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Lupe Valencia Obituary

Lupe Lopez Valencia went home to be with her eternal family on Saturday the 9th of October 2010. When the time came she was surrounded by her loving family. Born in Thermal, Calif. to Antonio and Trinidad Lopez on December 12, 1923, Lupe was the last of the 12 siblings. In 1948, Lupe married Tony Valencia whom she dearly loved. During the 62 years of marriage, she was blessed to have five children. She lived her entire life here in the valley. For many years she worked for the Desert Sands Unified School District in the cafeteria until her retirement in the late 70's. After her retirement, both Tony and Lupe served many years as camp host volunteers for the Riverside County Park System. Lupe is survived by her loving husband, Tony; daughters, Rose Marie (Pablo) Castillo, Priscilla Sherwood, Barbara (John) Escoto, and Dolores Michelle (Martin) Lopez. She also leaves behind 13 grandchildren; 17 great grandchildren (with another on the way); and three great-great-grandchildren. Lupe was preceded by the untimely death of her only son, Richard Valencia. The family would like to extend a special thanks to some people from the Oasis Health Care and the Family Hospice Care who made the pending transition bearable to our family. We would like to thank David Emery, Lena Skeane, Victoria Kohfeld and Nery Tapia. Services will be held on Friday, October 15, 2010 with a viewing starting at 10:00 AM at Our Lady of Perpetual Help Catholic church, with a rosary at 12:30 PM and a Mass at 1:00 PM, all at Our Lady of Perpetual Help. Burial will follow immediately at Coachella Valley Cemetery. All funeral arrangements are under the direction of Casillas Family Funeral Home.

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Published by The Desert Sun from Oct. 13 to Oct. 18, 2010.

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Grace Valenzuela

October 6, 2011

It has been almost a year since God took this sweet,kind,beautiful woman Home. She was a true Lady....Always a smile on her face, always a kind word for everyone. I have so many great memories of her. She always made me feel like part of the family....She was so loving to her family..She had a great sense of humor...She called her jokes "chicken jokes"...She always made me laugh...She had a beautiful cat named Morris and she loved him...Morris loved to sit on my lap (thats another story)...She always seemed happy and full of life...My saddest memory of her was when her beloved son, Richard was taken from her...
She has a family that loves and misses her...I am just one of the many lucky people that had a chance to know her and to be a Friend.
Rest In Peace Lupe

November 1, 2010

Mom,there is not a day that I don't miss you. As you can see Dad is doing great, he's getting out more even if it's just to sit outsde this is a big step for him and us. Mom Love You.

Sara Metzgar

October 18, 2010

Dear Tony, Our hearts ache for you and your family during this difficult time. Lupe was such an amazing lady. She was one of the nicest person on earth! We will always remember the great campfires we shared. May memories comfort you and bring you peace.
Con mucho carino, Sara (Sam's sister) Cecilia and Sergio

John & Carolyn Ortega

October 18, 2010

Dearest Tony and Valencia Family. We were very saddened by the news of Lupe's passing. We have some very wonderful memories of camping at Hurkey Creek with Mom and Dad (Sam and Fina Ortega)and Tony and Lupe as their neighbors. We all had such a great time. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and all your family at this very sad time in your lives. God bless you all.

Bertha Ortega

October 17, 2010

My deepest condolences on your loss. We have so many fond memories of Hurkey Creek,. Lupe was our Mom (Fina) best friend. .She passed away on her birthday. God Bless you and all your family.

Emma & Gordon Jones

October 17, 2010

Dearest Tony and all the Valencia Family, our deepest condolences on your loss. Tony we have so many wonderful memories of you and Lupe when you neighbors with my parents', Sam and Josie(Fina) Ortega at Hurkey Creek. Lupe was Mom's best friend. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and all your family. God Bless you.

Emma & Gordon Jones

October 17, 2010

Dearest Tony and all the Valencia family. Our deepest condolences on your loss. We have so many wonderful memories of Hurkey Creek when you and Lupe were neighbors to my parents' (Sam & Fina Ortega) at the park. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and all your family. God bless you.

October 15, 2010

Rose I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. May all the good memories bring you comfort and may God Bless you and all your family. Eva Ramirez Norfolk

Esther Sanchez

October 15, 2010

My deepest condolences on your loss. With time may your hearts be filled with loving memories and laughter she brought to your lives. God Bless.

Tiffany Lara

October 14, 2010

Dearest Valencia Family,
I pray that the Lord's embrace bring you comfort during this sorrowful time and may you find peace and joy in the wonderful memories you shared with such a wonderful person.
Kat & Denise, please know that we are here for you and your family. Love and God bless you!

Martin & Norma Gordillo

October 14, 2010

Our deepest Condolences to the Castillo and Valencia Family.

