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Janice Jenks
May 17, 2024
Hi Son...
Missing you more than you can imagine. I think of you every day and wish I could hear your voice. You would be so proud of Robbie too. Love and miss you. Mom
Christina Salinas
February 25, 2013
I miss you so much Gilly
Janice Jenks
May 16, 2012
My sweet son Gilly,
God called you home 5 years ago today. His joy, our loss. Now your grandpa has come home too. I hope are taking care of each other! Please know that I love you and miss you so very much. I think of you often and always touch the petrified tree (your rock) at Disneyland in memory of you. Until we meet again, your memory is in my heart and your love embraces me. You will never be forgotten my sweet son.
Love and miss you,
Mom
Christina Salinas
January 13, 2012
Gil,
We were all blessed with your birth 26 years ago today. No one knew how short your time would be here but I know we are all grateful to have had you in our lives. I hope you are dancing with Jesus on this day. You are missed and loved beyond what any words could describe. Until we meet again.
Christina Salinas
January 11, 2012
Gilly,
I think of you everyday but maybe its because we are approaching what would be your 26th Birthday I can't stop thinking of you. I miss you so very much and my heart feels so heavy. Nothing has been the same since God called you home. I remain lost without you and look forward to the day I see your face and your beautiful smile and my heart will feel whole again. I love you and always will and I miss my best friend more than anything.
Christina Salinas
January 13, 2011
Gilly, I have you frozen in my mind at 21 but if you were here you would be 25 today. I always think on your birthdays that have passed and wonder where would we be now if I still had you by my side. I try not to do this too often cause it just makes me sad. I will forever be grateful for sharing the special time in my life with you that we were given. I cherish the precious memories we created and shared and wouldn't trade them for the world. You are so greatly missed and loved. Until we meet again, I'll hold your love and your memory in my heart. Always loving you, Christina
Janice Jenks
January 13, 2011
My sweet son,
You were born on this day, 25 years ago. I miss you more than you will ever know. You may be gone from this earth, but you are NOT forgotten.
I pray that you are dancing in Heaven on this day. I am so glad you are not suffering on this planet, but rejoicing in a peaceful place.
I miss you so much.
I love you,
Mommy
Janice Jenks
January 13, 2010
January 13, 2010
My Gilly,
Words cannot express the deep sense of loss I am feeling today. 24 years ago today, I was blessed with the joy of giving birth to you.
I can still remember hearing your first cry. When the nurses handed you to me, all I saw were the most beautiful, soulful eyes and a lot of dark hair.
You brought so much joy to so many people and were a very memorable human being.
I know you have found peace and joy in heaven and I look forward to the day when we shall once again be reunited.
I can't wait to give you a hug, hold your hand, and sing the "My Gilly has a first name..." song that only you and I shared.
Tonight on the way home, the Diamond Rio song "One more day" played on the radio... if only I had one more day with you.
I miss you more than you will ever know. I have always loved you with the deepest unconditional love that only a mother can have. I know that you KNOW all of that...
You have always been, and continue to be, my precious son... my joy.
I love and miss you with all of my heart.
Mom
Christina Salinas
December 30, 2009
Gilly,
Time has a way of passing so quickly even when it feels like you can't go on life has a way of forcing you. I know that you have been here to guide me onto the right path and you have a way of making me figure things out. I know that I will always miss you, how could I not but I am finally able to think of you and smile far more often than I do cry. I miss you more and more as each day passes and think about you and all the amazing memories we shared. There are so many times that I wish I could just sit and talk and laugh with you. I miss that laugh of yours so much, just thinking about it makes me smile. I am so blessed to have you for the time I did. Thank you for all the smiles and beautiful memories.
Loving you,
Christina
September 13, 2009
Hey man,
Its been so long since i last seen you, and i remember it clearly. I came down from LA to visit, and I saw Jared and Emmanuel; I was hoping to find a place I can pay my respects to you.
I remember when I first met you we had Ms. McCabe and Mr. Kope in 6th grade, and I was about 4 foot and you were an even 5, which was huge compared to me, but you never tried to bully me once, but actually became one of my best friends. It was fun hanging out at your house everyday after school, riding bikes and playing NFL Blitz and Tony Hawk.
What I remember most was when I forgot my P.E. clothes in Hilsabecks class and had to wear loaners...and somebody said 'hey look at this chinese fool haha,' and you immediately said 'Don't be cappin on Kevin!'
You might not have remembered that, but I sure did. Because it was the first time somebody actually stood up for me, and to this day I still remember so clearly...it was one of those moments in life you just don't forget. And ever since then, I considered you a great friend.
