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Steve DeCuir Obituary
After fighting a long and courageous battle with much dignity against cancer, it is with great sadness and broken hearts that we announce the passing of Steve DeCuir on Dec. 14, 2014. He was born Oct. 21, 1957 to Frank & Dorothy DeCuir in Beverly Hills, California. During his years at Beverly Hills High, Steve excelled in sports and his 6'4' stature affectionately earned him the nickname "Tiny." Steve was in TV and video production for 18 years. His son, Christopher, was his greatest production of all. Steve was a mentor to many of Chris' friends. No one was a stranger to our sweet Steve. He made each person he came across through his journey in life feel loved and special. Steve was predeceased by his parents and brother, Frank DeCuir II. Survivors include his wife Anita; son Christopher; sisters Linda (Hank) Cappella and Cathy (Chuck) Donaldson; brother Tim (Jill) DeCuir and many nieces and nephews. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests donations to the PendletonFoundation.org in Steve's name. Graveside services will be held Tuesday, Dec. 23, 2014 at 1:00 p.m. at Forest Lawn, 69855 E. Ramon Road, Cathedral City.
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for Steve DeCuir
December 31, 2014
my heart is sad by the passing of a friend who did so much to encourage others who were down un life, he will be missed by many,and remembered by those he touched like myself, I pray for hts family,he was my friend, ronnue dare des moines iowa
Steven Spitz
December 29, 2014
This mighty oak of a man cast a huge shadow, I suspect the memory of him will cast an even greater one. You were a kind and welcoming soul with a great happy spirit about you. You were always a great teammate and worthy opponent. It has been over 40 years since I last saw you in high school, hopefully it will be 40 or more before we meet again... rest in peace kind man. Sincere condolences to your family.
December 26, 2014
I knew Steve when he lived in Des Moines, Iowa. He was such a big man, but the biggest part of him was his heart! Rest in peace, my friend. All of my best to the family.
Jon Paul Lapena
December 24, 2014
Steve, you are a great man. Thank you for impacting my life. Prayers to the family. God bless
Berit Reistad
December 24, 2014
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Kathleen Huber
December 23, 2014
Steve, you always had a way of lighting up the room with your infectious smile and kind words. You have left an incredible legacy in your son Christopher and beautiful wife Anita. You will be missed by many. Rest in Peace. We love you Steve, The Huber Family
December 22, 2014
R.I.P. prayers to the family
BHHS will miss you !
Cami Stein
December 22, 2014
"Tiny", you were anything but that. You always made me smile in high school, and you will be sorely missed at the reunion next year. May you RIP, and condolences to your sweet family !
Donna Williams
December 22, 2014
Amazing Steve. Kind, loving and so funny and so smart. My sister Anita, and Steve such a special couple, and what a amazing son, sweet Christopher. One of the most interesting people, you could ever have a conversation with. Steve was charismatic to everyone he met. I am so grateful to have been a part of his life. Our family was richly blessed. We love you Steve
December 22, 2014
My heart felt sympathies to Family and Friends.May the God of all Comfort, Comfort you. 2Corth.1:3,4. P.F.
Kevin Greenwood
December 22, 2014
Steve was a special friend. I miss my friend.
Nora Carpenter-Blair
December 22, 2014
My prayers are with you. I worked with Steve at the Annenberg Center and he was always there with a smile and ready to help anyone. The world has lost a special soul.
Mr & Mrs. Stan Garnett
December 22, 2014
May he rest in peace after his terrible ordeal.
Kathleen Murray
December 21, 2014
Please accept our sincere condolences on the loss of you beloved husband and father. Steve was always very kind to our Conor. We admired his courage in facing his illness and know that he will be missed very much by his family and friends.
Kay Caffroy
December 21, 2014
(former co-worker at the Annenberg Center)
Bernadette Heavey
December 21, 2014
My condolences to Anita and Christopher on the loss of your loving Husband and Dad.
I will always remember how friendly Steve was and how kind he was to my Son Allen when he first moved into our neighborhood many years ago and Steve always would ask about how Allen was doing even when Steve was very ill.
Mike Addington
December 19, 2014
Uncle Steve, you taught me so much and were a huge part of my life. I will continue to pay it forward with Chris. I know you're playing pickup games at the basketball court looking down on us. You will always be in my heart.
Michael Addington
December 19, 2014
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