Joe/Barbara Torres

October 14, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you take comfort in knowing you have a special guardian angel watching over you. We are here for you if you need anything.

October 14, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of sorrow
Tato & Loli Yanez

Charles & Celina Villarino

October 14, 2010

Our Condolence to the Valenica & Castillo Family May God Bless you and your family!

Quetie Nungaray

October 13, 2010

My sincere condolences to all the Valencia Family,
There are people in my lifetime that I never will forget and Lupe is one of them. I met her when I use to do her hair years ago... she was indeed a kind and wonderful lady. She also had a good sense of humor, we would laugh till we cried. She made me feel good, thats the kind of lady Lupe was. My prayers are with you for I know how much you will miss this great lady. Quetie Franco Nungaray

Gabriel Herrera Jr.

October 13, 2010

Grama with the kitty, we love you and we all care about you.You will be better in heaven.God will take care of you.We love you R.I.P.

Denise Castillo

October 13, 2010

Grandma,
I know you are now resting peacefully. The memories I have with you bring me comfort and I know I was very blessed to have you in my life. I miss you. You were such a wonderful grandma, loving, caring, and funny!! I love you grandma and I know my kids will never forget their "Grandma with the kitty" you are forever in our hearts. Rest in Peace and until we meet again one day at my tree!!

October 13, 2010

BARBARA,PLEASE ACCEPT MY DEEPEST SORROW DURING YOUR TIME OF NEED.WE GO WAY BACK AND I STILL CAN PICTURE YOUR MOM DRESSED IN WHITE AT ROOSEVELT SCHOOL AND THROUGH THE YEARS.SHE WAS BOSS ! HER SMILE AT NOON GOT US THROUGH THE DAY.LOVE TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.MARGARET BORRUEL LOPEZ.

October 13, 2010

my deepest condolences to the VALENCIA family. I worked with Tony
Valencia and knew Lupe as the sweetest person ever. Take care,
Angie Zamora, Rio Grande City, Texas

Gilbert & Rachel Marrujo

October 13, 2010

It is with our deepest sympathies that we will not be able to attend Lupe's funeral. We wish to express our sincere condolences to Tio Tony and the family and will continue to pray for the family through our absence. Tia Lupe always expressed her true love through her kindness and her willingness to help whenever she could. We will miss you, but knowingly she is in a better place...Rest in Peace Tia Lupe!

Carol (Brockman) Castro

October 13, 2010

Priscilla, I don't know if you'll remember me, but we went to Jefferson and Indio High together. Those of your mom's generation are leaving us one by one and it's very sad to see them depart. I salute your mother and am proud to say I was born here, too, and in good company! Sending you my deepest sympathy.

Celebrating another addition to the family, Dalilah and Gabriel with Gram and Gramps.

Kathryn Herrera

October 13, 2010

Another Christmas gathering

Kathryn Herrera

October 13, 2010

One of our many Christmas gatherings

Kathryn Herrera

October 13, 2010

Kathryn Herrera

October 13, 2010

My gramma was a loving, caring, generous, giving and fun person. Her death was inevitable and has been missed tremendously since her passing. She lived a long life filled with many great events; I would only hope to live a life such as hers. She had an adoring husband, 4 compassionate daughters and one son that was unlike no other. I was lucky enough to be one of her 13 grandkids, and was responsible for giving her 3 of the 17 great grandchildren she had the chance to love. The memories I have of her will flourish and were countless. The Christmas gatherings, her infamous Biscochos (which to this day no one can duplicate), the way the rollers were set in her hair, her nail polishing ritual, and her love for Siamese cats. I cannot forget the summer trips to Hurkey Creek; the nights and days we spent in the trailer, the way she made her hobo pies, the collection of pine cones we set out to find and last but not least the rides up the mountain in the back of the gramma and grampas camper… no need to go into detail, but we all know the details (wink,wink).

My kids called her Gramma with the Kitty, and I remember while being around my grandparents how my grampa referred to her as Mother. She was the glue in our family, she taught us well and she will be missed in a way that gives me a pain in my heart and a lump in my throat. In the end I must remember that she’s in a better place where she is happy and finally able to meet up with my Tio Richard. I love you Gramma, your loving granddaughter Kathy.

Hope Cross

October 13, 2010

Lupe was so sweet, and she always opened her heart to all of those around her. She will be missed, may she Rest In Peace.

October 13, 2010

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Benjamin & Arlene Felix

October 13, 2010

Our deepest condolences to the Valencia family.RIP LUPE!!

Paddy Loera-Thompson

October 13, 2010

My deepest condolences to the Valencia family. Our Lord has another "Angel" by His side, always in your hearts.

Gabriel & Gina Escoto

October 13, 2010

You are MISSED by so many already!!!
May you Rest In Piece Grandma Lupe!!
and be our Gaurdian Angel Forever!

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