When I was gone, you started the F.K.K., and always supported me through the hard times of changing schools and going to all these stupid trials, you even went to my expulsion hearing and spoke on my behalf that I was a genuine person and meant no harm to anyone. Even though I got expelled; I felt happy because I realized I had a true friend. these types of friends you rarely, if ever, meet in life. After the hearing, my mom took us to CPK to eat and I remember you said "if my cousin worked here, I'd be eating one of these everyday(rosemary chicken potato pizza)!" with the biggest smile on your face.
I remember when I came back from LA to visit, you and Jared were the first people I called and we immediately hung out again. It sucks that we never got to hang out in High school, but I guess that was my fault, and it was one of my biggest regrets.
The good times that just consisted of riding bikes and playing video games after school seem insignificant as we grew older, now that we were working and mature, but I see them as times well spent, and memories that I will always cherish for the rest of my life. Not many people can say they had great friends in life that they will remember so clearly as to who they were or what they did; but I can say Gil, you are somebody that has not only changed my life, you helped me to become who I am today, and I can never forget that.
Thank you for your help,
Thank you for your courage,
and Thank you for always being there.
Thanks for everything man.
I write this entry in dear memory and to honor you, my friend and brother, Gilbert Salinas III
I don't believe in ever saying goodbye, because I know we will meet again one day my friend, and next time, the pizza will be on me.
Always,
K.T.
Christina Salinas
April 7, 2009
Gilly,
I can hardly believe that today marks two years since the accident. How scary that life can change so quickly. My life is still filled with the "what ifs" I'm sure you know that already. I so often think about where we would be if you were still here...gosh I miss you. I've lost my mind a million times since you've been gone and it could only be you that has picked me up and given me the strength to get out of bed and get through yet another day. You made my life so happy and filled with love, your my favorite person and doing things without you just isn't the same. I know you visit us all quite often but I wish I could hold your hand, snuggle up with you and lay my head on your chest and feel safe from everything again. You are the better half of us. I miss you so much my amazing husband and friend. All my love
Christina Salinas
April 30, 2008
Hi baby,
I miss you so very much. Life is just so different and sad without your smiles and laughs. As much as I miss you and as much as it hurts to be here without you, I am still so very grateful to you for bringing so much love and happiness to my life while you were here. How I wish we had more time together, there are so many things I wish we had done when we had the chance and I know these things done without you will just not be the same. My biggest regret is us not having a baby when we both wanted to. I would have loved to see you become a father, you would have been such an amazing dad. I often think had we just done what we wanted and started a family you would still be here. I love you Gilly and I always will. How I wish there were second chances or that you could turn back time, life would once again be good and meaningful. Missing you more and more as the days pass but I know that each day that passes is one day closer to me being wth you again. I love you with all my heart and soul
Shavon Brown
April 19, 2008
Little Gil,
All I can say is I truly miss you. Every time I see a Pep Boys I think of that smile. There have been so many times I have seen someone that resembles you and I just pretend that you aren't really gone. Because when I actually stop to think about it, I still dont understand why. I know I never will, but I cant help not liking it. I know you are with stina and red and that in reality you have it better then us, (esp with these gas prices) but damn Gilly, there arent enough people like you on this earth. You made an impact on lives that will never be forgotten. I love you little Gill. Gooooooo Team!!!!
Disa Darr
April 17, 2008
Hey Gil,
Wow... I can't believe it has almost been a year already. We still are thinking of you every day. You are soo missed! We'll see you one day. Love always,
Mark Spencer & Disa Darr
amanda tamez
November 1, 2007
hey gil,
Gosh how time flys huh? It still feels like it was just yesturday when I last seen your precious face.
I dont know how any of us are getting through this without you. Theres not one day that passes when you dont come across my mind. NOT ONE. I think it was about a month ago, that I called your old phone. Well your voicemail is still saved on it, I called it about a dozen times over and over again just listening to your voice..and I broke down.
that voice I heard repeatedly, I dont ever ever want to forget.
I love you with all of my heart.
and cant wait to see you agian.
love your neice,
manda.
Angie
September 30, 2007
Gilly why did you have to go so soon. It still does'nt seem real. I miss you so much. there is a silent scream of pain every time I go to grandmas house an empty look on everyones face but no one wants to talk about it. please comfort us we need you!I hear your voice and you laugh in my heart and I never want it to fade, I LOVE YOU AND I MISS YOU! I will forever cherish the day I read those words from you lips in the hospital.
