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Patricia Sands

1960 - 2012

Patricia Sands obituary, 1960-2012

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1960

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2012

Patricia Sands Obituary

Patricia Elizabeth Sands passed away from Ovarian Cancer on August 17, 2012 peacefully at home with loving family and friends surrounding her. She was born on July 12, 1960 in Newton, Massachusetts. Always a top student, she made her way to California and received her B.A. and M.A. in Special Education from Point Loma Nazarene College in San Diego. She was recognized as a dedicated educator specializing in Special Education at Desert Sands Unified School District from 1985 to the present, working at both Kennedy and LBJ Elementary Schools. At these schools, her colleagues, students, and parents were inspired by her determination and dedication to give her students the tools to succeed. She was an active member, until recently, of Alpha Delta Kappa, An International Honorary Sorority for Women Educators. Her smile brightened up any room, and the things that brought her true joy were beachcombing, her animals, writing, and birding. She is preceded in death by her father, Douglas, and leaves behind her mother, Ginny Sands, brothers Don, Roger, Gary and her sister Heidi Sands, nieces Melanie, Katie, Colleen, nephews Joseph and Kevin, and her partner of 24 years, Shirley Wilhelmsen, of Cathedral City. A Celebration of Life Service will be held privately. A public memorial will be held by the staff of LBJ Elementary School at a later date. In lieu of flowers, the family asks for donations may be made to Gilda's Club of the Desert in Cathedral City in Patricia's name.

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Published by The Desert Sun on Aug. 24, 2012.

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Raquel Gonzalez

May 10, 2024

Mrs. Sands was my resource teacher at Kennedy Elementary school . She was the only person who showed kindness to me . She was so wonderful! I adored and loved her growing up !
I am forever grateful for her
Love Raquel

Laura Vagran

April 16, 2013

In memory of Pat Sands. Tomorrow will be eight months since you left. Thinking of you today and always.
I look forward to the day I see you again my friend. XoXoX Laura

samantha/shawnette thomas

March 29, 2013

I dont know where to begin... i loved that lady to pieces she was my teacher @ Kennedy always there to lend a hand never seen one mean bone in her body... i will miss u dearly wish i could of taken my son to meet u.. you helped me as kid i know your up there now watching me as an adult..love u get some rest up there with my mom

Lashanna Carrillo Estep

November 28, 2012

NO MATTER HOW FAR WE ARE HEAVEN ARE EARTH ME AND MY DAUGHTER SERERNITY GRACE WILL ALWAYS HAVE A PART OF YOUR SPIRIT BY OUT SIDE.

LaShanna Carrillo Estep

November 28, 2012

Patricia Sands will be truly missed by me she was one my resourse teachers many years ago I really wish she would of had a chance to see my new born daughter Serernity Grace Born in February. I Will miss her and be thinking of her always and I will be sure to let my daughter know how much of a great kind hearted teacher and person she was.IN THIS LIFE AND THE NEXT.

Laura Vagran

October 23, 2012

Pat was a very special, caring person, daughter, teacherand friend. She will be missed by so many students, teachers, family and friends. Rest in peace my friend. I will miss you, until we meet again.

Cecilia Monroy

October 1, 2012

Soo sorry to hear about Miss Sams passing ( as my granchildren ) called her, she was such a loving and careing teacher, always took the time to help the children, my grankids (DESTINY AND ARIAN SANCHEZ LBJ) LOVED HER SO MUCH, SHE ALWAYS TOOK SPECIAL TIME TO TEACH THEM AND THEY LEARNED SO MUCH IN HER CLASS. DES AND ADRIAN WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER " MISS SAMS " WITH SO MUCH LOVE........ WILL BE GREATLY MISSED.....

Ken & Liz Kirk

September 12, 2012

How saddened we were to hear of Pat's passing. She was such a wonderful resourse teacher at Kennedy and such a good friend to all of us who worked with her. Our sympathies are with her family.

tim kennedy

September 1, 2012

condolences to all.....heidi -- she sure does look like she's your sister...tim k.

