharron and Bruce and all the families. Dorothy was a great and beautiful lady. I remember her as always having a sweet smile. Years ago, she was in some musicals with me in the Woman's Club at Indio, directed by Joe and Noonie O'Rourke. My love and prayers are with all of you as you share the special memories of her wonderful life. God Bless.

May 20, 2009

Dear Sharron and Bruce,

I was very sad to hear of your Mother's passing. Although it's been many years since I lived in the Desert...I still remember how kind and welcoming she and the rest of the Kandarian Family were, whenever I visited.

Debbie Brown (Montreal, Canada)

May 19, 2009

Sharron, Bruce and families:

So sorry to hear about your Mom. She was always a beautiful lady with a wonderful family.

Sylvia (McCook) Beatty and Bernie McCook

Robert Carian

May 19, 2009

To Sharon, Bruce and the entire Kandarian related family, so sorry to hear the news about Aunt Dorothy.

May 18, 2009

To The Kandarian Family:

So sorry for your loss, and you know that you our in our thoughts and prayers.
It looks like the old Gang is back together again. I'm sure they are catching up on old times.

May the Lord Keep you close
Love Jeff and Kathy Allchin Hubbard

Barbara (Smillie) Eble

May 16, 2009

Sharon and Bruce....I am very sorry for your recent loss. You are very fortunate to have had your Mother with you for so many years. May your memories be comforting to you.

I didn't realize Sharon that you and your family had moved to Washington. I lived there for 24 years and moved back to Northern California 6 years ago.

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