Christina Salinas
August 26, 2007
Gilly,
It's been over three months and I'm not sure how any of us have gotten through it. Everyone's words of comfort all include that your in a better place but God what I wouldn't give to hear your laugh, see that wonderful smile and feel your arms around me again. The day cannot come soon enough that I get to see you again, you are missed more than you could have ever imagined. Your boys and Amanda miss you so much. I don't think you realized at the time when you were here just how much Rory looked up to you and how much he respected you, we are so lost without you. You were always the one with the answers that could fix just about any problem we came across big or small. I didn't think of it as odd then but looking back, I often wonder how at twenty-one did you know so much. Gilly you left some big shoes that are impossible to fill, no one can or will ever compare to the amazing person you are. When you should have been at your weakest I saw you at your strongest. There is not a day that goes by that I don't think about how amazingly strong you were in that hospital bed, that you always smiled when you had visitors and never gave up, that wasn't an option for you, I stood in awe of your strength and we all try to have just a little bit of the strength you had to learn to deal with the huge hole that has been left in so many hearts. I miss you so much, I miss our Thai food and movie nights with Rory, I miss visiting Becca and the kids with you, I miss everything Gilly, I miss you. Please continue to give me the strength to get through each day that I am not with you. You never really knew just how much we all love you, you never really thought you were that special you told me so yourself, you really had no idea the amount of love we all have for you. What we all wouldn't give to have you here for just one more day one more hour one more minute one more second, just a second to see that sparkle in your eyes, a second to hear that laughter, a second to hold your hand. I know you get this, I know you know and see how we all feel but I can't say it enough I love you and I miss you every second of every day.
JULIAN GONZALEZ
July 9, 2007
gilly all of us miss you but your in a better place know and not suffering pain anymore.
JOEL GONZALEZ
July 6, 2007
there are some you love but they just have to go but it breaks family's hearts to know of all
the memories of grandchildren,uncle,friend,son,brother,and husband we didn't know what was goingto happen but we did know our uncle gil loved us til this day
in loving memory of gil salinas 3rd
Tony Tringale
July 2, 2007
Gilly! i cant even embark on the thought of you passing away! Only the good die young my friend. you were a blessing to this world and everyone that was connected to you. Every image i have of you in my mind is of you smiling, i liked that about you, you were a happy guy and loved life. it was an honor playing football with you and further more an honor to be your friend. God bless your soul gill and and all the good times we had together. When im in heaven ill look for you in the front row cause i know your there. Rest in peace mr. smiles!!! And to gills family, im so sorry for your loss!! My prayers are with yours and i hope everone of you make it through this tragic loss with ease. God bless every one of you!!
Eric Grover
May 30, 2007
Gil, I’ve spent sometime now thinking about what exactly I wanted to say to you. There are no words that can possibly describe the positive impact you had on this world. When I think about you Gil, I think about a man who invited me into his home over Thanksgiving. You invited me into your home not as a stranger but as nothing less than family. When I think about you Gil, I think about the nights you, Rory, and myself spent playing poker and dice games. I want you to know I cherish the times I spent with you. I’ll see you in heaven buddy.
Tracy Owens
May 27, 2007
Gilly,
From now on, we all have to try a little harder, be a little nicer and smile a lot bigger, just to try and make up for a fraction of the love and beauty that you brought to this world. You are in so many of my most cherished memories because you loved my best friend for 6 years, and one of the ways you expressed that love was to be so good to everyone that she cared about. You were always there to watch over all of us girls, help us move heavy stuff, open our doors and give us advice. You taught me never to settle and even now, when someone new comes into my life I find myself asking "would Gilly approve?"-because I know that you set the standard for what it means to be a man, a friend and wonderful human being. I will love and miss you always.
Arielle White
May 25, 2007
Gil...I only saw you a few months ago. It's hard to believe that you're gone now. My heart goes out to your family. They say death is only hard for those it leaves behind. I'm sure you're watching over them now...I remember meeting you in middle school. You were always one of the big guys, and you had such a giant presence. I remember when you'd play football with all the other guys at lunch... It's so hard to believe that something could take you away from us. I can only imagine what wonderful things life had in store for you... Something took you away from us, so young. Know that you will always be in my thoughts. We weren't best friends, but you did touch my life and I will never forget you.
Ryan Huckabey
May 25, 2007
Gil,
I don't know what to say..It wasn't too long ago that we caught up, you, me, evelyn, and aaron going to the casino in my car with no radio so we made our own music..haha..Man..I remember how cool it was to catch up and see how you were doing, especially after hanging out in high school..I just can't believe you're gone man..You had everything ahead of you and so many people are gonna miss you..I'll be there tommorow to celebrate your life and I'll definitely see you when I get there..
heather welch
May 25, 2007
Hi Buddy,
Please know that you will always be missed. Ill always remember the "teddy bear hugs" and the "just stoppin in to say hi" at your good ol pep boys days :) ill always remember the great advice you had to give about anything and everything. you were such an amazing guy Gil and you will definately never be forgotten! the friendship we had will always have a place in my heart. Love you Gil!!!
