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Debra LaKose Obituary

DEBRA JEAN LAKOSE Cedar Rapids Debra Jean (Grissom) LaKose, 62, of Cedar Rapids, passed away Saturday, July 20, 2019, at home following a battle with lung cancer. A Celebration of Life will be held from 5 to 8 p.m. Friday, July 26, at the Fraternal Order of Eagles No. 2272, 1735 11th St. NW, Cedar Rapids. Deb is survived by her husband, David Dwayne LaKose; two children, Adam (Kirsten) LaKose of Concord, N.C., and Cody LaKose of Cedar Rapids; three grandchildren, Madyson, Kenzie and Greyson LaKose of Concord; and five siblings, David Grissom (special friend Deb Heins) of Robins, Dennis Grissom of Marion, Daniel (Sherry) Grissom of Fairfax, Donald (Emili) Grissom of Robins and DeAnna Grissom of Cedar Rapids. She was preceded in death by her parents, Harold Wayne Grissom and June Olive (Theel) Grissom; three siblings, Douglas Wyatt, Donna Jane and Denise Joan; two sisters-in-law, Denise Grissom and Stephanie Grissom; as well as other aunts, uncles and cousins. Deb was born Feb. 5, 1957, in Manchester, Iowa, the daughter of Harold and June (Theel) Grissom. After moving to Robins and various houses in Cedar Rapids, Deb graduated from Cedar Rapids Jefferson in 1975. On March 27, 1982, Deb married David LaKose at Holy Redeemer Lutheran Church in Cedar Rapids. She spent her latter years working for the Cedar Rapids Community School District as a food service worker for various elementary schools, which she truly enjoyed. Nothing gave Deb greater joy than the time she spent with family, especially her children and her grandchildren. She loved to read, spend time outdoors, support her children in their various athletic endeavors, and travel, particularly if the destination resulted in spending time with her grandchildren. The family would like to extend a special thank-you to the caregivers at Mercy Hospice. In lieu of flowers, please plan on sharing stories and uplifting memories at the aforementioned Celebration of Life.

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Published by The Gazette on Jul. 23, 2019.

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Penny Fahrner

July 26, 2019

Dave and family,
I'm so sorry to hear of Debs passing. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Penny Fahrner

Deb Kreinbring

July 26, 2019

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Joanie Mills

July 23, 2019

Dave Cody and Adam. Our deepest sympathy. I'm so glad we got to know Deb over the years at our cousins reunion. We had many good times. Blessings to all.
Marc and Joanie Mills

Pamela Moore

July 23, 2019

I worked with Deb at Harrison, and she was one of the most delightful people you could ever hope to meet. Very, very caring for all students, and a sense of humor that left you in stitches. My condolences to her family. Prayers for peace as you say goodbye to a wonderful woman.

Judy Sanchez

July 23, 2019

Keeping all of Debbie's family and friends in my heart and prayers Heaven received another beautiful angel from our family ❤
With Deepest Sympathy,
Judy Fannon Sanchez

July 23, 2019

Deepest condolences to loved ones of Deb. So sorry to hear of her death. May precious memories be a source of comfort.

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