James Hazel

August 30, 2012

To Pats Brothers and Sister and Pats Mom.... I was Pats friend from Point Loma Nazarene University... Pat had a great time at Point Loma and she had many friends... I am very proud of Pat of how she lived her life and she helped so many people in her Teaching Career.... Pat will always be loved by all of us.

James Hazel

Debbie Bergman

August 29, 2012

Shirley, we are so sorry that Pat has passed away. The both of you were wonderful friends and neighbors! Fred almost wore is Seahawks jersey on Saturday just for Pat. If you need anything please don't hesitate to let us know. Pat, Harry Potter, Jim, and Steven. They were all fanatics. We love you!

Augustine J. as "A.J." & Julie Green & Rodriguez

August 27, 2012

Our sympathy to Pat's family, and her partner Shirley. My son "A.J.", had Pat at LBJ. She was his turning point for him with his education. She loved her work, as a parent she was such a positive empowering inspiration to all that knew her, we will sincerely miss her. Our prayers are with you.

Tammy Stott

August 26, 2012

Dear Sands Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I have the BEST memories of Pat from many, many years ago. She always was smiling and was just such a wonderful person. I am sorry you have all had to go through losing her. To Shirley - although we have never met, I am truly sorry for your loss. I haven't seen Pat in years but her spirit will remain with me forever and I know that your memories will help to carry you through this extremely difficult time.

Noralyn Lorimer

August 26, 2012

I was so sorry to hear of Pat's passing. My son had Pat at LBJ and she was his turning point in his education. She worked one on one with all her students. She also had my granddaughter in her class. She was an extraordinary teacher. I feel sorry for the future children who will not benefit from her caring ways. Her family and friends are in our prayers.

Bob Wagoner

August 26, 2012

My sympathy to Pat's family and her partner Shirley. I did not know Pat but I look forward to supporting Shirley through Gilda's Club bereavement group. May God's blessing be with you.

August 26, 2012

Ginny & The Sands Family

We are so sorry to hear of Pat's passing. Our thoughts and prayers go out to our cousins, the Sands Family. Pat was a very special person.

Your Cousins...
Mike, Carolyn, Jennifer & Katherine
The Turner Family
Wrentham, Mass

Gerry Greeman

August 25, 2012

Pat Sands was my grandson, Eugene Iniguez's, everything at LBJ in Indio. She and Eugene shared a very special relationship and anytime we went to Indio, he would beg to go see her at LBJ. All his teachers since have had to pass muster and be compared to Pat.

Judy Lenhardt

August 24, 2012

I was so sad to see Pat's obituary today. I had the pleasure of meeting her as one of her dealers at the casino. She loved to play 3 card poker. She always had a smile on her face and was very professional. My prayers are with her family and partner of many years. She will be missed. May she rest in peace.

David Lutes

August 24, 2012

As a speech/language therapist, I had the opportunity to meet Pat at several of the schools where she worked. ALWAYS a positive attitude and a work ethic that showed in her students. A fine young lady will be missed.

Gail Miller

August 24, 2012

Dear Shirley. I was so shocked and sad to see that Pat passed away. It is such a loss for you and so many people. She had such a great joyful spirit and she will be greatly missed and although I have not seen you or Pat for a long while I always think very fondly of both of you. My best.Love, Gail

Vicki Gandolfo

August 24, 2012

Often the greatest legacy one leaves behind is the ability to change our lives even after they are gone. Rest assured Pat is busily on to higher works! Thoughts and prayers with Ginny and the Family...Vic & Heidi

Corrinne Schulz

August 24, 2012

Pat will be missed by all who enjoyed her joyful nature. She was amazing with the children she helped and always cooperative, friendly and professional on the job.Her presence was one of the things I missed upon retirement. My sympathy to her family and her beloved partner.

LUPE

August 24, 2012

So sorry for the loss, I had the pleasure of meeting Ms. Pat about a yr ago and she was such a joy, happy person, we always found a minute or two to share stories about her students and her cats...she will be missed. May you rest in peace Ms. Pat

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