To Gil's Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. May all your memories of such an amazing young man bring you comfort through your difficult loss.
God Bless!
FRED VASQUEZ
May 25, 2007
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Holly Taylor
May 25, 2007
Gil.. oh, how long have we known eachother?? Its so sad to see such a good soul leave this earth too young, but I know you are up there in heaven watching over all who loved you. You ARE such an amazing friend, I always knew I could turn to you for some well thought out advice when I got down. You always had a great head on your shoulders. I could only pray that you know how DEEPLY you will be missed by so many.
Herman Heintz
May 24, 2007
big gil, just to let you know that we are thinking of you and your family at this difficult time. be strong and know we are praying for you and your son. Herman & the gang at IID.
Jeremy&Sherrie Smith/Nelson
May 24, 2007
Gil,you were a great guy.. You will truly be missed.. I didnt believe it when i heard what happen, you were too good of a man for this to have happen to you, i still cant believe it really happen.. Love ya big guy..
Jeanne Blair
May 24, 2007
Deepest condolences Little Gil and the Salinas Family from all of us at the Blair family. We lost an nephew just last month and understand your grief. our prayers go with you.
Jeanne Blair & Jerry & Marylou Blair
jose & angie vasquez
May 24, 2007
Please accept our deepest sympathies.
ALEX CASTANEDA
May 24, 2007
Gil,
I Remember when we first met in 7th grade playing football at lunch,and later playing pop warner on the midgets.You would always get me pumped up.For the years that we knew each other,I WILL ALWAYS CHERISH AND KEEP YOU IN MY PRAYERS.
tina melchor
May 23, 2007
gil,
you and your family are in my prayers. i will never forget the time we convinced jared to let me shave his head and the way you ran into the room to tell him how in trouble he was going to be cause Linda had just gotten home. i mention that almost every time i talk to him. god bless you and your family - you always welcomed me with open arms!
god bless,
Julian Gonzalez
May 23, 2007
Uncle Gilly,
I know your with me at school I just cant see you. and I love you really much. The best uncle ever. I LOVE YOU EVERYDAY
JOEL GONZALEZ
May 23, 2007
dear uncle gilly,
I am proud to have a uncle like you. when ever anybody needed something you were always there to help them. You were the best uncle ever. I love you, and think of you every minute. I'll see you in heaven!
r.i.p
Julie Tringale
May 23, 2007
Little Gil,
I will always remember you for what a "good" person you were.
I feel so blessed to have served with a great team of Junior All American Football coaches, players and cheerleaders in 1995.
Little Gil stood out, even then. He always gave his best, and he always did it with a smile. I will never forget his smile, it was from the inside-out.
When I worked the field, as a woman, I was always afraid of getting tackled by one of the kids. Gil was always one, whom, after practice, would come up from behind me, grab me and pick me up. Scared the bejeebies out of me.
I didn't see him as a young adult for while. One day I was in Stater Bros., staring at tomato sauce prices, when up from behind...someone grabs me. Really scared the bejeebies out of me then. I turned around...and there was Gilly. With an adult smile. Same smile, though!
He was always so gracious and "good."
To all of his close family members and friends...you are in our hearts and prayers.
Rory O'Bar
May 23, 2007
Gilly,
I will miss you greatly and miss going shooting, working on our "Rory and Gil Projects" and most of all just hanging out with you and making each other laugh while enjoying a Coron dog. Thank you for all you have done for me and for always being there to teach and guide me. I am a better person for knowing you. I will always remember the good times we had. Love you Gil.
amanda tamez
May 23, 2007
hey gil,
soo where do I start? well first off let me say that I could have not been more blessed then to have someone as special as you to be not only be in my life, but the greatest uncle a neice could ever ask for. You were always there for me when I needed you, and my little partner in crime when you helped me go get my phone =]. You taught me alot gil, you were like my role model, and I dont know how were gonna do this without you. Im thankful for all the times we had together and the memories you've gave me, but in my heart you will forever be gil.
I love you forever, forever and always?
Eileen Cruz-Sharpe
May 23, 2007
Gil I'm sorry I never got to keep in touch with you. You were always a wonderful person though. I hope you watch over us. Love you. I'll be seeing you in the future.
Christina Salinas
May 23, 2007
My Love,
I will forever miss your amazing laugh, handsome face and magnetic personality. The six years of memories we share together I will always cherish. I am so proud of the person you are and the strength I saw you exude when all others would have crumbled, you held on. The world has suffered a huge loss, you brought happiness to so many. Your memory lives on in the hearts of those you love and love you. I feel so blessed to have had this short time with you and I know that one day we will be together again and until that day comes I will keep you in my heart. I love you Gilly!
Marsha Berry
May 23, 2007
"Little Gil"
You will always be one of my kids, and though our paths have not crossed much reciently, my love for you has not faded. I am deeply saddened by your passing. It seems only yesterday I was icing your wounds or watching you and Justin eat salad when everyone else ate pizza. Those were the best years of my life. I will charish your memory always.
rebecca gonzalez
May 23, 2007
Dear brother,
I cant even start to explain how much you meant to me gil. You were not only my little brother, but like my best freind. You were the only one I new I could count on to always be there for me and the kids. My heart aches but i know that your in a better place now and you will forever be our gaurdian angel. I'll always love you brother and forever will miss you.
Tory Scicli
May 23, 2007
Gil,
I know we grew apart as we both grew older, but a piece of me will always remember the good times we had when we were younger. It makes me so sad to think that you're going to be gone now, but I know that you're still close by in my heart and memories. Whenever I get sad or upset I can always think of something we did or some goofy thing you said and it will make me feel better. I know now that you're in a better place and you're taking care of all of us still here on earth. Say hello to my papa for me-I love you so much!
Rudy and Pennie Moreno
May 23, 2007
Gilly,
You grew up to become wonderful young a man who touched the hearts of all who knew you and a joy to all of your family and friends. The good Lord is with you.
To all of the family, please accept our deepest sympathies.
Erika Morrow
May 23, 2007
Gil,
When I heard what happened I was shock, and I couldn't believe it. I am so happy that we were able to re-kindle our friendship these last 5 months. You were such a good friend, and were always there when I needed you. I'm so sorry this had to happen to such an amazing man and at such a young age. At least now I know you are not in any pain, and walking again with God. You and our friendship will always have a special place in my heart. Just remember, you will never be forgotten but you will always be missed.
Your Friend,
Erika
amanda tamez
May 23, 2007
hey buddy, so theres not a day that goes bye that we dont all think about you. we miss you so much! you will forever be in our hearts. I have your picture right next to my bed, to remember that beautiful smile, of a beautiful boy. we love you gil!
aja connor
May 23, 2007
Dear Gilly.
even though we didn't know you long you were a great guy and so funny ,the kids couldn't believe you are gone they don't understand but you are in a better place and you will be missed.Our hearts go out to you and your family and to joeland julian and amanda and rebecca
Salinas Family
May 23, 2007
Gilly only had one brother and sister
Robbie Salinas and Rebecca Gonzalez both of Cathedral City. His best friend and father Gil Salinas who was always by his side.
He's also survived by his nephews and neice Joel, Julian and Amanda Gonzalez who he loved and was very involved with. Auntie Linda and Blanca will always hold him in their hearts;Grandpandparents Irma ans Gilbert will miss his company in the mornings before work and cousins Jared, Matt, Sam, Shannon, Angie and Tony all of cathedral city will miss him greatly!!
Angie Herrera-Barajas
May 22, 2007
Oh Gilly we miss you soooo much!Walking into grandma's house is just not the same without you there. I miss your smile and your goofy laugh. I even miss you making fun of wilson. I will forever cherish watching you grow into the wonderful man you are and I will miss all the times our family would get together for carnita on the grill. I know in my heart you are no longer in pain and with the lord. I love you cuz!
SHAVON BROWN
May 22, 2007
GILLY YOU WERE A GREAT COUSIN. YOU WILL BE MISSED BY EVERY PERSON YOU CAME IN CONTACT WITH. I LOVE YOU MORE THAN YOU EVER KNEW. I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY THIS HAPPENED, THIS WORLD NEEDS MORE PEOPLE LIKE YOU IN IT. ALL I CAN SAY IS THAT ONE DAY WE WILL SEE YOU AGAIN. I LOVE YOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART.
Janice Jenks
May 21, 2007
My dear, sweet son... you made my life so special and I shall miss you greatly. There is a huge part of my heart and soul that is aching now that you are not physically here with me on earth. I take great comfort knowing that you are with God and that He will now be able to gaze at your beautiful face and smile. Thank you for being a treasure to me and to all who knew and loved you. From the day you were born, I was so thankful that God graced me with you, if even for a short time. The world is a worse place for having lost such an amazing person. You will be missed, yet those of us who truly love you will keep you alive in our hearts. I love you my son.
Until we meet again,
I love you,
Mommy
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